How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist?
 

Please go into detail.

Unless your partner is a natural exhibitionist, it's usually going to take a lot of flattery and instigation. "Why don't you wear that see-through top; your tits looks really great in them", for example. There also has to be a pay-off for them; like great sex afterwards. You want to boost their ego to its fullest extent.

That's how my "reserved" wife got in touch with her inner exhibitionist. Nudism was the avenue I chose to "help my wife along." I just kept telling her how great she looked naked, how other people would feel the same way; that she would be the "hottest chick around" and should be totally unashamed. At first she was like: "Oh stop; you're just BS'ing me..." But then she did give it a shot; and I did my best to make her feel real sexy about it. And after she got naked, I "rewarded" her that night with great sex.

I nurtured her confidence after that; and she became more and more comfortable with people seeing her naked at the resort. And she started experimenting with it on her own; like shaving and lying with her legs open. The positive attention she got reinforced her confidence and pushed her to go even further. She now enjoys being looked at naked to the point where she wants to be close to other nudists so she can get that validation.

There are many other ways besides nudism to accomplish this. You just have to find the avenue she feels most comfortable with.

An autumn day...
 

On a typical autumn day - it was raining, cold and quite windy - my wife was not in a very good mood in our wellness hotel because we had actually planned a longer hike together.

So we went to the wellness area. But of course, because of the bad weather, many came up with the idea. In addition, there was a surplus of men in the saunas, sometimes from the uglier side - or just gawking.

So my wife didn't even want to get changed and go back to her room when a smaller group of young girls came down, there were 5 girls, they were between 16 and 22 years old. All five of them were very pretty, not a little shy and quickly stood naked like God created them before us.

I said to my sweetie: "Bet that you can keep up with the girls? And that the boys prefer to look at the breasts and pussy of an experienced woman like you?"

Of course, I also wanted to continue to see the young women naked, but above all to put my wife in a bad mood.

"Not with those old sacks, they gaze too conspicuously for me," she objected.

"So what? Show what you've got - the young things do that too! Let them stare, enjoy the looks! As I do!"

She had a bit of a prudish time back then, which happens every now and then, but when she saw the women giggling, she quickly undressed and went to the sauna too.

The girls were of course the focus, but I whispered into my wife's ear: "Spread your legs a little ..."

She gave me a big look, wanted to say something first, but then she did it at some point. The men looked between her legs, one or the other had an erection.

I saw my wife getting wet - not just with sweat. Her nipples also stood out stiffly.

Now she whispered: "Come upstairs, I'm so horny!", spread her legs further apart and then went with me to our room only with a wide open bathrobe.

Some Hotel guests can see her tits or pussy under it... We had wonderful sex - not just once... Sometimes I thought, I fuck one of the five young girls, sometimes I love her so much...

Sometimes she is a little prude, sometimes she is hot as hell...

Tequila band a lot of compliments :-)

Tequila AND... Damn auto-correct

I don't want to encourage the use of intoxicants...but yes some "liquid courage" can go a long way to helping "cross the line." Alcohol has a well document effect on inhibitions and arousal.

My wife is no exception. After a few drinks she becomes more extraverted and flirtatious. Without a doubt "liquid courage" played a part in her having fun getting naked around other people at the nudist resort and "interacting" with them.

The one issue with that is "aftermath regret." If your partner wakes up the next day "feeling dirty", you might incur her subsequent mortification and wrath: "I can't believe you let me do this; how could you?!" Lucky for me, my wife wakes up the next day laughing about it and joking that she "showed everyone her girl parts!" But it's a risk you have to take.

This looks like a good place to post this true story:

I had worked for a company and then later left. I had befriended the receptionist, who was a very cute, very sweet woman in her mid 20's. Seemed like kind of a prude. Nothing sexual or especially flirtatious about her.

Anyway, a few months after I left, there was some kind of round of layoffs, and she was one of the people let go.

I was friends with the HR person - who was even cuter than the receptionist.

The HR person told us that during a routine scan of the receptionist's work laptop, they found all kinds of crazy nude pics on it - of the receptionist. Moreover, they were taken in the warehouse area of the facility where we all had worked.

I forgot how, but somehow the HR person knew who had taken the pics - he was a field engineer kind of guy. Very scruffy, portly, unattractive dude who was also into some kind of devil-worship kind of stuff. I had a somewhat friendly relationship with him before I left, and I know he had been friends with some kind of stripper who had taken pics on her vacation and asked him if he could get them developed somewhere. The stripper woman was also pretty wholesome looking for a stripper - short, blond hair, very cute, no tattoos, and B-cup breasts. He showed me her pictures, and they were great.

