Has someone seen your wife/gf nude you wish hadn't?
 

Ive shown a couple of friends pics of my wife and they have been respectful and enjoyed seeing her, but one guy who was a friend turned out to be a bit of a dick and we don't speak now, but he'll always know he saw my wife naked. If I could, I'd take that one back.

My wife posed naked for a cancer charity project showing off her scars a few years back. It was more explicit than the typical naked calendar thing. People we know were very positive and enthusiastic about it. "I think you're very brave to do that" was the standard comment they made. Nevertheless, it did irritate me when I saw sneering comments about it online by one or two strangers along the lines of "why do these women always need to take their clothes off?".

Therefore, I can see why you were annoyed at that guy. You shouldn't though - you and your wife generously shared something with him and he disrespected it. As you say, he is a dick. I think my wife took the attitude that if anyone reacted badly to her photos, it was their problem not hers.

Good for her
 

I lost a family member to breast cancer. I think she is brave and awesome for putting fears and embarrassment aside to do this. Tell her thanks

This has happened to me when the wife went out of the bedroom completely naked to get her slippers and her neices boyfriend who was staying with us came out of the bedroom and got a full frontal view from about 6 feet away.
He apologised and she did too and grabbed a towel from the stair rail but it was all a bit late, I witnessed the whole thing from the bedroom.
The reason I wished it hadn't happened was that it was a complete waste.
He is about 30 and quite shy for his age, and I don't expect he got any pleasure from a 60 year old woman, though she is in great shape.
I'm sure he was really embarrassed and for some reason she blamed me saying I knew he was in the other room at the time whereas she thought he was in the garden.

If I had set it up myself it couldn't have been better, so while the whole ENF scenario was perfect for me, it was completely wasted on the wrong guy, and I kept replaying it in my head with other guys it might have been and saying Damn.

It also made her ultra cautious walking about naked for a while.

Maybe I'll get a replay one day with the right guy.

I suspect that it wasn’t wasted at all ... I’m sure that he wanked thinking of your wife at the first opportunity and probably had a picture of your naked wife in his mind when he next fucked her neice. When I was 30, I would have loved to see a fit 60 year old woman naked.

I’m in the same boat as the original post here. In our younger years my wife and I got naked with friends all the time. Drunken nights often turned into drinking games with dares. So a friend I had back then who since turned out to be a total dick has seen my wife completely naked several times. One night in particular we were skinny dipping in a pool and playing volleyball with a bouncey ball. Boys vs girls. So every time the ball went to the girls they would jump to hit it back and their tits would be out. I recall him specifically hitting it to my wife practically every time. It was kind of hot then knowing that he and the other guys wanted to see her so bad. But now I find it irritating that he sort of took advantage of that situation.

The reason we fell apart is because he got involved with a girl and changed his whole life and just sort of stopped talking to me without any provocation. A year later or so I was hanging out with a mutual friend and he had somehow obtained a video on his phone from the girls ex of her masturbating. So I mean, yeah he’s an asshole and has a mental image of my wife’s tits and ass. But I saw his now wife straight up fingering her self which she recorded for some guy that wasn’t even him.

What exactly did he do or say that made him a dick? Perhaps the excitement of seeing your wife was too much..

Yep, been there, done the same thing and lost a friend over it. Maybe it was too much for him, who knows, frankly who cares because it was his loss. We had always shared porn pics and things like that, and he blew a chance to see alot more of her, and showed me in the end that he really wasn't more than just a work friend.

He's just that guy. Sharp tongued, full of himself. I guess I made a poor call on showing him my wife. Another guy had once had a night with her when we were all young asked me on a night out if she still had white tits. Another ass.

Just the opposite, I saw a friend's wife nude, now they avoid me like the plaque and I've never said a words to anyone. He and I were going fishing, so I was at his house to pick him up, he was still getting gear ready so he offered me a cup of coffee. He said to just go in the kitchen and help myself, I found a cup and headed to the coffee pot, his wife walked in completely nude still rubbing her eyes from waking up, she said "that coffee smells to good it woke me up", then she saw me, screamed and ran out of the kitchen.

From that day on she has avoided me and he treats me like a leper, I didn't do anything wrong, I even turned my back when she walked in, and actually she was a 5 on a good day.

