How do you spice things up?
 

Recently the wife and I found ourselves in need of a recalibration due to the world throwing a million curveballs at us. So we decided to introduce an all you can drink evening... at home. We had our first last weekend and tomorrow night will be our second. It's not so much for me, but for the wife. Of course she can drink anytime she wants, but by making it an official thing, it makes it far more exciting and something to look forward to. She came up with the idea and loved it last week and is looking forward to it this weekend.

Obviously, the all you can drink concept is really just a cover to allow her to let loose and do whatever she or I please.
Here's how it played out last weekend...
Halfway into her 4th drink: "You like me drunk, because it means you can do anything* you want to me."
Me: "And you don't like it?"
Her: Wicked smile...
That was the key. I knew she was ready and feeling sexy, so we headed up to the bedroom and she sauntered in in her favorite lingerie. She wanted to know which I preferred, her in lingerie or her in nothing. Tough choice, but I told her I'd have to go with... both! We get down to business and ask her (knowing the answer): "What do you want?"
Her: "Anything. You can do anything to me you want."

So I start to run through a list of things. Some that we do, some that we have done, some that we have tried and some fantasies. This is getting her squirming, so we get down to business. We didn't get to half of what we talked about, but that isn't a problem as there is always next time, but the highlights were her breaking free of one of her restraints and masturbating herself, because I had been teasing her too much and a few videos I took of her as she masturbated. I told her she had to keep her eyes fixed on the camera, keep her legs open as far as she could and then tell me how she wants everybody to look at her.

What started off tame, ended in her looking directly at the camera pleading for people to look at her spread pussy as she thrusted it toward the camera in orgasmic pleasure. (this isn't the first time she's uttered those words, but they were said with such conviction and desire that it made them extra sexy). I have hundreds of videos and thousands of photos of her, but this has to be one of the best shot at home videos she's ever done.

Now we're both looking forward to tomorrow night's All You Can Drink at Home party.

* Anything doesn't actually mean anything. It's her anything. It doesn't mean 3somes or showing her face on the net etc. But each time we talk about it, I expend the definition as much as possible!

Are you fucking serious??
This is the type of video I search and search for (in vain).
I would jack off to this a dozen times.

It sounds like this "Drinky Day" is really working for you guys.
How long have you been together?
(I don't drink or do drugs so this type of loosening up would not be an option for me...:( )

My wife and I have been together for 30 years and spicing things up just doesn't seem to happen. I have tried directly telling her what i need to make things heat up but it is like there is a block there for her.
Maybe it's the post-menopause lack of hormones, but it is almost as if sex is something she has no*interest* in.
She likes when we do have sex but outside of that she isn't curious or driven to look at other people or porn or read erotica--NOTHING. So, finding a way to get her interested is proving difficult.

I envy you.
(please share more adventures)

I think we still keep it fairly spicy... I Hope that never stops!

What things do you do to keep it spicy?

spicing things up
 

We have a few different ways we spice things up. She likes having her pussy stretched every once in a while so I might bring a beer bottle or a thick cucumber to the bedroom to use on her. She also likes her toys and we have a few of those for when the mood strikes. She often claims to be comfortable in her nude body so I try to get her naked in public as often as I can.

Similar to the OP, my wife was amazing drunk. She grew up in an alcoholic household, so she will rarely drink, but the one time I really got her drunk, we were in a hotel room and it almost like she was a different person! She was saying "Whatever you want to do" and "If you want to cum on my face" (she hates any outside. normally she doesn't even want to touch it) when I did cum on her breasts she smeared it all over, I was amazed! I should have taken the opportunity to have her swallow, but I didn't realize it would only happen once.

But, to spice things up, we recently got our first toys. I got a blindfold and a feather duster and plan to tie her up and use that on her as soon as we get a night with no kids in the house.

what works for us
 

Lisa and I are coming up on 27 years of marriage and have been together nearly 32. I'm not sure we have ever intentionally spiced things up or maybe look at it a different way. We have just always been open and willing to talk about things that turn us on or fantasies we would like to try or not try. We also don't take it so serious. We are also looking forward to the next stage. Our oldest child who had moved back in after graduating college has recently moved out into her own apartment. Our youngest is in her last year at UW Madison. So being nearly empty nesters opens up new things we couldn't often do. Such as am I am typing this we are watching the Packers/Bears game and Lisa is sitting topless on the couch next to me. Granted she is under a blanket because we have the windows open and it is a little chilly for her.

