Thoughts on Preferring Mature women
 

This is appropriate for the nonfiction section, I think, even if it doesn't present a concise story. I hope you'll indulge my ramblings.

Since I was a teenager (I'm in my 30s now), I've always been very attracted to older women--and I don't really mean women in their 20s and early 30s. I'm talking about women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. Like a lot of the other guys here, I love women and love looking at the pictures on this site. But I like mature women most of all. I'm not exactly sure why--I've just always been this way. I guess it's some sort of a mild fetish.

While I like all women and of course love looking at younger women as well, there's just something about mature women that gives me a little extra turn-on (I've included a few pictures of older women in this post to show you what I like). When looking at porn--both pictures and videos--I almost nearly always look at women over 40, and often find that they give me the hardest erections and strongest/most prolific orgasms when I masturbate.

One of the things I love about this site is that there are plenty of MILF/mature threads in both the Sexy Amateurs and the Hardcore Amateur sections. The variety has made this my favorite site, and I'm usually here almost every day checking out the newest photos.

Which brings me to the tie-in between this site and everyday life. Whenever I'm out at a mall, grocery store, sporting event, park, etc., I'll obviously pass by plenty of women going about their day. Many of them will remind me of the beautiful women posted here showing off their pussies, giving handjobs or blowjobs, having sex, or taking facials or getting cum on their tits, backs, asses, hair, etc.

I guess my point is that it's a major turn-on to know that, in all probability, a handful of the women I see during the course of the day likely enjoy some of the things shown in the threads here. Given basic odds, there are also probably one or two who would at least consider giving me a handjob/blowjob if I chatted them up a bit and then asked nicely. You could of course never find out which women would be willing to do this (without getting yourself yelled at), but that's why it's intriguing to think about. Simply put, I find it a huge turn-on to know that the women that appear in these threads (who have been willing to share themselves with others) are the same ones I see walking around. It's too bad you can't ever know who they are. HeHe.

I'm wondering: 1) is there is anyone out there who finds mature women more attractive than younger women; and 2) are you able to pinpoint why you feel this way? I'm guessing it's most likely a taboo thing that you sort of pick up on as a teenager, which then stays with you as you go through life.

Last thing--I've only ever really been intimate with women who are around my age (just seemed to work out that way). Given that this is far-and-away the top item on my "sex bucket list," I'll have to start working on it more actively. As a guy in my 30s, I think a woman in her 50s or 60s would do the trick nicely.

Thanks for reading. Any thoughts are appreciated.

Yes, of course, I love mature woman.

Problem is that nowadays most mature women are younger than me.

Thoughts on Mature Women
 

I’ve already thanked Winston for the chuckle! Trying to be serious I too have always admired mature women, even before I became of a similar age. Indeed my wife is older than me. I think the attraction is that mature women have seen more of life, and tend to be stronger with more character. When they display themselves to men, it tends to be because they want to and often because they enjoy the effect they have on men. That positive, deliberate and considered eroticism is, to me, far sexier than a younger woman who happens to have a nice bum and boobs.

However, I’m sure there are many different views. “One mans meat” etc

Sex Appeal
 

When attempting to explain my interest in mature women, I often use the phrase “sex appeal.” Not only is it physical beauty, but mature women, generally speaking, are more worldly in having appropriate hair styles, makeup, and flattering attire that make them more attractive. As well as good posture and a sexy walk. And of course experience.

I’m in my sixties now, so I’m in the company of more mature women. But as soon as I hit puberty I had the hots for mature women, as well as younger women and girls my age. In my youth, the 1960s and early 1970s, there were almost no available images of mature women. So I had little concept of sagging, stretchmarks, scars, etc. When I saw the sexy mature high school teacher with her gravity-defying bra and flattering girdle, in my fantasy image of her taking all of that off I thought everything would stay high and firm. Now, it doesn’t matter much to me – these “features” can be part of a woman’s charm. But I’m curious to know how younger guys who grew up in the internet age with access to infinite porn react to these “features” when they see naked mature women online (or if they see actual mature women naked, which I didn’t in my youth).

In reality, if I had a choice between two strangers, one an attractive twenty-something woman, and the other an attractive fifty-something woman, I’d likely take the younger one. But many of my favorite real-life women are mature women that I know and desire. And in my fantasy world I more often prefer imagining a classy suburban mature wife/mom surrendering her dignified facade to a younger guy, or other taboo partners, and search for those types of images and stories.

