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Originally Posted by 7nqb00
I quickly said can you hold your sweater closed. She said "look all you like. there is not much to see"
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Ha, wow. I had a co-worker similar to yours; I thought I was the only one.
Too many years ago, I worked in an office with another 21 year old. She wasn't my type at all, but since everyone else in the office was over 40, we kinda stuck together at work. We sat next to each other, but I spent most of my days, every day, standing over her shoulder working on projects. The catch is that she always wore oversized padded bras which pushed her shirt out...I saw down her shirt and saw her nipples every day, all day, for the three months we worked together. Her nipples were a normal pink, normal smallish size areolas, and normal nipple. Nothing too exciting, actually. Her breasts were a large b-cup and saggy even in her bras, but I didn't care.
Anyway, one day her areola was super puffy and I was concentrating on it since it never looked like that before. I think she asked me a question, but I didn't answer since I wasn't paying attention, and she caught me looking...it took three months of looking all day to get caught.
I said I was really sorry, and I walked over to my desk (a whole three feet away) and sat down, and couldn't look at her directly. A minute later I got an email from her saying "Why did you walk away? Did you hear me complain? No. My bikini tops show way more than this but you probably will never see me in one, so enjoy what you can see." So, stupidly, I replied, "I think I actually saw more than you think I did." That was the end of the conversation, but it did feel awkward for the rest of the day (only like an hour).
Later that night, she emailed me at my non-work email (this was way before texting, and having internet at home wasn't yet the norm, either). She asked in the email what I actually saw. I told her I saw her nipple and it looked different than normal--again, stupid thing to say. She was "Okay, nipple, I get that, but different than normal?" So, I admitted that I had been seeing her nipples every day ever since we started working together, thinking it would get her kind of excited. She didn't respond.
Starting the very next day, she wore tops that didn't show anything. I could still tell she had the same huge bras on, but I couldn't see down her tops. We never talked about it, though, which made it super awkward.
Finally, another several weeks later, I asked her why she didn't care that I saw that day, but now she does. She said it was all about the nipple, and gave me some speech how her bras covered more than her bikinis, but she didn't know her actual nipple was showing. I felt really dumb and it totally ruined it between us, but at least she quit a few weeks later and she was replaced with some cranky 40-something.
So, I never admit anything now, even if I think the person would get something out of hearing about it, and I have had plenty of chances to safely admit things, but I know better!
