My second wife and I did both on- and off- premises clubs. She didn't like the on-premises ones, at all. She much preferred the off-premises where we would spend time meeting/greeting people with whom we might play somewhere else - privately.
In fact - she never played or did anything but flirt - either of the two times we went to on-premises clubs. But, she met people that she then invited to play, later - somewhere else. So, we went to on-premises clubs for me to play, and her to meet people.
It worked out - for a while. But, neither of these were the reason/cause for our split. She met a guy through work connections and wanted to 'play' with him ... but, he didn't want any group things - so it was always just the two of them ... that was the beginning of the end. She eventually fell 'in love' with this guy - and wanted to move in with him ...
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