QUESTION about wives/girlfriends past....
 

Hello all. A few questions:

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?

2)If so, what is the number?

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

I am very interested in getting some feedback. Thanks for your honest answers.

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? Yes

2)If so, what is the number? 5

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Yep, very much so

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? Nope

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? I ask, but she doesnt like to discuss must is very interesting to know...

What are your answers?

1: yes
2: 0
3: yep
4: no not really
5: yes we do.. but since she never hade actual intercourse with a other man there is not much to talk about, the jerk off's or bj's not that hot to talk about :)

1: yes
2: 33
3: she is telling the truth. I knew some of it already.
4: No she still sleeps with other men now.
5: often talk about past events, makes us both horny!

Here are my answers:

1)Yes
2)7
3)No
4)Yes
5)No - although I do want to know more about it.

33???? Wow, she was certainly a popular girl!

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? NO

2)If so, what is the number? unknown

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? don't think she would if asked

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? No

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? We never talk about it

I would like to know but we just have never asked each other in almost 30 years.

1) yes

2) one, the one she was with when i met her

3) yes, the way she act tells me so

4) no

5) yes, i asked about her past experience

1st wife

1) yes

2) 0

3) yes...the blood on the sheets from the hymen gave it away.. lol

4) no

5) some.. she didn't have much to speak of..


2nd wife

1) yes

2) 4

3) yes

4) no

5) yes.. some interesting stuff there, but you'd have to be a bit kinky to think so.

She was always friendly and for most part still is. Still has a couple of boyfriends now and sometimes just a one off quickie with some one. We have been together for over 25 years and her attitude makes me horny as hell.

dogwog,

You are a more confident man than I could ever be. That would drive me nuts lol!

robert69

Robert69,
I am confident that she loves me, we have no secrets from each other. Some of her lovers know a fair bit about us and some know very little. She spends nights away on a semi regular basis and that is the way we like it.

Very nice arrangement you have! I do sometimes wish mine was a little more freaky. You are a lucky man.

1) No, neither does she for sure
2) Actual sex, probably around a hundred or so. Oral sex, no idea - hundreds and hundreds for sure
3) Yes, she is very open with me about herself
4) No
5) Yes, all the time. In college (this was like 20 years ago) she and a friend earned money with a "sex menu" - blowjob was $10, topless blowjob was $15, naked blowjob was $20, sex was $50. They priced it to discourage sex and encourage oral. She says that some weeks she made $200 plus just on blowjobs. They did it for 2 years before they graduated.

Question
 

1. Do I know how many guys? Maybe
2. Number of guys? She "hints" at only 2
3. Is she telling the truth? I doubt it, it's probably more like 5 or 6
4. Does the number of men matter? Not really. Hey she's cute, with a nice sexy body and I really can't blame those guys for trying to get into her pants or for getting between her legs and having some fun whacking her pussy!! It is very, VERY good and it was available!!
5. Do we ever discuss her previous sex life? She's told me a few things but I'm sure she's done LOTS more than what she ever has let on to. Just like my ex most women don't like to reveal their sexual past because they don't want others to know how wild they could get or can get if the mood is right! Most are probably afraid of what we'll think about them.

Great feedback from all, thank you!

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? YES

2)If so, what is the number? 5

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? YES

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? NO

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? NO

1) yes
2) 2
3) pretty sure
4) turns me on :D
5) try, but she is shy

1&2) Before me the 1st time, 0. Before me the 2nd time, over 20

3) yes, no reason to lie

4) no, it just means she isn't a prude :)

5) yes she tells me about some of them, her 1st black guy, etc.

1. I’ve known this about most of my Girlfriends.

2. B = 0, C = ?, JK = 0, R = 53, JB =15, K = ?, H = ?, D = 1

3. Yeah

4. No.

5. I've asked about past sex life experiences with most of them. I like knowing her favorites. I don’t ask about the other guy’s cock size.

How about some pictures of the wife or girlfriend from her past? Has anyone found secretly stashed photos?