The 5 score is probably why.

I lost a friend like this way back in early college. I was home for spring break and visiting her at her parents' apartment. She went into her room to change her shirt (for no real reason, either), and her huge dog pushed the door open and I saw her topless. I covered my face instantly, but she came out, told me I should leave, and I never talked to her again.

This was long before cell phones, Facebook, etc, so there was no way to check in with her once she cooled off a bit.

The funny thing was that the top she put on was so revealing and she was clearly braless, that had she let me stay, I would have seen it all within 15 minutes anyway from just bending over, moving around, petting the dog, etc. Sorta glad I forgot about that one, though. We were like best friends up until that split second of a moment.

There was a guy that I was upset saw my wife breastfeeding once. My wife was very selective and never let anyone see anyway, but this guy sorta talked her into it, which would normally be okay (we all know that I do it; I can't be a hypocrite), but I think he was total creepster about it. Anyway, she did nurse in front of him and let him see, and it was a normal day at the moment for the most part.

But two years later when his own wife had a kid, he would get so upset if anyone saw her nursing (I've actually mentioned this dude in other posts). I reminded him how he literally begged my wife to let him see (this seems so juvenile writing this out, but we were very young and new parents at the time), and he said he didn't care. That is when I got upset that he had seen my wife.

Joke was on him, though, because prior to this even happening, I had already seen his wife nursing, and completely topless to boot, and she continued to do so whenever he wasn't around (I wrote about the other side of this same story years ago in another thread). I think she was petrified that I would tell him I saw her anyway, but I promised I would never say anything.

Being 40s now it seems crazy to even care who sees who breastfeeding, but back when we were early parents, it was always the stressful topic going places...how would one nurse, is it okay if they see? Will they judge? Should one even go? Etc. Really silly now, though.

actually no luck
 

in any of my buddies accidentally seeing her topless or nude hoping to change that someday

Yes you are probably right about that but I meant it was a bit of a waste for me.
I would have got more out of the situation if it was someone who I could have discussed the moment with afterwards and had a laugh about it. Or maybe someone who would tease her a little.

Perhaps, she hadn't realised it was the dog that pushed the door open and thought you were deliberately spying on her.

My first partner banished a young lad who cleaned our cars for one creepy comment about a glamorous looking neighbour. He realised he overstepped the mark and apologised, but it made no difference. She wasn't by any means a prudish woman. However, once she'd been spooked by the guy's attitude towards the neighbour, she was no longer comfortable having him around.

It seemed harsh to me, but I guess she saw him as a threat and didn't want to risk ever being alone with him.

It must be a very unpleasant feeling to have a woman look at you in this way, especially as it was completely unjustified in your case.

Attitudes to breastfeeding have changed fast over my lifetime. My first partner was never shy about getting her kit off before her pregnancy, but would never dreamt of breastfeeding our daughter in front of other people.

Over a decade later, my current wife and her friends almost seemed to regard getting their boobs out in public when breastfeeding as a badge of honour. Maybe, they were proud to

I did feel uncomfortable with this once in a Portuguese restaurant when the waiters were obviously looking at her tits. Eventually, one aggressively said to her "he's far too old far for that". She replied that our son was only nine months old. He angrily muttered something about him looking older than that and stormed off. What really got under my skin was their hypocrisy in condemning her after they'd oggled at her. It was a ridiculous attitude as they could have seen far more on the nearby beaches.

Nah, I was 25 feet away on the couch across the entire apartment (despite having a straight view into her room). My wife at the time had known her fairly well and thinks she was madly in love with me and didn't know how to handle it, so that was the last straw, but we will never know.

Don't get me started... Posted some pics of the wife on here and a guy was trolling me about her. Come to find out it was a guy I used to work with that had seen my computer and got my screen name and then started stalking me online. Then my wife (after a long story as to why she got online here) started getting messages from him and we soon figured out who it was. We had just moved and before we moved I worked with him for about 7 years. Became fairly good friends then that happened and now don't talk to him anymore.

For me it’s my brother in law. He’s married to my wife’s sister.

