I don't enjoy watching anal, there is too often (hidden) pain for the woman, so I avoid the genre. I have never seen any real, natural women online (as opposed to professional pornstars) relaxed and enjoying anal sex. I have a theory that anal sex (with its undertones of domination) has been promoted by the porn industry as a "forbidden" for mainly commercial reasons, and aspiring amateur pornstars feel obliged to perform. I have had anal sex in the past, but didn't enjoy it, as I found it lacks the naturalness and warm intimacy of vaginal sex. In the same way I can't understand the attraction of withdrawal just as you are about to cum! (Yet another commercial porn fabrication to prove ejaculation has happened). As you might gather, I am not a fan of commercial porn!

Anal.

It's just too much work. With minimal pay-off compared to vaginal sex.

Cum shots. Facials. Bukkake. Cum drinking. Anything involving cum, basically. I've never understood why it's supposed to be sexy. It's just a woman (or a picture, in the case of "tributes") covered in or ingesting slimy, white goop. Frankly, I find it all kinda gross.

Fango

What Fango and solva193 said about cum. It's the inevitable outcome of sex, but it's not like I'm excited to see it.

Plus, feet and girls peeing. I don't get the attraction to either one.

Hmmm
 

I sort of disagree with all of the above ;-). What doesn't do it for me is narrow hips/thighs on a woman. Doesn't matter what the rest of her looks like, can't be attracted if the female form isn't there. And the more exaggerated the hourglass form is, the more I am attracted.

Cumming ON a woman!...why on earth you wanna do that, when you nice and snug inside a warm wet pussy or mouth or ass?
And excessive porn moaning from a woman, such a major turn off.

Excessively big tits, pee/peeing, shitting, cumshots, bukkake. All those things just put me off, and I really don't get what's hot about them.

Tats and smoking not only do not do it for me, I find them turnoffs.

I agree with the poster above who said anal is just too much work for the payoff compared to vaginal.

Also, BDSM does nothing for me. If that's your thing, more power to you. But I find it far sexier when everybody is participating enthusiastically on equal terms.

Real men don't abuse women.
 

Face slapping, ass slapping, hair pulling, forced deep throat, anal. Any violence toward women.
Women should be treated with kindness and dignity, not as a piece of meat.

Not that it‘s all that common but: anything food related.

Oh, and step brother / sister stuff.

Anal - Never tried it and find the concept gross

Scat - only saw it once by accident and it was gross... there is nothing sexy about poop

Violence - I was very briefly with a girl that wanted me to choke her, scratch her, and whip her to the point of drawing blood and I could not do it. One time when she was putting a bunch of pressure on me to do that shit I just walked out the door.

Fake boobs - Nothing really to say

Feet - I will give my wife a foot rub but there is nothing sexy about it... feet are gross. I knew a girl that wanted to hook up with me and kept sending me feet pics... yuck

Step brother/step sister/step mother/step father/mother/father/sister/brother... basically ******

I have nothing wrong with black people, my best friend is black, one of the crew members on my engine at work is black and I trust him with my life and would give mine for him, and I even dated a half black girl for a while who was SMOKING HOT with green eyes thin and athletic, had an amazing smile... If her personality matched her body I could have married her and been in heaven. I am not saying this from a racist stand point in the least, but I just do not find 95% of black women attractive though some of the mixed race women look amazing.

High maintenance girly girl type women. I have always been more into the tomboy type that still has a feminine side.

Turn offs
 

Spitting. Can't you get it wet with your mouth without spitting. Gagging. Fucking their throats until they gag Why? Not sexy. Choking. Slapping faces. Violence isn't sexy. Also agree with most of the others posted before this post.

Good thread this.

I do quite like BDSM. Have even dabbled a bit myself with my wife. While I like seeing nipple play/clamping etc, what I really hate seeing is when a woman’s tits are tied up in rope. When they do it so that they turn blue/purple and basically look like they’re about to explode Similarly if they squash them between planks of wood or in some sort of vice. Cannot see the attraction at all with that.

Also, anything where the woman on the receiving end is blatantly not enjoying it, or it’s verging in non consensual. Horrible.

I’m all for consenting adults doing whatever they want to do for their own pleasure, but when it becomes non pleasurable or someone is coerced/forced into it, it isn’t nice to see.

