Originally Posted by Ohioredlover (Post 2812250)

This question statement if for both Male and Females . Am I the only one who has noticed that a lot of women LIKE to be tied down naked spread eagled on a bed and used in any way the guy wants including some kinky stuff ? My wife does .shell suggest it either directly or through some artifice like loss of a game or bet .it usually involves , “ and you can do anything you want “, and even that may include a subtle suggestion that includes photos/ vids and exposure to third party’s
I’ve asked around and have been surprised how common this is .ive assumed that really involves a loss of control so she can engage in a fantasy of being forced against her will ,ie when she lost control she lost ANY need for guilt or shame .
Is it a **** fantasy or a secret desire to be briefly a submissive bot borderline outright bdsm ? When she says ,” no limits “ , does she really mean she wants to be humiliated .
I know I’m not the only guy who has a girl who love this but I’d like to hear others experiences and / or theories and reactions

Originally Posted by ohioredlover (Post 2812250)

This question statement if for both Male and Females . Am I the only one who has noticed that a lot of women LIKE to be tied down naked spread eagled on a bed and used in any way the guy wants including some kinky stuff ? My wife does .shell suggest it either directly or through some artifice like loss of a game or bet .it usually involves , “ and you can do anything you want “, and even that may include a subtle suggestion that includes photos/ vids and exposure to third party’s
I’ve asked around and have been surprised how common this is .ive assumed that really involves a loss of control so she can engage in a fantasy of being forced against her will ,ie when she lost control she lost ANY need for guilt or shame .
Is it a **** fantasy or a secret desire to be briefly a submissive bot borderline outright bdsm ? When she says ,” no limits “ , does she really mean she wants to be humiliated .
I know I’m not the only guy who has a girl who love this but I’d like to hear others experiences and / or theories and reactions

Originally Posted by cufan86 (Post 2814742)

My wife likes to be tied spread eagled and blindfolded. She then likes to be teased and I say things like our friend has come in to watch her or a friend or stranger is playing with her. All fantasy but drives her wild. Sometimes I take photos too.

Over the holiday the kids were gone so I had a chance to tie her up again. I started using a vibrator on her telling her our friend was fucking her. She was soaking wet and loud so I put a ball gag in her mouth. I took a photo of her spread eagled, blindfolded, with the gag in. I told her I was sending it to our friend for real unless she said no. She giggled. I gave her four chances then told her I sent it. She immediately wanted me to fuck her, which I did.

Now at the time I didn’t actually send the photo because our is on vacation and not sure how secure his phone is.

I later asked her if she regretted me sending it. She just says what’s done is done. I then start talking about how much he likes it and wants to see her naked in person and she starts getting super horny again.

So, when the time is right I’m going to send

him the photo. Just need to decide if the blindfold hides enough or if I need to crop her head.

Originally Posted by cufan86 (Post 2814822)

It will be obvious to my friend either way. I’m not concerned with him seeing the full photo, I’m just less sure I want him to have a copy of same. I don’t think he would deliberately do anything with the photo if I asked him not to, but once out there we no longer have any control.

That can be exciting but also a potential problem.

Originally Posted by jacksonhole (Post 2812335)

I have seen this for 30 years. It takes a few forms in my experience. “I had to do the dare”, “I lost the bet”, or “I can win the game” are big ones. My wife has done many things and written it off for one of those reasons.

I also think it is related to “he’s already seen my tits” which is an escalating progression where each showing is justified by the previous showing regardless of context. So accidentally catching a quick glimpse of my wife changing might be a reason she doesn’t care if you see her swim naked.

I have many examples of all of these over the years.