Not pic sharing but in person. This guy is a total dick. I went to school with him and he was always a douchebag. He dated my sister in law a long time so he was around from the beginning. My wife wound up completely naked in front of him a couple times. I wasn’t happy at all. He was the type of guy that would repeatedly bring up to me how he saw my wife naked. And he acted like a dick about it. Makes it worse I’ve been dying to see his wife.. came close but never happened. Luckily I don’t see him anymore. They moved pretty far away.

How did she end up naked? Coerced?

My wife was coerced into removing her top once in front of a group of friends. I love it now, hated it then.

Was a while ago. One time my wife’s sister and husband(the asshole BIL) came over to my wife’s parents, where she lived at the time. Her brother was also there. My wife had just gotten out of the shower and came up to see them wrapped in a towel which I wasn’t fond of lol. They were just all talking for a while. Then as they are about to leave her brother yanks her towel off( he did things like this occansionslly). She’s standing there completely naked basically right next to BIL and her sister. She froze for a second then ran off to another room. To say he got an eyeful is an understatement.

My wife had a one night stand before we met and the guy lived nearby. He once asked me if she still has great tits.

As a nudist, it might seem ironic that I would mind anyone seeing my wife naked.

But it did happen once. I was sitting by myself in the hot tub one day after a long day spent at the nudist resort. One dude joined me and we started conversating. The conversation then turned creepy when he suddenly brought up my wife. And his admiration for her. He mentioned her being shaved, and said he "appreciated" her comfort laying by the pool "openly." He then went on to talk about his sexual "exploits." It didn't take long for me to put 2 and 2 together; and realize he had been watching my wife tanning with her legs open, and was hinting at the fact that he'd like to "get to know her better."

Now...I'm not so naïve as to think that men don't look at my wife naked at the resort and might even enjoy the view. But dude just made it gross. I changed the topic, making it obvious that we weren't going to continue talking about my wife's labia, and took my leave shortly after. He probably stayed in the hot tub afterwards and beat off thinking about my wife. Ugh...wish he hadn't seen her naked.

Wife seen naked
 

Yes, it happened - some guy thought it'd be fun to mention that my wife's naked pics were on this site - now several lads at my former local pub have seen her naked photos ... irratating rather than awkward

until one day, one of the group of guys, the one slightly off the spectrum, thought it was ok to tell my wife say he'd seen naked pictures of her .... not amused

I had forgotten about this because it happened so long ago. But another friend mentioned this guy this weekend and it brought back memories. This was when I was dating my wife. We had not had sex yet as we had only been out a couple of times. It was summer and I had gone home from college to work. My wife stayed at college and rented an apartment with another girl and two guys that she was all friends with. The other girl was dating one of the guys so they mostly stayed in a bedroom fucking. The unattached guy had been a bit of a crappy roommate but things were not bad enough for her to move out.

Anyway, I lived a couple hours away so I visited after work one Friday. I got there and the two of us grabbed something to eat. She couldn’t legally drink at the time, so I bought some beer and we went back to her place. When we got back it was dark inside. She yelled was anyone home but no answer and not surprising for Friday night in a college town.

We started drinking and making out. She had taken her bra off ( I still like the trick where a girl removes her bra without taking off her shirt). Anyway, it progresses where she is down to nothing but her panties. Don’t ask me why we didn’t move to her bedroom but we didn’t. I turned off the lamp by the couch so we were in the dark. I then got her panties off. We were kissing and groping but nothing more yet.

Suddenly the entire room is lit and the single guy is saying something. Apparently he was in his room the whole time. My gf is mortified. Now her clothes were right there but she panicked and went to her bedroom. She had just enough alcohol to be tipsy so she moved sort of slow. She tried to cover up but her balance was off so she just gave up. She had to walk past the guy to get to her room. So the whole thing was probably 15-30 seconds but seemed like 15 minutes. The guy got a full frontal then a rear view.

The guy said he was taking a nap before going out. He sort of mumbled an apology but it was more of stay in your room if you don’t want to be seen.

If the story ended there I would not have cared that he saw her fully naked. But for the next several months, he would always bring it up and would tell other people about seeing her naked, even after she asked him to be more discreet about it. For example, if we were out with a group, he might ask if anyone ever sits around naked on a couch. Then he would say how his roommate apparently likes to do that and mentions my gf. She tried to laugh it off but I could tell it bothered her. We finally had enough and just stopped hanging out with friends if he was there. Fortunately he finished school and moved away.

