Turning my wife into an exhibitionist
 

Growing up on the internet, I have always had an attraction to looking up skirts, voyeurism, and being the dominating one in an exhibitionist relationship.

When I first met my wife almost one and a half decades ago, she was wearing a gothic style black dress that was halfway in between the ankle and knee. I was stunned by her beauty. I immediately did everything I could to get to know her. After several months of getting to know her, we were dating. Little did I know she would dress very conservatively and always wear jeans, t-shirts, and baggy hoodies. She only owned average cotton panties with some that had cute little designs and maybe 2 or 3 thongs. She also had 1 or 2 dresses, but hardly ever wore them. I basically had to beg her to wear dresses or skirts. Despite this, the sex was amazing. We did it when and where ever we could. Once we even fucked in my truck while broken down on the side of the road, in the middle of the day!
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It took a couple of years, but I started to get some frilly and lacey underwear into the mix. Then some more thongs and g-strings.
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A few more years go by and I get her into a couple of dresses and skirts. Even some shorts. Added a lot more lacey underwear and thongs.
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Some time passes and we've now we've made a habit of visiting adult stores to browse. After a while, she finally gets a vibrator!

One day we're looking around in one of the adult stores when she comes up to me, holding a crotchless thong with little bells and asks in the cutest and innocent voice if I could get her these. She really liked them. My eyes lit up, but I hid my excitement so as not to scare her. I told her that it would be a lot of fun to wear that with one of her dresses or skirts on our next date. We bought the crotchless thong and she wore it on our very next date... she even let me take some pictures!!!
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A few more years pass by. No more cotton panties! Nothing but lacey underwear and thongs! Dresses and skirts are now a regular date night! Now it's common for her to go with either crotchless or pantyless!


A few more years go by. Just prior to covid, we're shopping and she comes upon this korean black and floral dress. She's in love and immediately wants to try it on. It is the shortest dress I have ever seen. It covered the bottom of her ass cheeks with maybe 1-2 inches to spare. If she bent over, her ass was exposed. I complimented how good that dress looked on her, see was estatic, so we got the dress. We go out to a bar in the city, she's in the dress with a g-string. After a couple of drinks I convince her to ditch her underwear. A few more drinks later, she's horny and I realize I'm out of condoms. She says let's run to walmart, that she needed a few things anyway. While shopping, she kept bending over and letting me take a shit ton of pictures. It was amazing!
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Currently, she wears thongs and g-strings 24/7 and has stopped wearing bras all the time typically now, with white and thin shirts (except when spending time with older family). She now wears whatever I choose. I tend to lean towards mini/micro skirts
& dresses while going mostly without panties. I try to mixing it up. We have more than a dozen crotchless panties. Even some bondage lingerie!
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Most recently, she was wearing a deep v neck dress that made it easy to flash me. We're on a date and then decided to go to the mall. Wife says she needs to use the restroom. She then comes back and sticks something in my front pocket. I reach my hand in, and to my amazement, it's her tiny sheer g-string in my front pocket, nice and wet. I am grinning from ear to ear. She wispers in my ear "I wanted to surprise you." The day continues and she flashes her pussy and tits to me randomly. Let's me take pics and poses for some good shots.
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Flash forward to today. We're out of town. Bouncing around from city to city, staying in hotels and having fun. While we're talking I ask (hypothetically speaking) if I were to pay for her next tattoo, would she consider getting her nipples pierced. She hesitated for a moment and then said yes. I couldn't believe what just I heard. Shocked I said "Really?!?". She replied "Yah. I think I would". I felt really ballsy then followed up, "What about we get it done today and come back in a few weeks to get the tattoo?". I don't think she thought it through and was in shock. In what felt like forever with tension in the air, i talk before she says anything I tell her "don't answer me now, let's grab lunch. I want you to think about it. Absolutely no pressure and answer me afterward". We go to one of our favorite places. I don't bring it up at all through lunch. Afterwards reluctantly agrees. I couldn't believe what I just heard. Trying to act as cool as possible, I tell her "I'll do some research, find a highly rated place that specializes in piercings". I'm excited. I can't stop smiling. I soon find a place then show her. After a bit she says she's seen this place before and it looks good. While in the car, i can visibility tell she's nerves. She's shaking a little. I put my hand on her thigh and tell her, "It's okay if you don't. I completely understand. Please, I don't want you to feel pressured". In what felt like forever, she gets out of the car and she's started walking towards the store. The place is packed. I tell her, "you wanted good and people wait for good". She smiles a little bit. In what feels like forever, 2 hours to be exact, she's sitting in the chair. The guy has two chameleon blue bars that she was drawn towards, a 12 gage needle, and a clamp. He then proceeds to clamp and pierce each of her nipples. I can't stop smiling. She then looks me in the face, sees my huge goofy smile, then smiles. Afterwards, she's standing in front of me with two beautiful blue anodized metal piercings centered around each of her nipples.
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Each time I see her, I have a huge smile on my face. I tell her that she's my own personal exhibitionist sl*t and I love her with everything in my being. I personally can't wait to get her out to a bar, with a new black miniskirt, no panties, a thin white shirt and two brand new piercings. I'm thinking something like mini golf so I can get some good views then after they fully heal, get a pair of piercings that says daddy's sl*t or fuck me.

