Where did it go
 

Where did the thread go,( things got a little crazy)? I think that was the thread name.. I can't remember who started it..

Where did it go?
 

Glad you asked. I was following the thread with interest and wondered the same thing (but I’d forgotten the thread name!!)

The world may never know. (Or there was a request to delete)

There was a request to delete the account and all posts. So we have to.
Some stuff we can salvage, but that one seems to be one that got eaten in the process.
One of you could always start afresh.

Fellas, this whole thing with south, and ended up costing me my marriage of over 20 years. Things went a bit too far, and a bit of forbidden fruit wasn’t worth it.

I’m not going to continue the story, because I’m embarrassed of my actions. You read stories about these types of things and thing “that would be awesome”, but after the deed is done the guilt might be more than you can take.

Not on did I ruin a marriage, but I ruined a relationship between a mother and daughter. Luckily, my wife choose not to tell anybody why we separated, things could have been worse for me, which is hard to believe at this point.

It’s not worth it boys, keep it in your pants…

Thanks.
 

Really sorry to hear of your troubles. These things can sound exciting in advance, but can be disastrous if/when it goes wrong and if/when people you care about are very hurt!

This is relevant to my situation at present. Is my decades long happy, laughing, loving, trusting and successful - (if slightly dull at times) marriage worth putting at risk just for one or two offered nights of excitement! I’ve known the answer for a long time, but your posting has absolutely confirmed it!

Thanks and I hope things (somehow) work out for you and your wife.

Yikes. That’s tough Jess