My wife sounds just like your wife...I'd love to chat with you about how I've dealt with the same situation as you

I would recommend not posting her pics without her consent, however, there is hope. When webcams first came out I tried to talk my wife into exposing herself to guys, she was not budging, she didn't want to do it at all. Then one day I was showing her that she could chat with people all over the world, we linked with a guy far away, she was having regular chat with him, then her started to flirt with her, a few compliments and before I knew it she was topless while he was jacking off for her. She got braver and braver to the point that she really liked these long distance sexual encounters.

So, the right circumstances, maybe some tame pics, if she sees how much guys appreciate her, minds can change.

Like with anything in life, if it's good, you gotta work for it.
I think for most women you have to build to it. You just can't expect her to do it off the bat.
Not sure what she will and won't do, but lingerie is a good first step. Then there are a multitude of things you can do to build it up.
Start taking regular photos of her. Just normal ones at first. Get her used to the fact of being photographed. Get her to wear nice bikinis to the beach. Slightly sexy clothing when you go out on a date. Compliment her looks. Make her feel good and happy. Stay in a hotel. Go on short vacations. The more relaxed she feels the more she'll be open to it even if her upbringing tells her no.

It would be great if you could write it here for the benefit of everybody.

If you really have the urge, start by sharing clothed ones. In bikini, nightware, outfits with some cleavage or nipples poking. And he sure you share the link with us!

And as mentioned in an earlier post, once she is used to her picture being taken, she will care/mind less if a bit more skin is shown.

My wife
 

My wife is 5’6” tall and around 125lbs. She is a classic conservative soccer mom type. She has little a-cup tits. She has always felt like she’s not attractive because of her tiny tits. For that reason, we well as her religious upbringing and her Mom status (“Moms should always cover up their bodies “) my wife has always dressed very conservatively.

Through the years I’ve frequently noticed other men checking out my wife. She has a cute ass and incredible thin legs. I’ve also noticed many men looking at m wife’s little tits and trying to look down inside her blouse when she’s bending over. I get an instant boner whenever that happens.

I have long fantasized about showing my wife’s nude body to other men so they can cum to her. Unfortunately my wife won’t pose nude for me. But she knows how badly I want other men to enjoy her body.

Slowly but surely I have raised my wife’s self esteem about her body by pointing out to her the moments when another man is ogling her body. At first she responded by thinking that these men were complete perverts. But over time, she began to understand that these men are mostly normal men who are naturally attracted to a very attractive soccer mom..little tits and all.

About 5 years ago, my wife gave me the surprise of my life. After years of trying to convince her to wear sexy clothes in public without success, on a hot summer day my wife began her transition.

My wife returned from a shopping trip one day. She held up a bag from American Eagle and said “this is a one-time early birthday gift. I begged her to let me see what was in the bag…but she didn’t want to spoil the surprise.

Later that day we prepared to go to our neighbor’s house for a cookout. My wife exited our bathroom after showering and my jaw dropped. She was dressed in her usual khaki shorts….they always show off her long thin legs so good! But for a top she had on a flowered print cotton spaghetti strap shirt. I immediately looked for signs of her bra…she always wore one. But to my instant hard on surprise, a brush of my hand on her back revealed that my wife was braless!

To add to my surprise as my heart was pounding, the low v-neck cut of the shirt was loose fitting. As my wife moved, the light cotton fabric gaped open to give an unobstructed view of my wife’s little tits and her puffy inverted nipples.

My wife changed her mind about wearing that shirt about 5 times in the 30 minutes before we left the house. But finally…off we went to the cookout.

I noticed that at least 3 of my male neighbors were instantly checking out my wife as we arrived at the cookout. I asked my wife to notice and she responded with her usual strong desire to cover up but she also responded with satisfaction that I was so turned on by the fact that men’s eyes were popping out as they noticed she was braless.

As we were at the food table, people lined both sides of the table gathers their food on their plates. I stood next to my wife as she got her food. As my wife bent over the table to scoop potato salad, I noticed two of my neighbors on the other side of the table. I could almost hear them gasp as they got an unobstructed view down my wife’s blouse. I could feel drool shoot out of my mouth…I was so excited that other men finally got to see my wife’s tits!!! My wife was clueless that this was happening which made it even more exciting too.

Nope
 

"I just feel like if I finally did, and someone saw and commented on it, and possibly came, an itch I’ve had for year would finally be scratched."

Ahh, no. You would find yourself to be much more itchy.

It really does take very small steps over what could be years. But the thing I've learned about women over the years is that what they will and won't do is never a hard and fast line in the sand. That line is a wavy, wobbly thing that can and will change over time!

I think MW69's post is a great example of the step by step.

In the end she may not agree to what you ultimately want, but along the way you will probably have a heap of other fun experiences.