I think like most things, it depends on what happened or was noticed during the "formative years" so to speak... I am also usually more attracted to older ladies, and to self-analyze a bit, I think it's rooted in the fact that my mother's friends were quite attractive, so I naturally had quite the "crush" on them...sometimes I even had some sexy dreams about them. One in particular I happened to work with just a few years ago... I mentioned the story in another thread but there was one day when she was at work with a surprisingly see-thru long dress.... this was years ago and I still get hard just remembering that incredible visual when she was by a window, or walking up a certain stairway with the sun making it more visible....the great thing is that she was actually hotter as an even older lady (60s) then. (*she was kinda skinny when I was a little kid, but in these more recent years she got some NICE curves suddenly) That day it happened it was on my mind constantly... I eventually beat off to the visual in the bathroom right there at work.

Later on, there was a decently attractive blonde older lady I met at work, and she seemed to be interested in me..(she'd even joke about being the classic example of a "cougar" at that point in her life). looking back I most likely could've had that one, but in the modern era, hooking up with someone from work has a high chance of costing you a job/career. The temptation was so strong but fortunately I thought better of it for the sake of not risking my job.

*ohhh and I just remembered there's also a hot old redhead I happen to still work with now...mentioned she was a model for a while when she was younger. She probably thinks she is way over the hill at this point (60) but no way... I would absolutely not hesitate to pounce her fine ass all damn day if I didn't happen to work at the same place....her ass and legs are incredible, and redheads always catch my attention anyway.

It is unfortunate that this fantasy of getting with an older woman has such a short time limit though...eventually we get to the age where the "old cougars" are now our peers.

Yes I've always liked older women - the only problem is, as time goes by, they become more difficult to find!! Even the younger ones are quite old these days.

When I was 33 I went out with a 42-year-old and after 2 husbands and a few lovers, she was really experienced and taught me a hell of a lot. Particularly useful as my next girlfriend was 13 years younger than me and not very experienced. I soon passed the benefits on to her!

(Both described in my 'More Conquests' thread - https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...d.php?t=216588)

Here is a photo of my favourite milf, no idea where it came from. I always imagine being at a naturist event and passing her in the lane; there's no way I could stop for a chat, as my dick would be vertical within seconds!

The problem with some women 45+ can dry up. You can be SOL if you don't have some astroglide

What's the issue. Just have some lube to hand. Tbh once the ladies accept lube as a thing they tend to not be able to go back

When I was young, I had several Mrs Robinson experiences, more by accident than design originally, often reported in the fiction thread to make the storytelling more fun. They were much more satisfying, in that they actually liked sex usually came, often sort of started the adventure, and were pleased afterwards, compared to my classmates, who were reluctant and unappreciative lovers. As a result, I've had a fair number of older women. I like to look at, touch and fuck the young hard bodies, but a woman who shakes with multiple orgasms and says "put it in my butt" or "I want to taste you" is far more satisfying in bed.

in a sense the continuous debate of ...
 

... Nadia or Stifler's Mom

put me down for choosing Stifler's Mom 9 out of 10 times.
:cool:

Rule
 

I'm not going to carry lube around at the beach

Advantages of maturity
 

My husband says young women catch a guy's eye, but the test comes when she speaks... too many vapid enthusiasts coasting on their firm curves. Nice to have a coherent conversation.

Lubrication & Age
 

My wife has had no vaginal lubrication her entire life. When we married in our early 20s, she was dry. Even if she orgasms (with the help of her Hitachi Magicwand), she produces no natural lubrication.

Out of necessity, I've had to learn all about lubes, vaginal suppositories (i.e. Replens), & numbing agents.

If a woman, regardless of age, is wiling to make love... the lubricatory work-arounds aren't as difficult as one might assume them to be.

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I'm picturing you on the beach with a tube of SPF 45+ ;

i recently turned (gasp!) 60. but people tell me i look 40. my mom always looked young for her age too. her mom enjoyed entertaining gentleman friends into her 90's.

i'm thankful for guys who appreciate mature women. we can still be sex goddesses. ;)

emily

Guess they forgot to tell us this in High School history class...
 

Benjamin Franklin said of older women in a 1745 essay "Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress:"

They never tell, they seldom swell, and they're grateful as hell."

Matures all the way.
 

There is no question that a mature woman has such allure. The bodies of young women are like works of art. Admirable, smooth, beautiful.

Mature women have beautiful bodies that are real. There is a confidence about a picture of a mature woman. Sometimes with the young ones, it seems like they are posing before they understand the ramifications.

And I just love it when (like me), guys over 50 are willing to share a glimpse of their wives and are really proud of them. Matures are the best! IMHO.

In praise of older women.
 

I've always been a fan. Whether it be friends of the family, neighbours or female teachers. I only wish, that in my youth, circumstances had been such that I could have encountered a willing mature female to explain the mystrries of a woman's body to me.