That wasn't nice, on the part of the lad who told her. But were the pics showing her with her face?

When we were newly married, I purchased see-through belly-dancer lingerie for my wife. Similar to Jeannie's wardrobe from earlier episodes of the American sitcom, "I Dream of Jeannie".

I believe it was during a holiday (Christmas, perhaps), and the entire clan was together under one roof. My wife was trying on the outfit in our bedroom, and looking at herself in a full-length mirror. Something about the colour of the lingerie made her areolae stand out more than usual. It was truly striking to see. She had closed the bedroom door, which had no lock.

Without warning, my sister and her husband barged into our bedroom to inquire about something trivial, just as my wife was standing there in her see-through lingerie. My sister quickly apologised and departed. But her husband just stood there ogling my wife's breasts, which are unusually large for her petite frame. Painfully embarrassed, my wife quickly covered up and my sister had to physically drag her husband out of our bedroom.

My sister's husband is a disagreeable git, in my opinion, and comes across as creepy at times. And this fleeting glimpse caused all manner of angst and anguish for both marriages for many years, as my sister's husband repeatedly made an issue of having seen my wife's breasts. To this day, my wife avoids any family rendez-vous where he is present. :mad:

Not that I know of.
But since I like to show her off, there are way too few people that have seen her naked :)
I'm still hoping to run into people we know at the sauna or nude beach .

Very similar to my wife's sister's husband. He was the ONLY person my wife didn't want to see her breastfeeding back in the day, but of course he saw when her top completely fell down on a boat while nursing.

He just stared. And do I dare say he drooled a bit. He's always been creepy and gross, but that took the cake for me wife. She hates that he saw her breasts uncovered for what seemed like an eternity. But he had always been creepy before that, too. He's creepy in so many other ways, as well, and it drives my wife nuts that her own sister doesn't see it.

Fortunately, he doesn't show up to family events because of some scenario he invented in his head many years ago, so my wife doesn't have to avoid him--he does all the avoiding for her.

Kind of.ive mentioned i nanother thread how years ago we went on holiday with another couple.both good friends and both ladies went topless the whole time. They've now split up cos he was having an affair. So we no longer speak with him but are still good friends with her. The fact he saw my wife topless doesn't bother me because it was 20 years ago. But he does have some pics from the holiday of her.

To run into people you know, go to a large wellness center close to you often enough. We have been going to a large center in the area for 25 years now and I can no longer name who we have encountered that we also see in everyday life. Ranging from people you vaguely know to work colleagues both male and female and even old loves...

It is always a bit of a wait and see how the other party reacts to the encounter. Usually they just respond with a friendly nod, sometimes a short conversation follows. When you have met each other more often, it happens to do a sauna round together.

It sometimes happens to us that we meet people we know from the sauna in normal life, for example a party with friends.

He's a rather narcissistic attention hound. I think it's evident that her ensemble has come up during dinner parties and other casual conversation to steer attention back to him. Years ago, I heard mention from an unrelated third party that he spoke of my wife's see-through lingerie as an excuse to rudely compare women openly in conversation.

On occasion, my sister (his wife) has become inexplicably upset for days after attending a social outing together. I pressed her for more information once. She eventually confessed that my wife's Jeannie outfit (from 30 years ago!) was the reason for her distress. Then she refused to say any more about it, poor lass. :(

No worries, stonz. I take your point. Unfortunately, due to trauma from some unfortunate experiences in her past, her embarrassment spiraled instantly into something much worse for her. She has refused to wear that particular lingerie (as well as most other lingerie) ever again.

Wife Ex Husband
 

There are a few of my wifes ex's who I wish hadn't seen her. However the one who stands out most is her ex husband. He had proven time and time again to be an asshole. They dated for a bit, and got her pregnant. Unfortunately she decided to marry him. After their daughter was born he was deployed for a few months. When he came back he had a difficult time having sex with her as he had a mental block with her being a Mom. What also irks me is he had a bit older friend who used to stay over quite often. As time progressed her ex husband would sit on the couch drinking beer and jerking off while his buddy and my future wife would fuck in front of him on a mattress on the living room floor. This led to their divorce and afterward she dated his older buddy for 2 years. That's another story.

