Your 1st reaction at staying at some Adult Resort?
 

I was just wondering what reaction if any did somebody else have while going to some Adult Resort for their 1st time? My wife and I started out by getting a invite to go on a Cruise vacation with her cousin and her hubby, but later we found out it was on an all Adult ship / boat that had a Tanning deck where you can tan as much as You want before going to the Clothing optional Beaches!
After finding out more of this info, my wife & I were just wondering if her cousin & hubby had more of the common Naughty interest that we both had too? I'm not sure if my wife had any fears in going like I had, cause for women you can't see by looking at them if their excited or not? Being a lover of Busty women and my wife's cousin in on the Busty side, I knew there would be a time when I'll have a growing or full erection that the cousin will be able to see and what do I say then?
With that stuck in my mind, we went anyways cause we just started to do things that would add more spice into our long married life and we wanted to see what others do on these Adult vacation cruises and Resorts!
My 1st unusual deal came when my wife and her cousin planned that all of us would try out the Tanning deck all Nude together for a tryout and some tanning too! I have to omit that it seemed like I was the only nervous one when they came to our room and all of us was wearing only a robe to cover up! They all started out the door, but I said I'll be there in a few minutes cause I have something to do first. Finally I went to the tanning deck and found them all Nude in the lounge chairs with my wife & her cousin on the sides, with the cousins hubby between them.
I have to say that I found all of this super thrilling seeing my wife & her cousin all exposed, but what shocked me was that her hubby didn't have any erection being with the women nude? I did get a nice spontaneous erection, so I excused myself and went back to our room. A short time later there was a knock on the door, but I thought it was my wife and she didn't have the card to get into our room? To my surprise it was my wife's cousin asking if she could come inside and I said sure. The wife's must of done some talking or planning cause she opened up her robe then removed it, then she did the same to mine and my bobber was going Wild!~ lol
She asked me just how I wanted her to handle my problem on the bed or by what means? When I told her that my wife will be back at any moment, she told me that my wife was with her hubby in their room talking care of his problem! With that being said, I can tell you this was the start of a wonderful vacation that none of us will forget and there is plenty more to tell if your interested in hearing it?
Thanks and I hope others have similar adventures to tell here too!

Your wife's cousin opened her robe then yours? Please tell us more!

"With that being said, I can tell you this was the start of a wonderful vacation that none of us will forget and there is plenty more to tell if your interested in hearing it?"

1Michael: The quote from your last post above is a redundant question. Surely you don't really think any regular OCC readers wouldn't want to hear, "the rest of the story".

I certainly do. Thanks for the tease.

Certainly want to hear the rest.

We live not far from Caliente in Tampa and we've talked about going there with friends. I think it would be fun. We have friends from MA that come down to it and we have friends from the East Coast of FL that go sometimes. Those friends are going to Hedo Friday and I'm super jealous. Our big issue is child care. Oh well.

More from our 1st Adult cruise vacation!
 

