Queen of spades
 

I have several questions about this:


do they constantly wear a sign visible to all?

how do their acquaintances react?

How her husbands react ?

are they only approached by black men?

Do they know how to say no to a guy they don't like?

How many interracial relationships make you a QOS?

Since you mentioned your QoS tendency, have you had a more active sex life?


For you men reading this, are there many QOS in your circle?
Or Or are your acquaintances not BBC or don't want it to be known?

So for my wife it was about the Latin guys. Outside of me she had only hooked up with one other white guy while married and the rest were Cuban or Puerto Rican. Two black guys. The anklet thing in my experience was bs- but that might be because more women wear anklets in general where we are so it holds no significance. She did wear a black ring on her right hand which worked better- or just found people on dating sites or hotel bars known for alternative lifestyles.

However, One of my very good friends is a queen of spades, the only white guy she sleeps with is her husband. She’ll wear it on a necklace or a stomach chain- no tattoos. She’s a teacher and keeps it discriminate. They will go to bars and lifestyle spaces where the men know what it means and approach, or she and her husband find them on some lifestyle sites.

If someone approaches her and she’s not into them, she just says “no”. It’s the shortest and easiest sentence in the world.

I don’t think what constitutes being a queen of spades is necessarily how many black guys you have been with, I think it’s just your preference. You can sleep with one black dude and have a white husband or a black husband and be a queen of spades because you prefer black men.

Just my two cents.

When I Saw Queen of Spades
 

my first thought was remembering the old joke about the raven-haired woman who went to a costume party wearing only black gloves and socks.

Yes 4 of spades or 5 of spade depending if she is shaved