Social nudity and people looking at your naked SO
 

My wife and I have been social nudists for a few years now. We stay naked the entire time we're at the resort. Needless to say, my wife has been viewed naked more times than I can count. Here are some of my thoughts on it.

I personally am not into candaulism (no judgement on those that are). I'm just comfortable with the fact that people are going to see my wife naked. If we're in the hot tub, and I see some guy eyeballing my wife's apple out of the corner of his eye as she walks out of the hot tub: I'm amused. If she's bent over laying out her towel or going through her purse: I know it's going to get attention; and I'm having fun looking around to see who's watching. If she's sitting by the pool with her legs open, and I see some guys in the pool doing a double-take at her vajajay: I just find it perfectly natural.

To me, it's all about what my wife is comfortable with. She knows she's being seen. But she likes to be in control of how she's being seen; and by whom. So it varies, and I just go along with it. When she first started out she had "exhibitionist energy" and prided herself on putting it "all out there" with open legs and a shaven kitty (she wanted to be the hottest chick by the pool, so she always went further than "that other girl"). She's a bit more "jaded" now that so many people have seen her naked so many times; but she will still occasionally surprise me. Last year we were playing pool with another couple; and my wife's constantly bending over and wiggling her apple actually gave a dude an erection. And she thought it was flattering!

People often like to box in nudists with either "exhibitionist" or "purist" labels. I think most of us are somewhere in the middle. Social nudity can be playful without being "hyper sexualized" (again, no judgement on swingers or exhibitionists). I like that people can see my wife naked - from literally every angle - and it puts a smile on their face. I'm proud of the fact that the sight of her naked apple bouncing around can cause an erection (even though that would have caused him some issues if a "purist" had seen it). It's a compliment and a testament to my wife's attractiveness.
No wide-mouthed intense gawking though! That's crossing a line!

Very nice description of how your wife and yourself experience social nudity.
In fact, it has many similarities to the experience my wife and I have.
Differences to be noted:
1) my wife would love to experience us making love while others watch us from up close. Maybe even let them cum on her body. We've done this on cam and it was really thrilling and exciting. I never knew my wife could get so wet and horny as those times during cam sessions.

2) personally I would love to watch my wife with 1 or 2 other guys going all the way. When exploring this fantasy while making love, she usually is not open to it ... but it has happened a few times that she was so horny that she indicated willing to do so. So I'm still keeping my hopes up :)

That sounds like fun
 

Have you two ever tried going to an adult theater? You could ease into one or both of your fantasies

Are you sure "you're not into caudalism"? :D:D

Good point!:D

Caundalism is much more "confronting." For example if I was applying sunscreen to my wife's back; and I purposely opened her legs and pulled her buttcheeks apart while rubbing sunscreen in, so that people could get a nice anus view: that would be caundalism. I've seen this done more openly at nude beaches; and to some guys it's an "invitation" to cuckholding. And if I did that my wife would jump and ask me "WTF?!" LOL!

I totally agree. My wife and I have practiced a lot of nudism and in addition to being a very comfortable way to the beach or other pleasant moments, it can also be a good way to show off the beauty of the wife.
We on the beach are on our own, but sometimes, for whatever reason, there is an opportunity to have a fun time and that is very exciting.
For example, when I took these photos of him years ago, we were quietly in a discreet place on the beach, and a boy stood near us, in a bathing suit and allegedly reading a book, but from a position where he had a privileged view of my wife. .
She liked that boy's attitude and he was sunbathing in positions where he could look at her at ease.
Sorry for the poor quality of the photos.

:D:D:D

I'm a bit of a candaulist
 

I like the idea of my wife being naked in social situations. But I'm more of a bdsm/dom-sub/enf enthusiast. So as much as I would enjoy being at a nude beach with my wife where everyone is naked, I would much prefer a pool party where my wife is the only one who is naked.

For me, I think I'm less excited by the thought that people are looking at her, and more excited rather by the thought that she's embarrassed to be the only one naked. So while I'm not embarrassed to be naked at a nude beach... if I were to notice that no one else on the beach was fully naked, then I'd prefer to put on my trunks, while keeping my wife totally naked. She'd be the odd one out, the only one nude, it'd make her feel embarrassed, and THAT would be what gets me hot. Maybe she asks if she's allowed to put her swim suit back on and I say no.

I say this because there were times when a friend of mine would come and hang out at our house. If he would hang out late enough, sometimes he'd fall asleep on the couch. Being an especially heavy sleeper, I would sometimes have my wife disrobe in the living room, right in front of the couch. I'd teasingly play keep-away with her robe. He was asleep, and never found out that she was completely naked mere feet away from him. I didn't care that he was asleep, because it was more about her being the only one in the room who was naked, and not being able to get dressed again.

If it were up to me, she'd be naked permanently regardless of company, but that's a lofty fantasy.

Interesting thread.

I always wonder who the labels are for, though? In my opinion... they are to comfort us and somehow insulate us from what we worry others think.

To Shihoin- I think you are taking a refined view of caudalism... and you know what? That is fine! Who cares about the label. Enjoy what you enjoy, and don't feel constrained by a label.

We've experimented more this past year and have probably mentally told ourselves several different stories. It started with sex on the balcony while on vacation. The first time we thought we were being quiet, and no one knew until we were done and heard voices. I think we both pretended to be a bit embarrassed at first. The next night, we knew people were sitting on their balconies all around us and didn't care. We didn't really talk about that at the time, specifically, but it was a turn-on for both of us. We were in Hawaii, and the sound was unmistakable :D

We tried a nude beach close to us several times this past summer, too. The first time we went, we both wanted to believe it was "natural" and no big deal. Yes, it is natural... but it is also sexual. Once we relaxed, it was a lot of fun for us. We both liked others taking a peek at us, and it was fun to just people watch. We saw everything from the guy trying to make sure every woman there saw him (Mr. Look at my Dick), the female equivalent (Ms. I Look Better at 20 Feet Away), and a lot of in-between people.

We had such a good time, we've been back and taken people with us. I could lie and say it was just for them to experience it, but the truth is that we both wanted to be seen (apply whatever label is needed) and to see them. I found it hot and exciting for others to look at my partner. Some tried to be sly, probably to keep their self-imposed label intact, and others were less covert about it. It was fun, regardless.

I'm not interested in sharing my partner, but I didn't mind others looking! It was fun to talk about it later and get her perspective on things. She didn't care for the guys trying to more or less hit on her. We made friends with an older couple, and she thought they were sweet. He looked just as much as the other guys, but it was fun to hear her perspective. I showed her off a little more to him, on purpose, too.

To answer that question: it's NO!! LOL!!

I see my wife naked all the time; and I'm just used to it. But when someone else sees her naked and responds to it, I see her naked "through their eyes", if that makes any sense. If it's new or interesting to them; then I "vicariously" experience their experience.

One fact that I didn't mention is that my wife has what I call a "chunky labia" (she refers to it as "lippy.") I guess a more technical term would be "labia minora hypertrophy." Even before we started going to resorts, I knew that people would notice; because I would notice it in other women. So my options were simple: either ask her to keep her legs closed (that would have been ridiculous IMHO); or simply relax and let her enjoy being naked without worrying about other people seeing her thick labia. I do recognize that "embracing it" takes it a little bit further. :p

I guess the same idea would apply to anyone with a really hot SO, or an SO with massive tits/ass; or whatever clearly distinguishable physical feature she might possess. There simply are women who are going to stand out in a crowd - even among other naked women. Some people are going to respond to it by staying away from the crowd, others by trying to blend in and remain unnoticed; and then some will simply accept and/or embrace being noticed. In the latter case, that's where the lines between comfort and exhibitionism; or enjoyment and caundalism can get "blurry." You see that a lot at events like the WNBR; where some naked women who "stand out" will stop and pose to be photographed naked - often as their SO watches and enjoys it.

With all that being said, this is not just a "guy thing" either. There are nudist women out there who get a kick out of other women looking at their SO's cock, for example; especially it it's the biggest one around. Things can quickly become blurry from there, if that thought triggers a stimulation for the woman. And the next thing you know, it's the woman who is "crossing that line" into caundalism.

We have been to a topless beach once in France, my wife enjoyed the stares at her tits and I enjoyed the dozens of beautiful topless women. I liked the guys looking at my wife and the way she flaunted herself. We have been skinny dipping with friends as well as strip poker, but that was decades ago.

She does modeling for artists, sometimes she is nude or topless, occasionally there is a nude male posing with her.

I guess I am into candaulism. I enjoy it when men at the nudist resort we go to admire her. She will not admit it, but I am sure she enjoys the admiring looks, especially since she is a mature woman now. Proves she still has it!

This is something I unfortunately have to enjoy vicariously through you guys. My wife is awesome but if I ever subtly ask about a nudist beach or resort, she says she only wants me to see her.

However, we have fairly new home and a window from a room that connects to our bathroom has no window coverings. The front yards are large so it would be somewhat impractical to look but with binoculars, you could have quite a show. She always leaves the bathroom door open with a straight shot to the window and will walk into that room completely naked sometimes to grab something from a secondary closet and doesn't think twice about it. It turns me on when that happens as I envision one of our neighbors watching.

Also - She will occasionally go braless to the grocery store if she is making a quick trip.

So I think there is hope. If I had it my way (and if I knew there would be no pics), I would love to put on a show while vigorously making love to her. Or even just hang out at a pool sans clothing.

A man can keep trying and hope!

Just a tip. Try persuading her to go to a nude sauna center for a day or weekend full of wellness.
Enjoying sauna, pool, hottub, massage and maybe some beauty treatments.
And if you choose one that is a bit further from your home, there is a great chance she will say yes.
It's not only the way I introduced my wife (20 yo GF back then) to public nudity, but also worked for 2 friends of mine.
And believe me when I say that the GF of 1 of those friends swore never to go topless or naked in public.

Another tip
 

Another way is to subtly expose your wife to nudity. Take her on a vacation somewhere you know there is a nude beach nearby. Then make sure you take a long hike along the beach and "accidentally" happen upon the nudity. She'll see the people there are not freaks, and might start to become open-minded. Maybe suggest "doing something wild" (since you are on vacation) and sitting on the edge of the nude beach. In some cases it's just a process of desensitizing her to nudity. Women will always surprise you.

Nudity and My Wife
 

My wife and I go to nude beaches and resorts as much as we have time to partake. My wife seems to enjoy the nude resorts as much or even more than I do. It seems that she has experienced a new-found freedom with her nudity at such resorts. When we first started going to the nude resorts, she immediately stripped off all her clothes and let it all hang out. She had no problem embarking on all the activities the club had to offer. She played tennis, pickle ball, ping pong, corn hole, pool, swam nude, and enjoyed the conversation pool every night with numerous men and women. She readily took showers with both sexes in the shower room. She has no problem taking nude hikes around the facilities, and she never hesitates to talk with nude men and women around the pool. Her openness is never more evident than when she dances nude at the the resort clubs. It is a real joy for me to watch her shake her booty on the dance floor. She even dances with other men while both are nude. It seems like she likes nothing better than to give them a good erection during one of their dances. As they drop her off back at our table, she often will say to her dance partner, “I think you should sit down for a few minutes before heading off.” They gladly take the opportunity to allow their erections to subside before walking back across the floor. My wife just laughs about their condition.

This new-found attitude by my wife toward nudity has also shown up in our motorcycle rally lives and even our social lives at home. She frequently will get naked at late night parties at the motorcycle rallies, and will join into some sexual play-making with some of the other women attendees. She does not hesitate to allow the guys to take nude pictures of her (which she will not extend the same freedom to me in most instances). She doesn’t mind some guys even getting her to pose for such pics.

I must say that it has opened up a wholly new and enjoyable portion to our sex lives. I totally recommend it to all couples.

Nudity and My Wife
 

My wife seldoms lets me take nude or semi-nude pictures of her. However, she recently was drunk and allowed me to do so. Yet, if I ever posted a pic of her where one could see her face, she would cut me off in every way with every thing. So, here is the most recent pic.

Me too. Never knew the name of it, but I really enjoy others seeing her nude and admiring her. She does enjoy it also because as you point out she likes knowing “she’s still got it”. Especially loves knowing younger men like seeing her, and sometimes have erections looking at her.

Like others, we gradually got to that point of going to nude beaches. It took many years for her to like to goes to those types of beaches.

My wife and I have been going to nude beaches or resorts for about 25 years now. We are in very good shape, but I don't particularly get a thrill out of someone seeing her naked. With one exception:

One time we were in Maui on Little Makena Beach. That particular afternoon, there were a lot of attractive women - not just my wife. About 25 feet from us were three women who came by themselves. One woman was older and kind of a a BBW Melissa McCarthy type. But the other two - WOW, beautiful. Mid 20's, brunettes, and very slim and athletic. One kind of Greek looking and one Hispanic or Hawaiian. I took them to be lesbians. They were laying out just talking among themselves. Until my wife (who was super fit at the time) finally walked down to the water completely naked. The two younger women completely sat upright, watching her walk down and then smiled at each other. THAT was a turn on to me.

Definitely a candaulist.
We've been to a few nudist resorts and beaches and have had some interesting experiences. My wife is quite fit and leggy and men seem to enjoy looking at her body. One time, we were at a nudist resort in Tucson and went down to the hot tub after dinner. At first we had it to ourselves but soon another couple that we had chatted with at the pool earlier came in and joined us. They were slightly older than us and the husband seemed very interested in my wife, asking her lots of questions about her work, etc. She has a high profile career so I was a little surprised that she didn't hesitate to tell him all about her life and job while sitting across from him completely naked. The bubble jets were on pretty high so I didn't notice at first that the man's wife had been stroking his cock under the water. When the bubbles stopped (they were on a timer), his erection was quite obvious. My wife didn't miss a beat, and hopped out of the tub to go and reset the timer. She knows how much I like other men (and women) seeing her nude, so when she came back, she sat down on the edge of the tub with only her legs in the water. It was a warm night and she said something about needing to cool down. The other couple were directly across from us and it wasn't lost on me that she was giving them a full, unobstructed view of her pussy. She had it nearly completely shaved then, with just a very small patch of hair above her labia. The conversation continued and so did the cock stroking. I don't know if they were swingers and expected us to join them, but knowing he was hard from looking at my wife's pussy had made me very hard too. My wife leaned back to look at the stars and her legs naturally spread wider. The man's wife was stroking him faster under the water and making little or no attempt to hide it. My own cock was standing straight up with the head bobbing at the surface. The conversation fell silent. It was dark, but I'm pretty sure he was ejaculating under the water when his wife's arm stopped moving so furiously. That was it for us! I wasn't too keen on soaking in a tub of semen soup, so we said our goodnights and headed back to our casita. We walked back completely nude, carrying our towels, and I was still pretty hard. Back at the room we talked about what had happened and fucked like bunnies.

Last weekend, my wife and our youngest son went to a nudist swim event.
Unfortunately my oldest son and myself already had prior arrangement which we couldn't cancel.
It's an event organized 1x a year where a few hundred nudists gather.
We've been to a few of those before and it's great fun.
Like all past times, my wife's sister also joined together with her husband and teenage daughter.

Hearing the stories afterwards, it was a fun edition and my wife loved flaunting her naked body around.
She even let me shave her pussy for the occasion, so all could have a good look.
Although it was mixed crowd, according to my wife there were less younger people (20 - 40) present compared to previous editions. But she also enjoys showing off for old(er) guys, so a win/win situation for all :p

This edition was set at a pool very near to wear we live, so secretly I was hoping she would run into someone she knew ... an acquaintances from our town, someone from work or maybe even someone we know well (but didn't know they went to nudist events). Going naked in front of strangers is not an issue, however meeting someone you know can be a bit awkward, but at the same time arousing. Specially the next time you run into them while dressed ;)

Well hopefully next time I will be joining them again. And who knows who we will run into :D
Maybe I just have to stack the deck and secretly invite someone along we know :cool:

Caudalism v nudist debate
 

I never knew what caudalism was until a few years ago when I posted a story here about enjoying my wife accidentally exposing herself in a see through swimsuit at a resort and someone messaged me telling me that we were both caudalists.... I enjoy seeing my wife nude whether that is in private or in public.... I do get an extra thrill about seeing her naked in public though. I have persuaded her to go skinny dipping while on holiday in our home country and we have also gone to nude spas when travelling across Europe. We are visiting one next week and honestly the thought of seeing my wife naked in public again has excited me for the past three months.

We are going to a nude spa next week and it's booked, but I can't say that I'm entirely sure of my wife's view on the nude in public experience. I have seen people post here about suspecting their wives like being seen naked but won't fully admit it and I think my wife falls into this category. She acts very coy about it.

Hundreds of people have seen her naked in person (and a lot on here too!) and she was fine with it. It felt like on previous spa trips that we were sometimes more naked at times (when others were wearing robes) than we needed to be but my wife was leading it. I'm going to test it out again next week. She has been hitting the gym hard and is in phenomenal shape.... dare I say it is for dozens of people seeing her naked next week? I almost suspect it is.

That's a good bet!

In a few weeks, my wife will begin dieting and hitting the gym hard. She will then start on the tanning bed nude so she can get a "full-body" base. Then, prior to returning to the resort, she will shave bald and go on a liquid diet. It's a yearly routine.
I wonder who she's going through all that for?! LOL! :p

They way I look at it, it's a win-win. She feels good about being seen naked, the people at the resort get to enjoy the view, and I get to have a hot naked wife by my side.

My original motivation for nude beaches and spas was a combination of the enjoyment of being nude myself and seeing others nude. However both the thought and actual experience of others seeing my wife has been a massive unexpected turn on. We're not regular visitors due to where we live but up to a hundred women have seen my cock and at least a hundred men have seen my wife's pussy (half of which have seen her fully exposed after she went bald and a select few will have seen some spreading).

And similar thoughts on her views. I always get some reluctance but then lots of 'prep' and complete exhibitionism once she's warmed up.

How her employees reacted after seeing us naked
 

GF and I were on an isolated beach. Far enough from home to not be discovered by anyone we knew, as she held a very responsible position in our community. We chose a hidden cove, stripped off and stretched out on our blanket. Exhausted from the long drive, she fell asleep while I read a book. She on her back, legs wide apart, knees slightly elevated. All was very private and quiet. While she was still asleep, one leg loosely flung over mine, three couples approached along the shoreline, all clothed. As they got closer, I recognised them as two members of her staff and their spouses, and two other employees. I knew them only through her. As they got closer, they recognised me and walked straight up to us. GF still asleep, legs splayed out, one leg over me, preventing me from moving to reach for a covering. They engaged me in conversation, and all I could do was chat with them as the six stood there looking down at our nakedness. They unfolded their beach chairs in an arc around our feet, obviously intending to stay for a while. Conversation was polite, nothing about us being nude and them clothed, no rude remarks, nothing about my growing erection; they were just out for a seaside hike.

She eventually woke up, was startled to see half her firm there. She covered up even though they'd had nearly half an hour to study her naked body. Later, on the Monday morning and afterward, they remained respectful as she has to see them every day and direct their work.

When I first started in nudism with my first wife, it was all about social nudity and being naked with other people for me. But not for her; as she opted to wear a sarong, or cover up with a towel, while interacting with other nudists. It was actually aggravating.

But then she did a complete 180, out of the blue while we were hanging out with some newfound nudist friends. She started shaving bald, staying naked while socializing - often with her legs open. When it first happened, and I saw people actually looking at her pussy, I was actually like "WTF? This is not what I signed her up for!!" LOL!
But once I got past the "initial shock", I was like: "Oh...this is actually a good thing!" The looks she was getting were a testament to her attractiveness and newfound naked confidence. And I came to really appreciate it.

Social nudity
 

I have a theory that for some people (and I think this explains me) they grow up seeing pornography and females that appear fine with having thousands (and maybe millions) of people seeing their breasts and pussy. Then you grow up and have a partner who is then also okay with having people see their breasts and pussy (in albeit different settings), it’s a turn on because you feel you have recaptured that memory of youth. Maybe I’m overthinking it :-)

Candaulism.
 

Well, I for one am big into candaulism, thus I LOVE other people seeing my wife Annemie totally naked or even in sexual situations.

We've been going to nude beaches and events for a number of years now-where my mature SO is always ogled by attending men, and that's always a lot of fun-but I myself get the most satisfaction sharing her totally naked, uncensored pics with other men or women, who than can study and comment her completely naked appearance, and discuss it with me.

If anyone's interested in seeing more of her, feel free to email us at robertandannmia@yahoo.com, and maybe we can have some fun discussing my/our naked Mrs.!

Friendly greetings,
Rob, Belgium

Camera phones
 

As you can see from my lengthy posts on OCC, my lovely wife and I have enjoyed decades of nudist adventures, mostly pleasant.
She had two unfortunate experiences at nudist clubs unfortunately and these made her more anxious about going there. We still had nude pool parties and a party at our vacation home that will always be a favorite memory of ours.
But she has turned down all invitations for about ten years now. Why? She blames camera phones as being the end of all privacy.
When she was about 25 and a beauty, we went to Black’s Beach near San Diego and had a great time and made four lifelong friends. But not long afterwards , a friend at my work brought me a copy of a popular men’s magazine and told me I needed to see it. I looked through and found an article about
Black’s beach with a half page sized photo of my young wife standing by a guy making a sand castle. He was staring up at her, at her perfect hairy triangle. The photo was full frontal and her legs were apart just a bit giving him a look at her sweetness. It was so clear you could see individual pubic hairs!
She was traumatized and wouldn’t attend any nude events for a while.
Thinking it was all in the long past, we attended her 55th high school reunion in April. A friend not seen since graduation, came over to us with a big grin. Do you two go to California often?” he asked.
We replied “ no, why?”. Out of an inside coat pocket, he pulled at a laminated copy of the Black’s Beach photo. He said he knew it had to be her and he had a crush on her in high school. He added “ I have jerked.off to it hundreds of times and showed it to all my friends that I really knew you!” His wife said “Thst’s disgusting!” and walked away.
I looked at my wife thinking she would be upset but she said “if I still looked like that, I’d strip naked tonight and stay that way all night” I wish.
No, I don’t have a copy of that photo. If you find it, please let me know.

I must say that back in the day (70s/80s) you went to the nude beach and anyone there was there to get naked and enjoy the day. If people were not going to get naked they were generally horrified at the thought and stayed away in fear of being caught there at the nude beach.

It has some how become accepting to wander the nude beaches fully dressed, blatantly gawking and yes even secretly photographing naked people who are trying to relax and enjoy the beach. Like it’s a tourist attraction.

I have seen the occasional phone or camera end up in the ocean as well. Not often enough unfortunately. But it has put a damper on the freedom of just being able to say I am going to let lose and try this…. If I run into someone well hell, they are here too! however there is a whole new concern of pics being posted. Many never try it for fear of just that. It’s a real shame!

Yikes. Sorry that happened to you.

My wife tried a nude beach for her first nudist experience; and found it totally cringe. That's why I recommend the AANR resort over the public nude beach. At my resort it would be damned near impossible for someone to take a picture without 10 people noticing it.

We have been going to nude beaches all over the world for about the last 26 years and this has not been our experience at all.

That is good to hear as it gives me hope the true experience I felt the first time I went still lives on. I was quite saddened to see the textiles taking over what had always been a fond memory of a secret paradise.
Thanks for helping to restore my faith.

It's really not accepted around here in scandinavia at regular nude beaches or nudist resorts. First time I tried the local nude beach here, I was only there for like an hour until I saw two nudists confronting a clothed man laying strategically close to the youngest and cutest girl at the beach. Not sure what he did, maybe he masturbated or took photos, but they called the police and he ran away before they could arrive. So the "true nudists" here are really strict about any kind of shady activity.

It seems clothed single males at nude beaches are generally looked at with sceptisism (they obviously know they are in a naked area, while at the same time not enjoying being naked themselves). Single males that are nude blend much more in, especially if they're not obviously walking around looking all day (there are actually quite a few nudist males that don't really look at women / like nudism for the non-sexuality it's supposted to be, and report couples having fun to the police).

Wife's exhibitionist outlets
 

My wife is a semi low key exhibitionist. Some of her outlets include:

Tiny bikinis - she will wear very small bikinis & thongs to our local beaches which are within 30min of our home. Some of her favorite brands are Malibu strings and wicked weasel.

Posting online - She has posted some of her bikini (and less) photos to the amateur section of her favorite bikini companies.

Nude Beach - she loves the nude beach above all else. Sometimes she can be somewhat sedate as she just enjoys the vibe. Other times she is up at the waters edge entertaining guys who attempt to flirt with her.

Nude Modeling - she has done several nude photoshoots. Most were more of an amateur style, but a few times she was published. She has also done erotic photoshoots with nude male models.

Go Topless Day - she has participated in this event 3x, going topless in public in front of thousands of dressed people.

Social Media - she has posted sexy photos on social media and sometimes trades nudes individually.

"Accidentally" flashing - whether it be loose tops without a bra (she rarely wears them), or leaving the dressing room curtain open a few inches, she finds different ways of accidentally showing off.

Pizza/room service - she will answer the door half naked while home, or more when at a hotel.

Halloween - she has worn some very sexy and showy Halloween costumes to night clubs for Halloween theme nights.