Who could she be fucking?
 

I'm putting pieces together and believe that my wife is fucking another man...I've seen her drinking more lately, dressing sexier, wearing lacey panties, found a very soiled pair in the laundry that looked like she pussy had soaked them before being covered in cum....she's 41yo, curvy, big thick ass, nice 36C tits. Could it be our older neighbor (67yo), one of the older football players on r sons HS team, or maybe one of the black coaches?

Rut Ro!

Put up a couple pics and I will tell you if I am banging her or not.

Just trying to help narrow it down. :)

Tell her if she's getting any on the side, bring him home so she can have a threesome.

who could she be fucking
 

Well,I dont know about your wife per say,but when married to first wife she was doing all the same stuff. I can tell you for a fact she was fucking around! Maybe yours is on you cant say,but my guess is maybe yes!

Tx let your wife know you really don't mind, it's been your fantasy for years and you'd love to hear about it. Repeat this as needed. Offer to bring home a friend to prove it. Or if it really bothers you try to forget it or leave her.

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Sounds a lot like what happened with my ex-wife.At the time,I was working on an Ambulance.And was away from home 24hrs at a time.Found a few clues like you mentioned.But I was naive and didn't put it all together.Turns out she was fucking one of my best friends.Who worked an opposite shift from me.Sometimes he would be heading to my apartment,while I was heading to work.They kept this up for about eight months.I'm sure they both got a good laugh out of being able to fool me so easy.And on hind site,I should have seen it was going on.But they both were good at covering it up.

She might just be trying to keep you interested !!!

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Funny you should mention porn sites. I rarely looked at porn. It just seemed to boring or fake. I am on a few motorcycle sites where we share nude and semi nude photos and my wife enjoys sharing hers.
It wasn't until I discovered OCC that we both share things on here. It has changed our lives completely. So all porn and all women are not created equal.
Unless we are completely fooled and naive we've decided many things here are true life adventures much like our lives have been. It's fun sharing stories. We also understand how some wives are turned off by porn.
I was first introduced to porn by a very good friend while staying with him and his wife. In fact I was new to the internet and he was showing me things that are out there simply by clicking key words, like BIG BOOBS, or MATURE PUSSY.
I enjoyed looking at things he brought up and we saved a lot to a DVD for me. At that time I didn't even have internet. My wife also enjoyed looking. But his wife would leave ther room every time b*tching how perverted and nasty Jim and I were. I'll admit Jim is a pervert! ;)
Here are two photos of my wife we show bikers on and off the sites. She is not a model and far from young. But we enjoy showing and many enjoy looking. That keeps us young.

I still suggest that you talk to your wives and let them know sharing her has been a dream of yours and you don't mind. But you'd like to know who and when and possibly be there. Don't be accusing unless you are certain.