High heels. I think women are way more sexier barefoot.

I'll do lists like chuckfinly.
The OP wrote about stuff that is generally considered hot, but that doesn't do it for us. For me those would be

Feet - I don't care about them, I don't find them sexy or unsexy either.
Tanlines or deep tans - nope. Don't get me wrong, I don't care about the natural colour of the skin, from pale to pure black and anything in between. What I don't like is the suntan.
Pussy spread with fingers - not at all.
Cum - don't like cumplay, with the exception of cum facials. My wife likes to work my dick nice and slow for a long time and then let me explode on her face and take pics afterwards, and I love it, but I stop at that.
Anal - it's OK, but not my first choice. However, sometimes my wife likes me to gently play with her clit whilst having a sharpie in her arse. The contractions when she cums like that make for a huge orgasm, and that is a big turn on for me too. Oddly, she never let me take pics of her like that.


Other things that are not generally thought to be huge turn-ons but some people like

Smoking - no, thanks
Tattoos - I don't really care about them one way or the other, but I don't like huge ones.
Scat - absolutely no
Violence (slapping, hitting, choking) - not at all
Fake boobs - huge turn off
Close family - no, thanks

Pretty much all the "common" stuff doesn't do it for me:

I don't like breasts larger than a full C/small D.

Fake boobs. I would rather see grandma boobs hanging down to one's ankles than fake boobs (unless it's for reconstruction after a mastectomy. Of course that is way different).

I don't like piercings at all.

Tattoos make me feel sick.

Dirty talk is boring.

Rear ends. Gross. I don't understand why people think asses are awesome--stuff comes out of there, ya know.

Cum on faces just seems like power, control, and degradation.

Upskirts. I do notice sometimes, but it doesn't turn me on at all.

High heels. Silly.

Role play. I would rather my wife tell me real things that have happened or just be herself.

Make-up. I can't stand make-up. At all.

"Sexy" pajamas or underwear. "Boring" pjs that show a tummy when a woman is stretching is the sexiest thing in the world.

Dyed hair. Blah.

Lingerie. Blah. Rather a woman not wear bras and undies, let alone "sexy" under garments.

And so on. I am super easy. Have a nice personality, don't be shy to talk about "naughty" (rolls eyes) topics, and be yourself, and I will be hard all the time.

I forgot about these. Ya, I don't like tanlines because of the damage it represents. Skin cancer is one of those things that people shrug off and roll their eyes at until it's happened to them or someone close to them. It's not sexy to show off how much you have been cooking your skin.

Feet. Ya. Weird.

Yep. Exactly my point.

Fetishizing interracial sex.

I want to make sure I phrase this in a way that's not misinterpreted. To be clear, I have no problem at all with interracial couples (or triples or eightples or whatever) and speaking as a middle-aged white American guy, there are plenty of women of any race or ethnicity I find attractive. What I object to is making the race of the participants a big deal, ie "White girl with BBC!!!" or "Tiny Asian sl*t!" or whatever. If the race of who is fucking is what's getting you off, you're probably racist.

I agree with most (but not all) of these posts and I would add that I want nothing to do with anyone's dirty clothes! Blagh!
As far as anal, I do like finger play (giving and receiving) and a woman who likes butt plugs (especially tails, for some reason), as long as the orifice is CLEAN.

Hmm?
 

Some women LOVE to have their ass slapped and hair pulled. If that's the case, it's hardly violence against women.

Great thread by the way. And I agree with much of what's already been posted re violence, ******, cum shots (I don't even like the word "cum"), fake tits, excessive moaning.

Also, "Daddy." I have kids. No one else needs to call me Dad or Daddy. Ever.

I have avoided reading this thread, thinking “who cares what’s not a turn on? That’s not why I’m here.”

It turns out, I was missing out. I’m enjoying this immensely, and I even laughed out loud a couple of times. Thanks all for sharing.

I agree with a lot of the previous posters but off the top of my head:

Tats
Smoking
Family porn. Usually fake but dad/daughter brother/sister etc. real or fake, it is a turnoff
Fake tits for a non-medical reason.
Peeing/scat

Like someone else said, I disagree with most of you.

But seriously, there are a couple of things I dislike - smoking, dirty talk and the ubiquitous whimpering in Japanese porn.