I think I'm starting to ramble now so I will end by saying communicate with your spouse. It works for us.

We have a verity of adult board games that are fun. I really like the sexy monopoly we have. I do not remember where we got it as it looks different than the one they have on Amazon right now. I like how my wife will do acts that she does not normally do during these games and seems to enjoy it.

How do we spice thing up?
 

How do we spice things up?
I will get to how me and mine do it but first I want to say I enjoyed reading all of the above. I find it interesting how everyone has their own little thing that turns them on. With everybody having a different psychology and different up bringing and different values (by values I mean some women have hang ups about what they will do and will not do), makes every story different. What will spice up one couple will not spice things up for another couple. That is why I love all of the stories above.

What does it for me and mine; I have written about it about it in in OCC in different forum here are a couple of links:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...8&postcount=77
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...57&postcount=3
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...5&postcount=11

I have had a rich, full wonderful life. Full of action, adventure and sexual exploits. So, it would be sufficed to say it takes a lot to get me moving. But my mind set is on hot wife type situations. That is why the links above are what spices things up for me and mine. I kind of lead her into that and she gladly follows along because she knows it turns me on and she gets off on turning me on. So, after we have been together for a few years and conditioning her for things like what I am about to tell gets us both hot.

A couple of weeks ago I bought my woman a dress and some boots I thought would look good on her. The county fair was going on and I told her to put the dress and boots on with no panties or bra. Here is the pic of her at the fair. She knew what was up. She got dressed and we went. Every once in a while, I would feel her ass through her dress and when we got us a bite to eat at the food truck, we sat down to eat at a picnic table. I got up and went to a position she could flash me without any children seeing. I didn’t care if another man or woman could see. When she flashed me no one could see so I got a good look at her pussy right there in public. When we got on the Farris wheel, I had her hike her dress up and pull her tits out when we were stopped at the top. I loved it and she got off knowing she was turning me on.
After leaving the fair we were not ready to go home so we went to a local bar. The bar had an outside patio so we sat out there. As we drank, she would flash her pussy at me from time to time. At one point She was sitting with her dress above her pussy and her legs spread so I could see it. Because she was tipsy she didn’t notice a man walk by until it was too late. He got a good view. We both laughed and when we got home, we fucked each other’s brains out talking about a strange man looking at her pussy.

DUH
 

SHORT SKIRTS, HIGH HEELS, ----FUCKING AT HOTEL W WINDOWS OPEN...

YES all of the above

What with all the lockdowns in 2021 we've taken to finding excitement in public places, parks, gardens. Yes, you can't do full sex, but the excitement comes from seeing just how far you can go in a particular location. In one place wife was wearing a dress with buttons all down the front. One by one I undid them up to her waist and her knickers could be seen. I would kiss her and stroke her thighs, gradually working up to her waist, lifting her skirt.

Once we went for a walk around a lake. When we started the walk I spotted a couple making out in a picnic area. They were still at it when we'd finished the walk, so we went to the car and collected our picnic blanket. They were still at it when we got back to the picnic area, so we set up the blanket a discrete, but not big, distance from them. So that we didn't inhibit them we soon started to also make out. I pushed the wife's dress way up above her knickers so her black undies could be seen, and started to finger my wife through her knickers. The other woman could see what we were doing and put her hand up her man's shorts. Later she went off to the toilet and the man was then sat in a position to watch us. I carried on the fingering. When the woman came back the man lay down and the woman sat astride him facing us. He put his hands up her long skirt and I carried on fingering. She was obviously enjoying it all. They may have been actually having sex.

Another day we found a quiet spot away from the paths, but visible across a field, the button down dress again was undone, but this time the knickers came down too. We gave each other hand jobs and we both climaxed. Looking forward to a sunny 2022 for more outdoor fun.