I posted this story before but my very pretty gf got walked in on showering purposely by her friends brother just before we got together so probably him. Bathroom door had no lock because it stopped working and they never fixed it so he strolled in claiming he claimed he needed to pee so she screamed at him to leave. He even had the nerve to say “why?” when she told him to get out while standing butt naked in front of a glass door in a tiny bathroom. It turns me on that he might think about it but still wish it didn’t happen

I don’t, but she does
 

I shared on a previous post that someone we worked with found explicit nudes of my wife online, shared with him by someone else we’d worked with. I used to have them developed at a store where they send them off for processing, they printed everything regardless of how explicit, and apparently someone made copies for themselves and posted them online. I changed jobs a few months later, but she stayed working there. About a year later, they fired her manager and hired a new guy who was an asshole, everyone hated him. He would yell at people for the slightest thing, always threatening to fire them, and had no problem talking dirty to women there.

After working with him for almost a year, she finally got fed up and gave her notice and quit. She worked a commission job and he refused to pay her the commissions she’d already earned. A friend of ours worked as the assistant for the owner so I told her we were going to file sexual harassment charges against him if he didn’t pay us. This caused a bit of uproar and the owner was considering firing him. Our friend then called and told me that her former manager had gone into the owner’s office with a stack of pictures he printed from the internet of Ellen to try and show he couldn’t have harassed her. Ultimately, when the owner found out he hadn’t paid her, he called Ellen and told her he’d sent her a check for her commission plus severance pay and hoped we’d accept that and move on….we did.

She cannot stand the idea that he has nude, very explicit nude, pictures of her…though I tease her about it all the time.

And still does
 

Like the above post, I don't mind so much, but my wife would hate it (if she knew).

My wife is a little stuck up sometimes and really doesn't like our neighbour (Tony) 2 doors down. I get on fine with him, but there's something she doesn't like about him - possibly because he is a bit more rough around the edges than the majority on our street. She is always making comments to me about him as if he doesn't deserve to live there. It may have something to do with her being in the same class as his son when she was at school - by all accounts, I don't think they got on.

I work from home, and one day in the summer, saw a security company installing cameras on his property, including one at the end of his garden, looking back towards his house (he fixes up and sells motorbikes for a living, so wanted to keep the perimeter secure).

As I was watching, something occurred to me, so next time I saw him out front, I contrived a reason to pop around, and mentioned the cameras, saying I was thinking of getting some.
He was more than happy to talk about them and showed me how he can access them from his phone, move them, zoom in and out etc and scrolled through the different locations he had, front porch, garage, side alley, back garden etc.
I asked to have a go, so he gave me his phone and I had a play, whilst he continued working on his bike.
I found the camera facing his house and went to live view. Within seconds, I was able to zoom in to the bedroom window of our house. It was so clear, I could see the details of the picture hanging on the wall.

Now, our house backs on to a forest, and as we don't have any neighbours behind us, we rarely close the curtains as my wife likes to take in the view each morning.
When we moved in, it was something that I highlighted to her, (that no one would be able to look in unless they were stood at the very end of the garden) and as on one side we have a little old lady that lives on her own and the other side a guy that travels 3 weeks out of 4, she thinks nothing of standing naked by the window as she does her makeup each morning.

When I realised Tony had a perfect set up to spy on my wife, I froze, unsure whether to call him out on it, or ask him to put in a privacy shield to block the view.
I ended up doing nothing and since then, my wife must have stood naked at that window over a hundred times.

Every time I watch her standing there, I wonder if she is being captured by Tony to watch back at a later stage.
When I'm feeling particularly bad, I imagine he has shared the videos with his son and there are two people that she hates that have seen her naked breasts swaying as she brushes her hair, or leans over to put her makeup on.

I have that secret desire also. I had convinced my wife to go to a nude beach after years of hinting and asking. Finally, as empty nesters she agreed. She was self conscious about her body, with no reason. She was super nervous, but did it. She had lots of admiring looks. A couple creepy types, that I wish hadn’t seen her because it nearly ruined it.

I would like sometime we know (male) to see her. A friend of mine, or husband of a woman she knows. Deep down, I want her to see them desire her. The best would be if he got an erection that he couldn’t help.