Living Nude Stories
 

I was looking for a thread where I could share stories of life experiences as a nudist.

Since most of the stories that I wish to share do not quite fit the thread topics already started I have decided to starting this thread to allow others to share describing experiences and lessons learned while being socially nude.

These can be stories about growing up nude, visiting nudist venues, living nude at home, nude dating, participating in a nudist event, working nude, or just general stories about living in the nude.

Although some of the stories may sometimes contain some sexual overtones, the stories should be mostly of everyday experiences while living as a nudist.

Remember, this is the "NON FICTION" forum so pleas be honest with your stories and feedback.

Interesting story. And congrats on your upcoming anniversary!

I'll share this story about my first wife because I think it's still pretty cool.

She was not a nudist at all when we met. It took about 2 years for me to convince her to go to a nudist resort. And then, even after several trips, she would cover up whenever other people got "too close"; in fact, she was mostly naked only to swim in the pool.:(

Then, I had us join a non-landed club, where people would meet at each other's house. She wasn't too thrilled about it, to say the least. But she still agreed to accompany me, with the stipulation that she would keep on her (dreadful) sarong at all times.

The first time we went, she did in fact keep her sarong on the entire time. But the second time, something happened. The event that day was a potluck, and all the women were in the kitchen, naked. After I undressed and my wife put on her sarong, my wife was immediately invited to come help in the kitchen. A bit taken aback, she reluctantly agreed to help; while I went outside to join the gentlemen.
Some time later, as I sat outside, I started hearing my wife and the other women laughing. Then I suddenly heard her voice announcing that dinner was ready. I turned and my jaw dropped when I saw my wife standing in the doorway, completely naked! I never did find out who had convinced her to drop the sarong; or if she'd ended up feeling silly about covering up when none of the other women were, and dropped it herself. But whatever had happened, it had changed her mind completely. She spent the rest of the evening, socializing and being naked right in front of other people, with no discernable discomfort or self-consciousness. Even at the end of the night, when people started leaving, she was still naked, helping our hosts clean up.

That event was the turning point for her. We returned to a resort a couple of week later; and her attitude was radically different. Instead of covering up every five minutes; she stayed naked the entire time. After starting shaving, instead of sitting in the back of the pool, she chose to sit right in front of it. Instead of sitting back quietly, she started going out of her way to meet people and socialize. That non-landed club event had pretty much completely liberated her from her hang-ups. I was stoked and proud of her for going "full naked."

But it took time. That's why patience is so important with "reluctant wives."

My Wife and Her Nude Visit
 

I always had the desire to go to a nude resort. However, I spent many years reluctant to suggest it to my wife. We had tried a little nudity early in our relationship by attending nude beaches. However, we felt somewhat disconnected to other people there -- probably because we didn't go enough to develop any relationships. And my wife seemed somewhat disinterested in the whole nudity thing.

It was somewhat of a surprise or better yet -- a shock -- when she suggested many decades later that we go to a nude resort. It was almost matter of fact when she asked, "Would you like to go to a nude resort?" I didn't hesitate a second and blurted out, "You bet I would!" She said, "O.K., you name the time and place." It didn't take me long on the internet to find a good choice. We made reservations for three days and nights at a beautiful nude resort. The first test for my wife was for her to disrobe while the staff member (a male) took us around on a golf cart to see the amenities of the resort. We were told that we could go on the orientation trip nude or stay clothed. My wife said, "Well, we might as well get into the swing of things." She dropped her clothes and climbed aboard the golf cart for the tour. I noted that she seemed to be somewhat shocked at all the male dicks she saw while on the tour, but she said nothing. Then we arrived at the clubhouse where we departed the cart and walked around with all the other nude people participating in a variety of clubhouse activities. They seemed to pay little attention to us or our nudity and offered a very friendly hello as we toured the facility.

After the tour was complete, we were turned out to locate our motor home campsite and do anything common in the place. That is, we could not take pictures or have open sex with our significate other or anyone else in the compound. I really couldn't get over how fast my wife adopted to being nude in a living environment. She had no problem playing tennis or pickle ball nude. She even shot some baskets, played corn hole (while giving me great pussy and ass shots while picking up the sandbags between rounds), and one of the greatest games was pool (especially when she leaned over the table for the cue ball). Of course, the biggest test for her was would she be able to dance nude in the bar? As newbies we didn't know that in these resorts most people start the evening off in very sexy clothes and gradually dump the duds over the first hour or so. Instead, we walked in nude and ordered our first drink. No one said anything or paid any unusual attention to us, but I am certain that they knew this was our first rodeo. However, my wife game fully agreed to dance with me. I don't know how self-conscious she might have felt, but she wiggled and shaked to fast songs just as if she had been dressed. I do think we were both somewhat relieved when we saw that the other people had dropped all their clothing by the conclusion of that first hour.

Of course, the regular pool, hot tub and the conversation pool are some of the primary means of getting involved with socialization with your neighbors. We began to really meet a lot of people in the conversation pool in the evening. It was somewhat strange at first conversing with a number of naked people. However, after a short time, one doesn't bother to look much more than at the eyes of the person with whom they are talking. It is somewhat of a strange phenomenon. Yet, over several days time, we got to know a number of people pretty well. Unfortunately, such relationships can't be prolonged continually, because many people are just there on vacation or for the weekend. We had to say good-bye to several couples we really enjoyed. And here came a real test for both my wife and I as we hugged people good-bye in the nude who had been total strangers only a few days earlier.

One last surprise for me, given my wife's imagined reluctance to go to nude resorts, was when she looked at me on the last and third day of our visit at the resort and said, "Do you think we could stay for another few days?" Well, my answer was, "Hell, yes!!!" So, today, if someone asks my wife if she is a nudist, she will always answer no. However, I like to point out that over the past year, she has spent somewhere in the neighborhood of 6 weeks at nude resorts. Then I ask, "What qualifies a person as a nudist anyway?" Of course, she has gotten looser and looser at the nudist resorts sexually and outside of them as well. It seems like nudity is never a problem anymore. She has taken to nudity like a fish out of water, and I enjoy it immensely.

Bare Necessities
 

We are taking our first nude cruise in February 2024 on a bare necessities sponsored western Caribbean tour. We are excited and somewhat curious at the same time. We have been “practicing” nudity in the yard, hammock, clocking, cleaning, watching the tube indoors, etc in order to begin getting more comfortable. Anyone been on a nude cruise before that was t a “hook-up” themed adventure?
There are rules of engagement clearly listed on their website but it is still somewhat of a “next step” for both of us. Any input would be helpful. Thanks.

Assuming you meant to say "wasn't a hookup" cruise, since Bare Necessities isn't a swinger cruise. We've been on six of them and will also be on the 2024 cruise. Expect to see full nudity anywhere on the ship except the Main Dining Room and the specialty restaurants. Usually you won't find too many Debbie Downers that criticize every last thing on the cruise and instead lots of people that will go with the flow and have a good time no matter what. That alone makes these cruises worth it, but you can't understate how much fun it is to spend a week naked on a cruise ship. And nudists are some of the best partiers we've ever been around. Our favorite nude cruise stop is Half Moon Cay (private island in the Bahamas). On one nude cruise the beach bar (which is shaped like a pirate ship... I think we have pictures of it in our profile) was out of booze before the afternoon was over. The crew couldn't believe it! The disco is packed every night, unlike textile cruises, and as the night goes along less and less clothes (if any!) are to be found.

