Is it cheating if.........
 

Had some thoughts cross my mind as I'm starting to get that 7 year itch going on, is it still cheating if it's only a BJ? I have absolutely no desire to fuck another woman, but for some odd reason I really want to get my dick sucked by another woman.

What is the thoughts on this? And does anyone have or had any similar itchings?

Here's my short version.

Only if you get caught!

That's probably 100% true.

Sorry, I couldn't think of anything else. :rolleyes:
Have you talked this over with your wife or GF? It never hurts to discuse these matters. Sadly many wives won't give oral and men do like to experiment.
I've been lucky. My wife gives me oral, but won't swallow. But does not mind watching me get it from other women.

Have you spoken to your wife about this? You might be surprised and find she has similar wants.

Isn't it amazing how we can discuse these intimate things here? Sure saves a lot of money for a shrink!

Sorry I didn't see you post until after I had posted. The being open with each other has worked for us we would never of had half the fun we have had if we had not talked about what we fantasized about.

She and I have discussed swapping and swinging, I'm not real sure how I feel about another man porking my wife. I have mentioned to her about finding a woman that wants to give oral only and her response was pretty classic "how would you feel about another man eating my pussy" my response was go for it, but no intercourse. Soon she's pretty much against another woman performing oral on me.

have you considered "role playing"?
 

...for lack of a better term. buy her a naughty schoolgirl outfit, and have her put her hair in pigtails. this is a great start. maybe she has a wig from halloween, and maybe you mention,"gee, it'd be swell if I could bang you in this". Or maybe something else from the extensive options the internet has to offer.

all i would say is ... its really not worth it if she is against it ... you love her for sure as you say you dont want to lay another girl .. then why take the risk !! .... but in the same breath, dont give up ... keep talking :p