Wearing cockring at a nudist place.
 

This is the way to stand oud at a nudist place and get a lot of looks.
I was at a sauna complex yesterday which is mixed and nude. It got a bit boring later in the day and I’d decide to spice things up. I have a bracelet that can also be used as cockring. I was in the hot tub so I slide it down my balls and penis. You have two hot tubs next to each other. I was alone and in the tub next to me was a nerdy looking girl about 18 years old by herself. With the ring on I’m half erect showing a really good size. So I walked out past her to the shower area. Immediately her eyes are transfixed. She followed my dick. The shower area is half open so you can see people showering from the hot tub. Just a minute later two attractive girls step in the hot tub I was just in. I have them a clear view of me showering . They giggle and smile, the one girl is turning her head to get a better view. After a couple of minutes a slowly walk out from the shower past the two hot tubs. their eyes are following my dick.
Because I have my towel I can choose who to flash. After I while I don’t notice I have the ring on.

I then see the 2 girls from the hot tub entering the small sauna. It’s a 4x4m space with benches on two sides. I wait a couple of minutes and walk in. My cock is really swollen and girthy by now. The girls smile. I say hi. One girls is laying on the bottom bench. She has small breasts with both nipples pierced, she is skinny with very pronounced pussylips. Completely smooth.. Both girls are laying completely flat . The girl on the lower bench has one leg bent and a little bit spread out. I take the top bench giving me the best view on both girls. We exchange some smalltalk. The subject turns to tattoo and body art. I compliment the one girl with her nipple piercings. This is her turn to ask me about my penis ring. “I see you have some body decoration by yourself”
This is my queue to start rubbing my dick and explain them what the ring does. All the while transfixed on my now semi erect bulging cock. I got fully erect but act like no big deal. The girls giggle but continue the sauna session for another 10 minutes. The girls with nipple piercings gets up and takes her time to say goodbye all the while looking at my still erect cock.

Next time I will bring my silver ring.

Anyone have experiences wearing cockring at nudist resorts?

Is being a nudist, not about being aroused when nude ?

It is, and mostly times I was not erect. Or only semi erect.

Related to what xXRoninXx said, it's definitely the type of thing that could get you kicked out of a club. If someone is receptive to it, they might not turn you in, but it would be pretty high risk to do something like that.

Some resorts/clubs are adult-oriented/swingers; and they are more permissive. But for the most part they are family-oriented; and something like that will definitely indeed get you kicked out of there.

My wife and I go to a clothing optional resort called Laguna del Sol, in central California.
Occasionally we do run into one of several guys who go there and wear a cock ring.
It seems to be pretty normal a thing to do.
It isn't my thing, but of course no one really cares or comments on it.
At Laguna del Sol it would be against the rules to fixate on someone's body or jewelry choices and stare at them.

Actual jewelry (maybe not the erection producing type) are usually welcome at nudist resorts. Some jewelry even counts as evening wear for parties! There are some good pieces at Body Body.

Clit stud
 

There was one place in Northern California where the young woman assigned to show me and my wife around on our first visit there had a silver barbell through her clitoris. Because her lips were smooth and bare, her clit and its adornment were very prominent. When my wife asked her about it, she pulled her lips apart to give an even better view of what she was very eager to show off. Said that other women got boob jobs but she was very proud of her clit.

Every time I see a dude wearing a cock ring, I immediately think he has a tiny flaccid penis and he's trying to up sell it.

I mean bodybody.com

I frequent my local nudist club and it is without a doubt a highly sexualized environment. It just doesn't get openly addressed by some nudist since many of them are trying to push the whole nudity isn't sexual thing. I'm a very fit guy in my thirties and I have never been hit on or flirted with more then at nudist resorts.

Its always chubby middle aged guys with small cocks.

Lock Ring
 

My wife made me write this letter. She takes me to different nudist resorts around the country and down in the Caribbean. She just loves to show off her naked body and have sex with other men. She used to be a nude dancer. But what she loves to show off more is my tiny dick locked in a tiny metal chastity cage. She has kept me locked up in it for years now. It's a real ice breaker at these places. She just loves showing off my tiny locked cock and painful swollen blue balls to anyone who asked. She will sometimes have me explain our lifestyle. I'm used to the humiliation by now. I am rarely allowed to come (every 2 or 3 months if I'm good) and then it's by her hand while my hands are cuffed behind me. I am then required to lick her hand clean. She says my dick is way too small for a pussy so she's taken it off the market, so to speak. People at these resorts always come up and ask about it. She explains that I have a very good tongue. (I am very good at eating pussy. I eat hers twice a day and I am required to clean her up after she's been fucked by a more worthy dick.) My wife prefers lets say larger than average dicks for fucking so a nudist resort makes things plain to see. One of the things I hate the most is that she makes me go and ask the man if he would fuck my wife for me. Most men say yes but you should see some of the looks I get. I am sometimes allowed in the room while she is being fucked and sometimes I wait downstairs at the bar. When she's done I am called back to lick her pussy clean. I guess you could say I eat a lot of other men's cum out of her. (I clean it, shave it for her if she wants, shave her legs, and do her nails.) Every so often we meet a woman who is curious about my tongue. She sometimes allows me to eat the other woman's pussy. I'm proud to say they all are satisfied. I get the occasional repeat performance too. I like that. Some of these resorts are pretty wild. We have money so we can get to the best ones. At several of these places she has led me around by a chain locked to my cage. I only wish I had a cock ring to display my cock but when you see the picture you will know why it deserves to be locked up. My wife rubs my sore, swollen, balls every night while I'm allowed to suck on her nipples and explains why my cock needs to stay locked up. She's right. She said to include a picture of her spread pussy so you can see what I eat everyday. She said she hopes you enjoy the picture.