However; I wasn't so lucky. We are all aware of ssues such as E.D. in men. Likewise there are conditions affect a suitors chances of seducing an older female. Lest there be any younger men thinking the older gals are an easy mark, I would caution that there are many factors why you might not have the success you might think.

Here are a few negatives to consider:

- First and foremost mother nature is very often not kind to women's bodies (post natal depression, vaginal dryness, peri-menopause, menopause n.b. HRT frightens many) and with all due respect to previous conttibutors, lube is not always a solution.

- Secondly, older women you might be attracted to are often concerned about their reputations, are off the market & wear wedding rings that weigh heavily. Of course, if you find such women in bars or clubs they are probably fair game; you'll soon find out.

- Thirdly, women are almost all very body conscious. Not every woman has access to funds or wishes to risk corrective surgery. You try you charm them and they're thinking "this guy is so nice but he won't want to go further when he sees me naked"

On the other hand and again thinking of what some of you have posted above; mature ladies may not have been exposed - in their pre-internet sexual relationships, - to modern love making techniques. They may secretly long to experience the thrills they've seen other women have online or have heard younger women describe in coffee breaks after a passionate weekend. They know time is not on their side and younger men can play on that but should steer clear of any direct reference to that fact if they wish to retain functional testicles.

I certainly wouldn't put any younger man off trying their luck but if you do, make sure you have your banter & approach well thought out.

The first time you take a dignified old lady to bed, watching her and hearing her squeal like a sow when she's fingered or fucked is an indescribable pleasure.

I remember being FAR more attracted
 

To mature women, even as a teenager... I'm sure "The benny hill show" and Cher music videos didn't help 🤣

This is sadly true. Too many women fail to understand this most basic thing about men. Yes he will!

Mature women,
 

My wife is a mature woman now at 78 she is definitely well in the zone , in her 30s she had younger men , in her 40s she hooked up with a guy we had known all our lives, he was 15 years older than her and he kept her very happy for a lot of years, when she got into her 60s she found a man that was 16 years younger than her, once again it suited her, he wanted an older woman and she wanted a man with more drive, they have had a lot of fun together over the last 11 years so it just depends on what stage of her life she is at. By the way we married at 18 so I have followed the changes over the years.

A lot of points I would agree on why I had a relationship with an older woman. She was 15 years older than me. I was 22 that time. I found the sex appeal and having conversations much better or maybe I didn't have luck meeting matured thinking women that time.

She was also I guessed guilty of the body issue thing. Based on pictures I've seen prior to her being a mom. Probably the breast was the only minor for me. I find her skinny on pictures which I don't usually prefer on women. She is slim (5'6 and around 57-59 kg) but the little added weigh gave her much better curves for me.

I am speaking only for myself. In my case, I feel it is only natural. The older I get, the more attracted to mature women I am. When I was 18, the thought of being with a woman in her 30s actually turned me off. In my 30s, the thought of being with a woman in her 50s was actually a turn on. Now that I am in my 60s, a woman, regardless of her age in not a turn off as long as she takes care of herself. I have a lady friend in her 80s who belongs to my gym. We actually flirt with each other. I have caught myself thinking what it would be like to fuck her. Even though she is in her 80s, she takes good care of herself, and she is not grotesquely overweight. At my age, I find I prefer my wife, 41, over 18-year-old women.

Oh I meant to add this to my comment above but forgot. This story was told to me by a friend of mine. I think I posted this a while back. My friend who was 40 at the time. He went to his grandfather's funeral. A lady friend of his grandfather, probably in her 80s, invited him to her house on a future date and time. Clueless, he accepted. When he got there, he said the sexual tension was very prominent. After tea, she didn’t even beat around the bush; she brazenly asked if she could suck his dick. He said it didn’t freak him out, so he said yes. He said she had done a great job and swallowed. He didn’t see her again, but remembers it as a very special thing.

Love older women
 

There’s nothing hotter than an older woman who looks after her hot body. When I can I see a masseuse in the North of England. In her early 60’s, sexy full figure, great boobs and provides a wonderful tantric massage. There’s nothing hotter than having her beautiful oiled up body rubbing against me, teasing and tantalising my hard cock for 90 mins - absolutely amazing. I think it makes it all the more sexy knowing her husband is in the house too. Can’t wait to see her again some time soon.

Formative early years
 

I was raised in a household where things were seen due to space. In my early years, older women were all I saw naked. I had no problem being seen then and still to this day I would rather be naked than clothed. Although younger women look amazing, give me a gal with experience and no inhibitions to satisfy my desires.