Women who don't like oral performed on them
 

Enjoy reading everyone's adventures and experiences here. Also read a lot of erotica online and don't know if I have seen this before.

I have been married for over 30 years. Still have an active sex life and my wife orgasms from intercourse pretty much every time. What she has never liked though is for me to go down on her. She will do it to me but doesn't like any reciprocation. I have talked her into letting me do it occasionally recently and she does get wet when I am doing it. It often leads to good sex afterwards but it always takes convincing. She also won't say why she doesn't want me to do it.
She grew up in a pretty catholic home (she wasn't a virgin when we started dating) but she was still a little naive about sex. Like not realizing the sexual meaning of some songs.

Anyone else know women like that?

I had a girlfriend back in the ninteen eighties who wouldn't let men go down on her. She loved sucking cock but hated having her pussy eaten. With my short comings and inability to make her cum from intercourse , our relationship didn't last long.

My wife despises oral, period. Sometimes she will try to give me a blowjob, but it's so awful and I can tell she doesn't want to do it, so I would rather she doesn't even try.

She hates when I go down on her, which is interesting because once in a blue moon she will sigh and say, "Fine, go ahead", and she gets incredibly turned on and has the best orgasms ever, which she acknowledges, but she still doesn't like it. :)

I wonder if you were dating my current wife. She doesn't like being gone down on, but loves sucking cock. She will actually get super wet from sucking cock. Luckily for me I guess I don't have your short cummings :-). 35+ years together and she is still an avid cock sucker

Just like my wife.
 

Same here. But she sure can suck my cock!

Mine too.
 

I need a membership application form to this club, too.

My wife loves to suck a cock and gets super wet. She is awesome at it.

But she hates having her pussy eaten. I love doing it so she has allowed me to do it a few times and she says she enjoys it but has never cum that way. I know it's not me because I've never had a woman complain about my skills before. Hell, my ex-wife used to squirt all over my face!

At least my wife has an excuse...she blames it on an old aunt who helped raise her as a child and used to watch her bathe and tell her to "scrub your pussy" because it was filthy. She says she can't get over that mental block. :mad:

Thanks guys. Glad to know I am not the only one;-)

It's chronologically impossible that I also dated your wife; but about 20 years ago I dated a girl who was the same exact way. Anyway congrats on your many years of marriage.

I think she didn't let me go down on her because she was a "gusher" and was self-conscious about squirting in my mouth. It only happened once in the few months we dated; where she finally let me go down on her after I insisted and she very reluctantly let me do it. It was in fact like munching on a wet sponge.

On the other hand she would blow me constantly, pretty much anywhere anytime. I hate to admit it but it actually got "old"; as I couldn't even watch a movie with her without my cock ending up in her mouth. I think she actually like blowing me more than actual penetration. That was weird to me. The relationship didn't last.

wife not a fan
 

in the beginning my wife was not a fan. but slowly over the years came to enjoy it, even squirting on occasion. but still says just for 1 minute. that almost always last for 30 minutes.
shes still not very good at oral but she has gottin much better. still love her and would not give her up. :o

I was young and dumb once, too. I would eat my first wife every single night. She wouldn't even touch my cock in her hands let alone anything else...

eating her
 

I have heard it said that guys like eating women more than women like being eaten. So sad!

My fwb us a terrible cocksucker. and she doesn't like it. so bad, that don't even ask her to.

wife
 

My wife loves receiving and giving. She can cum several times while getting eaten and sometimes even when giving head. Lucky me!

Hey... WAIT! Who's cock is that??!!!

The most orgasmic woman I have ever been with while fucking, she could cum every 2-3 minutes, very noisily for over an hour, was completely neutral when it came to me eating her pussy. She's didn't dislike it, it just didn't get to her "button". She was reasonably enthustiac and adept at sucking cock, but if I wanted to make her cum, it was all fucking, all the time.

My wife initially didn’t want me to go down on her because she was worried about how she might smell or taste ... she couldn’t imagine anyone wanting to do that. Once I had persuaded her, I used to regularly go down on her and bring her off about one time in three, which was great as she would thrash about uncontrollably when she came. However, she got so frustrated on the two out of three occasions when she couldn’t reach orgasm that she stopped wanting me to do it to her at all.

Going Downtown
 

Like many here, my ex was the same way, she did not like to give head BUT she truly enjoyed it and asked for me to eat her every time. Kinda that warped catholic girl mentality "Do unto others less" Ha! So when my ex would be blowing me at the first sign of a little cum she'd suddenly stop and say "Don't cum in my mouth!" Kinda took the magic from the moment, ha! Now? My fiance seems to have another clitoris in the back of her throat, she could blow me straight for probably an hour, she just loves the way my cock feels on her lips and throat, but she worries too much about how she smells, so I have to make sure she cleans up so that she'll let me eat her out without worrying about it. It's all in her mind because the times we've spontaneously starting fucking she's gotten so hot and let me eat her without any such worries. Yes, she comes every time I go down on her, and it's a wonderful tasty gusher! :D:D:D:D

Germs was her hang up
 

My wife is similar but for a different reason.