Wow, I'm glad that others want to hear more about what happened and it always nice when others have some kind of special experience of the same in nature that we can hear about too!
Well just like I was saying, it was only me and my wife's Busty cousin in our room and after what she told me about my wife being in her room with her hubby my mind went naughty! It was one of those moments that stays in your mind at least for me being a Lover of huge tits, seeing them in clothing and wondering what they would look like exposed? My mind shifted off her being my wife's cousin and we ended up on the bed, I can't remember if her hands went first on my hard cock or mine playing with her tits and nipples! The only thing I thought about was enjoying the moment, so plenty of Kissing along with tongue exchanges were done and I even used a few fingers to see that she was wet and excited below. We did have a few talking periods too, but nothing that was real long.
When she asked me how would I like to finish this and she did say all the sexual ways too, I didn't want to go overboard not really knowing what my wife was doing? So I just asked about going between her breast and making my deposit there and she was Ok with that too. We had our clean up and she said we're all to meet up again on the tanning deck, so that's were we went and my wife & cousin's hubby showed up a short time later!
The funny part was we all knew we had done something naughty and everybody was having a huge Smile, but not a word was said about any of it! Since my wife's cousin and her hubby went on these Cruises before, they just told us what to expect at the Resort and more about those clothing optional Beaches we'll visit. They also had a plan way for us to be on the Beach too, the wife's together and us hubby's together but within viewing! They said it gets interesting this way cause you'll be able to see who gets Hit on and what's going on of a sexual nature if we were interested in that way of excitement? Since my wife & I were on a open minded change in our lifestyle and would talk about what each of us done, I found it thrilling to hear what she done with her cousin's hubby and my wife wanted to know what her cousin done with me too? These talks in our room started up some great sex for us that was just like being out on a date again and not married lol. I found out the my wife done lots or oral on her cousin's hubby, but he enjoyed taking clips of her taking his cum in her mouth and swallowing later! I didn't get that far with my wife's cousin, but we had plenty of time on vacation to make up for it lol.
What I found interesting for our 1st time there was we did see many guys on the Beach an other places with their GF / Wife / co-workers / Family's / Groups and just lots of Tourist that had bobbing erections or full hard ones - and hardly a glace or stare was given to them and I thought my wife's cousin made a joking comment when she said it was "No Big Thing!". The Resort had workers roaming the Beach, selling drinks / passing out towels & tissues / taking pics for a Price / and other stuff too! The Local's that lived and worked there were able to use the Beach, but were told not to associate with the Tourist off Duty or they'll be fired!
Plenty of the women Tourist wanted pics taken, but I noticed it would be with some other guy or a Local guy with a huge hanging cock! They even asked us many times to take the pics for them too.
I still have more from this 1st time there and Hope somebody else had some type of Adult vacation to tell about too! I can say if just hearing what we done is exciting, you need to Go there and do it too for at least a once in a lifetime deal~;)

Caliente can be very disappointing. Sure everyone is nude almost all the time. But if you are looking for any sexual activity, it only happens at private parties on weekends. It's easy to find out where the party is, and get invited. If you are going to stay there, bring money. It cost us $900 for a cottage or condo for the weekend. And the food there sucks.

We will never go back.

DR

We'd only go with friends who have been there and there are certainly fun times to be had with them.

Nice to hear that others had Adventures too!
 

I have to agree with those that said these Trips are costly because they really are, but when your thinking at the time with your smaller head it never enters your mind till the Credit cards come in the mail.
The Resort also had more places we never been to at home like a Masseuse Parlor, but it operated at bit different from what we thought it would be like at a normal place!
Again being away from home and wanting to try out everything we went for it, but First they had a rule procedure to follow with some instructions to read. Then you had a Sign a form that was like reading a Legal Notice to set your limits on where and how much they could touch / rub you, or if your willing to go the Limit?
We both went for the Limit, then you get to pick out if you wanted a guy or a gal to work on you? I took the gal and my wife took a guy, then your shown all the workers to chose from and their either there or on call I guess?
Both of un were taken into this room and asked to undress & given a white sheet to cover, then to get on these lounge type tables and wait. A short time later both of our massage workers came in with the tools of their profession like Oil's and other things. They asked if we wanted a thin separator placed between our lounge beds for now and it can be removed at anytime? We said sure, but it was so sheer you were able to be everything going on from both sides but it made it kind of more sexual too!
The rub was just normal from the start and felt great for never having one before, then before both of them got to touching our private parts area they removed their clothing too! Not knowing what to do or what to expect or could be done, I kept my hands to myself. The girl I had was rubbing my cock with oil, then took my hand and rubbed her crotch with it. I was thinking it was Ok, so I did my own finger play there and got her wet too! I can say that paying for this it seemed like both of us were on or off the table in turns. I could hear my wife moaning and looked over to see she was having the same type of rubbing that I was getting, besides doing oral on her guy too!
The only difference here then a normal place, was this was like paying for a Sex Escort along with a body rub lol.
After this we went up to our room and cleaned up before meeting my wife's cousin & her hubby at the BAR.
That was another FUN adventure too cause they had different things to do on the hours for the customers to enjoy!
Hope we still have more that had some type of sexual vacations we can hear about too?
:)

I went to a nude beach one time and got a bad sunburn on my dick. :eek:

Don't forget your sunscreen! :D

3-day hard-on
 

First reaction was a constant hard-on at seeing my wife displayed so freely and willingly. Lasted three days. Fortunately the management knew it was our first time there, so ignored the visual of my aroused state.

They don't pay that much attention to Erections!
 

