Your Wife on a Bachelorette Party
 

Hi all,

I realize that this might be a niche request and topic, but figured there might be some similar people out there. I really enjoy the fantasy of my wife going on bachelorette parties with her friends or girls trips in general. First, it gives us some space as a married couple which I believe makes us appreciate each other more. Two, it allows us to role-play, sext, flirt with each other from across the country when real life is pretty "boring" with the day-to-day chores and responsibilities of life.

And third, we can explore our growing fantasy about exhibitionism, showing off in public, light flirting with other guys, etc. I'm trying to find a word to describe it. We don't want to become swingers. We don't want to have a threesome with another person. We aren't interested in cuckolding. But I enjoy, and my wife enjoys, when she gets attention from other guys on trips like this.

Things like flirting with guys at bars with her friends, them buying her drinks and complimenting her, maybe some light touching on her arm or lower back. All the while, she is texting me, teasing me and flirting with me about how sl*tty/scandalous she is being (in a low-key way), before we might get off to the fantasy late at night when she's back at the hotel.

For trips like these, I always try to get her to buy and wear the sexiest dresses, outfits, and bikinis as possible. But, being mid 30's pretty normal parents from the suburbs, obviously it's nothing overly scandalous or anything. Just things that she couldn't wear around town for fear of running into people she knew and maybe getting judged a bit for dressing a little more sexy/sl*tty than normal. It's such a turn-on (and a confidence boost for her) when she is dressed to the 10's getting compliments from guys, seeing guys catch glances at her ass in a pretty cheeky bikini bottom, etc.

My ultimate fantasy on a trip like this is for her and her friends to maybe meet a group of guys and somehow some more skin gets shown. A dare or lost bet leads to her having to flash her tits, moon her ass in a thong, go skinny dipping in the ocean or pool, streaking in front of the guys, etc. Something low-key and natural where a stranger on vacation gets a once in a lifetime opportunity to see my beautiful wife's sexy naked body. She'd text me about how sl*tty she was being and we'd enjoy a late night sext session before getting to enjoy the real thing when she gets back in town.

Anyone else have similar fantasies? Stories? Is this more or less common than I think? Looking for realistic and low-key experiences that have actually happened in real-life, and ideally from couples in their mid 30's/40's around the same age as us.

This is actually how my wife and I got into swinging and hotwifing. There was a slew of weddings for friends shortly after we got married, and I've always been a fan of showing her off, so I'd encourage her to dress provocatively and be flirty with the men or women she met on bachelorette parties. She flirted with a few piano guys and bartenders, flashed up her skirt so people could see her thong on the dance floor, no bra under a revealing dress or top where her breasts could accidentally be exposed. She'd give me updates about who she flirted with, what she was doing. We kept it a secret from most of the other people she was out with during too - just seemed more taboo and a turn on that way. Things eventually progressed down the road but this is where it started from.

Love it, thanks for sharing this story. It definitely seems like a natural way to progress into swinging and hotwifing. I don't think we'll ever go down that route, but I can see how it would be a starting point for people interested in it.

That's a fun dynamic of getting to meet the folks on the bachelorette parties and then getting to see them back at the wedding. Already know them a bit, and can dress and flirt a bit more than with brand new strangers.

Do you have one particular memory or moment that stands out as the sexiest from these?

I think the sexiest was my cousin's bachelorette party. She went out and got hammered in the city, ended up flirting a lot with bar tender, let him see down her shirt, texted me about it, and even got his number. She never acted on it but doing that definitely got our hearts pumping. The fact that she got the number was such a step forward, I think that was the step that led toward sharing.

It's fantastic to have such a beautiful and hot wife. Congratulations!!