From early in our dating I discovered that she was enthusiastic and very talented at giving head, but when I would go down on her, after a few minutes she would say, “I need you to fuck me” which I was happy to do.

Years later I began to understand that when she was young she had read an article about the human mouth being filled with bacteria and it just freaked her out about all that bacteria getting into her pussy.

However if I made a show of using mouthwash, then she was fine with me going down on her and she really enjoyed it. Plus having just used mouthwash it would be super tingly, as I discovered when she started using mouthwash before giving me head.

So it wasn’t just the bacteria in my mouth, she wanted her mouth to be clean before she sucked my dick because she knew my dick would end up in her pussy in a few minutes. We went through a lot of mouthwash.

Now we just keep those Listerine mouth spray things on the night stand and I can always tell when we are about to engage in oral because she will grab the breath spray and give a few squirts. It actually feels awesome, similar to a BJ after a girl has chewed on an Altoids which is another trick if we don’t have Listerine or mouthwash available.

It’s a great compromise and I’m really glad I understand that her hang up isn’t my technique!

Like some of the others in this thread, my wife gets extremely wet from sucking cock and some evenings if the mood is right she will suck me for hours. My favorite part is that she almost always thanks me for letting her suck my cock. Don’t know why but that is a huge turn on.

Do I Suck at It?
 

I actually enjoy eating my girls vagina and I've tried to improve multiple times by googling, reading, or listening to girls talk about how they want eaten out. I've tried damn near everything. But my girl just doesn't like it much. She says it still feels good, but not incredible and if I didn't ask to do it, she wouldn't have it done. It's made me wonder many times if I just suck at eating pussy.

Long story short - I wound up with a lesbian - ate her pussy and she paid me a great compliment. She said I eat pussy like a woman.

I worked with a biwoman who told her boyfriend to stop eating her -she told him he did not know what he was doing.
So, I suggest you watch some porn videos with women - you may learn something.

Damn, compliments from a lesbian on eating pussy is like the highest honor. Nicely done

The first time I tried to eat my wife's pussy, she said no it was dirty. A few weeks later after a night out of drinking, I tried again. She just laid there and let me not saying anything. She had one hell of an orgasm as she does whenever I now eat her pussy.

Yet she will not ask me to perform oral on her. She won't even hint she wants it, yet when I do perform oral on her, she really gets over excited.

I would love for her to just put her pussy on display for me and tell me she wants me to eat her.

She makes an exception for him
 

I always enjoyed nibbling on my wife's pussy, she always seemed to like it, but was eager to get to my cock in her as soon as possible. I had an accident and severely injured my neck, so getting in a position that is comfortable for both of us is difficult. My wife treated it as no big deal, she said she'd rather blow me.

One night we were in a bar, this is when we were open to having others in our bed, my wife had on a short skirt, pantihose, but no panties. We run into an old friend my wife went to HS with, Jake,but had not seen in years. He was a nice handsome guy, my wife said a lot of girls had a crush on him back then, they started laughing and talking about some of the girls he used to date. I was the driver that night, it only takes a couple of drinks and my wife is likely to say anything, she asked Jake what was his secret to going out with some of the hottest girls in school. Jake, gave my wife a tipsy smile and said "pussy eating".

My wife and Jake laughed over that for a few minutes, then she said, "I don't think my husband would mind if you proved your skill", I said, "have fun, but be discreet". Jake got up to go potty, I'm sure he wanted us to talk about it for a second. I told my wife, "if he does a good job, you can give him a BJ."

Jake came back, we said "you're on". They decided our place was the closest best option, I said I'd stay back for a while so they could get started. They left, I actually saw another couple I knew, had a few sodas with them before I went home.

When I got home, Jake was already gone. I went to our bedroom, my wife was moaning with her hands between her legs. I asked how it was, she said "incredible, I saw stars". I asked if she gave him a BJ, she said "no, he said maybe next time".

WE didn't see Jake for months and it never worked out again.

My wife has to really be in the mood for me to go down on her. She can't believe I love it, she thinks of the area as gross. And she's ticklish if not properly warmed up. But, she has said she's glad I enjoy it cause when she's in the mood she loves it! :D I just wish she was in the mood for it more often.

Also, she does not like to go down on me, but she will sometimes and is great at it.

I don't just lick the clit - I use my whole tongue to rub the lips

I understand but a bit of a broad stroke just to say watch some porn. How about working with your partner instead to ask what feels good? Not saying Barmixer is wrong but there's other options which may help your partner appreciate you more with the effort you put in.