I think that was my major worry about going to any of these Adult places and being NUDE, getting a full erection and being embarrassed in front of my Wife / family / strangers and all the workers there that wore clothing too!
But taking the advise from my wife's female cousin that's been there a few times now, she said the times have changed and unless your a Newbe there on vacation nobody else is going to pay any mine to it~
We even had a few of the workers hear part of our conversations about it and they said it is now thought of as "Spontaneous Erection's" and that could be brought up by anything, but they come and go fast too!
The only thing that I knew was mine was from seeing all the thrilling women Nude & Exposed lol.
I was thinking the workers that see the Best of Everything, cause they get to wear clothing and get to see & enjoy the Guest all nude and many of the employee's use the Beach too!
Besides seeing my wife exposed, I got to see her Busty cousin and enjoy being able to see many guys doing a double take on the wife's and trying to put a hit on them too!
Besides getting me excited the cousin's hubby got thrilled with me from watching at a short distant away from our wife's! It was part of a plan to see who would get picked up and having the thrill from watching.
There were still many female workers that I would have loved to seen exposed, but they were willing to pose with us for pics and were always pleasant and smiling!
The more trips you make to these places, the Better they get and you learn more each time!
:p

There are differences between AANR-style resorts, adult/couples' venues and swingers' venues. The adult/couples' is somewhere between AANR and swingers, in varying degrees depending on where you go.

My wife and I go to both an AANR and adult/couples' venue. The AANR resort has more amenities and people; but it also has more "rules." So you have to kinda "watch yourself" and "keep it PG." It's not an issue for us; we just go along with the "rules."

It was actually my wife's idea to try a smaller adult/couples' venue. She wanted to try something "different." And it was definitely "different." :p
The only two rules were: "no open sexual activity" and "don't be a nuisance." I found out on the second day that they're weren't any rules about erections; as we met and actually hung out with one dude with his GF (I've mentioned him in another post) who was quite a bit erect. My wife (and the other couples) did not take exception to it at all (he would have definitely gotten thrown out of an AANR resort). I personally don't walk around with an erection; but it's good to know that I don't have to hide my morning wood there, should it occur.

Surprisingly, my wife actually embraced the situation. Once she realized that she didn't have to worry about "posture etiquette" there, she loosened up and got comfortable lounging around with her legs open - as did some of the other women. Cookies were on "full display" that week end; which is something that wouldn't go over very well at our "other resort."

My wife enjoyed herself there so much that we go there regularly now. We're not swingers, but we do enjoy the freedom of being able to be totally open around other people. But the "adult" venue is definitely not for everyone.

Thanks for posting that comparison, Shihoin. That clarifies things splendidly for me. Much appreciated!

What to wear at these Places?
 

After going to at least one place and finally getting use to it, we found it more relaxing to continue coming back to the same place just in case like it was noted above - some places have different Rules to follow!
But with women in mind, going to these clothing optional Beaches still has their challenges!
At least for my wife and her female cousin as well, do they go just Topless at the start or start off all natural and see what will happen?
I'm sure my wife is like many other women, trying the latest trends and fashions out and that even comes down to Beachwear too! My wife had the normal but kind of thin Bikini for starts, then she bought some that were only Strings or Thongs! She found a place for what is called a C-clamp and got a few of them too. I found them to be just a wade of material that is on a spring loaded system that covers her crotch from the front to the rear with a bit more material in the front and rear. The only thing is she gave them a try at a pool party we had and added on a Bikini top from another suit so as not to Shock the guest as much! lol
The only thing is after she took a dive into the water, she came up minus the C-clamp bottom! So we ended up having a hunt in the pool for it and the Happy finder got to watch her put it back on! lol
Now today, my wife just came back with a newer version of that suit called a C-string! She had to buy at least 2 of these because the price isn't much cause there isn't much of a suit. It still is spring loaded with more material to cover the front even with her mid size trim landing strip showing a bit over the top now!
But the rear of the suit only looks like a thick straw, that goes right deeper in between those buns and holds this suit in place great now! My wife made all kinds of fancy or playful moves and the suit stayed on, but time will tell when the pool is open or we're on vacation again? lol
I was really excited when she showed me pics of other suits that made my mind go naughty, it was like having everything exposed with those lower lips in view as well as the nipples too!
Maybe we'll go back for them too, I hope so! ;)
Keep your info coming in and its great having more knowledge on these place!