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I don't think of nude "clubs" and nude "resorts" as the same thing. Clubs are established places that are typically not near beaches - like Pine Tree Associates, or MAHESO, etc. They have annual membership fees and are selective about who they allow as members. They frown, BIG TIME, on overt sexual activity, or hanky panky between members.

A nude resort is typically a clothing optional place that people have a destination vacation at. There is no membership required. An example would be Hedonism, which not only encourage people to hook up, but are often booked by lifestylers looking to hook up.

I used resort and club as interchange words but what I was specifically referring to was actual nudist clubs. I am a member of my local nudist club and while officially they discourage overt sexual activity in reality there is a lot of strong sexual energy going on. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to pick up on it either. I mean there was a time I was there where I was lying out on a more remote part of the club and a young gal I had seen a few times around the club brought her towel and placed it 5 feet from my towel then proceeded to do nude yoga in front of me. I'm trying to be a gentlemen and not stare, I am only human so out of the corner of my eye a grab a quick peak and she is lying out spread eagle with her crotch point right at me. You are never gonna get naked bodies around each other and not have sexual tension..

I have only visited one nudist resort. It is called the Ponderosa near Dallas Tx. I was there visiting and this man got out of his car wearing a cock ring and before he could make 20 feet there were several people on him and said remove it or leave. From the aggressive behavior from the, I guess security men there, the man decided to leave. After he left they all talked about it and they were all in agreeance that they will not ever allow that type of behavior in their resort. They mentioned the fact that there are children that live there and they do not want that type of thing going on.

But with that said, just a short drive down the road, there was a nudist resort that is swinger friendly. When I went there I was surprised at the difference in the attitude of the two places. The swinger-friendly resort allowed the cock rings. I saw one guy wear one. But all the people there didn't seem to mind. In the swinger-friendly place, there were people actually having sex in the open for all to see.

People didn't seem to mind the sexual openness at the swinger club. At the nudist club, they tried to keep anything sexual private or not in the open.

The specific page is underejewelry>penis jewelry. But search around. There are more young designers every day.

Yeah, well, Ponderosa may well be the most sexualized place on earth, and that includes swinger clubs. i don'tthibk you can in any way judge normal naturist clubs and naturist resorts based on Ponderosa.'

/KG

If there was palpable sexual energy going on at the nudist "clubs" I've visited; well my wife would said "heck no!" and quit a long time ago!

But more seriously I think it's all about how you define sexual energy and you respond to that interpretation. I'm sure some people have looked at my wife stretching out naked by the pool, or bent over a pool table in the rec-room while shooting duds; and felt she was "emitting" strong sexual vibes. But really she was just comfortable naked, enjoying herself unconcerned with people looking at her; as even when they do, they tend to do it discreetly.

But yes; there is a gentleman at my resort who wears a cockring. And I barely even noticed. Maybe because I only interpret it as an innocuous fashion accessory.

Sexualized environments are not family friendly
 

The International Naturist Federation, British Naturism and almost every naturist organization would disagree with you. The proof that there is no unofficial wink to sexualization is that families (with children) are encouraged at genuine naturist/nudist places. Swinging environments do not allow children.

Does your local nudist club allow/encourage families with children? - If yes then it is unlikely there is an official "not-sexualized" policy and an unofficial acceptance of "simmering sexuality".

Are you hit on more in nudist resorts because it is sexualized? or because you seem more attractive?
If it is sexualized then everyone would be hitting on each other like at a singles bar or swingers club. Maybe you are more attractive naked because your whole beautiful body (not only your massive dick) is on display (cf the premise of the TV show "Naked Attraction"). Maybe you are more attractive because your personality is on better display because you are more relaxed and already have something in common - naturism. Naturist clubs, like churches, tend to be friendly open places.

Every naturist club I have knowledge of, will tell you that they get a number of prospective male members who only visit once. These men were hoping for an erotic thrill in seeing naked women or to hit on a woman ("they are naked so 'obviously' up for it"). These men never returned - they were disappointed because the nudity was not sexual and the women were not up for it just because they were naked. Difficult to believe until you have experienced it.

And you are absolutely correct.

Whenever I read a post - here and elsewhere - where someone says that nudist resorts are "rife" with sexual overtness, I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they've only been to places like Caliente, Paradise Valley, Sunny Rest or something similar. Because family-oriented resorts are utterly devoid of sexual overtness. Their posts, though, may lead some people to believe otherwise.

