First date with spouse/gf/bf
 

Thinking back to your first date with your current wife/gf, how far did you go? Answer the poll and explain, with more details, in a reply if you wish.

Ladies, how far did YOU go on your first date? Also feel free to explain.

Just a goodnight kiss. Didn't get intimate until date 6. I was coming off a long and unhappy marriage and didn't want to jump into anything too quickly. However, I had a few first date adventures, but only with people I knew weren't likely to be "keepers".

First date
 

My wife and I were close friends for 10 years. Often the two of us would meet for coffee, go to concerts, go to dinner, go boating alone, go for long walks, and such. There was always a "spark" between us, but nothing ever happened. I guess this would be considered dates??? I dunno.

But then, one day she shows up at my doorstep and just bluntly asked me to have sex with her. We fucked like rabbits the whole afternoon!

Been with her ever since!! (Married 20 years now.)

Hell, we had intercourse before the first date.

Wife
 

I just looked at your wifes pics and I can see why! Sexy woman........

Ours...
 

On our first date we were accompanied by her two young sons so, of course nothing happened. Hell, I dont think we even kissed. I was her supervisor at work (Lots of interesting stories there!) and the boys were our excuse to get together as they'd never seen the ocean and I had a boat. That date was totally worth it. We've been together for 20 years now! :D

First Date
 

We were in College so we had seen each other out and chatted a bit and seemed to hit it off. We were both seeing other people so we avoided going further. One day she calls me out of the blue to go out for 25 cent beers. There was a bar that had a special and they went up 25 cents every half hour. Needless to say we got pretty hammered and went back to my dorm room to get something to eat. We started making out and ended up naked and banging away.
After that for about three weeks we continued to see our other "steadies" behind their backs. My GF at the time had already graduated so she would see me on weekends. Her BF was still in school and she would see him much more. More often than not during that time my now wife was getting laid at night by her BF and would show up in the morning at my door and bang me. After the 3rd week we cut the others loose and have been together ever since.

High school ideas
 

We were in high school. She was a virgin. I tried to crack the code, but it took quite a while before she acquiesced. What a waste of some magnificent hard-on's!

Fabulous!
 

What a great story. She obviously was horny for you all that time, didn’t you realise?

date
 

It took about 3 week and I got a hand job,about 3 more weeks I got an awesome blowjob,about 3 more weeks of blowjobs I finally got in and I was excited and popped very quickly.

The only first date I ever got anywhere was with my HS crush, we went to the same college. In HS she looked unattainable, I wasn't even sure she knew my name, how was I to know she was crushing on me too? Dorm rooms of female students were well guarded, males were not allowed upstairs, only in the common area downstairs. So she brought me to a study room, no one is studying in the fall with a football game on, locked the door, and we played our own game, it involved a home run.

I think I fondled her tits through her top whilst she rubbed my dick through my trousers.
Our 2nd date we had sex on the beach.

For some reason I always thought those dates were the other way around but not so sure...

College roommate
 

My college roommate for all 4 years was a guy from a town near mine. One summer he went to a party on a secluded pond with a log cabin. He drank too much and passed out, not unusual for him.
He awoke some time later and felt like he was on a trampoline, bouncing up and down. He opened his eyes and realized he was laying beside a pretty blond, mostly nude, and her legs were around a guy’s waist, and he was fucking her as hard as he could.
He turned to see her face and he caught her eye—-they talked while she was getting pounded by a grunting, sweaty guy with long hair. Finally, the guy shot his load yelling loudly, and rolled off.
My friend helped her get dressed and drove her home, and dated her several times. I think this is who he eventually married but he says not. I asked him if he ever fucked the blond but he never confirmed or denied.
At least she couldn’t claim to be a virgin.

wife
 

We met as swingers in her home state of Alabama... with the group she was involved with in her late 20s at their private party..


I watched her fucking and sucking and enjoying herself w a big smile all night long.... the most contact I had was passing conversation over drinks...….


I asked her friend a few days later if I could call her.... she agreed... we went out and just had vanilla fun...no sex...


But the point of the matter was, I was very interested in dating her... She wouldn't have sex w me for 3 months worth of dating, because she wanted to make sure I wasn't just a swing sex player for her sexual attributes...


When we did finally have sex it was just normal sex fun...… well we got married a little over a yr later and living the swing life together...

I didn't expect this to happen..
 

With one of my ex-girlfriends our first experience wasn't actually a date. I was giving her a ride home from a football game and we sat in my car in the parking lot for quite a while just talking. That led to some kissing and ultimately with my hand inside her bra squeezing her nipples. We ended up stopping as more people started to come past the car so I took her home and the night ended with a couple of kisses. We became a couple for about 3 years before we went our separate ways. I quickly learned that she had large areolas and a light strawberry blonde bush, both of which I enjoyed often :)

This is NOT her--but what she probably looked like a few years later. Just take the sag out of these breasts and add a little bush and its pretty close.

Also in the "I didn't expect this to happen" Category
 

For the first date with a woman who became a GF for almost a year, I took her to a nice restaurant and then to a play after work on a Friday in the big city. We were seated on the aisle, and just as the lights started to dim for the first act, her hand comes across my lap and she starts rubbing and fondling. I was not expecting that, and slowed things down until it got dark enough that people across the aisle could not see well enough to really know what was going on. It was enjoyable but distracting; I really wanted to see the play, but somehow I soldiered on... :rolleyes: At the end of the evening I took her home and we were able to continue in a slightly more relaxed manner. I got back to my place some time the next afternoon. And so began a hot, sex filled relationship. Oh to be mid-20's again.... ;)