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Originally Posted by jjanda_2000
- Daaaaang, Dude.
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No shit! However, most of the negativity toward sex began once she became a mama. Now that our kids are older she still reverts back to some of her rhetoric, but is doing more now than she ever has. I think what surprised me the most this last time is she just did it without complaining.
Here is her list list of "Never gonna happen" from the moment she only wanted sex to make babies:
- eat her pussy(and by extension 69) She actually turned around and hit me once for licking her pussy before I fucked her from behind. It was right there! What was I supposed to do?
- fuck outdoors
- masturbate herself to orgasm
- swallow my cum (which she did before we were married)
- let me cum on her tits (or any other exterior part of her body)
- use sex toys
- anal sex
The first 18 years of marriage was like this and I stuck it out for the kids. In the last four years we have done everything on that list with the exception of me cumming in her mouth. That timing coincides with the time the kids became much more independent. I imagine there are many who have had or are currently experiencing a similar existence. If you haven't gone through your needs being replaced by kids, you are fortunate.