I loved the story about the park

My inspiration
 

This is a story I found on another site which was the inspiration for our spicing up frolics this year and which I talked about a few posts up. I've edited it slightly to incorporate my own experiences. Hope it's OK to post.

byfishcake321
It was when I was wandering around London that I had the idea, or rather I watched someone else's idea being played out. I'd been walking along the South Bank enjoying the sights and the people. The great hulk of HMS Belfast never failed to impress me despite the fact that it was now literally welded to its moorings. I'd dropped south of the river to Borough market, bought an ostrich burger for a fiver and eaten it in the grounds of Southwark cathedral. Back next to the river, I'd ended up at the London Eye and was sitting on a bench on Jubilee gardens, a flat open park with lots of tourists and a few benches. I stopped to rest and drink some water.

It had been a warm, sunny weekend. One that brought the tourists to London in their multi-national packs, but as early evening came, the heat eased a bit and London was in that lull between day time tourism and evening night life. The park had fewer people in it that there had been half an hour earlier. There were still groups lying in the gently waning sun, eating the dregs of picnics, Like many of us, I love people watching. I find them fascinating. It is a great way to spend the day. I love looking at couples and wondering what their relationship is like, or how they ended up together. Sometimes I wonder what the world would look like if we all walked round naked. I bet there would be fewer muggings.

There is a general vacancy about people who are absorbed in the moment. Those who are unaware of anything except what they are currently doing. Conversely, there is a certain alertness amongst those who are aware of their activities within the wider environment and it was this that made me notice them. I had seen them arrive amongst the groups with their picnicings and those who were dozing in the sun, a young couple, him a few inches taller than her. He was wearing jeans, a teeshirt and a rather stylish hat. She was wearing a long denim sleeveless dress to the ankle, button through. She was carrying a cardigan and wearing sandals. I noticed her more than him as she looked slightly nervous. She had light-brown hair to her shoulders and wore delicate little glasses. She was one of those girls that looked ever so natural and easy going, but that guys would melt over. In a few words, she had caught my eye.

As they walked past I took in the view. The cut of her dress wasn't particularly low over her chest, but it was low enough to see the beginnings of the curve of her breasts. It was fastened quite tightly, and as the stress on the material was across and not down, the material gapped open a little between the buttons. In the few seconds as they walked past, I could see that there was no bra, just the pale skin of her right breast. The tightness repeated at her hips and I could have sworn that I saw the crinkle of hair, but the moment was so brief I wasn't sure. Suddenly my heart was thumping in my ears.

They lay on the grass some twenty yards from me, feet towards me, his back a little towards me, her facing me a little. They were both on their sides, he on his left and she on her right, turned towards one another. I wasn't really watching them, but there was a certain awkwardness about them, and they kept glancing at the people around them, albeit subtly. I pretended to be deep in thought, but could look at them when they weren't looking in my direction.

For a while they just chatted and glanced around every now and then. There was a subdued nervousness within them that I was aware of. I don't know if anyone else had noticed; I don't think so.

She had curled up a little and had brought up her knees to point at him and had stayed like that for a little while, again both subtly glancing around them. The she had slid her left foot up towards her buttocks with her knee pointing to the sky. As her dress was so long there was nothing to see unless you had your head on the ground -- no glimpses of what may lie beneath, just the toes of both feet and the ends of her sandals poking out from under the hemline.

There was something slightly suggestive about this. Had she been wearing anything shorter, even by a couple of inches, she would have exposing whatever she was or wasn't wearing to an audience of twenty or thirty people at any one time. I continued to watch them. I could see more of her breast as it had slid within the bodice of her dress. I could feel my erection growing.

He shuffled closer towards her and kissed her. And then kissed her again. He shifted her cardigan from where it had lain between them down so it lay between them at hip level. He then also raised his knee and had leaned it against hers. It looked perfectly innocent, but in my slightly erotically charged mind, it meant that she couldn't drop her leg without having to shift herself.

She shuffled her hips very slightly closer to him, and then did something very specific. She moved her left foot, the one flat on the ground which previously had been behind her right calf. She lifted it and dropped it on the inside of her right shin. For a moment I caught slight of her inner thigh in the darkness under her dress, but didn't really glimpse anything other than that.

