Blowjob lessons
 

Has your wife ever had blowjob lessons? My wife has never given a blowjob. One of my fantasies is that my wife tells a friend of hers that she has never given a blowjob and her friend volunteers to teach her. I am out of town and she volunteers her husband as the model. The friend demonstrates on her husband and then my wife practices on him.

?????
 

In all due respect... but realisticly…. if you married a girl who never gave you a blow job, or,, needs lessons on how to do It?????


WHY?!?


If she needs lessons, then she just doesn't want to do it... acting dumb as to "I don't know what to do", is an excuse not to do it..... think.

It is a fantasy of his. A lot if not most fantasies are not based in reality.

Fantasy
 

In other words I wish she would give me a blowjob, and secondly I wish she would give another guy a blowjob. That would be hot.

Rick - how long have you been married?

I have been married over 40 years. Too late now. That is why it is a fantasy. She didn't want to do it at first and I didn't push her.

Have you ever gone down on her? And if so, did she ever orgasm from it?

Oh yes I go down on her frequently. She usually stops me shortly and wants me in her. Yes she gets an orgasm very quickly.

A variation of this topic......
 

Someone gave my wife the WRONG lessons!! Really!

When I met my wife she was FAR from a virgin. An ex-husband, a few long term relationships and who knows how many one-night stands. (we fucked on our first date) (she does NOT ever talk explicitly about past sexual encounters, much to my dismay)

The thing is............ I had the hardest time convincing her that I did NOT LIKE her trying to force her tongue into my pee-hole while sucking my cock. Even after told her I did NOT find that enjoyable, she kept going back to that "trick". She's the only woman who tried that on me.

* Is that common??
* Do other guys like that? Apparently she knew some guys that loved it.
....... opinions & experiences????.

Not a Blowjob Lesson, but...
 

When I was in Chiang Mai, Thailand in the mid-70s, I stayed in a cheap hotel. The thin plywood walls had multiple nail-holes in the bed and bathrooms, where you could see what your neighbors were up to, if you were of a mind to do so. And, I was. <g>

In the lobby, there was an advertisement for sensual massage lessons. I spoke with a British couple that had done this. They said that the masseuse came to their room. She was in her 50s and said that she had been a former sex worker and that giving the lessons to foreigners and local women who wanted to learn the trade was how she earned some extra money.

They said that they were both nude for the three-hour lesson. The masseuse was nude as well. She had one of them lay on the bed while she taught the other one. Then the two switched. After checking that both were okay with it, she also showed them genital massage techniques. The guy came during his session, but his wife didn't want to go that far.

To finish up the lesson, she had them give her a four-handed massage without genital contact.

As I recall, the session cost about $100, and they felt that it was money well spent.

My wife is part of a group of friends she has known since high school, consisting of 4 other moms. When one of the other ladies was getting married, part of her bachelorette party ceremony was a blowjob class. If I recall the details as my wife told me awhile back, some friendly gay guy showed up, gave the ladies tips on giving head, and had them practice on cucumbers or some similar object.

My wife was already pretty good, but she did learn some exciting tongue motions and some techniques to tease/increase the pleasure. They also learned some tips on deepthroating. My wife is also still far more willing to give head than the other moms, who, from what I gather only rarely perform the act for their husbands.

One other interesting detail is that the fiancé of the bachelorette was present (it was at their place) but in another room during the class. I wonder I he peeked into the room. I know I would at least be curious.

So, in response to the OP, there people who provide blowjob lessons for a fee, if you're willing to go that route.

When my wife was nineteen she started dating and older married man , he was mid thirties. He complained about her blow job skills , andy wife who loves to suck cock , was more than willing to have him teach her what he wanted in s cock sucker. He taught her well , she is very skilled, and I have never heard one guy complain about her sucking skills. She told me this when we first started dating.

My first proper girlfriend many years ago didn't give blowjobs either. She lacked confidence and skills and with me being larger in that department she would always complain of discomfort. I tried convincing her it was all about practice, but she really wasn't into it. I can understand the fantasy of a friend of hers hearing of this and trying to fix it.

My wife had a blast doing this exact thing recently for a bachelorette party. It was a women teaching the group, they had a selection of very realistic cock dildos of all shapes and sizes and starting with the bride to be, were told to pick one that best matched their partners cock. They took turns showing off their skills and explaining what currently works for them and were taught new tips and techniques to try on us lucky partners at home.

She personally found it very informative and was pleased to say she now knows what all her friends partners cocks look like

My wife has never had lessons directly, however, she was in some waiting room and she picked up a copy od Cosmo to read. There was an article on how to give a great blowjob, she took the magazine and stuck it in her purse. That night she opened the mag up and went to town on me practicing all the techniques in the article, it was a pretty fun evening. I have to say she was much better at BJ's from then on, during a 3-way one night the other guy said she was the best cocksucker he had ever experienced.

