Imagine you are 16 years old.
Your hormones are exploding.
A breeze gets you going. You mb to anything remotely sexual.
You get out of bed, leave for school, stop at the convenience store for a bannana, walk the rest of the way.
Attend classes, talk to friends, talk to teachers and walk home. At school sally, the girl you like smiled at you and kissed you on the cheek! You blushed and she gave you her number.
Later you and a friend walk to the movies, you go to a party, you go home to your house on a Christmas holiday weekend.
NOW
Imagine you are a 16 year old girl. Same hormones.
You get out of bed, leave for school -walking on the sidewalk near your home the boy next door stops and looks at you, he waves and says to come over later, you stop at the convenience store for a bannana - the clerk grins and says you are very cute and can have free bannanas anytime and to come back maybe for beer, while walking the rest of the way a car pulls up and its a senior from school - he asks if youre new and whether he can come by later.
You Attend classes - in at least two classes boys pat you and ask for your number, talk to friends, you talk to teachers where one of the new young teachers says he will tutor you if you need help with your math, youre great at math but you say ok anyway b/c you like the attention and hes cute and walk home - while on the way home an old grey haired guy asks if you want a ride you say no thank you.
Later you and a friend walk to the movies-two boys ask to sit with you and your friend says ok, you go to a party-guys try to get you to go to their car with them, you go home to your house on a Christmas holiday weekend and find your cousin from Holland sitting on the couch....
The point? Girls have way way way way more opportunities than guys. Live with it. Accept it.
If you want her to tell you the truth, be nice, NEVER judgmental, NEVER judgmental of others (oh that girls a wh*r*!) and she will tell you some wild stories. Act conservative, naive, angry and you will die not knowing.
Having said ALL of that - talking to a girl I went to high school with. She has told me about three threesomes, four - eight incidences of prostitution and admits that there is probably more but she did so many drugs and drank alcohol she doesnt remember. Shes married. After six years she mentioned that shes had a threesome for the first time. He has no idea about alllll the other stuff. Why? See above.
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