She was now in a position where her two feet were hooked around each other and her legs were wide open, with his knee pressing against the thigh of her left leg to hold them open. She was really, splayed open under there. Try lying down and doing that yourself -- you'll see what I mean.

It looked perfectly natural, but if you thought about it she was being held wide open under her dress. If I was right about her having no underwear on, she must feel very exposed.

Having shifted her foot, the hem of her dress had risen a couple of inches from the grass. It was still impossible to see anything, but had I been able to drop my head to the level of the bench I was sitting on I thought I might have been able to. For a moment, I thought about lying on the bench, but there was an old lady next to me and nowhere to lie out flat. More to the point they might have noticed and I was enjoying the way she was lying.

I pulled out an apple but I was so excited I could barely eat. I watched out of the corner of my eye and realised that she had rocked slightly, by which I mean, her knees moved outwards very slightly and her buttocks seem to push inwards, effectively clenching. Then after maybe ten seconds, it happened again, really quite slowly. I watched her face. Her eyes, looking at him, slowly closed and she clenched again, and as she released she opened them again.

Again, suddenly, my heart was in my mouth and I put the apple down, realising that I didn't stand a chance of being able to eat. Thoughts went through my mind. What was happening? Was she just clenching and rocking? Was there some sort of remote vibe involved? I looked for his hands to see if there was anything like that in them.

His left arm was under his head. His right hand was under the cardigan, and for a moment it looked really odd. His arm looked too short. Then I realised that his hand must be between her legs. I did a double take, and then a triple take, and came to the same conclusion. I looked closely at his arm. The cardigan was cleverly placed to cover where his arm was going, and it was going to her crotch.

I sat amazed. Every now and then he'd lean forwards and kiss her deeply and then lie back on his arm and watch her face, and every ten or fifteen seconds or so, her hips would shift slightly as she pushed them forwards. It was so subtle, but so obvious when you'd seen it. I came to the conclusion that he'd undone a couple of buttons on her dress and slid his arm inside.

I looked intensely. You could see the movement of muscles in his forearm that occurs when you move your fingers. I didn't know what his fingers were doing, but I could tell what speed they were doing it at. It wasn't fast. Whatever he was doing, he was doing it about once a second, maybe slightly faster. Then his elbow shifted forward, maybe only an inch. At the same time, her hips thrust slightly and a look of concentration appeared on her face, eyes closing again. My mind racing, I thought perhaps he'd slid his fingers into her. I could see the small muscle of his arm pumping faster, maybe by two or three times so, then after some twenty seconds of this, his elbow shifted back and he slowed down again. There was a slight sheen of sweat on her forehead. He kissed her again.

This happened again, some dozen times. Every now and then she'd glance over his shoulder at the people nearby, and then relax back. Each time, I just stared off into the distance. I know she looked directly at me a couple of times.

Then I saw her start to flush. It started on her chest, just above the curve of he breasts. Her lower jaw was slack and she was looking at him. He said something quietly and she nodded her head a couple of times very slightly. I could see the muscles in his arm moving, not that fast, in fact slower and slower. Her eyes focused on his. There was a slight shake of his head and although I couldn't hear what he said, I'm sure he mouthed "Not yet."

Then the muscles in his arms started again, so slow I could barely see them. She'd stopped pushing her hips inwards every now and then. They appeared to be permanently pushed towards him in a state of tension. The flush had risen up her neck to her previously pale cheeks, her eyes were squeezed tightly shut now. He mouth something else to her. She opened her eyes and nodded.

I saw the muscles in his arm move again, quite quickly, and her mouth dropped open slightly. The toes on both of her feet suddenly curled up tightly. "She's cumming," I thought.

Then his arm moved back some inches, far enough for him to have withdrawn his hand.

Her eyes whipped open, staring at him, saying a million words. She kept her position, absolutely static, her mouth opening and closing very slightly. Her entire body looked tensed up. He watched, intently. Had he just stopped touching her as she was cumming?

