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Originally Posted by ctunnel
I wonder if it's a thought or concern that a lot of swingers have, what to do when their kids find out, or come to them with questions or interest in the lifestyle. I really appreciate your story for shedding light on this. Personally, my wife and I just put it out of our head for the time being as our oldest has expressed herself as more conservative.
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In the group we were in, one couple in the group had adult children who were also in the lifestyle and we met them, but never swung with them. The daughter-in-law jokingly said no one wants to see their parents naked.
April and I chose to withdraw and it really came at a time that made sense for us as the kids had reached an age where ballgames and dance programs and school functions took precidence over our interest in the lifestyle. We never wanted swinging to take away from our family and what is in our neck of the woods, a normal family life and school life.
Personally I don't think I could stand by and watch someone fuck my daughter. Is that a double standard? Yeah, every girl is someone's daughter, but watching my own is not something that even seems remotely a turn on. I know Charlie was having a lot of strong emotions and don't think lust was one of them. Part of it, and I got this from Debbie, was they did not want to be seen as hypocrits to Yvette. No one respects a hypocrit and that is where I think much of the concern lies in dealing with your children and the subject of swinging. How do you present and maintain that respect you have garnered through a lifetime of association with your children?
As many of you have figured out from my experiences is that I like variety and adventurious experiences. I think sex should be fun and within the realms of whatever the lovers find mutual and agreeable. I also understand people are different, "Different strokes for different folks" so to speak. I was asked to sit in on something I have found to be one of a kind. I absolutely loved fucking Yvette. At the time I was 37 years old and fucking an 18 year old ADULT with her parents permission -- well that in itself was a bubbling cauldron of eroticism. I am curious as to how others have dealt with this and is my experience actually that unique. If enough people participate, this should prove to be an interesting thread.