I have never had lessons, but my 3 best girlfriends and I used to play a game called The Russian Dick (akin to the russian roulette...)

In summer, the four of us used to rent a campervan and travel across Spain and Europe. There were some kind of sexual holidays, as we were all very sexually active girls.

We used to have sex in the recreational vehicule with different gus that we had met on the beach, at campings or in the disco. It was very common to be 2 couples fucking at the same time, or different kinds of group sex scenes. Some of us had boyfriends, but we were on holidays: no rules, no commitments!!

The first year, we had already rented and fitted out the campervan, but we didn't have any destination yet, despite having 15 free days ahead. One wanted to go to Andalucia in Spain, another one to Algarve in Portugal, other to Croacia, and I wanted to go to a nudist camping in Gerona. We were having dinner in a camping site near our city, and had already drunk two bottles of red wine.

We had to set off in the morning. How were we going to find a solution? I had a proposal:

- It strikes me that we can work it out fulfilling one of my lifelong ambitions. Actually, it's a sexual fantasy...

They all burst into laugher.

- It's like a russian roulette, but you use a penis, instead. It's called The Russian Dick...

They couldn't belive what they were hearing!!

- We pick a handsome guy, and we make him a blowjob in shifts of one minute each of us. The one who makes him cum wins the game: she chooses our destination. We just need a guy that we all like, someone that fits the bill

They were a little hesitant at first, but they all rose up to the occassion

That night we did it with the guy of the reception desk, and I won, by the way. That year we repeated it with different guys almost everytime we had to decide anything: no less than 10 times in 15 days!!!

For instance:
- Today I don't feel like going to the beach. I'll rather visit the city and eat a paella
- No way! I want to suntan on the beach, I have a dreadful hangover!!
- Calm down!! Let's "Russian Dick" a little!!

We have gone 7 times on holidays together, so we have done it dozens of times, mostly in the morning with the guys that any of us had brought to fuck to the recreational vehicule last night.

Believe me: that game is second to none if you want to hone your blowjob skills!!! We have learnt quite a lot from each others!!

In 1997 I turned down a 19yo thai model babe whom I couldve rented for the whole night at 50USD, so I guess the old hooker was happy too. Experience pays, apparently. :)

Tell me pls if you gals need a driver this summer ;)

!
 

Being able to talk open with my wife did pay off in many ways, I got to hear things from her that I would never imagine that would happen or would be talked about!
My wife's mother didn't want her to learn anything of a sexual nature from any of her friends, so she gave my wife Training books to read that had illustrated pictures in them to look at and then talked to her about what she did or did not understand! After the Book reading, my MIL had a guy friend of the family come over for her to show my wife want things looked like in real life! This guy that came over was a friend of my wife dad, but them made her call him Uncle and she knew he really wasn't her Uncle!
My wife's dad wasn't home at the time of this Training, but her mom and uncle went NUDE and her mom explained all of the body parts and what their purpose was for and used in sexual matters!
My wife told me she wasn't interested in learning any of this and wanted to leave, but was made to stay there.
My wife said she watched her mom doing handy work on the uncles cock, then switching to doing oral on him!
Now that my wife was thinking about it, she said her mom worked extra hard trying to get uncle to CUM for her but she wasn't able!
Now her mom said it was her turn to give it a try, but while my wife was doing her 1st oral on a mature cock her mom was telling her about letting the guy CUM in her mouth and showing if back to him before she swallows it!
She told my wife it was the right thing for a wife to do and that the hubby would really appreciate it!
My wife said it wasn't long before uncle did CUM in her mouth and after showing it, she swallowed it too!
She told me it was super nasty tasting and would never want to do that again!
But later in life my wife changed for the better and always let the guys CUM in her mouth and swallowed!
The Best training my wife got was at a Party where all the wife's showed their Best oral style on the hubby while others in the group watched!
My wife finally learned rather then just going Up & Down on a cock, she learned to lick and go over all of it including the Balls and enjoying the asshole too~
I appreciate my wife a whole lot more now and so does all the other guys she does oral on here too!
Lessons learned is worth all of it!
:)

I traveled the middle of no where in the mid-80s for business. There was an ABS/theater in that middle of no where that I occasionally visited. I stopped in one day and asked if anyone was in the theater, the clerk told me a gal was teaching her boyfriend how to give BJs.
My curiosity got the best of me so I entered hoping to get a good show. After my eyes adjusted to the darkness I saw the 3 of them. They were in no way anything I would touch or be touched by. One guy came over and asked if I wanted a BJ and I said no thank you. I stayed about a half hour or so of watching the movie, I left.

