[piecenick]

I think this happens mostly among newlyweds, she's embarrassed to tell you something that she did either before marriage or in the early years. There were two things my wife didn't tell me , the first one happened at a Christmas party we went to for my new company. We were engaged and the company I worked for had just been bought up by a bigger company, I wasn't even sure I was going to stay with the new company. It was likely 5 years later while we were talking about our fantasies and she told me she loved to be submissive. That lead to talking about how she discovered her fetish.

She asked if I remembered that party, I did, she said that at one point someone was taking me around to meet the new people and she was left alone for a while. She said this handsome much older guy, she was 21, she thought he was 40, asked her to dance. She recognized him as one of the VP's of the new company, she accepted and when the fast dance become a slow dance she stayed with him. She didn't resist when he pulled her close and she said she could feel his cock press against her. She said she got very embarrassed when he whispered in her ear, 'you're a very naughty little girl".

Then he told her "the banquet room is empty, its the first door through that curtain, go in there and wait for me". She said I was powerless to disobey him, I was compelled to follow his commands. I should mention that when this happened she had never been with any other guy, just me.

She went to the room and he followed her in just a couple of minutes. He walked up to her and kissed her while fondling her breasts, then told her to remove her pantyhose and panties, she said she reached up under her skirt and did as she was told. then he told her to lean over and hold on to the back of a chair, she did.

She said "I was crying a little because I was ashamed of myself and it got noisy outside like people were coming and I think he lost his erection. I picked up my panties and pantyhose and left the room. I found you looking for me and we left".

She told me that's when I discovered how dangerous my fetish was.

For other reasons I didn't stay with the new company but for a few months.

There was another thing, but I think I'll wait to see if this thread gets a response.