Question on Showing off your Ex
 

I would like to know ppl thoughts on showing off your ex.


My current relationship is complicated. All of these past post had been approved. She stated as long as I dont show her face or her other sexy lips, she is ok with posting nudes of her. Reason why I wanted to start posting nudes of the wifey in the first place, because it gets me turned on hearing ppl comment and feel great to show off what you have. I still feel she is very beautiful and would love to continue showing her off more.


I assume most ppl would still keep their ex photos. But out of spite, ppl would possibly unanimously show photos off their ex.


I would like to hear other ppl thought especially the women on this forum if you feel it would be rude to continue posting or out of respect, delete all photos of your ex.

Good question
 

I have multiple pics and vids of my ex wives!! Fiance's!!!! And girlfriends lol I'm keeping mine forever lol!

Ex
 

One thing about your ex and current wife, they are all very beautiful. I give you a lot of props for even showing her beautiful face. Something i can never do but was very tempted when relationship was good.

Thanks for your thought.

I don't have photos of my exes. Somehow, I never took them (have plenty of my current wife, though :p).

Anyway, if I had taken them, I would certainly keep them, but I wouldn't post them with their faces shown, unless they had given me permission to. However, I would probably post them with their faces cropped and making sure no other recognizable signs are in the pic (no particular furniture, accessories, etc.).

Supersmoothy beat me to the opinion about this.

I am a very wrongful person when it comes to voyeurism and fetishism. BUT, IRL I do believe that ex-lovers have a duty not to show the faces of the intimate photos they have of anyone they've been to bed with. Now I don't mean you shouldn't trade with your brother or best friend, when you're alone and not going to take a copy of it but just look at it. That's totally cool. But placing it in the stream of the internet, just hide her face. Granted, like everyone else here, we do want fact photos. But we'll understand if you can't show it because IRL she has a life and a world and doesn't deserve to be exploited along these lines. But otherwise definitely show her off and brag about banging her.

If you are in the US, you should know that most states make it illegal to post revealing pictures of your ex. That's because some people do it for revenge or to get back at them. I don't know whether your break up was amicable or not, you just say it's "complicated". But, if I were you, I would not put myself in a position where an ex could call the law down on me. I just wouldn't do it.

Aside from that, she may consider her permission to you to post her pics to be implicitly revoked by your breakup.

And, she gave you the terms for posting. Don't violate that.

I just think there's too much going on here. If you are going to keep them, keep them for yourself unless you get a new permission from her.

Me...
 

I don't have good feelings for any of my exes, therefore I wouldn't want to post or even keep any of their photos. They were all destroyed.

Response
 

Thanks for all reponse.

Complication is more of being seperated at the moment and not divorce. Not my ex at least not yet but i thought i would like ppl feedback on some thoughts of how ppl feel. Im more towards the deleting part, hard to imagine somebody having sex with her although, that is def. a reality now.

Sort of weird because before all of this complication, 3some def pop in my mind. Now, im not sure how i feel. Like i said before, i luv showing her off and not just this forum but when we go out which i have a lot of photos of.

Nice to hear feedback from the occ family.

No exes
 

I think private photos should only be posted with the permission of the model. Photos of exes almost certainly don’t have that ongoing permission and so shouldn’t be posted. And as noted earlier, if it’s deemed revenge porn, in some countries you could end up in prison or on sex offenders registers, or whatever.

I have photos of one ex. We spent eight years together in our early to mid twenties. These photos range from her posing, is playing drinking/strip games with some friends, and full hardcore sex and short videos. We split up amicably and remained friends but that petered off as we entered other long term relationships. During our short stint as “just friends” we discussed the photos once and I offered to delete. She looked appalled. “You better not! If we can’t fuck anymore I want you to at least Jack off to me and remember me! Besides, I’m not getting rid of mine.” It was meant as a sort of joke/funny comment but she meant it. So I’ve kept them. My current wife does not know I have them and I don’t look at them often but from time to time I like to reminisce. Not sure how I’d feel if it was a bad break up.

As for sharing, absolutely not. It’s hard for a guy to not want to show off his conquests but I wouldn’t feel right without consent. I do get a thrill knowing that her current boyfriend would likely lose his mind if he knew I had hundreds of photos of her.