HOW TO GET WIFE TO CUCKOLD???
 

Have been married for 34 years. Sex life is not!!! Last year i set it with two guys to see how far it would go with out her knowing about it. The one guy pushed to fast and did not happen but made her very horny!!!! The second starred to fall in love with her. I got thru that. If she will let herself let lose it would probably happen but its got to be with the right guy! Any thoughts how? to make this happen ????

Softly softly catchee monkey
 

It's a really delicate matter to persuade your wife to take on another man. Make it a long-term project. In many ways it's a sort of a grooming exercise. I've always had a driving desire to watch another man fuck my wife - I've been very fortunate in that both of my marriages fulfilled this need. The opening step for me was to 'confess' to my wife that I'd had a really erotic dream about her... and then reluctantly letting her force me to tell her what it was about. I told her I was too ashamed to tell, but eventually admitted that it had been her having sex with me and another man. Of course she was shocked and speechless... I didn't bring it up again, and in the end her curiosity got the better of her. Who was the other man? I didn't know... just a man. Was I turned on by it? Shamefully, yes. Oh! And then I just left it. The seed was planted in her mind and it would grow. Next step was vital - when she brought the subject up again I made sure that she knew one hundred percent that I wasn't interested in any way in the third person being a woman. All of my lust focused on her. I joked that it was only a dream and that we don't have any control over them - women have fantasies about sports stars or film stars, men have fantasies about their own wives, subconscious or otherwise.

What stops a lot of women from agreeing to another man is her natural suspicion that she will be used as a bargaining chip for her husband to get his cock into the other man's wife, or that he will be entitled to some other extra-marital pussy in return. I continually reinforced my wife's confidence that I wasn't interested in other pussy... and ultimately I confessed that the idea of her pleasuring another man was a real turn-on for me. Again, I didn't press... I was in for the long game... I just let the idea grow in her mind and made sure I seized on every opportunity to develop the idea. These opportunities would usually occur in the middle of her menstrual cycle when she was ovulating. She would nibble on the bait... in the excitement of sex she would get more and more adventurous with her 'what if this' and 'what if that'... accepting my fantasies more and more as she got used to the idea. Most women get incredibly horny when they ovulate - that's the time to reel her in. My wife started asking me things like, "what would you think of me if I did it?' (so proud of you - I'd be really pleased with you! I won't be able to keep off you for months afterwards!). We began to fantasise together about it... she began to ask me who I thought would be suitable... where would we do it... and then finally, when should we do it? So at last I knew that it was no longer 'if', but 'when'! I can't describe how ecstatic I felt - my wife had agreed to let another man fuck her!

The whole timespan from the 'dream' to her agreement was about four months. It wasn't straightforward - a lot of uncertainty on her part as to my motives and a lot of questions. But it was always moving forward and deep down I knew from quite early on that she was up for it. But only when she was certain there was no ulterior motive. I would advise you to get familiar with your wife's cycle - every woman is a bit different - start your manoeuvre while she's ovulating, and any seed you can get planted, nurture it the next time... just be patient. And good luck;)

nice reply
 

Very interesting answer with some really good piece of advice! I will give it a try.
Also could you please tell us the story of how it actually happened and how you both felt afterwards?

Our true story.
I was my wife's first lover taking her cherry when we were 18 - 19 (neither of you mention if your wife had previous experiences with other guys before you in all that I have read so far), my wife was a sweet innocent Church going Catholic girl when we met at 17 "who never ever touches Alcohol then or now" every thing she has done she has done stone cold sober "out of pure lust I kid her".
We married at 20 - 21, after 10 or so years of marriage I started getting itchy feet, this was not long after the swinging 60's, when I first bought up the subject she never spoke to me for a week or more, I kept trying to wear her down, eventually I got her to join a nudist club, we were not members very long when we found out that their was an underground swinging group at the club, I worked our way into the outer fringe of that, it got to the stage where we made good friends with some of the swingers, in a way it was kinky sitting around with another two or three couples knowing that they were all swapping partners and talking about it openly in front of us, to start off with we were told that only swingers were allowed to attend their swinging parties but they did soften that rule a few times and we were allowed to attend a couple of parties to see what went on, but the wife would not budge on her no swinging stance, it was so frustrating, eventually I knew I was banging my head against a brick wall and I gave up all hope, but I did tell the wife that if ever she did change her mind I was all for it, under any circumstances at all.
With in six months of giving up I had to leave the wife at a party for work reasons, I arranged for her to get a lift home, the next morning when I arrived home she told me that she had been a naughty girl on the way home with Joe, the guy she got a lift home with, I told her that a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt any one, she replied "it was more than a kiss and cuddle", I was over the moon, the dam had burst "as I was to find out" and I swear that her pussy get different to me knowing that another cock had been there, we were 35 and had been married 15 years.
Word soon spread through the swingers at the nudist club and we were welcomed into the swinging scene with open arms "and legs", and my wife truly enjoyed her her found sexuality, to the extent that a few times I started to think that she was going a bit overboard, the way she dressed, going out with no knickers on, seeing a guy she fancied and going all out to get him into her knickers "if she had any on", I actually told her that I thought she was going a bit hard at it and she said I was the one that wanted her to be like that (true), if I did not like it she would stop, but I would never get her started again, so I had to put up with it even though she had me biting my tongue many a time, but looking back now I have no regrets.
We went through the swinging stage, then got into M F M threesomes with other guys joining the wife and I, I love seeing her going with other guys then joining in for silky seconds and juicy cream pies.
We are now 70 and have been married 50 years, we have two beautiful children (both have been through University) six grand children, and we are still very much in love, and still up for a play if the situation is right, life sure is good.
Rick.

