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Originally Posted by simontom
" 205 did it with reserve" Nice to see you are so accurate but surely a post coital cigarette would be more enjoyable for them than filling in a survey form!
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I think he meant to type '20%', but didn't hit the 'Shift' key when he pressed the 5, so it came out as 205.
(Sorry, didn't mean to pile on - there were no other response posts about the miskey when I started composing this.)
Myself, I've never been with a girl who just flat out refused to do oral.
There was one girl where we just never got around to it - the subject was never brought up, and next thing I knew, she was cheating on me, so I broke up with her.
One girl I went out with for about ten months was kind of whiny about it, but she'd still do it and swallow - I think she did because I reciprocated and always made her come.
Another one would do it sort of reluctantly; the first time she blew me she took it all in and then went into the bathroom and spit it out into the sink. I told her that she was supposed to swallow it, and after that she always did, but she was kind of whiny about it; she seemed to not like the texture of the spunk in her mouth and in her throat when she swallowed. She would never let me go down on her - she would always say to me "Just stick the goddamn thing in there." She wanted no foreplay of any kind.
My ex-fiance, Susan, was the one who introduced me to blow jobs over thirty years ago. The first one was exquisite, and I wanted more. It was her substitute for sex (I had to go down on her first, which I didn't mind) because she was desperately afraid of getting pregnant and had never actually had a cock in her pussy. This situation, in her mind, allowed her to say to me "I've never had a lover." Only later did I learn, partly through experience, and partly through meeting one of her ex-s, that she'd blown at least half a dozen guys before me. I didn't know then that a girl who takes your whole load in her mouth and swallows without hesitation has done it before.
I had a torrid two-year affair with a very hot co-worker back over twenty years ago. She was married (I was single at the time), and she had NEVER sucked the hubby off: she'd never even taken his cock in her mouth. Within a couple of weeks she was getting on her knees in front of me and taking me in her mouth. The first time I shot in her mouth, she pulled her mouth off my cock (I have learned that that is the first-timer's reaction). After that, she took my entire load in her mouth and swallowed it every time. It was wonderful with her - we'd usually fuck three times in an evening - the first and third times, intercourse, and the second time would usually be intercourse for a while, and then I'd pull out of her and have her get on her knees in front of me as I sat on the bed. I loved the idea of her taking my cock in her mouth coated with her juices. Sometimes I'd even have her get back on the bed and fuck her some more, then have her gat back down on her knees again and come in her mouth.
I've only been with one girl who was a virgin when I first met her. When I went down on her the first time, she was in heaven, and couldn't get enough. We had no protection then, so we had to wait until the next time for me to bust her cherry (only then, as I was about to enter her, did she tell me she was a virgin). Within weeks, I had her on her knees, sucking my cock, and again, as a first timer, she pulled her mouth off when I spurted. She did it regularly after that, including one time in the shower that was great.
I only had one partner who wasn't really good at blow jobs. She was an Asian divorcee who just wanted to be wanted, and would allow you to take her any way that turned you on. She wasn't good at getting the rhythm of a BJ - she couldn't start out slow and sexy - she started at the 'fast finish' speed. When she went off the pill, we relied more on oral sex, with a quick intercourse starter. She did NOT like sucking my cock after it was coated with her pussy juice, but she'd do it, just to make me happy. Eventually, to avoid the 'timing' issue, I'd straddle her and fuck her mouth. She always swallowed, and just to turn me on, she'd say it tasted delicious. Eventually, with the need to use condoms for intercourse, on a momentary whim, I pulled out of her pussy (I was bareback - just a quick visit) and fucked her up the ass. I was so thrilled with both the tightness and the 'taboo-ness' of it, that we did it that way regularly. Most times I'd fuck her up the ass in the evening, then have her suck me off in the morning. She never asked me if I'd cleaned my cock off (I always did), which was a thrill for me in itself.
My experience has been that if you take care of the girl's needs, they'll take care of yours, for the most part without demur.