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1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?Yes Now

2)If so, what is the number? First time she told me 5 after we got into the swinging lifestyle 13 before me

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Yes

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? No she has slept with more after

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? Yes but she says no one compares to my tongue skills and a fuck buddy of hers cock size

I have a good contribution for this thread....Instead of answering this question for question, its more of a story related to the topic. I have been dating the same girl for 5 years now. We are just a couple years out of college, engaged now. She's a beautiful redhead, spirited, and a bit modest, until she drinks, then can be easily influenced around fri (on more than one occasion, a pool and alcohol has led to her ending up in the pool naked. (as long as she's not the only one)

Anyway, we have always been mostly open about everything involving each other's past. neither of us are jealous people. With the exception of maybe 2 people, she has slept only with people she said she was dating. Blowjobs are a different story, but anyway, 2 summers ago we had broken up, or taken a break more like it. It lasted for the summer, and by the fall we were back together. During the break she had admitted to 'seeing' someone else. We agreed to lay everything on the line so that there would never be any surpises or questions about what happened. She gave every detail, as long as I would be okay with it. I had no problem hearing, and she admitted to every last detail, things like he ejaculated in large amounts, and that he even got anal one night when she was really drunk, and that while she considered him 'a boyfriend' he really was just a summer rebound and it was completely based on sex.

So fast forward a year to this past summer. Every summer her friends get a beach house together and stay for a week or 2. So the following summer we were back together and I had accompanied them. I know most of her friends, and all have always been friendly towards me. there were 9 of us there, and so, not much privacy in the house. Only 1 shower too, but there's an outside shower used for rinsing off from the beach, that some people would use as a real shower. Only problem with that is it's not walled up completely. There is only 1 way to get to the backyard, and that is from the fence on the right side of the house, and the entire backyard has tall vinyl fence.
The shower head is attached to the house, and there is a wall between that shower head and where the fence gate is. Otherwise you are in the open. (and I'll have some 'embarrassing nude' stories about this to follow next time)
Anyway on more than one occasion we would get a quicky in there in that shower. It wasn't a mystery, we werent the only couple to do it either, gives you a little privacy, and the thrill of doing it outside.

Anyway, staying there also is this guy named Luke, who was always good spirited, and ended up being probably the guy i spent the most time with there.

So one night her friend Kelly says to me how she's glad I am cool with Luke after everything. I ask her what she means. She tells me how Luke was the guy my girlfriend had been with the previous summer, and asked if she ever told me about that. I told her yes, she told me every detail, just didnt point out that this was the guy. Kelly drunkely than goes on how the outside shower was her favorite spot with him too and all this other stuff. Was a little awkward and while i wasn't angry at all, i was a little taken back by the fact that the guy i would hang out with at the bar there had been banging my girlfriend last summer, and still talking with me and her as if nothing had ever happened.

Like I said I'm not the jealous type, but while she had told me everything, this was still a surprise.

Yep, it was three or four for intercourse plus a few others for BJ's, petting, etc. The number doesn't matter, but I do find myself very turned on listening to her tell me about it. We've talked openly over the years, and I vividly remember each story, but whenever the topic comes up I "have trouble" remembering and enjoy hearing her reluctantly talk about it all over again.

We've even taken one of her past experiences and made it ours. She told me how she once went down on a guy in a movie theater and I told her that the next time we had the opportunity she would have to give me the same pleasure. It took some time, but we eventually did...and wow!

To continue my story,

I knew the history of my girlfriend and Luke, just didnt know that I was sharing a beach house with Luke the summer after he used it with my girlfriend when we were on a 3 month break.
So as her friend Kelly mentioned it, I was slightly surprised. I admitted to Kelly that my girlfriend shared most of the details, but still not the whole picture. I convinced her to tell me what she knew, telling her I should know whatever other people in the house knew so I would feel a little less humiliated.

She gave me a much more clear picture. She tried to soften the blow by always throwing in there that my girlfriend would still always talk about me, and that Kelly knew she was never over me, but followed that with a story of how my girlfriend one night drunkenly walked naked and with cum all over her back through what she thought was a sleeping house, all to get get a towel from the bathroom to clean up.

I asked, aside from that, did everyone know about them, and Kelly told me they would often disappear, and everyone knew why.

