Sex while sleeping?
 

The crown princess of Norway 's out of wedlock son, Marius Borg-Høyby is awaiting the verdict after having been put on trial for having r a p e d several girlfriends of his by having sex with them while they were asleep. In all cases, they got drunk, had sex, and then went to sleep, before having sex again, and here the question was weather the girl was asleep or not. (Evidence of sexual conduct: his video recordings plus woman's pulse watch. Typically, they fucked like rabbits, but the police construed that one of the intercourses took place while the woman was asleep).

But, I'm wondering: does anyone here do this regularly in their relationship, or would performing sex acts on a sleeping partner be something you consider to be unacceptable?

I'm married and only have sex with my husband.
If he enjoys me in my sleep, no problem.
I can't wrap my brain around willingly having sex, then pursuing criminal charges against my partner because I didn't give specific consent later. 😕

Wow, Carrie you always seem to Amaze Me!
 

I hope you don't mind me asking, but do You sleep in the NUDE?
I'm sure trying to enjoy any type of pleasure with you while your sleeping should wake you Up!
But just watching You sleeping would be a pleasure all by itself showing the Pillows!
:p

Sometimes nude
Sometimes in flannel
Sometimes it's hot
Sometimes it's cold

[QUOTE=Sonera;3625194]The crown princess of Norway 's out of wedlock son, Marius Borg-Høyby is awaiting the verdict after having been put on trial for having r a p e d several girlfriends of his by having sex with them while they were asleep. In all cases, they got drunk, had sex, and then went to sleep, before having sex again, and here the question was weather the girl was asleep or not. (Evidence of sexual conduct: his video recordings plus woman's pulse watch. Typically, they fucked like rabbits, but the police construed that one of the intercourses took place while the woman was asleep).
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Follow the money

I never missed a chance to creep on my wife, sometimes she was passed out or asleep. Either way she didnt really mind, she loved me, plus she knew I would fall asleep soon after ejaculating on her. Often just standing over her and enjoying the view. Once or twice I went outside and watched her thru the window. Following the thread, I was having sex while she was sleeping...

The guy is, regardless of how the trial goes, a huge asshole, by all accounts. The relationships he had with these girls were not stable, long-term relationships, and besides having non-consensual intercourse with them while they were asleep, he filmed them at the same time, also without consent.
The girls were never made aware of the fact that he did this by him, some were actually informed by the police who found the footage on his phone after his first arrest.

This is a serious crime and not comparable to an implicit agreement of being available for sexual activities when you’re asleep as you describe.

If he’s found guilty I hope they lock him away for a long time.

This is Norway, not the US. Not much money to be had, there won’t be millions in settlements or lawsuits, the victims are usually awarded a fairly small amount of money, depending on whether there are physical damage or long-lasting injuries, and whether there has been a financial loss due to the assault. It’s usually around 15k US dollars or slightly higher if there is serious injuries or financial loss.
Nobody in their right mind will go through the whole aggravating process for that amount of money (this isn’t a life-changing amount of money in Norway by far).

Personally, I don’t find this to be a subject to make light of, nor do I find the victim blaming apparent in the comments appropriate, to be honest.

Yes
 

My girlfriend has given her enthusiastic consent for this, and told me that when she sleeps on her side with her back to me, she feels like she is offering me her ass.

I have taken her up on that offer quite a few times.

While she slept, I would slowly slip my hand against her, gradually pressing harder but not moving enough to wake her up. My plan was to make her wet, maybe inspire her to dream, grinding and opening her legs slightly, then clamping down on my hand. I was trapped! What if she woke up and caught me being weird? Slowly I pulled gently out of my situation when she changed positions. Not one to waste an opportunity, I took a polaroid of her, a trophy to preserve the moment. Priceless keepsake..

A guy wanting sex? THAT'S your idea of being weird? Hahaha

I was just writing a post on the blowjob thread, in it I mention a girl from uni.

That same girl explicitly said to me that if I ever wanted to fuck her whilst she was drunk, passed out, or asleep I should just go ahead and do so. I didn't do it very often but I did fuck her a few times when we rolled home drunk and she was half passed out, also in the morning and the middle of the night when asleep. I always told her if I had done and she was always fine about it.

Sometimes she would fuck me when I didn't want it, I would a raging hangover and just want to sleep but she just went ahead and pleased herself on my morning Wood while I tried to sleep.

I agree that filming women naked without them being aware of it, and watching said films as they are circulating the Internet, is gross and totally unacceptable, and definitely should be punished :/

However, the serious charge here is **** R-A-P-E of a sleeping person, not the recording of film. Here, I am more ambivalent.

Okay, to clarify: the police found the videos on the guys phone, when he was arrested in a different case.

This means the police are prosecuting the case without the women having pressed charges. It's the police, and public procecutor, which say this is a crime.

My wife grabs me when I am sleeping. She will stroke me, then blow me until my cock is hard and slick, then she will straddle me and ride me until she cums. If I cum first, she will make me hard again and then continue with riding me until she is fully satisfied. Then she rolls over and falls asleep.

???
 

Maybe I'm missing something....BUT why would you want to have sex with someone sleeping???...its like having sex w the dead.

The guy charged says the same. But, it's possible somebody was a bit drowsy?

Anyway, this stuff happened years ago, everyone probably had forgotten almost all about this, until the police found the videos.

Several of my friends have enjoyed taking a little peak at my wife after she was drinking wine and fell asleep naked.

Twice
 

Twice I’ve woken up to find the girlfriend of the time had my cock in their mouth. The first time I’d fallen asleep on a sofa and the girl wanted it bad. The second time we were in bed in the early morning. That girl said that since I had an erection she’d assumed I was awake. She hadn’t known that it’s normal for men to get nocturnal erections while asleep.

Not certain I knew that either. You guys should cum with a manual. Haha

yes
 

Sleeping hard ons are fun... but you still have to wake up to enjoy the sex

Ditto
 

Same - I woke up half pissed thinking I had a wet dream and found some girl I was talking to at the party was sucking my dick.

Not sure I would proceed if the girl didn’t wake up but have many times started teasing a sleeping Gf/ wife / partner to then have sex but she was awake by that point - a limp rag ain’t much fun in the hey

Passed Out Party sl*t
 

Posted in other threads, wife partied a little to much. Carried her up to our bedroom and had a brillant idea since I was a little fuzzy myself. So I stripped her and left her on the bed with the door open, which was in plain view of the bathroom. After a few hours of more party I forgot my deed and went to check up on her. Well the sight was quite should I say erotic or stunning as she seemed to be covered and full of man happiness. I took this polaroid and enjoyed many of spilling my seed in rememberance, but never told her how many I think enjoyed her by how many smiles I seen by my friends. In the morning I told her we had great sex, but did not tell her there was 6 polaroids missing from the camera I left on the dresser, Whoops!