Congratulations - you win at life!
No, seriously - you have just turned around a potentially shitty situation into a wet dream cum true! I think it's great that your mutual desires are so compatible, even if they are outside the "norm" of society's definitions. I have a buddy whose fiancee is now a Hotwife, and I'm really jealous. I know that I dislike the idea of being truly lied to and hidden from, but with my consent, the idea of a horny insatiable woman who was still dedicated to loving me, is deeply attractive. I hope this works out for you both, and for all the men in your county