The guys on here who are all like “my wife doesn’t know I’m posting her” What’s wrong with you?

Also, people who are obsessed with interracial porn and “BBC” and everything that goes with that? You guys are just plain racist.

Lack of personal and feminine hygiene. And many other things already mentioned.

some more
 

tan lines and fake boobs. Skinny women with tiny man-sized boobs.

Unresponsive ladies!
I don't care how attractive a woman is, if she can't communicate that she wants to be there, doing whatever you are currently doing to each other, and that is is pleasing/exciting/fun, then it's time to go home.
I've been with ladies who were objectively not that attractive and only wanted kissing, hugging, and to fuck in missionary position that were still good in bed because they obviously enjoyed it. Although I always hope for multiple, screaming orgasms, even women who didn't cum, but clearly enjoyed the process, are good in bed.
In other situations, I've been with some absolute knockouts in terms of their face and body, often doing sort of kinky stuff (oral and anal), who were just bored.......that's a total turn off for me.
The single lady who I most remember as my best ever in bed, was a multi orgasmic, screamer, who got a big smile on her face every time we met. She liked everything I ever wanted to do, and clearly made it known that she liked everything, and often was the one starting the action. Her face and body were maybe 6.5, not the sort you would be less happy to be seen with, but no raving beauty, but her behavior and enthusiasm was always a 10. On top of that she was smart (law school) and funny, and good be hang with even if we weren't fucking (which was rare).

Cocky guys with big dicks (no pun intended) that absolutely don't know how to use it.

I'll say that my husband is the smallest guy I have ever been with, but is one of the better lovers I've had (and I've had a lot back in my day.)

Something that is generally thought to be a huge turn-on, but doesn't do it for me? That's the tough one...poop, pee, dirty underwear those are niche turn-ons anyway so that they don't turn me on is not surprising.

Generally accepted things though...nipple piercings. Nipples on breasts of any size are amazing and jabbing a post through one doesn't make sense to me.

I'll drool over a belly button piercing, a tongue piercing could be fun (but for practical daily wear, talking to a woman with her tongue pierced is a crazy distraction because all I can think about is that it's pierced to suck cock or better yet lick pussy), you could sell me on labia piercings, but leave nipples alone. (and don't get me started on those bull ring piercings)

Dirt
 

I thought most things were covered in this thread but I've seen a couple of pics recently that were a real turn off. Dirty feet, I mean really filthy.
Then a woman spreading with her fingers withs long dirty fingernails on her labia.

Women who are spreading their legs and there ass and thighs are covered with sores.

I'll add a couple. I don't like when women are photographed with guns. I'm not anti gun, but I hate how they are fetishized. Smoking is a major turnoff. I also don't like hidden cam or revenge type photos. Those are straight up violations of the victim's privacy.

Facials. I have never really cared for a guy cumming on my face or getting it in my hair or eyes. I have done it for a few boy friends and would still do it for one, but its not a big turn on to me at all. I think it is something that the porn industry created as a major turn on for some, but it never had been for me.

I will agree with you in part being that I hate dirty feet and lets get cleaned up before bed. But if my wife rides fences with me or does some work on the ranch that gets her dirty I find that to be a major turn on. It is hard to describe what I mean but we usually get cleaned up (usually together) before anything kinky happens.

I find women that are clearly not into guns posing with guns stupid and a turn off. They usually have bad trigger finger discipline (fingers on the triggers when not firing the weapon) which is a big pet peeve of mine. That said, if it is a real woman that is actually using the gun it is hot. Using my wife as an example, I have a picture of her putting her 1894 Marlin into the scabbard on her saddle and it is super hot. I have it framed in my locker at the firehouse. She had her sweat stained Stetson on, form fitting Wranglers tucked into her boots with spurs, and a pearl snap shirt with the top three snaps undone. A bit of her hair had escaped her ponytail and was blowing around and the colors from the sunrise were icing on the cake. She had no idea I was taking her picture and was pissed at first when I framed it and put it in my locker because she thought she looked like a mess.

Love to see that picture!

Nails and make up.
 

Long fake nails have been a turn off to me. Also to much make up just kills the mood as bad as a pair of stripper heels.

Puffy Tits - - reminds me of a little girl

premature ejaculators... lol