LOUNGE ( and anyone else interested ):

Nice to see that you will be going on the B/N Cruise. You'll love it. You won't need to carry money or cards as everything onboard is included in your fare, except for some bars, name brand dirnks, and souviner stores. Even the formal dining room is included. And if you have to pay for anything, they just charge it to your room. You will need money and cards for any shore excoursions that you may take.

As far as the type and mix of "people" you will find: the vast majority of people are regular nudist couples, a few are couples looking for a hook-up, and some are swinger groups. In our experiences on past B/N cruises, in all public spaces overt sexual activity and solicitation is prohibited and I have heard of a few people required to leave the ship at the next port. Although rare, boners are tollerated, but one is expected to cover it up until flacid. In general, these cruises are intended to be clean nudist fun and behavior similar to that found in a nudist resort is the expected norm.

You will find that, while in port you are required to be clothed. Those who go on shore tours are required to be fully dressed, while those who choose to stay on the ship will tend to dress on the skimpy side. Guys will wear beathing a suit or loose shorts and maybe a t-shirt. Women a bikini or some type of coverup or pareo, some a little see-through. In some ports topless on the pool sun-deck is OK.

While at sea you can be nude everywhere on the ship except the formal dining room, and there some type of clothing is required. You will see everything from full suits to skimpy cover-ups. Check the daily published newsletter for the dress code. Of course you can skip the formal dining and stick to one of the buffets or quick food stands and stay nude. We usually do only one formal dinner and do the buffet thing the rest of the time. Check the daily published menues to decide which way to go.

The B/N cruises usually have 1 or 2 city ports of call, so we recommend that you take a guided group tour at these places. They are usually late morning, include a lunch stop, and finish about 2PM or 3PM. Then you return to the ship for more shipboard activities. The ship will also stop at a private island, where you can go ashore nude and enjoy the beach or snorkle or boating. These are always fun.

As far as being acclimated to social nudity, if you are a newbie, we recommend that you find a nudist resort nearby and spend a weekend there. You did not indicate your geographical location but if possible one of the larger clubs in Florida are the best for getting used to public social nudity. In fact, many people spend a few days before a B/N cruise at Cypress Cove Resort. They usually have charter busses that take the cruisers from the resort directly to the ship. And on the return they pick you up and you can unwind there for a couple of more days before returning to life in textile land.

And regarding your behavior at a nudist resort, nude cruise, or any social nudist gathering: As a nudist you must realize that nudity des NOT equal sex and not confuse the presence of a nude person as some form of implied consent or invitation for sexual behavior. It is difficult for some textile people to separate nudity and sex as they are not used to nudity in everyday situations and they only enter some state of nudity when engaging in sex. As a nudist, any sexual activity should always be engaged with the same levels of public discretion and decency as you would in a textile environment. While in a social nudist setting, before doing anything just ask yourself "would I do this at my family reunion party or company picnic ?"

Well, other than the walking around completely naked part!

We are with you on only going to the dining room once per cruise, usually on a port day where we are already wearing something anyway. Otherwise, the cruise is too short to keep getting dressed to go eat!

Technically there is no private island stop on the 2024 cruise. There is a stop in Mahogany Bay, which is a private port area in Roatan, Honduras. You can be nude at the beach and the restaurants behind it there.

For us it depends on when steak and lobster is on the menu.

Has Carnival done what Royal Caribbean has done: both are available every night… but there is now an up charge. It costs $15 to get a steak and $30 for lobster. If not then I guess that is one point in favor of the nude cruises going with Carnival most years.

For Mrs. NoShoCo the chocolate melting cake is the draw, and that is available every night!

Thanks
 

Appreciate all the feedback. Haven’t actually read any negative comments by those that have gone so we look forward to it.
Just wish we could open the calendar up 2 weeks vs one. Maybe later in the year or 2025…..

OUR FAMILY'S INTRODUCTION TO NUDISM
 

Now let's get back to the original purpose of this thread and share our stories about living nude and about how you were brought into the nudist life.

So here is a story from way back in time when the first person in my family was introduced to nudism.

My mom first embraced nudism when she and her friend began visiting a rustic nudist camp in Wisconsin in 1946.

My mom was raised in a very strict fundamental religious family in Ohio. She hated it there for many reasons, so when she got a scholarship to a business college in Chicago, she jumped at it. She lived in a women's dorm where four students shared a bedroom but had to use a communal shower that served the entire floor. It was her first exposure at being with or even seeing other nude people.

When she returned home for summer break her parents gave her a hard time because she had not insisted on private facilities. Even implying that she was possessed by evil because she had participated in public bathing! Being very fundamentalist, her new "free attitude" drove a deep wedge between them. She couldn't wait for the start of the next school term and returned to Chicago in mid-July. She quickly got a part time job at a stationary shop and planned to save up enough to not have to return home over the next summer break. In fact she never quite reconciled with her parents and my sister and I only ever saw them once, and that as infants.

A co-worker at the stationary shop was a slightly older woman named Clarissa. They quickly struck up a friendship and mom confided family her story with her. One day Clarissa invited mom to join her and a couple of friends ( a married couple ) for a relaxing Saturday visit to a 'friends farm' at Mud Lake, Wisconsin, about 50 miles away.

As it turned out, the 'farm' was an early nudist facility that fit the very definition of 'rustic nudist camp'. There were already about 20 other people there, all couples, all nude. This was another first for mom, seeing and being with naked men! Clarissa and the other couple disrobed right away and after a bit of apprehension she joined in. Four nude people sitting around a camp fire and just talking or playing cards was a complete departure everything she had been taught or ever experienced. This was new, exciting and fun and she was hooked.

That day was filled with firsts for her: cooking nude, eating nude, swimming nude, walking in the woods nude, and friendly nude people openly socializing with her. She was seen by and was seeing nude men and there was nothing sexual about it. She noted that after all of this she was neither struck down by lightening nor had burst into flames. This was fun and wholesome, not evil.

They returned to Mud Lake a few more times before the 'farm' closed in late September. By then mom was an avid closet nudist and was looking forward to the next summer.

That Thanksgiving mom met my dad at an inter-school social ( he was at a different school ). They began dating during the school year and were becoming a regular couple. As summer approached she struggled on how to ask him to join her at the 'farm'. She feared that the wrong approach would imply sexual consent.

She was still chaste and wished to remain so until marriage ( which she did ). So she decided to tell him all about the 'farm' and activities, leaving out the nude part. He seemed interested so she told him that some people would 'skinny dip' in the lake and that some were not too quick to get dressed again. He had no problem with that because he had done it during the war in the marines.

So that weekend mom, dad & Clarissa drove up to Mud Lake and introduced my dad to social nudism. My dad took to it right away and in the end they all had a great time. They made the trip to the 'farm' a regular part of their dating and courtship that summer. Mom said that she even wanted to get married there, but reluctantly opted for the Chicago City Hall instead, for the guests' sake. After dad's graduation they moved to San Diego, where they happily found two nudist camps nearby and that the 'nude season' was almost year round.

I'm thankful that mom became such an avid nudist. She introduced my dad, her best friend from work and her family, and, indirectly, my sister's husband to family nudism. Eventually, she and my to be mother in law to be organized many parties, camp visits, celebrations, weekend trips, and sleep-overs in which the entire family eagerly participated and enjoyed. With her enthusiasm and dedication to wholesome family nudism they were able to raise three generations of still practicing nudist families.

