My wife is into BDSM, a lot more than I am, but I try to accommodate her fetish. I asked her when she first had sexual feeling about being spanked, she said when she was a teen a friend gave her a birthday party. At some point someone said it was time for her b'day spanking and she didn't like the idea at all, she felt she was too old for such shenanigans and she was fiercely fighting off the attempts. She was getting tired of being chased and she finally said she would give in, but she didn't want to be hurt, so only Jack, her friend's older brother could be the spanker. Jack was the chaperone of the party and my wife said she had a mild crush on him for years.
Jack tried to beg off, but finally gave in to shut everyone up. The was no skin bared, just a mild spanking through her jeans, one swat for every year. She said after the first couple of swats she felt the strange feeling come over her, and she was suddenly very aware of being sexually aroused for the first time, it was scary, but thrilling. When she got up she was so flushed with excitement she ran to the bathroom, her friends thought she was embarrassed about being spanked, but that wasn't it at all.
When she was older she was away at college and doing some student teaching and confiscated a book some 8th grade girls were passing around in class. She stuck it in her purse and meant to give it to the regular teacher but forgot to. Later in her dorm room she took it out and flipped through it, it was cheap paperback porn about spanking and BDSM, she said she read it and masturbated every chance until the book fell apart.
She dated a guy in college who played spanking games and would finger her to orgasm in the process, but other than sharing a fetish, she didn't like him at all. After we married she showed me some Penthouse stories and I took over from there.
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