I don’t know. I’ve been out of play since 1985, but I will say that in the summer of 77, I spent my time with a woman with both of us getting instruction on our oral technique from each other. We both got really good.

My M.O. with women was initiating oral sex and they would almost reciprocate. A few said they didn’t know how, but I always encouraged them, gave them some tips. They always did fine. But they wanted to please.

Lessons from Mom
 

My wife never took lessons, but since I met her at 20, I certainly taught her all I could!

BJ's
 

First time my second wife gave me a blowjob It was the best one I ever had,many from her since then,one day I asked her how did you get so good and when was your first ever blow job you did,she told me a blow by blow story,she was getting a ride home from school and the guy at the time was a boyfriend,she would give him a hand job for the ride,one day he said how about a blowjob,she said sure,she told me she had no idea how to give a blowjob,so he pulled over and she bent over and started sucking on his dick,it got hard quick and before she knew it he popped,she said I got the first wadd down and then another,I started to gag and slipped out and got another in the face,I got it down and went back till he was done,I was a mess,I had cum all over my face,after that I got really got at giving blowjobs and I did a lot of them,no,no not that many but few.I still don't know how many.

I had had several partners before my wife and so had she. The first time she gave me a blowjob she was great at it. When I was about to cum I told her so and she grabbed hold of my cock and jerked me off onto her face. It was unexpected. I’d done it with other girls before but the way she did it was almost as if she thought that’s what a man wanted every time.

I asked about it and she said when she was younger her friend basically walked her through the process. She instructed her with a banana. How to start, how to build up to working it good, then to jerk his load off onto your face. We discussed it further and it came out that every guy she had ever sucked off had finished on her face. She just assumed that was how you did it. Like it had to be done that way. Basically because her and her friend saw that in porno movies.

It’s never done anything for me so since then she mostly just jerks me off onto her tits or stomach or into her hand or if we are somewhere where cleanup may be difficult (like camping in a tent) she’ll swallow.

Still a sexy thought to think of her and her friend practicing and knowing all the guys she blew in her past gave her a facial.

Teaching My Wife and Her Sister
 

*** Originally posted 10 Nov 2024 but re-posted after editing and removing offending references. ***

I was very lucky to find a girl like Julie to marry. She and her sister, Becky, grew up in a nudist family and their parents, Bill and Mabel, taught them the importance of love, commitment, honesty and sex. Above all they learned to be open and honest with their partners and to never keep secrets from each other.

Julie and Becky were both still virgin and about to enter college. They were very beautiful and always popular with the young men at school and the nudist camps. Their parents, felt that, as mature young women, they needed to learn from a set of formal detailed clinical discussions and lessons regarding the beauty and risks of sexual behavior. We plan to explain the motivation, planning and details of these lessons, which were given over several evenings, in a future post to our LIVING NUDE STORIES thread.

Their parents had decided against using porn magazines and films for the lessons because of the unrealistic portrayal by the actors. After research and debate they decided that it would be best if they were to personally demonstrate the sexual acts in the safety and privacy of their home. They would include many breaks in each activity and encouraged the girls to ask questions regardind their observations. Julie and Becky were going to learn how to give blow jobs by watching their parents demonstrate and explain fellatio techniques to them.

For these lessons they watched Mabel give Bill blow jobs several times, in different positions, over the next few evenings. Mabel would stop often to describe the proper way to roll back the foreskin, lick and suckle the penis head and shaft, run her teeth along the shaft, caress and pump the penis shaft and how to hold, kiss and suckle his testicles. She even demonstrated a bit of pre-cum emerging from the penis head and pointed out that it was alright to swallow it.

For the lessons she would stop well before Bill neared ejaculation, as the following parts of that evening's lesson involved intercourse. However, they did have one special follow on lesson to demonstrate how the semen squirted from Bill's penis. Mabel told them that when he would ejaculate during fellatio she preferred to swallow it, but it would be their their choice to swallow or spit out their partners' semen.

After each demonstration the girls were asked for their thoughts on what they had been shown. Mabel said that she and Bill often enjoyed descrete all day foreplay that included several cycles of teasing flashes, kissing, petting, fellatio and cunnilingus interspersed during the days' activities at the nudist camp and home.

I'm glad to say that Julie learned well and has become quite an expert at the art of extended foreplay, which we both enjoy frequently.

Please click THANKS if you like our posts.
We would like to continue to publish our growing up and living nude stories, but only if someone wants to read them.
And PM my profile if you have any questions or want more detail.