My wife and I go to 2 different venues. One is an AANR-affiliated family-oriented club; the other is a couples-only, non-AANR affiliated, non-swinging venue. They are very different. My wife likes the couples-only place a little more because there are few rules beyond unsolicited advances; so she feels a little more "freer" there to sunbathe "open-legged", do naked photoshoots, or get "tipsy and frivolous."
None of this would be acceptable at our "regular" nudist resort.

This is all rather new to me. Are there nudist places (cock-rings and other devices permitted) where a sexually-charged environment is not taboo, yet have a no-touch policy? A club where erections are understood to be a natural reaction instead of forbidden, where masturbation might be acceptable during certain times, but absolutely no touching- ever. Someplace which would fall in between the AANR "family-oriented"-type places and the libertine sex-drugs-rock n' roll swinging clubs. I'm curious.

Sort of. These are typically the "adults/couples only" venues. They are less common than the "family-oriented" clubs or "swingers clubs"; but the venue I described kinda fits that "in-between" category.

While we were there one guy hung out with us - with a full erection. No one really batted an eye; and we even invited him and his GF to play pool with us. Like I said in a previous post: my wife is not ok with actual sex in front of her or being propositioned; but she is fairly open-minded about letting it all "hang out." She had no issues with the guy or his hard cock - or being naked in front of him, as he was actually a cool guy; and we had a fun time socializing.
My wife also likes that "nudist etiquette" is a lot more lax there; so she can freely sit/lay around "open-legged" without being concerned about "shocking" anyone. At a "regular" resort it would be considered rude to sit open-legged on the ledge of the hot-tub, with other people being able to see directly into you vag. It's totally ok there; and my wife embraces it. As a matter of fact we're going back soon.

We didn't see anyone having sex; but then again we weren't in the hot-tub "after hours so it's quite possible some of the other guests did. As a matter of fact it was very likely.

But; before going to a "couples/adult" place and "cutting loose", I recommend getting a feel for the vibe there, as they are all a bit different. You don't want to end up embarrassing yourself.

We have visited most all the nudist resorts in SC,NC Ga and Fla and have never seen a gentleman wearing a cock ring. I have seen a few Price Alberts but thats about it. In a AANR resort even a semi erection is frowned on if not covered you will be asked to leave the area until you do. We do not visit AANR resorts that allow kids and most of them do. We stick with adults only clothing option places that tend to be more laid back but still see very little if any play in the public common areas. Most all play is done at the after parties away from the common areas.

Of course this is not cast in stone so you could possibly see a boner however I think you would feel out of place.

It depends on place to place one beach I frequent, I wouldn’t bat an eye if I saw one. However in most saunas and social nudity settings not only would wearing a cock ring be stupid but also extremely selfish and disrespectful.

Even if there is “simmering sexuality” in these places (I’d say it’s no less simmering than any other bar or social gathering) by putting your parts on display with a ring you are making things very overt. We all love to fantasize about women staring at our cocks and all that but in reality 85% of women in these spaces don’t want to be bothered. If you wear a cock ring in a space like that all you do is make women uncomfortable and less likely to come back.

Women in the nudist community gossip often and if a place gets a reputation as one where creeps go to show off (even tho let’s be honest isn’t that why we are all in these places :p ) the reputation sticks and it can take a while for women to get comfortable going back. So for the sake of all of us pervs having a chance to enjoy some wonderful ladies bodies leave the ring at home unless it’s an explicitly sexual nude space!

Nude v Swinging
 

Nudism can be a family activity.

Swinging definitely is not.


There's definitely a different vibe when you're packing to take the kids to the beach compared to the one you get as a couple dressing to hit a swingers club.

PS When the Beach we were going to got too sexual we left the kids home and then finally stopped going there altogether.

The truth is Swinging is hard work, Nudism is relaxing. :)

I have a lot to learn here! It never occurred to me that some nudist places could be so Puritanical. But then that would be consistent with a 'nudism isn't sexual' code of conduct.

I wonder if there are any websites which summarise the "do's & dont's" of nudist places.

It's been several decades since I last read up on nudism (pre-internet), checking out books from libraries and ordering brochures from several resorts. So I can only assume the definitions have changed over the years. We used to refer to nudist places in these terms:

Naturist Resorts: Where sexuality (erections, masturbation, sex) was taboo and children were permitted. Definitely wholesome, back to Mother-Nature family-type places.

Nudist Resorts: Where sexuality (erections, masturbation, sometimes consensual sex) were permitted. Absolutely no children or teenagers permitted. One I actually visited off-hours (clothed) had an age limit of 25.

It seems semantics have changed and that Naturism now includes social movements and ideologies not previously embraced. And Nudism these days seems to align more closely with what we used to think of as naturism. Fascinating!

Yeah right nudist resort and nude beaches are not sexual. Until An attractive young woman shows up. Watch every guy stare and drool.

The places that say that nudism is not sexual are right, nobody that goes is attractive.