I still wasn't jealous, just thought how can I save face, as my girlfriend was known basically as the house nympho last summer with this guy Luke, and here we were sharing the house with him. I decided to embrace it. The next night while playing drinking games. It wasn't so much planned, but just happened. While playing Kings, the card for Never Have I Ever was drawn, and when it was my turn to state something, I stated, "Never have I ever had sex with..(my girlfriend....while in the shower outside)...It got dead silent for a moment, and then I raised my glass, and said 'Luke, cmon,' and tapped glasses and said cheers.

My girlfriend was temporarily mortified, but I just winked at her, and whispered a few minutes later, (its not like everyone didnt know, we're even now for you not telling me it was him)

She played a long, and was a good sport about anything else that came up, and actually tried to trump me and embarrass me a little later on,

I'm exhausted though, I'll go into that more next time.

1) yes
2) 4, including her ex-husband.
3) yes
4) no - because we are married and she still has something going with others on the side.
How do I know? I do the laundry, those stains are not mine. But I fool around also.
5) I tried, she won't talk about it.

A bit different....
 

My wife and I started dating young, and we were each other's first. We have lived a more exciting life through her sister who now is happily married with many kids,but was a wild child. She lived with us for two years and she had boyfriends, one night stands, parties where she would disappear with several guys at a time, wore short skirts with no panties, and unlined bathing suits that showed everything when wet. We never knew who would be in our apartment in the mornings, and sometimes there would be more than one guy that had stayed the night. She would gladly tell us of her experiences, down to how big they were, did they go down on her, screw her in her butt, or how they tasted when she blew them. She even kept a rating system on how many times she came. One night I was walking our hound and went behind my first floor apartment to see about 6 or 7 guys standing there, drinking beer and looking through her bedroom window watching her service two guys at once. They said she never closed the blinds and there was a show a couple of nights a week. One said he discovered the show one night when he chased some kids away from the window, and saw what had gotten their attention. To my surprise, the window was actually up and bit and you could hear her groans through the screen. The apartment had a/c, and we usually kept the windows closed tight. I was concerned that the guys, some of whom I knew, would think it was my wife, not her sister, but everyone seemed to know who it was.

I got a call one day about noon, from a college about 100 miles away. I knew my sister-in-law had gone there with a girlfriend for a concert, but had not returned. That was not unusual. The guy on the phone asked if I could come get her. I drove up that afternoon and found the guy in one of the boy's dorms, and he walked me to a common room with sofas, chairs and a TV. My sister-in-law was passed out on the sofa nude, with her legs spread wide open and cum all over her. Her clothes were nowhere to be found. He got her an old sweatshirt and we lifted her, only to hear her fight us to put her down. When I laid her back down, more cum had just rolled out and down her left leg. Her vagina was gaping open, and her lips bright red. Clearly she had been on drugs, or was given drugs and booze. There were also some of the negatives lying around from where someone had taken Poloroid photos. Remember, this was the 1970's. We finally got her into my car, in the backseat with a beach towel under her. Several times on the trip back, she had taken off the sweatshirt and was sitting up so anyone could see her. I kept the windows down, and the fresh air seemed to bring her around some so by the time we were home at the apartment, she just hopped out of the car and strolled to the door, naked, and just stood there until I got to it with a key. When she walked in, our male dog went after her like she was Lassie in heat. I had never seen him so turned on, and she just laughed it off and she and the friendly pooch went back to her room. I didn't see her for 3 days, and then she acted like nothing had happened. I have no idea if she remembered anything that happened. She never mentioned it, and never thanked me for getting her.

Once she met her final boyfriend, now husband, she stopped, and to hear her now, she was a virgin when she got married.

I appreciate her openness and freedom, and my wife and I loved hearing her tell her reviews of the guys she saw. Looking back, it was truly a different time.

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? Yep

2)If so, what is the number? 8

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Yep

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? Nope

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

Yes, we did. It was horny to hear about what she did. But our sexlife now is much more interesting. We are together for over 20 y. now and she has had over 80 men, mostly together with me, but also alone.
I love it when she shows her goodies to other men and get laid by them. She loves me from the bottom of her heart, prefers mostly to have sex only with me, but is also turned on a lot to play some kinky games with others.

[QUOTE=MrJR;667902]1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? Yes

2)If so, what is the number? 0

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Yes

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? No

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

I try to, and every once and a while I get something hot out of her, but it usually makes her feel uncomfortable.