Do not betray her. I am in a similar situation. My wife does not want me to take pictures of her period. She has started to relax a bit though and it may be coming. A year or two ago when I was on an over night trip, I sent her a picture of myself in boxers hoping she would send something back. She sent something super tame back. every time one of us is gone over night, I have started doing this and getting more revealing. She has started getting more revealing as well. I make sure to compliment the picture and tell her how great she looks in it. It is a frog in a pot of water type situation.

Now as far as sharing pics, I am glad others do because I like to look but I have no desire to share. I really do not understand the thrill. I am not judging, I have some views and such that some on here would find weird probably but that is just me. I will not even share the pictures I have of my ex or the ones I found of my aunts. Since I do not have specific consent, it feels like a betrayal even though my ex is in the past and my aunts are dead.

If you want to do something low risk, post a photo without showing her face

I agree with that. My wife is so pretty, I hate having to hide her face

My wife is similar to the OP's. When we first got a digital camera she let me take a few photos in lingerie or nude, but then suddenly a hard stop. I've sneaked a few since then, but not very many (like my avatar). I posted a few online several years ago, but then deleted them a few days later. She knows I like when other men notice her, but she is also concerned about causing them to lust, so dresses modestly. Like she has these shorts she wears with her one-piece bathing suit. Once time we were going to a friend's house for a swimming party and I told her she didn't need to wear the shorts, and and she said, "You want your friends to see my butt cheeks hanging out?" Um, yeah, but I just said, "Well..." Still, it's a thrill when she mentions things like when she was shopping with my sister one time and my sister told her some guy was checking her out, or when she was out walking once and got a wolf-whistle. I have got her to go out bra-less some, but only in busy floral shirts where her nipples aren't noticeable. She has nice small b-cup breasts, but great nips.

There are also non-nude topics on this forum.
But if you feel that is too public, I'ld be more than happy to look at them and comment on them by pm ;)

LOL... I talked about them in more detail in another thread a couple years ago. I now own the family "homestead" that has been in the family for over 100 years. The original wing of the house was built by my great great grandpa in I believe 1903 or maybe he got the property in 1903 and built in 1906 but either way it has been in the family for generations. one of the aunts was my great aunt and the pictures appear to be from the mid 1940's. I cam across them in one of the outbuildings that is full of old family stuff from generations. The other aunt was my dad's sister. I was the only person in the family she still talked to at the end so I got all of her stuff. What did not go to Good Will I put in that same out building and found pictures that appeared to be from the 1980's when she was in her 20's. Several people have sent me PM's but I am not sharing them. I feel that would be a betrayal. I kind of feel wrong looking at them but I can't bring myself to get rid of them so they just sit there and will probably be found by one of my kids when they get the ranch but at that point it is on them to decide what to do with them.

This brings me back full circle to the issue of consent, trust, and betrayal as it relates to your situation. Do not do something you will later regret. There would be no repercussions if I were to post my aunts. For my ex I could potentially run into a revenge porn issue. In both cases it is a sense of honor and my own moral code of ethics that prevents me from posting. In your case, legalities aside, what happens realistically if you share pictures of your wife without her permission in terms of your relationship? Does it cost you your marriage? Is that a risk you are willing to take? If it is a risk you are willing to take, maybe this is not the right person for you and you would be better off moving on to someone more in line with your values/desires. Just remember, after you pull a trigger, there is no undoing it. I teach my kids this on many issues, literally the trigger because we have firearms on the ranch, words, and in this case things you post on the internet. An exercise I did with them on a family retreat was to have them squeeze all the toothpaste out of a tube. Then I tell them I will give them $100 if they can get it back in. They spent an hour trying to put it back in but it is impossible. I then give a talk about not being able to undo or unsay certain things.

Baby, I want my friends to see your boobs hanging out. :D

My ex was was the same way. Very religious, very cold in many ways, even with me. I struggled with the same emotions you do. I eventually found a few trusted people I could discuss her with openly and it was an incredible experience. Feel free to message me.

Regardless of...
 

With all due respect, regardless of what the modesty benchmarks are set by your wife, which we all here respect BTW, I would submit for you to to argue that; while religion can provide guidance and a moral compass, it's ultimately up to the individual to decide what actions to take. Having said that...; People's beliefs and values can evolve over time, and that it's healthy to question and reevaluate one's beliefs. By being open to new ideas and experiences, one can expand their perspective and potentially find new meaning and purpose in life.
With the above in mind, it is entirely possible for both your beliefs and needs can co-exist, for example if the were to be in attendance at a swimming pool in a swimming suit, the wife may not be able to control what/how the others are tempted because of he state of clothing or lack thereof.
So in closing I would say regardless of how/what you may chose to post, people will lust regardless..

