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Hi all, this is something that has been going through my mind recently. Going on for 20 years ago this happened...

Who were you surprised you got to see naked I did feel very uneasy sharing that story, I've never told anyone before or since aside from the good people of this forum! Apologies, it's a long read!

Anyway. As I wrote in the original post, nothing actually happened with my cousin. However, I read something a couple of weeks ago that said that upwards of 25% of people have had a sexual experience with their cousins. I can honestly say I never thought it would be that high. I looked into it further, but kept getting stories from people who were quite clearly just fantasising when replying to peoples genuine inquisitive questions.

But thinking about it, as long as it was consensual, safe and you both knew what you were getting in to, would it really be so bad to have a sexual experience with a cousin? Or even a sibling? It did make me wonder what would've happened if I did go ahead with what quite clearly were sexual advances from her! And, as I said, if it wasn't for the fact she was my cousin I definitely would have done. And if it was today, knowing what I know now, who knows, I might actually have done regardless!

Has anyone genuinely had such an experience? Whether it's just foreplay and fumbling, or full intercourse, I'm really interested to know.

If you check my posting history, there are several posts about when my rich family members died (aunt and uncle died within like two weeks of each other), so my sister and I had to make a few visits out of town to help get things sorted (we were the favorites and a lot of the estate was ours in the will). We often stayed with our cousin, and sometimes our cousin would come back to the hotel with me because she was so lonely.

Anyway, it included A LOT of time with our female cousin, and some things happened. It was a long time ago now (I don't know how many years without looking since time goes to dang fast), and at the time it was fun to experience and write about, but I don't think I would let any of it happen again. Nothing was illegal or anything--just pushing the boundaries of weird for sure. (I am sure that some people didn't even believe what I was writing; but it doesn't bother me, I wouldn't have believed it, either. Ha!)

That cousin has been by a few times since then as she passed through town, but I don't let anything happen even though I know she really wants to.

Yeah that's what I was wondering, if something did happen would it make things awkward or weird between us afterwards. I know the morning after sharing a bed with my cousin felt a bit awkward, though I think that was more to do with the fact I rejected her advances... Should I have carried through with it, who knows! But now, nearly 20 years later I'm quite inquisitive as to what could have been!

Things aren't awkward or anything, it's just that I wouldn't do things again even though I know she would. When she does stay over while passing through town, she still sleeps topless (or naked!) on the couch, and we all shower with the door open and such, but I don't stare at her boobs when they are 3" in front of my face and we don't shower together like in the super fancy hotel (that was set up for two people to shower together, so we thought it was just funny at the time).

How about a 2nd cousin? The daughter of my father's cousin is a travel agent. She goes everywhere. I saw her post from St.Marteen once on social media and you could tell she was topless. So I sent her a note asking and she said keep it between us. And then I ventured to tell her that my wife and I sometimes do topless travel. That peaked her interest. Then I mentioned that we were sometimes naughty with other couples when we traveled. She like that but said that wasn't her thing. So we pretty much left it there.