love this
 

love this can't wait to hear and see more!!!!!!

Sorry for the horrible format. If I can, I'm gonna try to keep this thread current. She's a little sore today (she's actually got them pierced yesterday, but I typed the story last night and finished today). Also, forgot to mention this, we don't swing or share. She's made it clear she wants just me, and likewise for myself. It was funny, we took an edible yesterday and chilled. She realized that now, her nipples will be erect 24/7. I was laughing so hard. Finally after catching my breath, I asked if she was okay with it. She replied, "Oh yah... I just didn't think of it until just now". We're heading to the outlets to waste time. Told her to keep an eye out for clothes that may showcase the piercings. Today, she's wearing a fairy sheer black top with dinosaurs. I still can't stop smiling and she's very loving. I think it's setting in that she did this for me and it's made me so excited and happy, which in turn has her smiling and bashful. I'm wanting to take suggestions for clothing and things we should do.

Excellent
 

Fantastic post! Thank you.

So exciting to watch her blossom into exhibitionism

Update. Took wife to several stores to pick out white and thin shirts along with some dresses. She's still surprising me lately. I asked if we went to Vegas, if she would consider going out in a sheer top without a bra. She said probably would. I might start her with a sheer bra under, then move from there. She's gonna wear a black miniskirt with a tiny sheer g-string (will definitely have her take it off after a few drinks) and a thin tan top this weekend.

Also, looking to see if anyone knows where I can find tops like the ones attached. I want it so she can maintain deniable plausibility, but if I take a flash photo, I'd see everything. Side note, I love looking for nipple piercings. I know I have to wait month's, but ready to build a collection.

First of all, great thread.

Try shopping at the cheap fast fashion places in the mall - Papaya, Charlotte Russe, places like that. They will sell thin distressed tshirts and tops like that, and they're thin beause they cheap out on the materials as much as possible.. If they don't show through when you buy them, a couple more washes should help.

I just discovered Charlotte Russe the day before yesterday. I should have started there! Still looking for any personal suggestions on clothes and such. Eventually, I wanna look into bikinis that are "accidentally" see through when wet.

Hey, MrJune, it would be great to see your wife do genuine accidental candid style shots. The forums and the internet are filled with "upskirt of the wife" shots where the GF or wife invariably has her legs wide open. At that stage, might as well just say "my wife made a porno while wearing a skirt". Those bending in the flower skirt shots of your wife earlier in the thread were very nice, and in keeping with the genuine accidental look.

Candid stocking tops would be another interesting topic, and one that is well suited to cooler weather.

I've often seen the picture of the girl sitting on the steps posted on these forums (and others) as a "candid upskirt". Apparently I did a good job, because I assure you, it isn't. As proof, I offer some other shots from the session. I took these photos for The Upskirt Champ, who back in 2008 had this idea that he wanted to open a POV porn site (under a different name obviously). Anybody from Austin, TX will immediately know where those shots were taken - lol. Anyway, there are far too many "candid / exhibitionist wife" shots that look like the first 2 shots below, and nowhere near enough that look like the next 2 shots of the same girl.