My wife's "big day of firsts" happened on our third year of nudist outings. Up to then she had been nude - but only to swim and sunbathe in the pool area. She'd wear a cover-up any other time. She kept socialization to a minimum in the hot tub; where she was immersed up to her neck and therefore managed to avoid being seen completely naked "up close." She made it abundantly clear that would be the extent of her participation.

One day we agreed to visit a "new" resort, which we did not know was "nude-mandatory" at the time. The first time was during Covid and there was barely anyone there. No one said anything about her wearing a cover-up. She really liked the resort; so we agreed to return the following year.
When we returned, things were (almost) back in full swing. People we returning to the resort. It didn't take long to notice that people were disrobing in the parking lot and were staying naked all around the resort. We were used to "C/O" resorts where most women would wear sarongs/cover-ups outside the pool area; and here, all the women were naked. But my wife still grabbed her cover-up and we proceeded to go sit alone by the lake. She disrobed and we lounged for a while.

Then lunchtime came. We took a look at the picnic area; and everyone around was naked. I'm not sure what prompted my wife's decision to not cover up to go eat; but I think she just didn't want to appear "scared", and the only one covered up. But to my surprise, without saying a word, she just got up, grabbed her towel to sit on, and proceeded to walk naked with me over to the picnic area. Walking naked from the lake to the picnic area was her first "first" that day.

After lunch, I decided to let her decide what to do next. She'd walked naked from the lake to the picnic area; and again to my surprise, she decided she wanted to go on a "real" walk. There was a trail running around the resort. I expected she'd want to cover up to hike; but she simply shook her head and proposed she just stay naked. With my jaw to the ground, we proceed on our hike.
Along the way, as I'd feared, we ran into a gentleman walking in the opposite direction. And he stopped to say a few words to us. That would be my wife's second "first." Standing completely naked right in front of someone. And she "aced" it. She displayed a remarkable level of confidence and friendliness responding to the gentleman. And most importantly, as the OP mentioned, she realized "she was neither struck down by lightening nor had burst into flames." That short interaction changed her entire attitude to being seen openly naked.

We finished our stroll, which led us to the pool area where a water-polo game was underway. And she decided to wanted to "check it out." And she stood there, where everyone could see her fully naked. I think at that point she wanted to see what it would be like if not only one person - but EVERYONE - saw her naked. Again, she saw - and felt - that it was all perfectly natural.

Her third "first" would occur a little later. There were paddleboards by the lake. We had gone pedal-boating the first time; and she had declined paddleboarding because she felt it was too exposed. I asked her if she wanted to try it this time. And she agreed - knowing it meant everyone looking would see her naked with her legs open - standing on the lake. And she had a blast, with no concern about who could see her in "that way." And to this day, she has maintained that attitude. We go paddle-boarding naked every time we go, she stays naked the entire day, and she socialized naked with people whether she's sitting, standing naked right in front of them, and even while she's paddle-boarding. We even have friends there now; and she can even joke about the fact that they've seen her naked "every which way possible."

The "nude-mandatory" resort is the best thing that could have happened. By seeing people doing "everything" naked at the resort, she challenged herself to step out of her comfort zone and stop covering up "every five minutes." And when she realized that she would not "spontaneously combust" when interacting with naked people - fully visibly naked in their presence as well - she started relaxing and actually enjoying it.

Nude
 

Years ago my sis in law lived with us with her boyfriend,we never thought of wearing clothes around the house,I would always make morning coffee and sometimes I would have an erection while making it,I was a little embarrassed when i had one at first but after a while I was ok with,I would tell my sis in law I was excited she would just laugh,we never did anything sexual me and her except french kiss and grab ass.,the older sis in law stayed with us once and got to see the woody also...the old fun days..

You’re going to love it. The only negative is having to put your clothes back on when the cruise is over.

Our introduction to the nudist lifestyle began on our honeymoon cruise back when Carnival still had a topless deck. We didn’t join in, but the seed was planted. Then 5 years later we were on a cruise that stopped in St. Martin. We did an island highlights tour that stopped at the butterfly farm near Orient Beach. Someone pointed and mentioned it was a nude beach… the seed started growing. It took 10 more years, including a couple of additional cruises stopping in St. Martin before I asked Mrs. NoShoCo if she would go to the nude beach in St. Martin. We had recently gotten a new digital camera and had been taking nude pictures of each other, so we were getting more comfortable without clothes.

We booked a long weekend at Club Orient nudist resort and got our introduction to social nudity while checking in when a nude man stopped by the front desk to get new towels. At this point we knew things were getting real. We got our room key and went to our mini suite. I was unpacking our stuff when I looked out the sliding glass door and saw Mrs. NoShoCo was already nude out on the patio! I stripped and joined her. We decided to head down to the beach and I had my towel hanging way down in front doing my best Inspector Clouseau imitation when he was at a nudist resort in one of the Pink Panther movies. We didn’t see anyone around the resort and were starting to think we were the only ones there. Then we got to the beach itself and found everyone… it was happy hour so everyone was in line at the Perch bar for 2-for-1 drinks. We joined them and eventually I readjusted my towel to hang equally in front and back. It sucks that Club Orient was destroyed in Hurricane Irma and still hasn’t been rebuilt. That was 10 years ago and we haven’t looked back.

When Two Sisters Started Shaving
 

Back in 1988 my sister in law, Becky, got a good job as a dental assistant but had to move to Riverside for the work. Being an avid nudist she acquired a 2 bedroom trailer at nearby Glen Eden nudist camp to live in. That summer my wife, Julie, and I regularly made the one hour drive up there to check it out and to help fix up the trailer. Glen Eden was actually larger and less rustic than Swallows, our home camp. The trailer was quite handy because we could undress as soon as we arrived on Friday and not have to dress again until Sunday evening when we left. We actually made several weekend trips there, though we decided to keep Swallows as our home club since we had many friends there and it was only 5 minutes from home.

Becky, single at the time, was very outgoing and was quick to make new friends. She soon had a group of couples and singles that were regular visitors to her place. Most of them did not live at camp, so they used her trailer as a place to relax after spending time at the pool or sun deck and lawns. It was also a great place to freshen up prior to attending the weekend evening DJ dances.

At that time most nudists did not shave their pubes, with a trimmed or full bush being the normal style. However, for the past few years we had been noticing an increasing number of shaved people at Swallows. And here at Glen Eden there seemed to be an even higher percentage of shaved people. Julie and I had frequently discussed shaving our pubes but chose to keep our usual grooming practices until it became a wider accepted nudist grooming style.

Becky and Julie had been trimming and shaving the lower part of their pussies for several years. They would shave from their perineum up to half way their labia. Although they trimmed the hair along the panty leg line they kept the pubic mons hair long but neat. It was not very noticable when they were standing even with their legs slightly spread, unless you looked carefully.

A couple of years earlier I had been the first in our family to take the plunge and had fully shave. But Julie thought it looked funny having a hairless pubic area with my stomach and chest being hairy and having a relatavely dark penis. So she had me keep just my penis and testicles shaved but keep my pubes trimmed. That's the grooming style that I have kept since.

Most of Becky's Glen Eden friends had a full bush or light trim. However, one girl, a TV Weather Girl and aspiring model, was completely shaved, except for a small square patch at the top of the mons.

That night, while the three of us were wathcing TV and having drinks the girls started talking about the shaved girl. They pointed out that, except for her rather large labia, they liked the look on her. They had noticed that when she sat on the ground with legs crossed her pussy opened up and her labia "flowered" open. They felt it was unflattering. They both admited that they had been ready to shave for some time but were now afraid that their labia would open up and attract attention.

