Very good thread, thanks.
As for photos being online when the women didn't know it was going to happen.
- Some of them will never know (unless some spoilsport tells them) because they don't browse the right sites.
- Some find out and accept it -I've had one woman request me to take photos down because she was embarrassed and uncomfortable about them (these were blowjobs and facials, and she was surprised(!) to discover she'd been posted) - and then later she allowed them to be posted again and now she enjoys seeing herself online.
- Some find out and don't like it -they need to be big girls and get over it, or if they want they can spend their leisure time chasing round sites to find their pics and contacting the posters or the mods to get them removed.
The advice I give to women is if you don't want to see yourself online with your tits out or cum running down your face, don't let anyone take pics of you in that condition. Some men can be relied on to keep private pics private, but the touble is you can't really tell if your man is one of them!