I had a friend pose in stockings and a short business skirt for the last 2 images. The entire outfit was perfectly decent & could easily be worn in public without getting an indecency violation. When standing, the stocking tops were NOT visible, but when sitting, she was showing that nice little crescent of thigh that stockings aficionados love. I'm willing to bet that although posed, it won't be long before those 2 pics appear in the candid stocking tops thread... because they certainly have that look.

To sum it up... far too many wife & GF pics are just vulgar porn level garbage, and nowhere near enough wife & GF pics that offer a real candid tease. I hope you'll consider shooting more of the latter & less of the former.

You may, or may not have heard of Wicked Weasel (WickedWeasel.com), an Australian company that specializes in tiny swimwear that is very sheer when wet, and also extremely small & sheer thongs / panties that are excellent for making very teasing upskirt photos. Expensive, but awesome stuff.

Finally, the makeup on the girl in the posed upskirt was done for free by MAC. At the time, maybe they sill do, so worth going to a store & asking, you could walk in during a quiet time (or arrange an appointment), and one of the makeup artists would do a complete product demo. Basically, the wife chooses a look she wants from this book, and they apply the appropriate products to persoalze the look to her face. All that was required was to buy something (and of course it would be polite to tip the makeup artist something as well)... so the smart thing to do is buy whatever the wife might need to touch up the amazing MAC workwomanship later... usually lipstick is what wears out first. Like I said, no idea if they still do it, but if they do, well worth the experience for a special occasion.

Quick update. Since winter is almost done, it's been nice getting the wife out and about. She's flashing me on the regular when nobody's looking. I'm always telling her that boobs make the day better.

We recently went out of state for work. I absolutely love these events, it's so easy for me to get her to dress more risqué than normal. I told her, "We're in a state where nobody knows us and you won't have to worry about bumping into somebody we know."

During our time in the hotel, I dared her to walk through the hotel lobby wearing a VERY thin and very see-through shirt. I told her I'd get her a drink. To my surprise she agreed without hesitation. One day she even stood in the window looking out at the city completely naked for about 5 mins in the the middle of the day, WITHOUT ME ASKING!

Most recently I got her a sundress that allows for a TON of nipple slips. She loves it! It's so exciting seeing her still new peircings from the side. I can't wait to be able to start swapping jewelry to more noticeable jewelry.

Tomorrow, we're going out on a date all day, then drinking. She's agreed to go without panties and mini/micro skirts until the kids get back home (they're at their grandmother's). I've already picked out a really short flaired out skirt and the creme color top pictured. It's so thin that you can even see the cute little bumps around her nipples! I told her we'd do a wardrobe change after into something else. I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND 😁.

If anyone has any suggestions of stuff i can get her, please post. I'm looking for stuff that you have personal experiences with. Such as skirts, dresses and tops. Pushing the whole risqué idea while maintaining plausible deniability.

Turning My Wife Into an Exhibitionist, But...
 

After many years attempting to turn my wife into an exhibitionist, I finally made it. She started by wearing see-thru tops to clubs without a bra. Then it was mini-skirts added onto the see-thru tops. Then it was the see-thru tops unbuttoned deep into her cleavage. Then it was mid-riff see-thru tops tied at the base with her jugs almost falling out. Then it was going to the beach and going topless. Finally, it was going to the beach and going nude. Then, low and behold, she asked if I wanted to go to a nude resort. I answered by saying does a bear shit in the woods!? She took to the nude resort like a duck to water. Then we started going to biker rallies. She dressed very provocatively at these rallies. Even showered nude with the guys in the Women's/Men's Shower. She even walked the stage in a teddy and very see-thru robe and g-string in a biker woman fashion show. Then she went down the Titty Alley totally topless. And last year, she rode nude tied up in a chariot down that same Alley. She would even get nude at the after party parties at the rallies. I thought I had it made!

