[Roxanne]

Finally got some replies from men, so I'll post what I wrote when the question first appeared. I'm don't believe the few women here have an obligation to entertain the men. I'm pretty much willing to answer ALMOST any question posed, IF the questionner is willing to answer their questions when they asked them. If no guys had the balls to reply, than I wouldn't have either. I don't have the balls (but I can borrow a pair on short notice, whenever I have need of them).

For those who have chastised me for asking to see some guys reply first, and who pointed out this is One Click Chicks, not One Click Dudes, or this is for ENF, not ENMale, I'm sorry, but you are to be pitied, and ignored. Occasionally, I'll see a guy apologize because there is a penis in the photo, or I'll see a guy complain there is a penis in the photo. I feel sorry for them. Were I to explain what I think that means, it would take this in a direction I know the moderator wouldn't want it taken.

Here is what I wrote 8 weeks ago, and held until there was some action here.

Roxanne

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1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

In general, I am not embarrassed by much. There are some situations if I was naked which could be embarrassing, but not involving friends or like minded people.

I've lost wagers, and the exposure has been more than I've wanted to show in that situation. There was a Kentucky Derby Day party weekend a few years ago. All the races were on TV, with the right kind of chip for the satellite. Most of us showed some skin during wagering, and some of who didn't do well as horse pickers lost the garments we wagered. We went home without what we lost. We were obligated to wager on each race. Those with nothing to bet had to do something designed to embarrass. I didn't have to do that, but the woman and the man who had to perform did things which would embarrass me.

At the Derby Day party, there were many private side bets. I had 2 side bets; both embarrassed me some. I spent several days on our last car trip through the southwest naked, riding or driving through Arizona, New Mexico and Texas. I gave a man old enough to be my grandpa an extended view, and I spent time naked in Carlsbad Caverns.

Some of you know I do some writing. I occasionally post something I wrote, if it is on topic, in reply to a photo. I don't do that often, because this is more a place for images than word images. The Derby Day weekend story is partly written, but I don't know when I'll finish it.

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2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the Internet)?

Sometimes it's fun. That was more true when I was in high school and we went to Parkway Plaza in cloths designed to expose, or when I sat under a tree at San Diego State, where a peek down the top of my dress showed the grass I was sitting on. As I get older, it's not so much that I'm exhibiting, just that I'm being me.

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For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?

N/A

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For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?

It's more a matter of being comfortable in my own skin, then dressing and behaving in a manner consistent with what I believe and how I live. Unless I've been on the wrong end of a wager, I seldom force it.

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3. Hypothetical situation: You're out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you naked. Everyone around you notices and is staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

Hypothetical answer? I donno. Probably try and hide my most important body part, in case there's a camera around. I'd cover my nose and mouth with one hand; my eyes with the other.

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4. Hypothetical situation: Your'e an actress. Your role requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

In college, I auditioned for the female role in Steambath. Early in the play, she walks on stage wearing panties and carrying a towel. The stage is full of naked men in towels. She puts her towel down, takes off her panties, and takes a shower. She dries off, puts her panties back on, and d****s the towel over her neck, covering her breasts. That's her costume for the rest of the play; occasionally the towel slips. I got a call back, but didn't get the part. The woman who did ended up living with the male lead. There are no body doubles in a play. I was willing to play the part, or I wouldn't have auditioned.

I memorized the naked actresses' credo. Nudity is OK, if necessary, to move the scene along.

I was in a play in college, where I had to strip down to a flesh colored body suit. It was experimental theatre. My character was in the body suit because she refused to get naked, but she played the role as is she was naked.

I did enter an amateur night contest in a bar, a thousand miles from anywhere I'd ever been before. I got naked. I won.

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5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I've been to several nude beaches, natural hot springs, and a few naked resorts. The feel of sun and the breeze on the body can be very sensual. Besides, I keep telling all who will listen that the skin needs to breathe too.

I've also been to many naked parties, including pool or hot tub parties. I go to spend time with friends. If the party is a clothing optional or no clothing event and my friends are there, I'm happy to be there too. Some of the parties have involved the winning or losing or clothing in games of skill or chance. Most -- but not all -- parties or games were amazingly non-sexual.

Years ago, the games occasionally determined ones partner for the evening -- or for part of the evening -- but such games were the exception, not the rule.

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6. Hypothetical Situation: Your'e at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach). You see someone take a photo of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react?

Take action, to the extent possible. That's why I stopped going to Black's Beach; too many perverts with cameras. At many clothing optional beaches, naked men run off people with cameras.

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7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the photo is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC, you see your naked self. How would you react?

It hasn't happened, or it hasn't happened yet. That makes this too hypothetical. I'd probably be angry, at least at myself. Who knows, I might be relieved, because the Internet cherry was punctured, but I doubt it.

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8. "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?

N/A

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If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?

No, I wouldn't post a clothed picture of myself. Photos of me are on the Internet - dressed - but I didn't post any of them.

No, I wouldn't currently consider posting a my nude photo online. I've read about ordinary women posing nude for charity fund raising calendars. That notion appeals to me on some level; it could happen someday, but it is unlikely there will be a way to trace THIS personality to THAT photo. Somehow I don't think my dad or my clients or my colleagues would hold me in any bad light for that exposure, but I don't think I'd give our CEO or Chairman of the Board an autographed copy of the calendar.

No. blurring my face wouldn't matter. Those who know me might recognize me. I've seen some amazing work on OCC to defeat the blurs. Those who KNOW me (in the Biblical sense) might recognize me; that's not a good thing, in my opinion.

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9. If you're modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you?

That's an impossible to answer hypothetical, because it ain't gonna happen.

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10. For those who are modest: What would be the most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other?

I think the most embarrassing thing possible for me would be sexually explicit photos or videos of me giving a blow job, or engaging in any naked sex act, whether deviant or not, to be seen by people important to my life. The photos would be even more traumatic to me than to have the same important person walk in and see me actually doing somebody or somebody doing me. The image would be worse than the memory.