I too have found a couple trusted people to talk openly about our wives. We share photos of our wives (no faces) and we talk about our wives in great detail...we "enjoy" them fully....it's a huge turn-on for sure. Feel free to message me too

I get this. Women like to be protected, the knight in shining armor syndrome. Your job is to make sure she feels protected. The best you can do now is to keep complimenting her and make her feel attractive and feel good about her body. That will give her confidence, and then, probably very slowly, you can inch her towards some more relaxed clothing, going bra-less with a thick shirt, yoga pants, etc. I wouldn't hold out for her to ever agree to posting nudes. What you can do is post some attractive clothed pictures of her. There is a thread somewhere here with a title like "Post your wife clothed." EDIT:https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...81#post2397081 I put some of my wife in that thread and that's as far as I'll probably ever get without feeling like I'm betraying her trust.

I feel your pain on this. My ex-wife didn't object on religious grounds, she just objected. She was a natural redhead, had an amazing body and I wanted to show her so badly I couldn't stand it. She became difficult in general about absolutely everything, not just those sorts of issues, but I do very much understand how you feel.

I still have the pics, still have not exposed her.

Pretty much.
I've always taken a lot of (dressed) pictures of my wife. Every year she goes on a diet to get ready for summer. So a few years back I proposed we do "before and after" pictures. The first year or two she did them in underwear. Then I told her that she might as well do them naked; and she was ok with it - as long as they remained private. One time I took a picture of her while she was sleeping nude; and I showed it to her. She actually liked the pic because she felt she "looked good" in it. I told her she does look good naked, we "ain't getting any younger" and that some day she might like to look back at her "younger naked body." So she let me take more naked pics.

She now poses nude for me semi-regularly. But it took time and a lot of confidence building. Just food for thought. But then again, if she has a "hard line in the sand"; better not push it either.

If memory serves, you must post 25 times before PMs are enabled. I see you have 11 posts so far.

struggling with a temptation
 

Here is what I used to do...voyuer her. Set up a camera or watch her thru the blinds. My wife had a regular shower time at night. I left the blinds barely open so she wouldnt notice. Get candid pics and share them here, I know you want to think about all the hungry eyes staring at her and getting aroused without her knowing about it, right?

So hot !
 

I loved reading about you peeping on your wife!! I think many of us with prude wives have a secret stash of voyeur pics and vids of our wives so we can enjoy their bodies on demand. But unfortunately I think most men don’t have the courage to share them publicly

Risking an unpopular opinion.

I was in the same position as you are. I ended taking sneak pics & vids and sharing her with blurred face over a period of 5 years. She was exposed to hundreds if not thousands of men without her knowledge. The thrill was amazing, our sex life were at a peak (also for her) but similar to any other addiction I had to constantly up the risks to reach satisfaction.

I was also not careful enough and got caught by her. I underestimated how hurt she will be, this was a big deal for her! She eventually forgave me but to this day does not trust me completely...

So what is my unpopular opinion?
Do it, but be very careful to not get caught!

This does sometimes work. I know a guy, a PGK(preacher's grandkid) who married a PK. Met her in a Sunday school class. She's a deeply religious, rural Kansas, Lutheran farm wife and now grandmother.

About ten years into their marriage he got the idea he'd like to share her....to hotwife her. So where to start? He eventually coaxed her into a couple of pictures, braless with a pretty sheer white top on. He told me later that it so scandalized and brutalized her that she cried off and on for a week. But he kept up a slight, gentle pressure and followed a similar route DuranDuran mentions here. She got used to it and came to like the attention and sexy clothing. And he eventually began sharing her.

Fast forward about fifteen years and she's now exclusive to BBCs only, and spends long weekends in the bed of one on the regular. I asked how he feels, so thoroughly corrupting that young, pretty Sunday school babe. He just kinda shrugs and smiles a little, so be somewhat careful what you wish for.

mmhmm.....she knew. Don't kid yourself.

My experience
 

My wife is sort of like that, but without the religious part.
She's just not interested at all.

One day I crossed paths with an invitation to a nude 5K race, so I said this could be it, given that she's a runner. It may be more of a thrill to show her in person in a non sexual way.

I found some blog posts written by women who have raced nude 5K races and gave them to my wife to read.
She said "it's sounds fun".

So I immediately registered for the race and we ran it.
We had a great time and she forgot she was nude for the wole time.

Obviously she said it was a one time thing, but she may do it again if there were more women in the race or if she was with some female friends. (Challenge accepted)

The keys were:
- Not sexual
- Respectful
- possible deniability. ("My husband made me do it. And it's a race)
- she wasn't the hottest or ugliest.

My libido had a blast that day. There was something very erotic watching her confidently nude right next to random people.
Something she would have never thought of the previous day.

Indeed. 1st time I showed my wifes boobs on the net using a cam, she was laying naked next to me in bed.
I was chatting on a porn site and decided to turn the cam on, from time to time turning my laptop so her boobs were on display. I got quit some good reactions :)
Next day, she asked me if I had been showing her boobs on cam.
I knew I was caught, so I admitted it all.
Her reaction was, and I quote: "it's fine, just as long as you don't show my face".

Take up golf.