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At a funeral recently my wife of 40+ years saw a cousin that she had not seen since they graduated high school. The girl, now an older woman, and my wife spoke and my wife chastised her for not coming home to see her elderly parents for 40+ years. They had been in poor health for a decade, and she only lived a couple of states away.

The cousin looked at my wife and said "You, of all people, should know why!" and nothing was else was said until later in the day. When we were alone with her that evening she approached my wife and said "Don't you remember what Jimmy did to me?"

My wife had a very innocent childhood, and when we started dating when she was 18 I had her undressed--fully nude---and she did not know what to expect. I taught her everything, and we have been together ever since.
(See my "Fond memories of dating" in the non-fiction segment of OCC).

The cousin reminded her that when my wife's parents were not at home, she and her older brother, Jimmy, would walk over and he liked to dress up in my wife's panties. His sister, who was reminding my wife of all this, was also required to be nude and either give her brother a blow job or hand job but my wife was not allowed to watch and had to leave them alone. The cousin is three years younger than my wife and five years younger than her brother, Jimmy.

I started dating my wife when she was 18, and so this all happened when she was younger and her cousin younger still. The cousin said that as she got older--in her teens---her brother would invite his friends to a barn or somewhere and she had to undress for them and give them the same relief she gave her brother. One afternoon, she was with her brother and five of his friends. She told us she never had intercourse, or even knew what is was or how to do it. Jimmy had told her that all girls "helped their brothers out like this until they were married" but she sensed what she was doing was wrong. By the way, Jimmy told her all five of his friends did not have sisters who could help them. The cousin said that she assumed that my wife was doing the same thing for her two older brothers.

As she got older, Jimmy wanted her to do it more often, and with more of his friends and it made her feel very bad, especially as she took some health classes. She was worried she could have a baby from oral sex.

When she graduated, she moved to Massachusettes, and never returned home until her father passed away. She blamed her parents, thinking they had to know what Jimmy was doing. Of all 5 children, Jimmy was the only one to stay home with his parents. I never saw him at the funeral or later. In fact, I really don't ever remember meeting him.

Somehow, my wife had put all this out of her memory, although after hearing this, she remembers them coming to the house and Jimmy somehow soiling her panties so she had to wash them out before her mother saw them. She never knew what Jimmy was doing to her panties, nor to her little cousin.

I am glad he never did anything to my wife, although she did remember him asking her to undress but she refused because her parents were coming home soon. If not for that, she said she probably would have because, after all, he was family. Actually, she remembers 2 relatives her age, one older family friend, and one of her high school teachers touching her breasts or between her legs, but she had no idea why. She said she only stopped them if someone might see, or if they hurt her like trying to finger her.

She also remembers when in high school walking around the house in her bra and panties, even when relatives were there until an aunt asked her not to because she was getting too "grown up". She hated wearing a bra and only started when her school athletic teacher made her, so she was probably strolling around in just her panties for a while too.

I remember her cousin when my wife and I were first dating. She was a natural blond and really cute.