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Originally Posted by wildaboutyou
One problem we encountered was that most of the guys were too much into the actual photography. I understand this now, but back then it just amazed me. For example, after a hot, but sex-free, photo shoot, she would tell me that she was eager to do it with our photo assistant, so she and I would call him up the next day and ask if he would be willing to help us take some X-rated photos. If he agreed, she would ask him if he would like to be in any of the pics, just his cock, not his face. Guess what, less than half said yes! Why didn’t they all say yes? Some were married or in a committed relationship; some were too bashful; some were afraid of me (I could have passed for a bouncer easily). Here is a gross generalization: photographers tend to be men that are watchers, not doers.
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I would say most of us are photographers first, respectful, but it only takes nudge to get most of us to go the extra mile. I was essentially asked in the same way. Her husband 'secretly' conveyed to me that his wife wanted me to play with them on the next shoot. I was willing of course, but it did take the order to strip down to put me at ease enough to get naked with a married couple I had met a short time ago. Just an extra nudge to indicate this was all OK with both of them. Half an hour later I was balls-deep inside her while she passionately pleasured his cock with her mouth. And me as the photographer, I was taking time between strokes to operate the remote.
Like jim914109 said, it is kind of funny how NOT unusual a model's naked body is after a few minutes. It's an art object you can order to pose in different ways. If you have a fantasy about ordering a naked woman to do your bidding, well here's your chance
. Obviously not all of us are going to go as far as I or 'wildaboutyou' did. But on the first shoot, when she first came out after changing into a robe, she made no effort to close the robe, leaving her perfect shaved pussy in full view. Over the next few hours it was less about that and more about where I wanted to see her pussy in the shot (or not).
I guess what I am trying to say in the end is some photographers will go to the next level, but explicit verbal permission is what does it, for me at least. I don't operate on innuendo. Like he initially messaged to me, we want to get a picture of her sucking several dicks at once, and we would like you to be one of those dicks. It's not subtle, but it was clear, and arguably turned out well for me in the end.