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Originally Posted by sweetsydney
As someone posting my own pics, I just wanted to say that I can appreciate (some of) the reasoning for wanting to see a face. But if I lose out on people looking for my inability to do so, so be it. I think you all have to realize that there are SERIOUS potential consequences to being recognized when you have a career that you have devoted a significant amount of time and effort to. I love being able to post here, but I'm not willing to risk my career or my ability to do my job effectively if certain people knew about this one thing that I choose to do for fun in the free time I have.
Don't look if you don't want to, but you don't need to say some of the disparaging things posted in this thread or act as though this is a selfish choice to deprive you of your enjoyment, while you (to quote the wise Obi-Wan Kenobi) "remain safely anonymous". And I sincerely hope that none of you would be the ones making the judgments if you came across a co-worker here or elsewhere with her tits out. Or when you find out that a woman running for office has naked pictures in her past, or her present, for that matter (not everyone is 20-year-old college student that can, or wants to, write this off as an immature "mistake", I am fully in control of my choices and do it for my own pleasure, but that is simply not acceptable to many people).
That said, I will give the mask a try.
Oh, and to whoever is posting pictures of your wife without her knowledge (and admitting you know she would be pissed), knock it off. It may be a thrill for you, but you're an ass. Ask her, maybe she'd like it.
Ok, off the soapbox. Thank you. And come find me if you'd like....
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I've been following your thread for a while, and I've
almost asked you why you don't show your face several times, but I never did, both because I didn't want to risk putting you off and because I figured that it was ultimately the career explanation that many women give for not wanting to show their face. Still, I'm glad that you posted in this thread and gave your full reasoning, as you're one of the most active and interesting Ladies of OCC we've ever had, and I did wonder. All that said, I
need to see face: it's just the way I'm wired.

Consequently, my favorite pics of yours are the few where you
do give us a little glimpse of your face, and I'm very much looking forward to the mask pics. Because really, when it comes right down to it, it's really not so much the
face I need to see, but the
eyes. The mask will preserve your anonymity, but still allow us to see your (I'm sure

) lovely eyes.
BTW, if I was responsible for any of the "disparaging things" posted in this thread (and I fear that I was), I sincerely apologize.
Fango