I told them that they both had very good looking pussies and they shouldn't worry that they would attract attention, especialy at a nudist camp. I reminded them that we had all admired the proportions of their mother's pussy when she had her pubic hair removed for surgery. I then pointed out that they both had inherited their "mother's pussy", with it's nice rounded lips, fairly small labia, and a well formed dimple above the clitoris. I told them that I had never noticed their labia sticking out or their lips gape open, no matter how wide they opened their legs.

Their fears asside and before they changed their minds, they decided that now would be the time to hit the shower to shave. To make things go easier, we trimmed most of their long pubes off with scissors. I used the scissors while Becky pulled up Julie's hair with a comb. Then we did Becky. We put the hair in a baggie and I joked that I would keep it and make a pillow. Becky went to the shower first and in about 10 minutes came out, pussy completely shaved and smoothed with lotion.

While Julie was in shaving Becky modeled her new look for me. I had seen her pussy thousands of times, I had even touched and kissed it before, but I must admit that it was much better looking and more inviting when shaved. I wondered what it would be like with Julie shaved, the two of them standing side by side.

I had been seeing both of these women nude on an almost daily basis for years. Except for them shaving the bottom of their pussies, I had never seen either one completely shaved. The girl's mother was very beautiful, youthful, and had a great body, including a very good looking pussy. And as mentioned before, after her sergery had remained shaved for a couple of months. She was not a shy person and we had all seen her shaved pussy at camp and at home in every concievable position and spread many times. And the best I could tell through all the hair is that both girls had similar looking pussies.

When Julie finally come out it was her turn to model her new look for Becky and me. And as hoped, from what I could see is that all three had very similar and amazingly beautiful pussies. Julie did the whole model display motion, turning slowly, moving her legs forward, backward, and slightly spreading for a peek. For the finale she turned her back to us, spread her legs widly and bent over to touch her toes. Actually, she wanted to see if these motions caused her lips to open. Which they did, only slightly.

Using a mirror they struck several poses to see how they compared and what showed. Even Becky said "not bad looking" and they both thought the results were better than they expected. I looked on in awe, fighting a losing battle, eventually covering my boner with my towel. "I guess Roger likes our new look, too" quipped Julie when she finally noticed. She laughed and came over to give me a big hug and a kiss. She went to freshen our drinks while Becky straightened the towels on the couch and chair. Then, with my boner waning, we all gathered to have our drinks and watch the end of "Quantum Leap". Then off to bed. And, yes, once in bed we did put Julie's fresly shaved pussy to the test.

In the morning, after coffee, we decided to head out to the pool to see if we could meet up with any of Becky's friends. We did notice a couple of people stealing a glance at the girl's shaved pussies as we cut across the pool deck and headed up the steps towards the lawn. We didn't see anyone familiar so we walked around the long way back to the cafe and to have an uneventful breakfast. As expected, except for the usual horndogs nobody took notice of the girl's new look.

In the end Julie continued to shave until after Thanksgiving. Except for a short period in the mid 1990s, she didn't shave again on a regular basis until 2000 when she started shaving for the Summer months. The cropped pictures below was what I could find of Becky a few months before and about a year after. Julie won't let me post hers.

Living Nude Story
 

INTRODUCTION and BACKGROUND

We originally posted this in Oct 2022 but it was removed by the moderator. So we edited it to remove offending references.

Please excuse the length of this post but covers a lot of background information.

I plan to share more stories in this thread of our adventures living as single young adult nudists, and as a married couple over the years. Some of these stories may seem tame and some a little sexy. But I hope to show how our nude life has had it's ups and downs over the years. And I encourage others to share their stories, too.

I'm Roger. My sister, Susie, and I have been nudists since childhood, and now have our own nudist homes in the eastern part of San Diego, CA. Our parents had found the positive values and benefits of social nudism in the 1950s and our family have been practicing social nudists ever since.

Our parents were both successful college educated professionals. Dad was an engineer and teacher and mom was an accountant. They were socially active, attending many conferences and professional gatherings. However, after experiencing several disappointing interactions based on superficial attributes at these gatherings, they felt that a change in their social makeup was in order.

They noted that at the nudist camps we were not judged by status, fashion, or other physical attributes, but on character and personality. What also appealed to them was the concept of allowing each person to be free to be and do as they felt was right and good. They felt that this lifestyle would teach us self confidence, to be nonjudgmental, and to respect others without regard to social status.

Eventually they decided that we would become a fulltime nudist family, both at home and especially socially. We would continue to attend the typical work and other textile related social functions, but for the most part any new social friends would be other nudists. We had a family meeting and they explained what it meant to be a nudist and how we were expected to behave, especially as we entered young adulthood. I didn't notice any difference in our lives as we were all nude at home most of time anyway.

Initially we lived in town and our nudity was limited to mostly indoors except for our weekends at one of the local nudist camps, either Swallows or Samagatuma. Then a few years later we moved into our new house the country. The house was on a large lot up a hillside and most of the property was not visible from the road so we could be nude anywhere inside and out. It had big back yard with a large patio and a small pool so it was perfect for outdoor clothes free living and entertaining. Additionally, we were less than 5 miles from Swallows.

Our parents taught us that nudity was normal and being nudists was not about being naked but being free to wear or not wear what ever we wanted. At home nudity was never mandatory but it was the norm. We were encouraged to be nude for all everyday activities like chores, homework, dinner or just relaxing.

We each would usually undress immediately after coming home, even if alone. Over time we became confident, secure and never selfconscious about being nude. Depending on weather or visitors, there were times when no one was nude and times when only some or all of us were nude. In short we were nude when practical and appropriate.

We did everything together as a family. We washed the cars and did the yard work together. They showed us how to play card games like cribbage, pinochle and bridge. We did wood working, drywall repairs, painting, plumbing and electrical repairs. It seems like my dad knew how to do everything and the neat thing was that he was willing to teach us, too. We lived on an isolated country road so they even taught my sister and I how to drive. When my dad became a science and math teacher he showed us how help him grade homework and test papers. Mom taught us how to type, do home accounting, laundry, mend clothes, and how to cook. They even found a nudist music teacher that gave us piano lessons at her home. And for all of these things we were normally all nude.

However, we were careful not to 'expose' others to our nude lifestyle and to the 'textile' world our home was like any other. We NEVER answered the door nude ( unless we absolutely knew it was an invited nudist friend ) or went out into the street nude. And yes, we closed the doors to the bathroom when in use because we are nudists, not animals.

Our parents went to great length to befriend nudist families and the visits to the nudist camps provided a good opportunity for that. They sought out families that had conservative ideals and attitudes that mirrored or complimented their own. Eventually we counted 4 other local families as part of our close nudist families group, one of which would later be my in-laws.

Over the years we had many we had many memorable social events at our home or our friends' homes. We had many ( and still have ) Birthday parties, graduation parties, Easter, Super Bowl parties, dinners, anniversaries, etc. Even though it is understood that nudity is not required at these parties with few exceptions almost everyone usually is. Often we would all meet up with our family friends at Swallows or Samagatuma, and now DeAnza Springs, for Saturday or Sunday picnic outings.

Living Nude Story
 

HOW I MET MY WIFE

We originally posted this in Oct 2022 but it was removed by the moderator. So we edited it to remove offending references.

I met my wife, Julie, at Samagatuma in June of 1963. Who knew back then that we would still be together and looking forward to our 50th anniversary next year!

Since my parents had made the commitment to family nudism they went to great efforts to befriend like-minded families. They sought out families that had wholesome ideals and attitudes that complimented their own. Our weekends at the Swallows and Samagatuma provided a good opportunity for that and eventually we were able to develop a core of friends from other local nudist families.

Our "home" resort was the Swallows but we occasionally made day trips to other camps. This particular time Mom & Dad decided to make a long weekend camping trip to Samagatuma. As it happened, our tent site was adjacent to a family of 4 that was just moving into the San Diego area. They had two daughters, Becky and Julie. The dad had just landed a teaching job at San Diego State and they were camping there while looking for a place to live in town.

They eventually became very close family friends. We visited each other's homes many times and had countless parties, overnight and weekend sleepovers and visits to nudist resorts over the years

Over those years Julie developed from a skinny young girl into the woman I would marry in 1974. We actually did not start dating until 1969 before I went to college. Later she confessed to have had desires for a couple of years before that. I was just too dumb and naive to take the hints.

Living Nude Story
 

MY WIFE'S FAMILY NUDIST BACKGROUND

In previous posts I have detailed how my parents were introduced to the benefits of social nudism in the late 1940s. After the birth of my sister they decided to make the commitment to raise their family in the wholesome nudist lifestyle. My parents went to great lengths to seek out families that had conservative ideals and attitudes that mirrored or complimented their own and eventually developed a network of nudist families with which we associated.

We attended many get-togethers with these families at our home and at their homes. One of these families was that of my future wife. Consisting of parents, Bill and Mabel, and daughters, Rebecca and Julie, they were also a committed fulltime nudist family. However, to a certain extent, their introduction to nude living was brought about by necessity.

Mabel grew up on a farm near Bakersfield, California, during the depression years of the 1930s. Her family was quite poor and had to save their good clothing for school and work. Consequently, she and the rest of her family became used to wearing little or nothing while at home. She enlisted in the Navy for the duration of World War II, receiving a veteran's grant to attended college at UCLA, earning a teaching degree. There she met Bill, a grad student studying English. They married in 1950.

They moved to Colton, California, near where Bill had secured his first position as an English teacher at Redlands University. Mabel also got a job at the local community college as a sociology teacher. At their new home Mabel introduced Bill to the concept of living nude at home, as she had in her youth and had liked very much. As a young couple they soon discovered nearby Olive Dell nudist camp and became regular members. They were very active there, organizing pot lucks, birthday parties, and other club events. So their daughters, Rebecca and Julie, were nudists from birth.

In 1963 Bill accepted a professorship position at San Diego State. In June, after selling their house and furniture the family moved into a pair of tents at Samagatuma Nudist Camp. The plan was to live there during summer while searching for a home in the San Diego area. And that is when and where our family cross paths with theirs.

At our home there was no mandatory nudity rule, but mom and dad made it clear that they would be nude whenever possible. We were not under any pressure to be nude and it would be up to us to determine our individual level of dress. Technically, it was a clothing optional home but nudity was preferred. Thinking back, except for those times when it was too cold or we were preparing to attend a clothed event, there were very few times when we were not all nude. That said, our displays of affection were very conservative, limited to the occasional hugs and kisses. Any sexually motivated activity was kept in private.

By contrast at Bill & Mable's home nudity was almost mandatory, unless not practical. After all, it was the 1960s and was the era of evolving liberal social mores and behaviors, with Free Love, Flower Power and acceptance being the norm. As college professors Julie's parents were right in the middle of it and developed a more liberal attitude regarding drinking, social behavior, touching, and public displays of affection. Some of these beliefs and associated events will be discussed in future stories about my wife's living nude experiences. Some of these stories may seem a little racy but they are all part of her well rounded and satisfying life story.

Minor differences aside, Mabel and my mom hit it off right away and eventually became very close family friends. They were both were great advocates for social nudism. They organized many events for us and we visited each other's homes many times, had countless parties, overnight sleepovers, desert camping weekends, and visits to many nudist camps in California and Arizona over the years.

Thanks
 

Thanks for the edit and repost - I remember reading it originally but can’t for the life of me recall anything even borderline offensive.

For the couple going on the nude cruise in 2024, you still have a long time to anticipate that fun, since as I write this we are just barely into 2023. By all means find a nude venue and try it out. You will find that you need to make "repeat" trips because it is so enjoyable. As others have said, nudity does not equate to a non-stop orgy, but you will find that seeing your wife nude in front of others and you being nude in front of others, plus enjoying seeing others nude, will have you both ready for some sexy fun when you get to your hotel room. Nothing better to rechange batteries in a marriage. When you pick one (or several) pre-cruise nude venues, be sure and do a little research if you want nudity and not a lifestyle club. There are plenty of both around.

We got our first taste of public nudity at Hippie Hollow, a clothing optional county park in Texas of all places. Haulover beach in Miami is another good place if you want a public park atmosphere rather than a club, but the downside of the public venues is that you may (will) have gawkers around. They won't bother you, but they do creep out some women until they get used to them and understand what pathetic creatures they are. Either way, go for it, time is a wasting!

MY PARENTS' NUDIST PHILOSOPHY
 

My sister and I were raised from birth in a nudist home. Our entire family have been practicing full time home and social nudists since the 1950s. Our parents had found the positive values and benefits of family and social nudism and felt that this lifestyle would teach us self confidence, not to be judgmental, and to respect others for who they are and not for what they have.

At home nudity was the norm and encouraged for all everyday activities. We would each undress immediately after coming home from work or school, even if alone. Always being nude felt natural and normal. Except for the fact that we were all nude, our family behavior and dynamic was no different than that of most stable and happy textile families. Kind of like "Father Knows Best" but with naked people or "Leave it to Beaver" but you could actually see the beavers ( and dicks ).

Being nude for the majority of time and interacting with other nude people we learned to separate nudity from sexuality. In fact, over the long term, living nude is no more or less sexual than the textile lifestyle. As full time nudists we have a high degree of self control but are ready to be sexual at the appropriate times and places.

We learned that nudity does NOT equal sex and one must not confuse the presence of a nude person as some form of implied consent or invitation for sexual behavior. I do think that textile people tend see nudity as a sexual overture because they are not used to nudity in everyday situations and they only enter some state of nudity when engaging in sex.

Growing up in a nudist household we never saw our parents engaged in even mildest of sexual activities. That was considered a personal activity for loving couples to practice in private. I'm sure that they did enjoy each other sexually, but they did so in private or when we were away from home. The same applies for my wife and I and for my sister and her family. The ideal that was promoted is that any sexual activity should be engaged with the same level of discretion as you would in a conservative textile environment.

At the nudist camps or nude gatherings at other peoples' homes they were very conservative and the model of discretion. Kind of what was depicted in the popular nudist magazines of the day, everyone enjoying themselves while avoiding intimate contact. An occasional "A Frame" hello or good-bye hug, a peck on the cheek, and hand holding was all you could expect.

At home, with only our family present they were somewhat more demonstrative with their affections. Mom would always greet dad at the door with a big hug and kiss when he arrived from work. And there were times when dad would lovingly cup one of mom's breasts or butt cheeks while giving her the hello kiss. They were very discrete and did not linger in these actions and may not have realized that we had seen them. But those were signs of affection and were not meant for sexual stimulation. Kind of like a natural extension of the hello or "I love you" kiss. In fact, how many couples have done something similar over clothing, even at a night club or party.