Back to the receptionist. The HR woman and my wife and I were talking about how in the world this scruffy dude managed to get crazy pics of the receptionist. The HR woman speculated that it must have started off with some innocent pics in the warehouse - at the time, digital cameras, were a novelty, and very expensive. The HR woman thinks that he must have been very complimentary and encouraging her to try a little more and get a little daring - "Hey, that looks amazing. Maybe try this pose, or remove that just a little?"

To this day, I am haunted by the fact that I didn't press the HR person a little more in terms of how bad the pictures got. Except that the HR person at one point, referring to the pictures, said, "some people are so GROSS". And the HR person was not a prude. :O

My wife started out as a real prude
 

My wife was as prude as they come. All her dresses looked like something out of a Catholic girl school's uniform. When we started dating, I began buying her a little sexier clothes. She started wearing clothes with a little cleavage showing and even a modest bikini. This went on for several years. Then we got married. I began buying her sexier and sexier clothes. I began telling her how great she looked in them. Eventually, she started wearing see-thru blouses with no bra. Then it was shorter and shorter skirts and shorts. After a few more years, she wore shirts totally unbuttoned and tied at the waist with low-cut pants.

Then I got her to go topless at the beach. I think she liked it and became a little tease for the guys gazing at her. Then I started taking her to nude beaches. She initially stayed glued to her beach towel, but then started venturing off for nude walks with me. She began wearing blouses to work with no bra and very short skirts. At company picnics she participated in water balloon fights with a thin midriff blouse and no bra. She ended up totally transparent on top with nipple pokies for all to see. Then I got her to wear fishnet tops to motorcycle races. She had a combination skirt and short that was called a skort that wrapped around her. It tied after wrapping it around. She wore no panties, and the skort would unfurl some when she sat down exposing her bare pussy.

After many years she agreed to go to a nude resort and took to it like I couldn't believe. She wanted to stay longer than originally planned. She danced naked, played tennis naked, swam naked, played pool naked, basketball naked, corn-hole naked. It was and is great. Then she became very open with nudity. I take her to biker rallies. She showers in the shower room with the guys, pole dances, has her boobs measured in the boob wheel, lets guys fondle her boobs and tits. Dances topless on the pole with other girls and lets girls and guys kiss her tits when she is drunk. She even participated in a game of Fess-up or Strip with Dares like lap dances on other guys.

Now, this didn't occur overnight. It took many years and a lot of support from me with each step forward. However, most women do enjoy being looked at admiringly. Frequent compliments when they do something you like goes a long way. But you have to be very patient over a number of years with the most prudish. Good luck, be patient and reap the rewards.

My wife and I used to joke that when we went to dinner, all she needed was 2 glasses of wine and 2 amarettos and she would do anything I wanted. Many a night she would get naked as we drove home. She would beg me to find a place to park. A favorite was stopping at a new construction development. she would get out of the car, lay naked on the grass and fuck my brains out. When we got home she would get out of the car and walk naked into the house.

Life
 

I think it's just in some and not others, my wife Amanda was a shy type but she had this side to her that she kept
Hidden from.
And loved to be looked at and feel wanted it's complicated, older men got her to do far more than I ever could

How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist?
 

How did you convince a woman to be an exhibitionist? alcohol

What i did...
 

In my case, i had been asking the wife for many many years to do more daring things without success.

She surprised me 2 or 3 times (in 15 years) when there was a lot of alcohol involved and she would just act sexier or comply to a dare to walk to the mailbox naked and come back at like 3am.

Other than that, she is always a straight NO, and her mind is always too busy to even think about it.

After many years I took hints of what would make her want to do it.
- safe place
- no gawkers
- Not sexual
- She's not the only one showing
- somewhere where nobody knows her.
- She's not the hottest surrounded by grandmas and she's not the ugliest either.

I thought about it and then it hit me.... She's a runner. Let's do a nude 5k race in a nudist resort.

I gave her a blog with a report from a 30-something old girl, and presented it as something for the bucket list. My wife read it and said "sounds fun, we could do it"

So a few months later I enrolled ourselves in the race.
Then a few days before the race I told her and she freaked out, closed her eyes and said "let's do it".

