Getting nudes of conservative wife/GF
 

My wife isn't the most sexually adventurous, so when I have a sexy experience I need to make the absolute most of it.
I LOVE taking nudes of her, but I don't get the chance to do this very often. I'm sure others on the forum have wives and GFs with a similar dispositions.

I've come up with a bit of a "process" which works for me about 90% of the time:

• I learned that she doesn't like to see nude pictures of herself. A self confidence issue I think. Since learning this, whenever I get permission to take nude photos, I don't do it... I take videos instead :D I find videos a thousand times sexier than an equivalent picture, because they're like a thousand pictures taken one after the other! A video captures a lot of small details and nuances in her behavior that are completely missed with a bunch of pictures. The ums, ahs, embarrassed noises, the rolling of the eyes - this awkwardness adds up to a much sexier experience as I can really feel her embarrassment to be captured in such compromising positions.
  
  I find you need less lighting too. Not sure why this is but I can get a better output in poor lighting (which she usually insists on) with a video.
  
  There's very little sexier to me than capturing my wife on video with her hairy pussy spread for the camera, saying "Hurry up!" as she thinks I'm spending 30 seconds lining up the perfect shot. I'm actually recording a 30-second video of her squirming with embarrassment.
  
  
• Previously, to convince her to let me take nudes, I'd offer for her to look through all of the photos and delete any that she didn't like after the session. Of course, these were usually my favorites! But giving her this control set her mind at ease.
  
  The solution? There is a phone app called UploadCam. It acts as a camera, but it uploads a copy of the photo to a cloud service of your choice, silently in the background. By the time the "too dirty" pics have been deleted, they're already backed up.
  
  
• My wife will refuse an impromptu nude photography request, but I can occassionally convince her to play a sexy card game (which I've written about here).
  
  Playing this game gets her EXTREMELY aroused, as it's basically a series of dares with a simple (and fun) game attached. It's funny, she'd never do any of those dares if I just asked her to, but as soon as it's printed on a glossy card, it suddenly gains all this authority. I think because she can convince herself "the game made me do it!", it allows her to maintain her illusion of innocence.
  
  What she doesn't realise is that it's very easy to cheat with card games! As I understand the rules, she always lets me set the game up while she gets ready. What she doesn't know is that I'm basically planning out exactly how the game should play by strategically putting all of the cards in the right places.
  There's a card that requires the person who plays it to dress up exactly how the other player wants. That's how I get her in a sexy outfit. My favorite is a short dress with no panties. I make sure she usually ends up with that card.
  
  Each player gets two "bail" cards that let you skip a dare/challenge. I purposely top-load the deck with some challenges that I KNOW she would never do (such as having sex live on a webcam) in order for her to burn through her bail cards, so she has no choice but to follow through with the challenges on the remaining cards. She is so predictable with what she is and isn't willing to do, I can pretty much plan this out move-by-move.
  
  Like I said, if I just asked her to do these things outright she would refuse. But as it's part of a game, it doesn't feel like it's coming from me. It's just a "random" challenge chosen by the game. It could just have easily been me having to do it. She doesn't realise that this is FAR from the truth.
  
  There are a series of cards that involve having an explicit nude picture taken, which is then deleted later. I make sure these make it into the game as often as possible, but not enough to arouse suspicion.
  Combined with the two tricks above, when we play the game I usually end up with a video of my wife completely nude (or in a dress and nothing else) getting into a very compromising position (ideally one where face, boobs and both holes are all visible at once) and adjusting and fidgeting while I line up the "perfect shot"
  
  "Don't worry, enjoy it! It's only a photo and I'll delete it afterwards!" :D
  

Has anyone else got any tricks to get their other halves to pose for nudes more, and to get more out of the experience when they do?

One of my best mates has an ultra conservative wife. She is an attorney and has a career plan to go into politics. She is extremely moral and won't do anything immoral never mind illegal. I'd imagine she is making sure her life is squeaky clean in case she DOES end up in the public eye.

Having said all that, my mate and I have a running joke - whenever we show each other a picture on our phones he always says "don't swipe", often refusing to release the phone from his vice like grip.

This leads me to a single conclusion - he has nudes of her on that phone. She's so straight laced that I can't ever imagine she'd let him take pics but maybe that's her single vice

I MUST get him drunk when we are out next month - see if I can loosen HIS morals a bit :o

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I guess the list of demands did the trick if you're still married 20 years later!

Does she know that you show her here in the forum - even with your legs apart? What would she say that you offer anyone to swap their pictures with anyone?

Please answer honestly! I'm very curious!

Thanks for sharing that with us, Jtripper. I'm in a similar situation. We almost broke up after 30 years of sexless marriage. I made demands too. She agreed initially, but as usual, her agreements always wane back down to nothing.