How it happened
 

Pussy591 – It’s a long story, I think a blow-by-blow account would be a bit long-winded. To cut a long story short – we decided on finding someone suitable on a holiday abroad. We met a nice Norwegian gentleman and on our last night he came back to our room with us. We both had her at the same time, him fucking her from behind, my cock her mouth. He had her a second time in the missionary position while I watched and masturbated. We both agreed afterwards it had been a fantastically erotic experience and never had any regrets. In fact the morning afterwards we behaved like teenagers in love. It was weird, but what we’d done seemed to create some new sort of bond between us. We kept wanting to sneak a kiss from each other wherever we were. For many weeks we kept reliving the events of that night, telling each other parts that we’d got especially turned on by. For me, one real turn-on was the morning after seeing two used condoms in the bathroom bin! :)
For the record she was 39 and I was 45 when this happened – the Norwegian was early 40s.

Previous experience
 

Rick181au – Loved your account! My wife wasn’t ever an innocent Catholic girl, but she is ultra respectable – plays the organ in church on Sunday mornings :). I’m her second husband (she my second wife) so she had been with other men before me. No innocent virgin to deflower and corrupt. Well all right, just to corrupt! Like your wife she doesn’t drink – and nor do I when she’s going to take on a gentleman friend; I want to appreciate every moment and to recall every detail :)

That is great advice from Wife Scout.

If I might just add a couple of things (and perhaps stress a few more). You can not underestimate her feelings when you tell her of your fantasy. She will assume one of two things: 1. You don't love her anymore 2. You feel guilty about cheating on her (or as wife scout so wisely pointed out, you are after some strange yourself) Now, we all know that neither is true but women think differently than men and, by and large, attach too much emotion to the physical act. This is a HUGE obstacle that needs to be accounted for.

Once the seed has been planted, the best advice I can give it to innocently role play the act. A dildo with suction cup is invaluable in this role play. Tell her how gorgeous she is with another cock inside her. Ask her how it feels. Where she wants the stranger to cum. Things like that. Believe me, she will soon be thinking about it more than she will admit.

Also, never underestimate her desire to please you. Once you have reassured her time and time again that your feeling will not change towards her and, in fact, will grow deeper due to your trust in one another, she will WANT to do this for you.

One last thing, and this seems to be really important to women. It has to be a stranger. I'm telling you now, for some reason this is a HUGE requirement for most women. In other words, they don't want to run into them in a mall or out at a restaurant. Vacations seem to bring out the best here.

Hope this helps!!!

Strangers on Vacation
 

Totally agree with Videoboy – very good points you raised. I’m 100% with you on the stranger policy – when we were considering the ‘who?’ element we always arrived back at the same place where men we knew were concerned; the con’s always outweighed the pro’s. Like Videoboy pointed out, the prospect of running into the guy locally would make her uncomfortable – the consequences could cause her embarrassment, especially if the guy blabbed, which I’m sorry to say is probable. The rumour mill quickly ensures that family, friends and work colleagues all know what she’s been doing. If your wife’s a sl*t it can work fine playing close to home, but if she’s your average respectable, devoted wife (like mine) she can’t be subjected to those kind of risks. Protecting her reputation is vital.

A good friend of mine did fuck my first wife – but the circumstances were unusual. We had him round to dinner the night before he emigrated to a new life thousands of miles away and it happened then. She wouldn’t have done it if he hadn’t been leaving the country next day – and I wouldn’t have wanted her to. This was the only time anyone we knew has been involved.

Again, I agree with the vacation plan. It’s worked beautifully several times for us. The whole ambience of a holiday is tailor-made for achieving the objective. My wife wears things on holiday that she wouldn’t dream of wearing at home – I buy her ‘holiday’ mini-skirts which she wears gladly, even knowing that when she leans over the breakfast bar the men are checking out her panties! (Can’t persuade her to leave them off!!:)) She dresses and behaves like she’s available – all part of the search for a suitable male and a far cry from the conservatively dressed housewife who plays the organ in chapel on Sunday mornings!

Wow...so hot. My wife said she could never betray me when I floated the idea of how hot it would be to see her pleasure two men at once. We got to the "who" portion of the fantasy but I admitted that in my mind its always someone I dont know.
So the idea is out there. Sometimes while fucking her I will ask her to suck that other cock and I will trace my finger around her lips. She always goes to town on it. Sucking my finger like a cock while Im pounding her pussy.
Here is to hoping the idea takes roots!

Next up I will ask her to role play....to verbalize what the stranger is doing....what he wants....what she wants him to do, etc.

baby steps!

ROLEPLAY
 

Role Play in your sex sessions.....ask who she might like to fuck of your friends???

Or just make up unknown friends--NOT strangers----and play it......

ie:sex talk-----who did you fuck this week??
Your pussy feel full and used??
did you wear this outfit w him??
etc, etc..

Role play for months, it dosen't happen quick....if you don't have the long term patience to subliminally get her mind acclimated, don't bother trying at all......

Go to a swing club and watch ONLY..ONLY... don't push to do it........make her mind think about it slowly....

SOOOOOO many guys just push for quick results, and never get there, and usually cause their own problems in their marriage due to impatience....

Pics at the swing club....