We got there, checked-in in clothes and there were already several naked girls. So we went back to the car and got naked.
As we walked back to the starting area there were lots of people and nobody was looking at my wife. The focus was the race. So she felt safe.

She felt so comfortable that she ran faster than me and forgot that she was naked.

The feeling of seeing my wife naked infront of so many guys was strange but very exciting.

She liked it, but said that only like 20% were women.
She is not interested in doing it again unless there are more women.

I asked her if she would do it again if she came with some girl friends (one of them liked the idea) . She said "if you find one that wants to do it and she begs me enough, then i would."

I was one before we started dating...

On a boat if you don't want to take any chances.

Do you still have the link to the blog?

Blog links
 

https://www.womensrunning.com/traini...-bare-dare-5k/

http://mealsandmiles.com/2012/05/20/streak-the-cove-5k

This illustrates the point I've often made about the nudist resort.

When my wife first agreed to accompany me, she went with no real intention of "walking around naked in front of strangers." So we stayed in the "clothing-optional zone" where she could keep her cover-up on.
It didn't take long before she started noticing all the other women who were going about completely naked and seemingly comfortable with it (ratio was about 50/50). And she realized the same thing: it was a
And so she got the notion that if she was naked in the pool area she would just "blend in." So all I had to do was give her a little encouraging "nudge", and we headed for the pool area.
Once we were in there - where everyone was naked - and some women tanning with legs open, she got progressively less self-conscious. When we got out of the hot-tub, and she wrapped herself in a towel, we went to sit by the pool next to another couple. When the woman greeted us, my wife immediately dropped her towel and greeted her back, showing herself naked as the woman was. I guess the woman being comfortable interacting completely naked with us gave my wife the motivation to be naked in front of them too. And the rest, as they say, is history. As long as she sees other naked women at the resort, my wife will now undress right away and stay naked the entire time around everyone

The nudist resort. Give it a shot.

I didn’t so much convince my wife, I basically just asked, telling her it would be a huge turn on. I would label Lisa a closet exhibitionist. It definitely turns her on but it was never something she would have pursued on her own. So me asking her to show off a little “gave” her permission. But even saying that, her idea of exhibitionism is mostly about giving me peaks and teases in semi public situations. The idea of getting caught is her turn on, not so much actually getting caught. LOL

I have always been a congenital exhibitionist, but I have a very prude and religious family. I have always been topless or nude on the beach, here in Spain, even infront of my family, but I have always been the only one showing her intimacy.

When I was 25, I was going to a Bon Jovi concert with my boyfriend. I knew that my 18 years old cousin was eager to go to the concert, too, but she had not achieved to buy any ticket online (it was really tricky...). I had been more lucky, and eventually had bought 2 of them.

My boyfriend was not really a Bon Jovi fan, so.we thought that we could give the ticket to my cousin and go together. However, it was not going to be a freebie...

We used to go to go to the beach together, and despite I was alwas topless she had never been brave enough to take her top off. She had never done it. She was like a nun.

We arrived to the beach and I just put her up to it...

- I have a Bon Jovi ticket for you
- What???!!!
- But only if you stay the whole day as nude as I am...
- No way...
- I am your older cousin, and I know what's good for you. You have an outstanding body, but you don't have the confidence to flsunt it. You have 18 years old, for God's sake!! I don't even know if you're still a virgin!! Take off your top right now, and maybe I give you that ticket.
- Oh, no. I have never been nude infront of other people...
- Nobody knows you here... I am topless, you can do it, too.

She needed more 5 minutes to gather enough strengh, but she take it much in her stride.

We spent the whole day topless, and the beach was rammed. There were not many topless girls, and we stood out a lot. We went swimming, took a long stroll all along the shore, took several showers, and eventually we hung out with a group of boys of her age. She did relish the attention!!

Next day, after the concert, she took off her top as soon as we arrived, despite my boyfriend was with us. Surprisingly, she even went stark naked after some minutes (it was a little secluded beach).

Now she is as exhibitionist as I am; she takes after me, her older cousin...

It was easy
 

I never had to convince my wife to be an exhibitionist, sometimes I had to get her to tone it down. The first time we played strip poker with another couple, she was a bit shy, but once all the clothes came off she liked showing off, a lot. From then on she was the 1st to suggest some stripping game or skinny dipping. She even shaved her bush when no other women did that unless they had a baby, but to show off. This is not a part time stripper, this is a schoolteacher, church lady.

Your photos are hot. Thanks for sharing