Caught
 

My wife of 9 years found my kik about a month an a half to 2 months ago. We talked, and i explained to her what i use it for (although she already knew..she read some of my conversations and picture trading). Anyways, we were fine for a couple of weeks, and were even having sex. However, for the past month, she has been b*tchy and although we cuddle and talk, we haven't had sex. I deleted my kik, and i am only here looking for advice from members that have experienced similar solutions. How did your wives react, and how did you get things back to normal.

dont wanna be a downer but...
 

it may never go back to what it was

shes having a process, she still doesnt know how to handle it, she thought she did, but felt weird after

it takes time, patience, and a lot of understanding

I have been waiting for 10 years for my wife to let go, she wants to, she just cant

I bet she stays up at night thinking if they are other things she doesnt know

unfortunate, this opened a door

Should i talk to her about it again or should i just let her think about it on her own?

Sith11 did something similar happen to you? Would you mind sharing?

I would talk to her about it again. I would apologize and Tell her that you will never do that again without her being involved. Heck maybe she might like it! Don't want to close the door on that. At least you will find out where she stands.

Thanks for the replies. I think i will talk to her about it again. She still calls me and tells me she loves me multiple times a day, but i think it is still bothering her.

Has anyone experienced a similar situation

Have come across this sort of situation quite a few times on Kik. People I've been chatting to being caught by their partners. Only one guy kept in touch and sorted it by talking to his wife. Luckily his wife though angry conceded that nobody could reconise her as the pics didn't show her face and the background was blurred so that in the event someone who did know them sees the pics wouldn't be able to connect them to her. Took a while but she calmed down and put it passed her.

I don't know what this Kik is, but I'm assuming it's a site for sexual chatting and sharing photos?

Did OP just share photos of the missus (without face)?
Were you getting pics of other men's wives in return and you were keeping them?

Or did OP partake in online shenanigans with other women on there?

I think it all depends how far OP went and how much wife knows. If it's just body pics without face, then I think the OP will be fine. If they show face, then becomes more difficult. If OP been caught with pics of other men's wives that is also a slight problem. Porn is okay as it's impersonal and they are pros, but other wives are your wife's direct rival.

And if it's online cheating, well, good luck.

By the sounds of it, the OP's wife hasn't seen this incident as a springboard into showing off her body???

They were without face. It was with other men, other husbands.