So you think you can handle a 3some?
 

This has been a nagging thought/question that has been running through my mind recently...

Just about every man has the fantasy of bringing a third (or more) person into the bedroom with you and your girlfriend/wife. All of the porn videos, photos and stories all make is sound so amazing. But the "reality" of it is, as a guy, I would probably bust a nut the second my wife even opened the door to the possibility let alone being in a room with two women approaching me, touching each other, laying there hands on me, mouths, lips...crap see there it goes.

I guess what I'm getting at is how in the hell do you last more than 60 seconds with two women naked and willing to do your sexual bidding?

(of course if the opportunity ever arises, who would I be to turn it down)

It's a lot easier when the "3sum" is an MMF instead of MFF!

I've done a good number of MMF's and a few MFFs, but it's generally not a problem - while it's exciting, it's also nerve-racking as well, and much more so for the ones in the couple (I've usually been the 3rd wheel). But if you're a considerate partner at all, you're concerned that things go well, that you keep communicating during the process, that you can perform adequately, etc. It's MUCH more common for the guy to have hardness issues than it is to pop off too early!

And remember - most of the time it's not about "2 girls to please me" - it's more like "letting my wife explore with another woman, and I can watch and participate a bit."

So, go for it and don't sweat it!

We have experienced quite a few threesomes or more.
MMF/MFF/MFFF/MMMF.
I have heard many men brag about how they would do this or that in threesomes or group sex.
Speaking from experience, there is a certain amount of pressure to perform and can have different outcomes. Keeping a hard on can be one, if you do get hard then being relaxed enough to come can be another.
The fantasy is very different to the reality. If you do get lucky enough to be in the situation of playing with others the only tip.I could give is, relax!

I did a MMF once. One of the guys came too fast.
Once I got him to calm down and relax he did fine and when he did have His second It was deep.
What really made It work was the onther guy was calm and cool about the guys first quick shot.

Have not posted before, but I have been lucky to have more ffm sessions than I can count, mostly with the same two ladies. (a complicated tale ) . My thoughts and advice - it is helpful if the ladies are into each other as more positions and options are available. Have positions thought out, you on your back, one on your dick the other on your face - if the girls are into each other have them face each other. Another variation, have one on your dick reverse cow girl and the other gal get easier access to her boobs and can have a vibrator or toy as well. Position that works well is lay on your side , bothe girls lay on their backs, while on your side you can put your dick in one and also lick the other.

This way if your feeling as if your going to finish to soon, change to a new position, it helps. Good luck.

Reality doesn't always equal Fantasy
 

Hi! The husband is writing here.

We have had a few MMF 3-somes. The thing I was very surprised about the first time was how after years of thinking it would be a great arousing experience, it ended up being rather boring. I spent most of the time making sure she was ok, and not enjoying it myself. The most enjoyment I got out of the experience was seeing my sexy wife from a perspective I had never had before while she was having sex.

I think everyone will have a different experience, so I am not saying to expect that you won't enjoy it. What I am saying is that I REALLY thought I knew how I would feel, but I was wrong. So be prepared to be surprised, and have a backup plan on how to let your significant other know if you need to call it off. And if it turns out you're really enjoying it, then rock on!

Never been in FMF threesome.
But been in several MFM ones ... and the one I really enjoyed were those where the two men weren't afraid of contact. That solves the 'boredom' problem @WeRunWithScissors mentioned - because then you can be 'involved' even when you're not actually interacting with the one woman that's there.

Most of my experiences were me and one of my (now-ex) wives, with another guy. So, when it was another guy that didn't mind a little contact, it was a blast. I found that it was more exciting for her, him and me, if I played with her body while they were f*cking - and he would do the same.

I was in ONE threesome where there was no relationship (it was at a swinger weekend - and the three of us had just met.) There was male-male contact allowed - and it was fun and exciting. But honestly, it paled in comparison to all of those I had with my wife and another man.

One of my second ex-wife's favorite partners was adamant about no male-male contact. He wouldn't even be on the bed when I was f*ucking her ... and didn't really like me on the bed when he was ... that wasn't near as much fun for me as it was for her.

i've had two MFF threesomes with my wife (then girlfriend) and a friend. i had no trouble getting hard. i did have a little trouble trying to last for a while. i was pretty drunk and was wearing a condom, so that helped. i still had to take a couple breaks to just go down on one of them so i wouldn't finish early. both times i managed to last about 30 minutes, which isn't too bad. like someone else said, it helps a lot if the girls are into each other. there is less pressure, and you don't always have to be having sex. you can get pretty creative with positions. my favourites were lying on my back, the friend riding me and my girlfriend sitting on my face. i think they were facing each other, but i don't remember for sure. another good one was doing the friend doggy style while she went down on my girlfriend. we were all cool with it, so no one was insecure, jealous, etc. that would definately ruin the experience. i think it's something every guy and bisexual woman should try at least once.

I had a sort of threesome in the past year. I went out of town with my best friend Jim to where our friend Donna was going to college. Donna's pretty conservative, so this won't be about her. Anyway we celebrated one of our birthdays and on the second night in town got kind of drunk. (there was a sober driver). Donna's friend Ellen asked if she could crash with Jim and I at the hotel. She's also recently single. Once when she and Donna were in town I crashed at their hotel and 'slept' with Ellen, but clothed on the covers because she was in a relationship. Well this time we stumbled in to sleep. Ellen started stripping almost instantly, and I knew I was going to try something with her. I was confident I could get something out of it. She got in bed, and I stripped to my shorts and got in with her. Jim got in his bed. I shortly started putting my hand into her panties. She pushed me away from her pussy, but didn't take my hand out, so I just ran my hand across her ass. A little more time went by and she put her hand down my shorts and started to masturbate me. I slipped them off and let her do her thing. I was so loaded though that cumming was a bit hard. I had lube in my bag and grabbed that. It helped a little but I wasn't into it. She went over to Jim and the two of them fooled around a bit. Then she said she wanted to be in between two guys, and after Jim and I said we weren't doing anything together, she said 'that's fine'. So I got on the other side of her and she played with me again till I came. That unfortunately sent my heart racing so much I finally puked the booze lol. At some point she also completely took off her panties. When I woke up the next morning Jim was in the other bed and I was naked with Ellen, who was still bottomless. She was ass toward me most of that time but when she finally rolled onto her back I got to see her mostly shaved pussy. Thought I saw a few hairs but I was looking under the sheets, so I could be wrong. She woke up and I got up to pee. She said 'omg' as I walked nude to the bathroom. I told her 'Why should I feel embarrassed after all we did?' 'Good point', she replied. I got back in bed with her and asked if she's prefer if I put some shorts on. 'No, it's ok' she said. Later that day when we were dressed and alone she told me its been a while for her and she was working out relationship stuff, which is why she pushed me away from getting her off. I told her I would have loved too and she said 'thanks' but she's not ready for a guy to do that to her right now. I said ok, and that's mostly been the end of it.

I didn't have any problems sharing Ellen in our drunk silliness, but that's the extent to which I'd do a threesome again. Doesn't bother me to see a naked guy or even see him doing sexual things, but I don't want to play with him that way, which I know happens in some threesomes

follow-up kind of...
 

Ok, so it's agreed that 3somes are an amazing thing...but what are your parameters?

Would you never do a MMF, or is it worth a little MM contact (or even exciting) to get a 3some in under your belt.

What's your gauge on female attractiveness? Is an MFF worth a little cringing in the morning?

Does an MFF trump weight (assuming that turns you off)?

Where is the line? Is there one?