Getting my wife started
 

Ok I've only recently discovered this part of the forum, but I have an issue I'd welcome your help with. My wife (32) is pretty conservative in daily life, but a bit racy in bed. We've recently started fantasising during sex about same-room sex with another couple. Fantasy has only gone as far as the other guy touching her boobs, but we both get turned on by it.

I'm pretty keen to try it out, but this fantasy thing is something we never discuss outside of bed. I have no idea how to take it further, so I'd welcome any thoughts and suggestions.

I'm also keen to get her to post some anonymous pics on the site, but again, no idea how to go about that.

Does anyone have experience of persuading a wife/gf to do anything like that?

Look forward to hearing from you ...

J

Id stay well clear if I were you ? I know a couple that did many years ago and it destroyed their marriage, there is a huge amount of difference between fantasy and reality - it don't happen like you see in porn films and there will be a whole heap of baggage

just my thoughts

Thanks for that - maybe that's right. I wonder if the posting thing is less risky though - it's still quite fantasy-based. At least, more than the same room sex.

Try posting
 

If she is ok with it, take some shots of her, (not showing her face) and post here. You will get comments and a chance for both of you to see if you like the reactions or not. Also it can be a thrill to both of you to go out especially when out of town and have her go braless in public. Usually leads to great sex afterward. Check out my page I have pics of my wife and a true story of a night we spent while out of town.

It works out for some, not for others. The most common factor in successful tries is communication - talk to her, comfort her, make her feel your constant love and support. If she feels pushed at all, that will plant a seed of resentment that will later bloom into anger. But if it's a journey you're both on, together, safely, then she'll be more likely to take it further.

Hard to tell whether it'll just be a phase for her, or a longer interest or even passion, but only time will tell.

BE PATIENT. That's the hardest part, but the best play.

Good luck!

The famous San Francisco philosopher, Harry Callahan, put it this way:

"You've got to ask yourself a question. 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do you, punk?"


There are three outcomes. Two of which are not good. #1: she'll hate it and it will be your fault. #2: she'll like it, but will feel very guilty about it, and it will be your fault. #3: she'll like it, and appreciate that you like her enjoyment, feel the same way about you, and everything will work out.


Think about the Callahan question. You know your wife, I'd don't so I can't tell you what to do.

A few pics
 

Here are a few pics snapped with my iphone while she was dozing the other morning. Poor quality but the light was not good. What do you think?

I wouldn't mind waking up to a bottom like hers :o It looks great

Yes very squeezable and lickable too (which drives her wild). Hmmm this unaware posting is quite exciting...

More
 

Definately need to post more.