Oral for first time...now what?
 

So, we've been married for more than 10 years and this Valentine's day, I received the gift of my life from my husband that was completely unexpected. oral sex lol. It was great! However, it only happened once since then, and then last night I actually asked him if he would do that. with? lol ... I'm sure he knew that I liked, but why am I having to ask? Part of me wishes that he never tried to do that, because if he doesn't like it, so what? any advice?

Tell him that you need your pussy licked. He can do it or you can find another man to do it! May we see your lovely pussy?

Communication!
 

You have to talk to him! Find out what his issue is. Talk it out to clear the air. If he really doesn't like to do it, find out why. Maybe its mental, maybe its physical. All you can do is make sure you are showered and clean and then ask for it. I can't imagine a guy who doesn't like giving oral, but then I never met a woman who didn't like to receive it until I met my wife! (She doesn't care for it although she LOVES to give!) I assume you give him BJ's right? If he won't give, tell him he won't receive! Really, talk it out and good luck!

Put peanut butter on it!
 

Failing that just tell him how much you loved it and how you'll return the favour!

Talk it out. I refused for years after a period experience. Be showered and clean , use flavours if required but get yourself some!!

toothpaste
 

I agree. I use toothpaste.. it smell clean and fresh.. too bad it doesn't smile..

69 is the answer
 

My suggestion would be what I did with my wife.
I am making the assumption that you are giving but not receiving.
Start off giving him head then turn your body around and straddle his head.
If he doesn't start doing something with his tongue then lower your little kitten right onto his mouth.
If he still doesn't get the hint then you two need to have a conversation.

thats a shame
 

not to be blunt, but is there a underlying issue? ex..... Odor,hair,taste? Did he say he didn't enjoy? Do you perform oral on him? I know pineapple juice sweetens the load for men not sure if it works that way on women. best of luck. Alos i agree with the 69 idea.

Do you guys realize she has not logged on since he first post.

Lol!
 

Just look at all the useful information she'll have waiting for her when she does finally log back on! Maybe she found her own solution and, unlike us, now she's too busy to waste her time on the internet!