Slowly she relaxed. It was almost imperceptible, but her hips very slowly sank back an inch and the flush of her neck and face slowly disappeared. Her toes stretched out the other way and the tension was gone. His hand came forward and tucked a piece of hair behind her ear and he said something to her. She gave a cute and incredibly naughty smile and nodded.

Then she spoke again and it looked like, "I love you." She leaned forwards and kissed him and they chatted for a while. Her knee dropped down.

After some minutes he stood up, and helped her to her feet. She looked a little shaky as she stood up. She brushed the grass off the back of her dress, then stretched her arms up round his neck and kissed him. As she did so, I noticed two buttons undone on her dress at crotch height. I could see about six inches her bare right thigh from her hip-bone downwards.

They walked towards me, hand in hand. As they got near me in the evening sunlight, she looked towards me and gave me a knowing smile before slowly heading off towards the Thames, the buttons still undone, but not too obvious. I probably sagged in my seat on the bench at that point. I guessed she'd notice her dress soon enough.

The all you can drink home party continues!
Our weekly home (sex and drinking) parties continue. Last weekend I added new lingerie that went down a treat. A half cut bra. As the wife has A cups, she was happy to wear it as the bra made them stand up firm and proud! She even went to the mirror to check herself out. A few weeks prior I'd also got her a new sex toy. A bullet vibe that has various settings. This is her new favourite thing. Only problem is halfway through her pleasure the thing ran out of battery!

She also requested that I cum on her face which has happened a few times during our drinking home parties. Usually she says I can do it wherever I want, but the last few times she has requested I come on her face. She even told me she wanted to have sex at a window, but alas, that's not an option where we live. We need to be at a hotel or on holidays for that. Too dangerous where we live.

That brings me to a question. The wife was also willing to go on the internet again to show off her skills. We haven't done that in many years. I wouldn't know where you can do that type of thing anymore. Can you even do it like it used to be done??? So maybe we can do that again in the future if the mood takes her.

This idea has really worked and the wife is really enjoying herself. I recommend it to anybody looking to change things up a bit. The only rules for us is that we have to buy dinner (no cooking) and the days leading up I really do everything I can to make sure she's happy.

Happy to offer my services if you're looking for a small audience.

Would love to see Mrs Duran Duran in action

Everybody has different ways for adding SPICE!
 

After seeing this and reading many of the different comments and ideas, I seem to notice that we all had different thoughts on what "Spicing it up" means!
My wife and I didn't get on this conversation till our daughter went away to college for 4 nice Long Years!
Sitting at our kitchen table it was my wife that brought up the conversation on it and started out saying that our long married life isn't the same as it once was when we first got married and her way of putting it was by saying that my cock would go into a Instant erection seeing her NUDE! Now she said it takes plenty of hand and mouth work to get it into the same condition! lol
After hearing here talk about it, I tended to agree with her and wondered why now she was talking about it?
She then started to refer to some of our neighbors that go out to place like Mardi Gras and Fantasy Festival with other friends and neighbors, having a playful Adult time with some exposure as well and maybe being a bit naughty!
My wife kept talking more on what FUN we would have being with friendly neighbors that wanted or have the same type of sexual interest we had back in our early days!
When she started telling me that maybe I would finally be able to see our Busty neighbors wife exposed or even some others and it would be thrilling for me!
I did also explain to her that besides that, I'm sure the other hubby's would want to see her exposed in public and that there would be plenty of Strangers and Camera out there taking lots of pics that'll be posted all over!
She just told me she could live with that as long as it made our sexual life more thrilling again!
Before she finished her final touch was telling or asking me what my thoughts were on sharing sexual pleasures with others that would be Ok on doing the same?
I always took that as she would enjoy another guy while I enjoy his wife / GF!
I was starting to be Ok with that, but had questions to myself on just how far we would let it go?
Finding out your wife might Surprise you on anything is always an understatement!
Seeing my wife on our 1st time with the neighbors had me thinking she was going to enjoy the hubby - but later the wife's got together with a girl on girl and that was another Erection Maker!
Later on an Adult Cruise vacation with my wife's Busty cousin and her hubby, the wife's enjoyed the Local BBC's plenty and that was another Surprise!
So we may have had a few different ways of adding Spice to our married life!
:o