Rios, Kentish Town Erection
 

Several years back my wife and I were in the big jacuzzi at Rios in north London. Having popped a sildenafil earlier, and being surrounded by naked couples, my other half had no difficulty bringing me to a full erection under the water.

When we stood up to leave, I was more than happy for others to see my hard cock. But my wife was very insistent on walking close in front of me to limit other's view.

Earlier one woman had asked us not to have sex in the jacuzzi, although couples often did. I would have been quite happy for that miserable kill joy to have seen my cock, but my other half wasn't.

Other guys' semen leakage? well mixed and swirling around the tub? all over your body? getting into your mouth?
Even tiny amounts leaking, allowing for dilution and filtering, would make me feel "contaminated".
Or am I being wierd?

Filters
 

The water is constantly being filtered. And there is so much chlorine you wouldn't want the water in your mouth. Anyway there are plenty of showers for cleaning off afterwards.

It's worth it to enjoy your spouse riding your cock while another couple is doing the same right next to you.

Ask somebody who works in a swimming pool how much urine and menstrual blood are normally in the water. You will stop worrying about sperms, but you might never enter a pool again.

Boring
 

Actually very boring... too many posers, and egos, and novices....... after 20minutes you don't really notice anyone any naked....

The we won't bother with it again... nude beaches are the same..... assholes and posers.........

Hmmm...regular nudist venues too tame for you?
Or maybe you're just not meeting the right people?

Having friends along is Great, but you can find more!
 

We found that having friends or some family members that share the same Interest we have of a sexual nature always to be more FUN at any of these places!
But if we're on a Cruise or the Beaches, we just about always find others that are friendly and willing to open up and talk about everything! It also seems like we all want to be away from the house or home area and are looking for some adventure to break out of the norm!
I'm sure everybody has set their limits or have some kind of Rules to follow cause even we have them around our house with others we share pleasures with too!
But you never know just how far any other couple will go besides being NUDE on the Beach or boat / Ship, until a moment of action or talk starts up and having a few drinks always seems to relax or calm down those nervous reactions!
Its still nice hearing what others have done or observed, thanks! ;)

Over the years I've met quite a few "different" people; one being a couple we met at a nudist get-together.

The wife was very friendly, while the husband just sort of sat by himself and didn't talk much at all. She befriended us, and before long my wife and I realized she was flirting with us (she was very "touchy-feely"). After chatting for a while, she got "real" with us: her husband was not a nudist at all, he was just "there" while his wife basically cucked him. And she made it clear that she was aroused and "down" for "playing" with my wife and me together. My wife and I had no interest in it; but I kind of played along by asking about her husband. She just laughed and dismissed him; stating that he was only allowed to watch...if he was a "good boy." LOL!!! :rolleyes:

It just just a bit weird...and funny at the same time. When it came time for us to leave, she was clearly disappointed, and requested a "three-way hug" before leaving; perhaps hoping to change our minds. The "hug" ended up being her rubbing her tits against my wife's - and then my chest. My wife and I then left, both a bit dumbfounded - but also laughing - about what had just happened.
Unfortunately for the lady, she was subsequently kicked out of the group. Not everyone found her "antics" funny; and this was not an "adult" group. She was just at the wrong place; she probably would have been better off going to a swinger's group.

visa
 

We're very familiar with all that..... we're not looking for sex.....i'm sure there are better places out there.....butwe don't bother anymore....like we said..posers and egos and often creeps ....

you should do caliente

It wasn't a real nudist resort, but we have some friends who own a 200-acre parcel with a big pole barn in the middle, and they have an annual NUDE 4th of July party. Basically, it's just friends, friends of friends, and friends of friends... It's 20 bucks an adult to get in, and every year it grows. This year, there were about 150-200 people from all around the state, even a few people outside of the state.

My wife and I went to the first ever one back in 2015 and I'm not going to lie, it was a little weird at first... but now its something we really look forward to. I wouldn't say we are nudist, but we have become pretty comfortable with being nude around a lot of other people.

My experience was at a different resort; but fairly similar.