By contrast, the dress and behavior codes at my future wife's home was a lot more open. They were also a full time nudist family, but the girls' parents had a much more liberal view of sexual behavior and demonstrations of their affections. That is a story that I will relate in a future post.

all those with nudist fantasies should read this
 

clearly put - thanks.

arie3l ander33en (as joceline) in March H&E
 

AA mentions this on her twitter feed- brief video clip showing pages she is on.
https://twitter.com/ArielAnderssen/s...97165503328262


uses her J0celine Br00ke-H@milton moniker, in the mag-

hXXps://www.henaturist.net/latest-he-naturist-issue-out-now

Nudists sometimes wear underwear
 

On another social media forum the question was asked: "Do you wear underwear to a nudist resort?" I posted the following paragraphs as my response.

My wife, Julie, & I were both raised as nudists and our two families spent most of the time at home nude. Always being nude felt natural and normal and we disliked having to dress. However, there were times when we had to go to town for shopping, movies, school and work. And for those few times that we had textile visitors. And for those times we dressed appropriately.

When at school or goint to town I wore the full regalia: underwear, pants or shorts, and a tshirt or shirt. The same for my dad except that he always wore a tshirt under his shirt. Early on, my sister, Susie, wore panties, bra, blouse and a skirt, although before she became a senior in high school, she ditched the panties altogether, going commando from then on. Most girls at the time seldom wore pants to school.

Mom worked in a business office and had to wear a suit to work. However, being an avid nudist and used to the open freedom, she felt that wearing panties was binding, uncomfortable, and promoted odors, rashes and yeast infections. While she was working she wore business suits, dresses, or skirts. She wore a bra only when necessary, but never panty hose or panties. If she had to leave the house for shopping or errands she would wear a sun dress or blouse and skirt, with a bra if necessary, but never underwear.

When going to a nudist camp or other nudist function none of us bothered with underwear. Dad and I Just wore a tshirt and shorts. If it was a short drive we often wore neither, keeping them on the seat handy just in case we had to stop. Mom used to like it when dad drove nude, I think it was a little turn on for her. Mom and Susie would wear a slip over sun dress or a large tshirt that they could slip off in seconds. They did not like to wear a bra to the nudist venues because they left unsightly strap lines that often took a long time to disappear. When we got to camp we were usually all nude and ready to go by the time the car had rolled to a stop.

By contrast Julie's parents were never shy nor hid the fact that they were avid nudists. However, the entire family always wore the full set of clothes when out of their house, regardless of destination. You would think that they were goint to a church meeting. Whether going to a nudist venue or to town, the 3 women always wore panties, bra, blouse and skirt, shorts or pants. And Julie's dad always wore underwear, pants, and a white tshirt under his shirt. I do not recall ever seeing her mom or dad ever wearing a pair of shorts, it was always long pants. A few times we followed their car through the camp gates and we still had to stand there nude, waiting and watching them take off and fold their clothes. My dad joked that it was like having our own private strip show.

These days, Julie and I usually wear a pair of warm-ups and a tshirt to camp, but no underwear. The warm-ups are necessary because it is a 40 minute drive and sometimes have to stop at the border check point about half way there. When going to town we still wear the full compliment of underwear, pants and tshirt. Julie is not a fan of underwear and almost never wears a bra. But she does wear panties when she wears pants and about half the time when she wears a dress. And we carry a "go bag" with a full change of clothes in case of emergencies or we decide to stop somewhere for shopping or dinner before going home.

My wife stopped wearing underwear to the resort a while back. She found that going through the process of removing item after item was really just annoying. So she switched to a strapless onesie with no underwear. That way she can just pull it down and be naked in a single motion. Since we're going to spend the entire day naked anyway, it's just more practical that way.

My wife's definition of sexual activity
 

My wife, Julie, has always had a more liberal definition of what is flirting, Fooling Around with friends, and sex. To understand her definition of what "Just Fooling Around" means we need to look to her past.

Julie and I were both raised in nudist family homes and conditions permitting, the two families were nude almost all of the time when home. My parents were conservative nudists and we were taught that any sexual activity should be engaged with the same levels of discretion and decency as you would in a clothed public environment. Sexual activity, including things like passionate hugging and kissing, petting, sitting provocatively, and other activities that may cause sexual arousal, should be avoided in public.

Links to my family's nudist philosophy:
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...8&postcount=23

and Julie's family's nudist background:
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...0&postcount=20

By contrast it was the 1960s, the sexual revolution was going strong, and Becky and Julie's college professor parents had develoed a more liberal attitude regarding public displays of affection and sexual behavior. They were advocates of the cultural and moral changes that were rapidly developing as part of the "sexual revolution", along with the counterculture and free love movements. With that attitude they redefined the limits of sexual behavior as actual vaginal penetration by an erect penis with or without ejaculation. Everything else was just innocent expermentation and ways of satisfying sexual curiosity and could be considered learning experiences.

They taught the girls that passionate hugging and kissing, non-penetrating genital to genital contact, caressing or suckling of ones genitals, breasts, or any other part of the body were not actual sexual acts and could, therefore, be considered as just "Fooling Around". As long as there was no genital penetration or ejaculation almost everything was fine.

However, both "Fooling Around" and actual sexual activity should be avoided in public so as not to offend those who may not agree. For the same reason even though they are normal and involuntary phsiological functions that could not be avoided, penile erections, vaginal wetness, and any other signs of arousal should be covered up or obscured when someone may offend.

At camp and at other peoples' homes Julies's parents were generally discrete and avoided overt intimate contact. However, they did have the reputation of being a slightly "touchy - feely" couple. At home they had broader limits to their displays of affection and decorum. During our frequent visits and weekend stays we got to see it all from passionate hugs and kisses, butt rubbing, nipple kissing, breast fondling and even light genital petting. These activities only lasted a few seconds each and Julie's dad rarely got an erection. However, when he did get one, partial or full, he did little to conceal it.

At first Susie and I were surprised and didn't know how to handle it, but after a couple of episodes Julie whispered that it was nothing, as "they Fool Around like this all the time". She then explained to us what fooling around meant and we left it at that. After all, their house, their rules.

I don't think that during their many visits to Julie's parents home my parents ever realized the full extent of their displays of affection at home. For Becky's and Julie's sake and their fear of damaging the relationship between our families, Susie and I agreed not to disclose these details to my parents.

Don't get me wrong, their home was not a "den of sin" and sexual hijinks. They were all just more broadminded, tollerant and less judgemental of other peoples' behaviors and mores. Their parents championed wholesome family and social nudism and did everything necessary to teach the girls the proper behavior and dicipline required for nude living. After all, nudity in itself is not sexual and living nude is not more sexual than living clothed. They had to have a certain level of sexual knowledge and a high degree of self control, but also had to be ready to be sexual when the situation warranted it.

After my return from college Julie and I started dating seriously. When we decided to marry she disclosed more details of the girls' home life including a couple of huge surprises of which I had no clue. I will relate these details in furture posts.

Surprise Dinner Guest
 

When I was still living with mom & dad I had a big crush on a girl named Monica but I didn't have the courage to meet her or even approach her. Then I made the big mistake of telling my sister Sue about Monica. Sue was never missed a chance to prank me, and this was no exception.

My sister & I were raised as nudists and our family was normally nude at home. We had a rule that all visitors had to be cleared by my parents in advance in order to avoid awkward situations and shocking the visitors. Although we always followed the rules, Sue was one that would often bend them to the max.

One night at dinner, in front mom and dad, Sue asked if I still wanted to meet Monica. I said yes, but was too shy to do it alone and would have to be in a group situation to do it. With that statement Sue's evil matchmaking mind went to work.

