Feeling Guilty--should I?
 

I have a friend that I have known for over 10 years. Great guy, nice children, hard worker and an attractive wife. The wife and my wife hung around together years ago, but drifted apart when we both left the old community to move not far away, but we are no longer neighbors and don't share having young kids. We have a fair number of mutual friends from several places and, as a result, we see each other several times a year. Otherwise we really don't call or visit each other, although the wife calls me occasionally, just saying hi and asking if I am traveling anytime soon. She has asked if I could take her with me on a business trip and I keep explaining that I cannot. We have no work connections, no recreational events shared, etc.

My friend, if he has a flaw, can easily and quickly go overboard when he drinks. Every time he gets drunk, he feels sorry for himself because he doesn't make enough money, he hasn't got a fancy new car like ----or ----do, he has some debt, and other "too much information" you really don't want to hear. Eventually, he gets around to his wife and how she refuses to give him blowjobs. All his friends get blowjobs, but not him, but when he travels he goes to massage parlors or bars in hopes of getting a woman to give him oral sex. Again, it is too much information. It is probably the main reason I don't see him often any more. He has even said this around my wife and other ladies. At one party he asked my wife if she gave me blowjobs and she just laughed him off but told those around her that if it weren't for blowjobs, we would have had kids while in college. He has never asked my wife or any other women in our social circle for oral sex, to my knowledge. He does sing the praises of his wife for being a "great, world class fuck".

The reason for my guilt is his wife. We hadn't known each other very long and were at a neigborhood pool party at our community pool. Probably over 100 people were there and there was a lot of beer. My family was having fun and the kids were too loud and splashing a lot, when his wife asked me if I had a flashlight. I had one in the car, and we went to get it. She took one look at my old convertible and said that we had to go to her van. We got in through the sliding door, and she took off her bikini top and said "lower your shorts". I had on a tennis shirt and shorts. She went for my zipper and my friend popped out, wondering what was going on.

I explained as she grabbed and rubbed my cock that I do not play around on my wife and that I had never fucked anyone but her. The wife said "who said anything about fucking? I just want to suck your cock" and before I could move she had me in her mouth. She showed a great talent in terms of oral sex, knowing many of the tricks I greatly enjoy, most of which my wife did, but a couple she didn't. She pulled the shorts off one leg, and dove between my legs licking everything including my rectum. All the while she was saying how much she loved to suck. She was touching herself between her legs and I knew she was excited. She was nibbling the bottom of my cock head and told me she wanted all of my cum down her gullet. Gullet? A new word for me but I thought I knew what she wanted. Suddenly, her head was pumping fast up and down, and I saw her bikini bottoms were on the floor and she was pumping three or four fingers into her pussy. I let go and knew it was a good solid stream shot into her mouth followed by another, then another and another as they weakend. She was groaning and rolled back, looked at me and said to stare at her pussy. I did and she had a massive cum, lifting her hips up toward me and as she came, she pulled apart her most secret spots and told me to "see my naked pussy! See all I have to show!"

We had been in the van about 12 or 15 minutes and I suggested we head back and she said she would follow me later. I went back to the pool area and I don't think anyone missed me. I did get a small shock when I saw my wife talking to her husband and their oldest daughter. His wife showed up about a half hour later. She told me she had stripped and wandered naked among all the parked cars, stopping to finger herself occasionally. She said she does that often.Wow. Both my wife and one of our favorite lady friends enjoy doing the same thing, occasionally.

To shorten this already too long tale, at almost every event that we were together, his wife would find an excuse for us to be together and before I could say anything, she has my cock in her mouth. Think about this, at two weddings during the reception somewhere in the building; at a scouts' cookout in the woods behind a shed; and more. I went to her house to see my friend's car he was restoring and when I got to the house, she met me naked on the front porch (where anyone could drive by) and said we had to hurry. She pushed me into a bedroom on the frontside of the house and opened the window so we would hear his Mustang, and she had on my knees doggy style milking my cock and licking my wide open ass. Moments later, we got into a 69 position and she told me firmly to spread her pussy until it hurt. We finished before he returned.


Here is the question: I just returned from a funeral for a guy from the old neighborhood and about 5 of us men, about upper middle age, were in a circle talking after the service. We saw our old friends' wife come in looking very nice. All of us took a step back and one said "I have to go", and another said "hide me from her". We looked at each other and then quickly shared that over the years she had been sucking us all every chance she had. I was shocked and felt very guilty that I had succombed to his wife's overtures and figured she had swallowed my output at least 15 times, and she may have done all of us almost 100 times over the years, while never sucking her husband. Hell, how many other guys had she sucked?

I want to call on her and find out why, but I am scarred to ask. I sware I feel very guilty and have a hard time getting out of my mind. I would certainly hate to learn my wife had been doing this type of thing.

If you feel guilty about cheating on your wife, that is up to you. But I wouldn't feel bad for her husband - he seems like an ass, and is lucky she hasn't left him.

This woman
 

needs to be cloned.

If you feel guilty, then no one can really change that, it a personal thing.
I wouldn't judge you as long as you accept responsibility for your part and don't portray yourself as a victim.

In the longer term however, my experience tells me that ladies like this come with baggage and you piss them off at your peril, so good luck if you try to make a clean break.

I am a bit confused. Should you what? Call her to find out why she does it?

I have known a couple of "hypersexual" women. As someone said above, they usually have some baggage. But my experience has also been that they don't like to ask deep, probing questions about their motivations. I don't know if it dredges up the baggage, or implies that they're not "normal", or what. But they don't like it. At best she'll ignore the question and at worst she will get upset, perhaps dangerously so.

Two things I know. First, stay out of her marriage. That is between the two of them and you have NO idea what goes on between them behind closed doors. Not to mention it's none of your business. I mean, it's not like he's a chaste monk while she's blowing everyone. Sounds like they have serious problems that nobody but themselves can sort out. Second, you're in too deep to confess to your wife. If it happened ONCE, maybe, just maybe, you could explain that. But the frequency you are talking about...you might as well file the divorce papers now if you tell her.

Give her my #
 

I will be more than happy to feed her.

100% this.

I think the last thing the OP needs to worry about is if his wife is doing this. He should be more worried about this woman being unhinged!

Wait, are you saying that your wife likes to strip naked and wander amongst parked cars, or are you saying this lady told you your wife likes to?

Sounds like 3% truth vs 97% over-active imagination...

Shouldn't have to reply....
 

I suspect the last comment from tedeath should be ignored coming from a non-contributing member, and he either just likes to see himself in print or he enjoys poking bears.

This is one of the times that I wish I could invite te and take him to their home where he could meet the wife, although right now she is working part-time at a florist, and then to meet the friend. He is helping a friend who is starting a phone repair shop and is negotiating to get a Verizon, T-Mobile, or whoever to license his store. Until that comes through, they are just doing phone repair and working on other electronic gizmo's. Maybe when tedeath's phone gets broken, I can advise him where he can get it fixed, along with himself, and get flowers for his lover, his right hand.