It was my first wife and I's second time only going to a nudist resort. We chose Paradise Valley without looking too much into it. Tbh we didn't really see anything really "spicy"; except some flirtatious behavior and a touch of exhibitionism. My wife didn't deny that she enjoyed "the displays"; and she actually indulged herself in some flirtatious behavior of her own. But it didn't lead to anything; except making me hard (in the pool).
It was only when it started getting late that we saw people being "sexy" with lingerie and high heels. We opted out and went to the cabin we'd rented.

Had we not stayed late I would have never known there was some "swinging" going on. No one had approached us. I guess maybe swingers wait to get approached?

I have heard from a friend that Caliente is quite different now. Much hotter. Has a playroom, and much more action. We haven't gone back to see the difference, but I thought I'd pass this on .

DR

It was always exciting on a Cruise vacation!
 

The place that we stayed at a few times had what I would call an outside BAR, it had a roof over the top but most of it was wide open so you had a wonderful view of the Beach area and others walking around could look into the BAR and see what was going on in there too!
It seems like the regular guy in the BAR that we got to know the most was in charge of the playful fun part that went on in and around this Resort place.
He would call up any willing wife/ women in the BAR to come up and be daring enough to do body type of shots and it didn't have to do mostly with Adult drinks!
He would add on some spray Whip Cream to the woman's party part if they would allow, then call up anybody that wanted to give her a try and lick away at the cream. I was surprised that it mostly started out with more women coming up and licking these other women that were mostly strangers to them!
I guess the guys were more or less more worried about what the guys that belonged to these women laying on top of the BAR and covered with Whip Cream would say when another guy was enjoying those treats!
But like I said this guy that started all of this stuff knew what he was doing and how to handle the group so more willing women would come up and expose more for him to spray with cream!
It wasn't long before my wife and her cousin went up and both went all Natural, so her loaded them both up with Cream. They did a bit of finger play on each other before the guy was asking for some men to come up and try a Sample from these willing women!
I walked up with my wife's cousins hubby and we were stopped at the edge of the BAR before our wife's laying on the counter! The guy talked a few seconds with us, asking us both since we all came from the same table if we were related to the women on the BAR? He then said something about us enjoying our wife's in front of the group in the BAR! It was at that time both of us guys said that we're going to enjoy each others wife instead!
That put a kind of Wow in this guys face and both of us went for their tits, then did plenty of muff diving coming up with lots of cream on our faces!
At that time he asked if it would be Ok with Us and the wife's if other guys came up and gave them a try too?
We all said its Ok and told anybody that wanted to come up to do so cause its Vacation time!
The guy loaded them up with more Whip Cream and I think all the guys in the place came up by themselves or with their wife's coaxing!
It was even nice and exciting to see the guy that ran the show and we got to meet with him on a more personal basis later, he licked the cream from both of our wife's and enjoyed their pussy's too!
Not al the women in the BAR came up, but there were more and we got to enjoy plenty and got to be more friendly with other couples there by getting more involved with them of these sexual adventures!
There were plenty of female working stuff that we would have Loved to see all NUDE or involved in these playtimes, but we did see a few on the Beaches and exposed on their own time!
I can say they all were willing to help out anybody with taking pics or doing others things for you as requested!
I'll try to find more of the pics we took and maybe post a few so you can see more of the FUN we all had there!
Hope to hear more about some wild thing you done away from Home!
:)

We might go up for a day in a few weeks.

Report back!

DR

You may already know that 1michael and I are buddies for a long time now. I know he won't mind me sharing this true story with you.

He had a great idea to invite some good looking women over for a pool party a couple of weeks ago. His wife is away and he was a little lonely so he invited a lot of women that he knew and told them to bring a friend if they wanted. It turned out to be a hot day and one of the ladies he invited brought her 21 yo daughter and she had on a very small bikini under her jeans and top and he was surprised how busty she was and cute too. She went for a swim and when she got out he brought her a fresh towel and told her he has a hot tub on the patio if she wants to enjoy that too. So she took him up on the offer and she noticed the sign over the hot tub that says 'Clothing Optional'. He was shocked when she took off her tiny bikini, both top and bottom and hung it on the line and got into the hot tub nude. After a few minutes she got out and sat on the side of the hot tub and soaked her feet and he did the same while admiring her great young body. 1michael was also in the nude and getting very excited. He finally worked up the nerve to tell her she was giving him an erection and she came back with, 'Oh, i didn't notice'. :eek: