Boudoir Photo Questions/Mishaps?
 

Some of the postings regarding boudoir sessions got me thinking ( I know, there's a first time for everything...):

1) Why do you think more women get totally naked for their boudoir shoot? It's likely the only time they will get naked for a session like that - why not go all the way?

2) Anyone's wife or significant other do a boudoir session where they intended not to go naked, but ended up topless and then totally naked? How dd she feel about if after - and how did you feel about when you saw the results?

My wife has had two boudoir sessions, the 1st I knew about ahead of time, I helped her pic out things to wear, her intention was bare breasts and butt, but no pubic shots. She pretty much followed the script, the pictures came out beautifully. The photographer had a woman there as an assistant.

The second time the photographer was by himself, no assistant or staff. He played into my wife's submissive side, ordering what he wanted her to do, I know she was completely nude from the shots I was, some even has a little bush in them. She told me she went along as the submissive until he fondled her when he repositioned her. The pics were definitely kinkier than the first time, she said he saw her with her legs spread, but she didn't let him take pics like that.

I would suggest a planning session with the photog, to make sure you get what you want.

I presume for this question you actually mean "more women DON'T get totally naked". If so, then I've often wondered that too. I'm particularly baffled by the ladies who go through the trouble and expense of a boudoir session and don't even take their tops off! I presume their relationships must be quite tame if a set of photos of them in their underwear produces enough excitement to justify its creation.

Afraid I can't really contribute on this second point as, while my mrs has done a boudoir shoot, she always intended to get naked during it. She even went so far as to tell the (female) photographer that in their discussions beforehand, less there be any issue with it on the day.

Related: if you're interested in a story about a mishap at a boudoir shoot, I posted a story about that very thing here: https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...38&postcount=1

Mine has done one boudoir photo shoot. Female photographer. I do not think she intended to get naked or showing anything, but there a few shots of her topless. I love seeing them, I have them taped up in a closet so I can see them every day. However I do like like better the few of her ass up up in the air with her panties on.

I have done a few photo shoots for friends/acquaintances, where the women were supposed to be dressed in lingerie.
I have requested that they bring a girlfriend to act as chaperone. I usually chill some wine to help them relax. Many times the girlfriend/chaperone has convinced/dared the subjects to go further than planned. On one occasion the girlfriend got into the shoot. We will go through all the images and I will save the images to be printed to my drive and let them keep both memory cards.

The furthest it has gone was for the girls to ask me to get into the pics too. To this date I have escaped that trap. I have even shot one of the team moms after a conversation with other parents about modest dress and dressing sexily for a spouse.

Ive wondered about this too. When you see sample pics they are usually tame. Sometimes laughably tame like robe over bra and panties. I wondered are these people paying for this and not even doing playboy style shoots?
My wife booked a shoot with a professional female photog and there was never any question she wanted fully nude shots

I can see why even doing a tame photoshoot is a big step for some and that some of the women want a sensual photo vs. erotic. It seems like a small step, but I get why most don't take it.

Personally, this is a topic that is very current for me. I'm getting married in a few months, and we have both teased about her getting boudoir photos. She is also very eager to do it and has joked/teased about getting some couples photos.

We've contacted a local photographer (female) about the process and got back quite a bit of info about the levels offered and what to expect. It has led us to some interesting decisions to make. The photographer shared that it is entirely up to her/our comfort level, which prompted the questions about being fully nude. Straight forward response of "if that is your comfort level."

Yes... we asked if she was comfortable with more than nude. Same answer "if that is your comfort level." We are both turned on by the idea of having a professional take those types of pictures, but I'm not sure if it will happen.

Sadly not
 

My wife did a shoot as a wedding present to me, I hoped she would go topless but sadly, when he asked, she said no. Still, it was just her and the male photographer, so when I look at the photos of her in some pretty sheer outfits, I think about that and it makes them even better.

The scenario mentioned above, when the photographer is kind of dominant to her, is a fantasy of mine!

My wife did a boudoir photoshoot last fall. She bought some lingerie body suits that were a bit see through. She was ok with doing implied nude shots, but she was not willing to let the photographer see her boobs. I tried to convince her to get a few topless shots but she kept saying no.

At the shoot, she seemed a bit nervous at the beginning, but was starting to relax when she got to the second outfit. It's pretty sheer, and ties behind her neck. The photographer asked her if she could untie it and gradually lower the straps. He also asked if she was ok with being exposed for a couple of shots. She laughed nervously and agreed to do it. She lowered her straps slowly until her boobs were completely out. This is my favourite photo from the shoot.

She put on another outfit, and then she got naked for the implied nudes under a blanket. The photographer turned around for her to undress so she wouldn't have to go back to the dressing room again. One photo shows her bare ass and one boob from the side. Then she sat back against the wall with the blanket d****d across her chest. Her nipples are a little visible in those. We stopped trying that though because the blanket kept falling down.

The photos came out great. We had four of them printed on canvas, two in our bedroom and two in the basement. I was in some photos, including two of the prints. One of the prints in the basement is my favourite photo, the one with boobs out. Its big enough that it is basically life sized. She agreed to let me put it up only if I take it down when we have people over. We dont get many visitors so I haven't taken it down, and no one has seen it. She has shown the tamer ones to some friends and coworkers. Some of the photos are on the photographer's private women only facebook group. Not the topless ones but in some you can clearly see her nipples.

Boudoir Photo Questions or Mishaps?
 

My wife has had 2 Boudoir session so far, the 1st was a X-mas gift to her from friends we know after they showed us the Boudoir collection they had done and the exciting remarks and comment that my wife & I gave them along with a huge discussion on just how this all came about for them?
The 2nd session my wife had was a gift from me for the next Holiday, cause we both were pleased with the way the pictures came out in a Classy way and that they could be enlarged and framed for the wall.
Since the discussion we had with friends about their contact with their middle aged photographer and his wife as his assistant, we felt pleased and comfortable since the gift my wife received was from the same Studio!
All my wife had to do was get her hair done and all the rest of the make up and sexy clothing to sheer material was provided by the photographers wife along with her help and much coaxing or cheering on too! lol
They showed us plenty of Classy photo's taken by him of Customers that signed off for a discount of price that their pics could be used for examples to others! I guess this is their kind of way to breaking the ICE on the women / GF's or Wife's / in having them relax more or be willing to show more for the camera too. I can say it also works on the hubby for talking the wife into it and that whatever she is Ok with so is he!
It also was extra nice of the photographers wife to show off poses in sexy situations and clothing, so my wife would even be more comfortable with not only being the only female exposed in front of our group of Four.
After the 1st session, the 2nd got more daring with requests from the wife helper for me to join in with my wife and get exposed too! lol
I would highly recommend it if you never had it done before!

Wife naked boudoir
 

Yes to the second question. Several years back, after much badgering and begging from me, my wife agreed to do a boudoir shoot. She's such a hottie I thought it would be amazing to see her truly made up and in the hands of a professional photographer, as opposed to my usual fumbling with a camera or cell phone.

When she agreed I set about locating a local photographer who would agree to do nudes (surprisingly easy), and arranged a time for the shoot. We picked out a couple things for her to wear which were certainly revealing but not technically nude (black teddy, purple boy shorts, etc). I also made sure to get a male photographer to enhance the enjoyment of the situation.

Once we got to the studio that evening, he had a nice setup arranged with a red satin sheet on a bed and some candles. She came out of the dressing room in her teddy and he proceeded to get her relaxed and started taking pics as she posed. It was amazing to stand aside watch as she posed, and i think having some form of clothing on allowed her to preserve some conception of modesty in her mind, even though she was variously showing him her pussy, tits, and from every possible angle.

As the shoot went on she changed into a couple different outfits, and each session got a little more risque. It was clear she was enjoying herself and feeling very comfortable with him, so when we both suggested to her that we do some nudes, she didn't hesitate in the least. She stripped down every last stich and proceeded to expose herself to his camera in every way possible. I noticed as he got closer to her with his camera he was definitely sporting a tent in his pants, which was a nice compliment. I never expected she'd get fully nude for him but I'm really glad she did!

A couple weeks later he sent us the pics and they turned out fantastic, as you can see in these examples. Haven't done it since, but it was certainly fun and went great so maybe I'll suggest another shoot... :)

super👍

Boudoir sessions
 

I spent years as a professional photographer
I did many types of shoots, portraits, sports, commercial but also I did many boudoir sessions.
I always chatted with the client doing what I could to make her (sometimes him) comfortable. I always made it clear that they were welcome to have a friend sit in but supprisingly few ever did. I always tried to work out a fun theme for the shoot and went over the outfits that would be worn. I would tell the models to make sure their hair and nails were done nicely as nothing shows up worse on the final images than chipped nails or bad hair.
Once we got through that I would ask the model to put on a comfy robe so we could do some preliminary lighting checks.
Never would I pressure the model to show more than he or she was ok with. I would crack lighthearted jokes and try to keep it fun.
I found one of the biggest problems was figuring out where the shoot would be done. Hotels were usually too sterile and also added a lot to the cost. Doing the shoots in the models home was always the best if it could be worked out.
Never had much problems with getting the amount of nudity that the model wanted. I would just try to keep it fun and keep it moving tight along.
Typically I would take hundreds of shots and then cull them down to about thirty or so.
It was a fun way to brighten up my schedule and I always tried hard to make it a hoot for the model
Towards the end I ended up doing a lot of “Dudouir” sessions. Didn’t bother me as long as they were happy and paid.

Oh man, the thought of my wife's boudoir pics getting leaked or hacked from the photog is such a turn on for me!

Alas, it didn't happen.

boudoir gone awry
 

It seems this thread may have ended, but in case not. My ex-wife went to a photographer to have a portrait made for her parents. As things developed, he asked her to get naked for some boudoir shots, began taking some pretty graphic shots, and it spiraled out of control (at least from my point of view). It ended with him fucking her good (for her, not so good for me). A complete re-counting of the affair is on my profile page (among other accounts of her cuckolding me), along with the photos he took before he took her. It is now a huge turn-on for me to think about him enjoying her.

My wife is a photographer but has only done 2 "boudoir" type shoots.
She has her own private studio and since both were close friends who trusted her they were fine with it just being them, the subject, and my wife, the photographer in the room.

The first, and most important, shoot was with a friend who was about to have a baby.
The other shoot was a straight boudoir shoot and this friend did not get naked--at least in front of the camera--so I never saw her giant tits and, my god, would I love to!

Anyway, the pregnant friend didn't have any real problem with nudity and and wanted her swollen belly and breasts to be documented.
The shots are all tasteful and there isn't really even a *glimpse* of pubic hair (:() but they are beautiful and to me so hot that I've jacked off to them a thousand times.

Here's the kicker: she was mainly seated on a low broad footstool for much of the shoot. This stool is upholstered in green velvet. When she got up at the end of the shoot to get dressed she had left a small puddle of pussy drool on the cushion. My wife showed the stain to me later and I found it SO HOT that she was so obviously turned on by this fairly low-level exposure.
How many women bear this secretly harbored desire to be seen like this? I've seen it very occasionally in porn where the scene is not about fucking but about studying the female's body. The quickening breath and fluttering eyelids as they are moved into different positions....
It kills me.

My wife took some university level photog courses and was asked by a friend to do a session with her very pregnant daughter. While I wasn't there for the session, my wife showed me the results, this 20 y/o woman could not have been more beautiful. She was not shy, so many shots were nudes, I thought they were good enough to win awards, but she was not that brazen.

Wife
 

My wife had a similar experience. A few years ago I said I would like boudoir photos for my birthday and after very little convincing, she agreed. We discussed outfits the closer we got to the date in which I asked for nudes but she declined.

Day of the shoot, I left her with the photographer and at the reveal, I was blown away. She started out in some sexy outfits but to my VERY happy surprise, went full nude for the last “outfit”. Needless to say, it was a FANTASTIC birthday.

Boudoir
 

My wife did a boudoir shoot in 2019. I expected to have to work hard to convince her to do it but she jumped at the chance. I found a local photographer on Flickr. Me and the guy chatted for a few weeks about the kind of stuff we wanted. We eventually became kind of friendly so I asked him if I could take photos of the shoot. He asked if it was a cuckold kind of situation because he’d done shoots like that before. I said yes, definitely. It’s exactly like that. He then asked if I wanted him to flirt with my wife and see if anything came of it. I told him to flirt all he wanted but I doubted my wife would want to have sex with him.
The day of the shoot arrived and I’d asked my wife not wear any underwear under a loose fitting dress. My reason was that she’d avoid any underwear marks on her skin. Again I was amazed she agreed.
We arrived at the guy’s house and he took us to the back door where his studio was. He was a little older than I expected, maybe mid sixties, and had a pony tail with very thinning hair. He seemed like a nice guy and was very professional. His studio was in the conservatory at the back of the house. He’d also set up one of his bedrooms upstairs.
I think we’d only been in the house five minutes and he said you can get changed right there if you want. The three of us were standing in his boiling hot and quite small conservatory. He was busy setting up his tripod and playing around with his background sheet thing.
My wife was a bit shocked and said, “what right here?”
He said, “yep.”
So my wife took off her dress, meaning she was completely naked. The first shots he did were of my wife bottomless in a T-shirt, because I have a thing for bottomless. It didn’t take long before she was naked again.
Once we’d finished in the conservatory he transferred the photos to his computer. We all
stood and looked through the pics, while my wife was completely naked. He then suggested we take a break before moving upstairs. He told my wife she could stay naked if she wanted as she’ll just have to take it all off again if she got dressed. Yet again I was amazed she agreed. We sat in his living room and had a glass of juice of some sort. After fifteen minutes we went upstairs. My wife made sure I was behind her going up the stairs because she didn’t want his face right up close to her jiggling arse.
On the bed he managed to get her to spread her legs a little bit. I was fit to burst by that point.
He did flirt a little bit, but I think he must have realised my wife wasn’t interested because he didn’t try too hard. He touched her arse a few times in the conservatory, while trying to get her in a better position. She was sat on a stool at the time, facing away from the camera.
I’ve got over 1000 photos and some incredible memories. I wish he’d tried a little bit harder to fuck her. I’m sure he had a massive wank as soon as we’d left.
I tried contacting him again recently to arrange another shoot but he seems to have disappeared. He’s not on Flickr anymore or another model/photographer site he was on. I hope he’s okay.

Molten - is that beautiful picture on your profile from the shoot?

Yes
 

Yes it is.

Can you share any others with us here?

Yeah sure
 

Here’s two.

She’s stunning!

More
 

Here’s a couple I took.

Another shoot
 

Managed to convince my wife to do another photoshoot. I found the photographer on Flickr again but he also happens to be a fellow member on this site.
I rented an airbnb in a town in between us and where the photographer lives. Time was a bit of an issue so it felt a bit rushed but it was still amazing seeing her naked in front of another guy.

Wow. That's exciting even for someone who's reading this. Can imagine how excited you must have been, on both occasions. Got any pics to share from the second shoot?

Help needed
 

How do I get my wife to agree to a naked boudoir shoot?

Background: we've done lots of public nude beaches and spas. For a long time, she wasn't keen on public nudity but has become more relaxed over time. The main reason this works is because of the freedom being nude rather than anything overtly sexual, although this is also a factor. She has started wearing thong bikinis and has been naked / topless in front of family members. We've never done anything more risky outside of the bedroom. She can be talked into risqué things, but her initial reaction is often negative.

Is the best approach to start with something mild (but risk her not enjoying it and it never being repeated) or going straight in for the full nude shoot (if she would ever agree to it)? I would like to be in a situation that starts 'safe' but, with her consent, ramps up to something with extreme exposure. I would also be interested in a couples shoot, and would even want to involve full penetrative sex (but I think the chances of that are zero).

My wife's reaction to a boudoir shoot: "Who would we show them to? People who have already seen me naked? Or fucked me?"

DR

Our experience
 

As for the first question, I do not if I have any good answers.

As for the second, this is exactly what happened to my wife. When we spoke about her doing the shoot, she said she would not get naked. When the day arrives, I left for a while and came back for the big reveal. I was shocked when I saw she had gone totally nude!!

Best reaction ever!

Pics
 

Here’s two that I took, obviously.

It’s probably easier for them to declare in advance they might not or won’t get naked, and then get naked, than vice versa.

The first time we went she was incredibly nervous, partly about whether the whole thing would be seedy and partly what she would look like in the pictures. However, after seeing how good the lingerie shots were coming out, she felt comfortable enough to lose her bra and then panties. By the end of the day she was completely buzzing. We had two more trips there.

I'm a photographer. Very few women will go nude in their first photoshoot. Best to test the water first with glamourous dresses, high heels and lingerie. If she enjoys it go further next time.

Boudoir shooting
 

My wife was the same. Her best friend from school gave her a voucher for a boudoir shoot for her 40th birthday. At first she couldn't imagine what it would be like. But her friend explained to her how it would work. Then she became curious and decided to give it a try. The two women talked for a long time about how she could imagine it and what she would wear. She was very clear that she definitely wouldn't be completely naked. It could be something transparent.

So she actually booked an appointment with the photographer using the voucher. But she didn't want me to be there and didn't tell me the date. It wasn't until 2 days later that she told me that she had been to the shoot. Of course I was very curious to hear how it had been for her. Then she started to tell me that the shoot hadn't really happened yet. The photographer explained his approach to her and asked her how exactly she imagined it. He showed her lots of photos from his portfolio and she chose what she wanted from them.

He also showed the studio with the equipment and lighting.
Furthermore, she should always move around and do what she wanted in a relaxed manner and not pay any attention to him. After that, the clothes she wanted to wear were discussed. So nothing had happened yet, even though I was already waiting for the first photos.

Over the next few days, she looked for lingerie that she had in the closet and bought some more. Of course, I wasn't allowed to see any of it.
Then came the day that she went to the photographer again.
When she came back, she was bubbling over how great the shoot had been. She was able to pick up the prints in 2 days. There were 50 postcard-sized pieces. The photographer had also staged her really well. She had started with a black negligee with long spaghetti straps that was totally see-through and only had a thong on underneath. A series of photos began with her pulling the straps down at the sides until both of her breasts were exposed. She also had both hands on her breasts and in one photo she had one hand on her breasts and the other hand in a thong on her pussy.
After that there were more in hot lingerie but always with thongs on. I asked how she felt and she said it tingled. Then she went on to say that she had been asked if she could imagine taking more erotic photos with a male model. I was surprised and said if she wanted to do it I had nothing against it.

Weeks later the time had come. The next photo series showed her sitting on a park bench in a garden and in the background a man was lying on a lounger in jeans and bare-chested.
Now she was wearing a two-piece set of a corset and a bra and a kind of transparent kimono over it. Then the guy stood behind her and had his hands on her neck. In the next photos his hands were on her breasts while still on the bra. He slowly peeled off the kimono and bra and then held her breasts tightly in his hands. When she stood up she was only wearing her thong. In one photo his hands were around her stomach just above the thong.
In the last two photos she was lying on the bench in just the kimono without a thong, one side of the kimono was hanging down to the side and showing her breasts, the rest of the kimono was lying loosely on her naked body. In the next photo the guy is standing behind her and lifting the kimono so that you can see everything!