Online lady friends.
 

I badly need to talk about sex with a female person and my wife isn't interested in sex discussion at all. I have a few facebook and e-mail lady friends (all of whom know I'm married) and I'd love to talk about sex with them, or one of them! How do I go about broaching the subject without them taking offense and dumping me completely? I'm scared to death of being rejected or my name making the rounds as a perv.

Same with a male friend too. I'd love to masturbate or talk sex with someone I know either online or (preferably) in person.

Why is the subject so frikkin' taboo with most people? It's so damn natural, like eating or drinking, but it seems to have this stigma with most people - not me!

Seriously? If you start messaging every woman you know about sex you’ll immediately get a reputation as a sex pest.

You need to find places on the Internet receptive to men wanting to talk about sex. Try dating sites that talk about people having affairs, for example.

There are forums related to discussing relationships and sex. There you can start a discussion, and then ask those participating if you could DM them. If your theme is more about relationship, don't start on porn sites.
People close to you or relatives aren't good for sex talk. If they were, you would already be talking.