A couple of weeks later, on a warm evening in early October, I was helping mom and dad prepare dinner. I was in charge of the salad. When we heard a car drive up and park we assumed that it was Sue. She had gone on a quick errand and was now back, just in time for dinner.

I was carrying the salad bowl to the table, with mom and dad following, and as usual, we were all nude. When the front door opened it was Sue, alright, but Monica was with her! All three of us were nude in full frontal view of the two dressed girls entering from the front door. I stood there frozen, wondering what to do or say. Polite protocol required us to all remain standing while introductions were made.

I was not shy about Monica seeing me as I had socialized nude with many dressed girls before. I assumed that she was not a nudist and could be traumatized by being exposed to a group of nude people. Also, Sue was going to be in big trouble for bring in a new guest unanouonced without permission.

Mom and dad remained standing and made no effort to cover or hide themselves ( after all it was our nude home ). My mom walked up to them asked "who's your friend", breaking the ice, and normal introductions were made all around.

Monica accepted mom's dinner invitation and I was asked to bring up an extra chair and set a place for her at the table. Sue went to her room to "change". When Sue returned we all sat down for dinner, a nude family of four and a clothed female guest.

Now a little explanation: Sue, always a great recruiter of new nudists, had befriended Monica and over a couple of weeks explained our lifestyle to her. It turned out that, as a navy family, she had been exposed to nudity on the beaches in Spain and France. She thought our family's home nudity was fine but preferred to remained clothed for this visit. Sue had earlier called mom and asked if she could be bring a ( nude friendly ) guest for dinner.

During dinner we asked Monica about her interesting experiences attending to school in Spain and other travels in Europe. After dinner we all retired to the den to continue our visit. After a while, mom noted that it was a school night and Sue should dress and drive Monica home. I don't know if Monica ever told her parents about her dinner with the "nudist family".

Monica and I never really hit it off, but remained casual acquaintances ( with a secret ) until her family moved to Hawaii the following summer. I never did see her nude. As a typical youth, I soon lost interest in her and discovered yet another flame to follow. This time I didn't tell Sue.

A memorable nude driving experience
 

Edited to eliminate any possible offending references

Originally Posted to OCC: 17 Jun 2023


Many years ago, on a mid August Friday late afternoon my mom asked me to drive to Swallows and pickup our friends, Mabel, and her daughters, Julie ( my wife to be years later ) and Becky. I was to go there and wait for them to finish what they were doing and bring them all back home in time for an early dinner. The girls were going to spend the weekend with us, as their parents had leave early to attend a function in Orange county.

Since it was less than a 5 mile drive and it was a hot afternoon I thought that I would hit the pool at camp while I waited. Mabel's meetings always ran long so I would have plenty of time. So I hopped into the trusty Falcon, still nude, emergency shorts and T-Shirt neatly folded on the front seat. In those days cars had bench seats and no air-conditioning so it was not uncommon to see someone driving shirtless with their windows down.

When I arrived at camp Mabel was dressed and waiting at the bus bench on the road outside the gate. But the girls were not there. She got right in, and not realizing it, sat on my clothes. We would have hurry to her house in Spring Valley to pick up the girls, about 12 miles away. She barked "Let's get go, we're running late and Bill's probably already at your house waiting for us". So we drove off with her still sitting on my clothes. She suggested that I could discretely put my shorts and t-shirt on in their driveway.

I was OK with making the drive nude since it was mostly back country roads and their neighborhood was rather quiet. In fact I had made the same drive as a nude passenger several times in the past, leaving camp to spend the night at their house.

When we got to the house the girls were already waiting at the curb. They had closed the gate so I wouldn't get a chance to don my shorts. They hopped in to the rear seats and off we went for the 20 minute drive back home. I had previously made this ride a couple of times as a nude passenger with my sister or parents driving, but this was the first time with me driving nude.

Becky offered to take off her dress so I wouldn't feel alone, but Mabel didn't let her because her breasts were too noticable. In the end it was an uneventful 40 mile country road round trip to camp, the girls' house and home, except for the fact that I was nude and had 3 clothed female passengers. But no big deal because, as usual, they were all nude within 2 minutes of arriving home.

Got a "page not found" for the H&E reference; here's a clip (sorry, only in 480p!) of what seems to have been her first appearance in the Charlie Simonds films, ending with a reference to the next one (which I haven't found - yet): gofile.io/d/8pxluw

In my case, it was not me but my first wife who liked to ride around naked.
The first time it ever happened we were staying at some nudist friends for an extended weekend. We were naked the entire day into the evening at their home. The next morning we decided to head out to their resort. Our female friend had a Jeep with tinted windows, and she offered my wife a "naked ride" to the resort. Much to my surprise, my wife took her up on her offer. We headed out, drove about 30 miles and parked at the resort parking lot; and I saw my wife jump out of the Jeep naked and giggling. She then proceeds to the main office, naked; which was something not usually done by non-members. Clearly, she was enthused by the fact that she'd been able to stay completely naked the entire weekend.

After that it just became a habit. She would just wear a sarong on the way to or from our resort; and it would be off by the time we got to destination. She'd just hop out of the car naked att the resort entrance and other people would just be looking at her, like "how!?" She even walked naked from the car to our house a couple of times (when we arrived late at night).
That was the good old days when my wife liked taking risks and staying naked. It made for some good times.

Shopping nudist
 

My wife and I stayed at a small nude camping resort in croatia. We visited nude beaches regularly but always tried to find a empty spot with few people around. So beeing nude was nothing knew but it was our first time at a nude campground with a lot of other nude people around.

But the funny story happended when we went grocery shopping. While hanging out at the beach we wanted to grab some drinks and snacks from the grocery store nearby. The store was in the neighbouring resort which was not nude. We were too lazy to go back to our tent to grab some clothes so we just covered up with our towels.

My wifes towels was rather small, so she could just barely wrap it around her body. The small shop was rather busy, some completely clothed people and some in swimsuits.
While my wife tried to grab something with both hands from a high shelf her towel came loose and quickly dropped to the ground. She was now standing in the aisle completly naked with both arms up. A group of young men was in the same aisle and their eyes nearly popped out. :D My wife put the groceries down, picked up her towel and wrapped her body again, smiled at the men and continued shopping.

On the way back she told me that she didn't think that grocery shopping would be the moment she was most exposed.

painted shopping
 

When we were younger, we went on a beach vacation with friends. Nude bathing was also allowed on the beach. The women sunbathed topless, so my wife and the others also took off their tops. To pass the time we played games with a stake.
In some cases the loser had to fulfill his punishment immediately.
As we entered the beach we noticed a body painter painting people.

When my wife lost her bet it was suggested to her that she should go shopping for dinner at the beach shop. But before that she has to have a bikini top painted on her bare breasts. She can leave the bottom part on. So late in the afternoon we all went to the painter's place together.
My wife had to take off her top and face the painter.
I wanted the same pattern as the panties. Then the painter started working and sorted the required colors and started painting the bikini straps on her back then he slowly worked his way forward. He asked us how close the top should be over the breasts, of course only covering the nipples. When he worked on it, he of course had to take her breasts in his hand so that he could paint them with the brush. My wife's nipples became stiff and everyone clapped!

After it was painted we admired it together and the result was fantastic - you could only see it if you got very close. Then we went to the shop together and saw the sign that you weren't allowed to enter topless.
She wasn't! She went in and took a shopping cart and started her rounds. We all followed her at a short distance. Of course, some people noticed that the top wasn't real, especially because the nipples were on the outside.
The cashier no longer had any eyes for the groceries, he just stared at my wife's breasts!