4)Well since you believe she never slept with anyone before I guess you wouldn't care because there were none..
5)Why is she uncomfortable about talking about an experience she never had..:confused:

1)Yes
2)4 including her ex and 1 was a one timer.
3)Yes
4)There is a limit I would accept.
5)Very little and I don't push it.

Wives History
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? I think I know. She has told me that She was only with one other guy before me.

2)If so, what is the number?She swears that he was the only other guy to ever have his cock inside her, however....There was a time in our marrige when things were rough. I got drunk made out with a girl at a dance club. When my wife found out, she confessed that she had ended up at my best friends house once and that they were drunk and made out on his couch.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?I don't think she is telling me the truth. Supposidly this is the one and only time this ever happened, but she cannot remember any of the details (claims that she was mad at herself and put ot out of her mind) I know I can remember ever detail of making out with Mandy, and my wife's memory is better. Not to mention that I confronted Shane about it, and his story is different. Yes he admits they made out, but it was outside a dance club. My wife cannot remember if her top stayed on or not. Personally I think they fucked, or she sucked him off. When he and his girlfriend moved in with us there was alot of tension between my wife and her. I didn't know why at the time, but now I realize that it was the kind of tension you get when two ladies have fuck the same guy in a room.

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?No, I wish I knew they fucked, to me that is hot as hell. I want to watch her get fucked.

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?Yes, but she sware I am perfect for her and that is all she wants.

I am very interested in getting some feedback. Thanks for your honest answers.

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Yes

2)If so, what is the number?
5

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
yep

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Not at all

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Not really, but I'd like to know more.

My Second Wife Julie
 

1) Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Not really, I learn more on a regular basis.

2) If so, what is the number?
I know of at least 25 so far.

3) Do you think she is telling you the truth?
Yes, Julie enjoys telling me and I enjoy hearing it.

4) Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
No. I am 20 years older than Julie and I knew she had a history when we got together.

5) Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Yes, a lot. It turns me on to hear her stories. She explains that she "had a lot of fun with a lot of people and wouldn't change it if she could."

It's pretty entertaining sometimes. She told me about being stopped by the police in the desert one night near Las Vegas when she was in college The officers could smell the pot smoke in the car. It ended with one officer standing against the drivers door and window getting his cock sucked by Julie and his partner standing against the passenger window getting his cock sucked by her friend. Apparently they were chatting over the roof of the car as they were getting serviced. Julie and her friend sucked them off, swallowed and the cops let them off with a warning. Go figure!

Wife's History
 

1. Yes, sort of. She was an "easy" date. In the beginning I was one of many.

2. Dozens.

3. Yes.

4. Not at all. I find it exciting.

5. Talking about it is a frequent part of our foreplay. My fantasy is to watch her with others. She won't do that but plays up to the fantasy by telling me about her past.

Any more details about this story? Also, was it the cop that asked for it or did she and her friend make the offer?

History
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Yes

2)If so, what is the number?
12 - 3 of them with me watching

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
yes

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Not at all

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Yes, we often tell each other erotic stories based on past experiences as well as more recent times... very horny

1 - Yes
2 - Three (up to about five, depending on where you draw the line, and more if you count guys since we first started dating - during break ups, group sex, etc)
3 - Definitely
4 - Not at all. She's actually slept with the least people out of everyone I've ever slept with!
5 - Fairly regularly. I try not to talk about my exes so much as she's a little self concious, but I don't mind hearing "So and so did it better by doing this" - always good to learn :D
Hope that helps!

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
yes, she told me

2)If so, what is the number?
2

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
i don't know, guess no

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
yes, somehow it makes me horny

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
only general aspects

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?

Pretty sure. If anything I don't know about, it was non-consensual.

2)If so, what is the number?

2. Sometimes she pretends it's 1, I think because it was lousy, but I don't care how many.

3) Do you think she is telling you the truth?

Yes.

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?

No.

I've been with virgins and with sl*ts, and like Woody Allen says - even the worst orgasm was right on the money.

She's entitled to the same.

5) Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

Not really. She's pretty emphatic that I'm the biggest. :D I've told more than she has. She can tell me whatever she wants to, and I tell her whatever she wants to know. She's definitely curious about my exes at times.