However, now she tells me her legs are wringlely and so are her upper arms. She will go around at the biker rallies in totally see-thru tops with sleeves in them, but no fence net bra tops or toplessness and no really short mini-skirts that show the top of her legs or the bottom of her ass cheeks. She said that she has to approve all outfits before leaving for the rallies. Sort of if I argue about it then "No Rally!" She also said that she doesn't want to get nude at the after party parties.

I asked her what about the nude resorts. She said that she will still do that since so many people there are old. So, my question is: "Has anyone else encountered this roadblock from their wives or significant other?" Please let me know how to overcome it. I need help in a hurry.

Pic I.D.:
Row 1: I got my boobies caught in these old nasty display rings;
I wonder if any other guys will stop by and offer us a drink in our modest attire.
Row 2: I wonder who this nice man is that has offered me a boob lift;
Now that I have had the boob lift, how do I measure out.
Row 3: The after party parties are a real blast -- you can really stretch out and get comfortable;
I love the Biker Style Show -- you get to keep the outfits even if they give you a little camel toe.
Row 4: Whoa, my boobie is giving me a nip slip. I never guessed I would fall out of this top;
I love chariot rides, but no one told me that I would be roped up nude for the ride.
Row5: I love to have a beer out with all the guys and especially when there is a cool breeze to cool off a boob or two.
Row 6: You know you really have to watch these metallic tops that have those little chains holding them in place -- things can get dangerous.

Well, do you guys think she is good to go another year or so?

That's one of my concerns down the line. Right now, we're in our early thirtys so I feel like we have more time. Down the line, hopefully we'll be able to either get into shape or already be in shape (I'm working on an outdoor gym) or look at getting her w/e she needs to feel comfortable with herself. Also planninh on a hot tub and getting her outside completely nude frequently. I'll tell you that the peircings was a huge confidence boost.

mrjuneadvice
 

Some women go for it immediately and have no reluctance. Others, like yours and mine, have reluctance but want to be badd girls. You must exercise due patience. Mine is starting to require patience from me again. I just want her to be badd and show it all off. I hate to walk backwards, but I may have to. The thing that I have to remember is that another bad girl can lead your significant other down the path to be badd. My wife took a guys reluctant wife at a rally and pulled her shirt off and undid her short, shorts button and unzipped her shorts and sent her out to the guys. In a similar fashion a Miss Sparks America pulled my wife's top off and pulled her up on the stripper pole and danced with her on the pole. Then the Miss Sparks America's boyfriend took over and danced on the pole with her. About then, my wife reached down and pulled her short, shorts down when she had no pantiy's on and danced commando on the pole with the guy. He got some very good rubs on her as they whirled around the pole. A little later, she had her boobs painted with chocolate cake icing, and she gave me and all the nearby guys great licks on her tits until there was no icing left.

She still was commando with no shorts, and I didn't stop with licking the icing off her. I got down on my knees and licked the wetness off of her pussy lips. When i finished several other guys used their tongues to make certain that I got all the juices off her pussy. Of course, as each guy came up for a lick, she produced more juices. Finally, we loaded her in a golf cart and carried her passed out bod back to our motor home. The guy that transported her helped me carry her nude body into the motor home. He really wanted to fuck her, but I told him that I felt she should be conscious whenever she got fucked -- unless it was me. With that, I told him that he could stay and watch. He agreed. I spread her legs wide open on that sofa and stuck my erect member in her pussy and proceeded to fuck her good. She actually began to hunch a bit with my fucking and got a climax while moaning loudly. The guy then asked if she were awake enough for him to screw her. I said that I would ask. I said, "Honey, I just fucked you, but there is another guy right here that wants to fuck you as well. Do you want to fuck him?" She never opened her eyes, but said, "Well, I guess it would be O.K." I asked if she was certain. She replied that she just wasn't sure, and did she know the guy? I told her that he carried her back to the motor some in a golf cart and that was it. She said, "I am not certain that a cart ride should be worth a fuck." I said, "Do you want to make the decision tomorrow whether to fuck him?" She breathed out, "I suppose so." The next day he stopped by to see if she was willing to fuck him. She said that it was worth a good boob feel and kissing her tits, but that was all. He took advantage of that offer and was happy.