He must have been super relaxed to be able to able to spend time nude with a woman he was seriously interested in, without "incident". I had a GF once who asked if I wanted to join her and her family in their sauna, but I told her it was best to wait until we got further into the relationship, because seeing her nude before our relationship had gotten physical could have been a bit too exciting in a very visible way, in front of her parents and sister.

My Dad's Attitudes
 

Thanks for taking an interest in our family's introduction the living nude.

My dad was a US Marine Corps WWII veteran and saw a lot of action in the South Pacific. There, as part of his survival strategy, he developed a high degree of dicipline and situational awareness, as well as a deep appreciation for all aspects of life.

On his return to civilian life, he was game to experience anything at least once. In short, he was always calm and relaxed under all situations and all kinds of pressure. And careful to not draw unwanted attention by not conforming to the local customs and decorum.

We need to see a photo of this!
 

We need to see a photo of this! I'm sure you have one.

My In-Laws' Introduction to Swing Parties
 

My In-Laws, Bill and Mabel, were introduced to social nudism in 1950, soon after they married. At their new home Mabel introduced Bill to the concept of living nude at home, as she had in her youth. That summer they discussed trying social nudity. So they visited nearby Olive Dell nudist camp and immediately became regular members. Over the years they became avid home and social nudists and were nude whenever possible. Their two daughters, Becky and Julie, were born into this full time nudist environment.

Then it became the 1960s, the era of evolving social mores and behaviors, Free Love, Burn the Bra, and acceptance being the norm. As college professors they were right in the middle of it and developed very liberal attitudes regarding acceptable limits in social nudist behavior. Their definition of what constituted sexual behavior was greatly narrowed. Notably, they did not consider incidental or casual genital contact to be sexual, as long as it was not intended to result in sexual arousal.

Over the years they both had fantasized about couples at nudist gatherings engaging in sex. They both became sexually stimulated when they noticed someone observing them engaging in affectionate hugs or discrete genital petting. A few months previous they had given their daughters detailed "Birds and the Bees" lessons where they personally demonstrated various sexual acts. They admitted to each other that they had been highly aroused having sex for an audience. And they both enjoyed posing for the magazine photo shoots. They concluded that they were both exhibitionists and voyeurs.

Then in the mid 1970s they began to consider sexual contact outside of the marriage. They believed sex and love to be two distinct emotions and engaging in sex with others did not mean that they loved each other less. This would only be about mutual sexual enjoyment, not romance, love or emotional commitment. They rationalized that having sex with others was not infidelity or adultery because they had each other's encouragement and consent. They agreed that all of their sexual activities would be in full view of and knowledge of the other and afterwards to share their feelings of the events, thus avoiding jealousy.

To that point they had been monogamous since they married and viewed extramarital sex negatively. However, they had both had several lovers during their Navy and college years, before they met. Mabel described her past lovers as clumsy, amateurish, unsatisfying and largely forgettable. Bill had less past experiences, and admitted that Mabel's description fit him, too.

They consulted with a couple that was part of a "wife swapping" club. As exhibitionists and voyeurs they wanted a club where they could see and be seen engaging in sexual activity. They were assured that they could attend an event as a non-swapping couple, to see if they liked it. The parties were held at a "host" home and there were usually seven or eight couples attending. It was up to each couple to determine the level of participation they chose to have.

After consideration and debate they determined that this would be a "safe" environment for them to engage in sexual activities in the presence of others. In order to gain acceptance they agreed to interact with the other couples. But they would limit these activities to oral and manual sex, and not engage in intercourse. And as agreed everything would be in full view of the other.

During the "ice breaker" socializing period at their first party their host assured them that they would not be forced to do anything that they did not wish to do. And whatever the woman said was law. So after a tentative start they began mixing with the other couples. At that party they each had oral sex with four different people, one of which made Mabel reach orgasm. Then Mabel enjoyed riding Bill reverse cowgirl style as they watched three women lined up on a sofa, legs up, while two men took turns giving each several pumps. That was something Mabel had never imagined and now she wanted to try. They were both so pleased with their experiences at their first party that they mutually agreed to engage in intercourse with other couples at the next party.

The parties also had some very disappointing elements. Many of the women wore lingerie, stockings and even more clothing during the socializing period. Some of the women removed only their panties during the activities, keeping their stockings and bras on. It was the same for the men, most remaining fully clothed during the "ice breaker", getting bottomless still wearing a shirt during the activities. Unaware of the "dress code" Bill and Mabel were the only nudes during the "ice breaker", having arrived wearing only a bathrobe. At each party only half of the couples became nude during the evening.

A second disappointment was that after the "ice breaker" some of the couples would pair off and retire to private bedrooms for their sexual activities. Bill and Mabel's hope that the activities would all be in one room dashed. And after about an hour the parties tended to devolve into uncontrolled orgies, with some men masturbating as they watched their partner have sex with multiple men and women.

So, after their third party Bill and Mabel seriously discussed hosting their own parties. Addressing their exhibitionist and voyeur desires, their parties would be one where everyone could see and be seen engaging sexual activities. They would limit the guest list to four couples and required them to be nude at all times. So that their parties would not devolve into an uncontrolled orgy they opted to format their parties into a series of sex games with all guests simultaneously participating in the same sexual act. Refreshment and recovery breaks would be had between each event. The evening would climax with a final intercourse with ejaculation activity.

In future posts we will detail My In-Laws' Cocktail Parties and how they got their daughters to be nude hostesses and waitresses.

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I have frequented several naturist beaches in Europe with my wife and I would like to tell you about our experiences.
We went to the beach in Tenerife, everything was beautiful, polite and calm. We also did Formentera in Spain.
Croatia is well organized and there is a lot of respect. Furthermore, the beaches are all protected and it is also possible to stay in campsites or resorts. We saw many families with children peacefully together.
But we come from Italy and this is where we have the most experience.
In Italy the beaches are free, but they are often a meeting place for voyeurs and swingers. My wife doesn't mind being seen even by those who aren't just there to enjoy the sun and the sea, but she doesn't want to have sex or talk to strangers. We have been frequenting these beaches since I was 32 and she was 26. However, it has happened to us several times: the passage of some migrants who also do a light catcalling; the arrival of 13-14 year olds who pass by and laugh; illegal sellers; the local police passed by waving to ask us if we had seen any voyeurs to report.
But we also had the most beautiful experience in a resort in Puglia: lots of sport and activities, always naked. We also took a mini naturist cruise to visit some caves. You remain naked for the entire journey, but the two sailors who were driving the boat did not! Then you always arrive naked at the mouth of the caves and go back. Near the caves there are also other boats that were watching us while we were all naked.

Our Beach Experiences
 

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Many years ago we tried the nude beach scene. Twice at San Diego's difficult to reach Black's Beach and several times at Florida's Playalinda Beach near the Space Center. Each visit ended very disappointingly. At Black's Beach the other nudes were either unfriendly or were obviously there for sex. And there were no shortage of gwakers and guys with telephoto cameras. Almost the same experiences at Playalinda Beach. Although some of the other nudes were approachable they were very suspicious of our intentions and would not make a "social" connection with us.

For those reasons we amost exclusively opt for visiting family friendly AANR affiliated resorts for our social nudity while on travel. Even if just for a day visit. The atmosphere there is always more relaxed, friendly and accepting of social visiting invitations by "strangers". And no gwakers or perverts there to make my wife feel uncomfortable. An added benefit is that these facilities always have refreshments, food, shaded areas, showers, lounges and a clean pool available.