Have you ever been asked after breaking up if you still have “those photos”?!
 

I’ve taken pictures of as many partners that were willing over the last 28 years and I kept them on a thumb drive for safe keeping. Most have never inquired but a few have messaged me or asked me in person years later “you don’t still have those naked pictures you took of me do you?!” I always enjoyed those moments where I say that I absolutely still have those photos. They usually blush and make a comment about how I need to delete those. And I always tell them that no ones seen them but me, and I have no intentions of deleting them because they’re my keepsakes. Something about them knowing I still have them has always been a turn on for me

Exes
 

I have a ton of pictures of my ex wife and three ex girlfriends. None of them ever asked. Of course, they each knew I had pictures of the woman/women before them, so they probably generally knew I would keep them and use them and show them to other women I fucked after them.

None of them ever asked.

I have one ex who sent me pictures and videos of her (mostly getting fucked in the ass) 35 years after we broke up. So, she knows too. Lol

Ex wife knew where all the film photos were and took them all when I wasn't home :( She was cute spinner, but nothing I wanted to keep anyway.

I have topless on beach pics of an ex gf. Taken on film,she took the prints but didnt think to take the negatives so i got new prints created !!

That’s what happened to my wife. A boyfriend before we started dating took some nude photos of her. When they broke up, she got the prints and, unfortunately for me, destroyed them. We were talking about it after we were engaged and I asked if she got the negatives. She had a deer in headlights look and said she didn’t think of that.

I don’t know if the guy kept them and/or made new prints but I like to think that he did.

I use to have a bunch of Polaroids of my first wife, but she got ahold of most of them. There was one time after I divorced her that we were screwing, and she asked if I still had any naughty photos of her. I replied back to her by asking if her then fiancee had any naughty ones of her, that stop’t that conversation rather quickly lol.

I think I have images of every girl I have been in a relationship with except one , the further back you go the less there are and the poorer quality due to the costs involved with getting film developed back then and the quality of cheap cameras.
As the years went by people who knew me also knew that I became a keen amateur photographer and it was kind of expected that at some point the subject would come up.
I have always promised every one of them that I would never show the pictures to anyone else and I never have.
Coming from a relatively small town ( not all have been from my local area ) at least some of them know one or more of my exes so I guess they might have asked amongst themselves if my word was good on this.
There is always one question which comes up though to the point of me just waiting for it , I am always asked if they can have a look at some exe's pictures I have taken previously - if I pass this test by refusing then usually all is good.
I have also done some shoots with girls who weren't really models but either wanted some cash or just some boudoir type photos for themselves.
I never mention them to anyone but I know at least one of them has shown the shots to one of her friends because she then approached me to do a similar set for her.
I was only asked to delete everything twice , once during a breakup, but she changed her mind and once by a later partner of an exe who only guessed at their existence.

I have a few Polaroids of my wife from the late 80s and tons of digital from the mid 90s going forward. My first BFF I have thousands of videos and photos. About 50 of her younger sister. I shared my BFF’s photos with her sister. That’s what prompted me taking photos of the sister. The BFF know I have the photos but has never asked me to delete them. Her sister has asked I never share her photos but never asked me to destroy them.
My current BfF asks me not to video and photograph our sex sessions. I never listen. Every so often she asks me to delete the photos which I say no. I have thousands of videos and photos of her

I've had friends ask and if they do, I share

Mine took every last negative also regardless of what was on them .

Yes indeed!
 

I have been taking semi-nude and nude photos of my girlfriends (and my wife) since the early 1980s. I have been interested in photography since around 1976 or 1977.

If you take the photo(s) and the subject doesn't have a problem with it at the time of the photo(s), the photo(s) belong to the photographer... Period. You are not required to delete them.

That being said, the model has to have been of legal age at the time of the photos, and they have to be sober.

You could have them sign a release form at the time, but it's not necessary if you are intimate with the model.

Now, if you make those photos public, you might have a problem without a model release form. Especially if they were only intended for your eyes. This is where a lot of the old one-step Polorid photos fall. It's sort of a gray area. Most of those were never intended to be shown outside of the people involved and a few close friends.

If you are taking photos of a paid model, always have them sign a release form. They will expect it anyway.

Again, you are not required to delete old photos that you have personally taken. Especially if they are in your private collection.

I had an old gf that was getting married. We have mutual friends that were at the wedding & some know the groom as well. We took a ton of pictures of her nude and of us doing various sex acts.

Out of the blue she contacted me & asked if I still had the pictures or if anyone has seen them. I told her I got rid of those phones, cameras, memory cards or computers a long time ago. But I remove & keep most hard drives & have a lot of my old phones.