Keeping Things Interesting
 

For the somewhat older crowd, always enjoy hearing how others who have been with the same partner for a while (say 10 years or more) continue to keep your sex life creative and passionate.

Going on 23 years with my wife and for some extra fun we will take trips (4 kids will do that to you), take pics and video, use toys and sexy outfits, go on dates commando-style, use texts, etc.

What are others doing??

Swinging. ;)

Pretty much the same as you folks!

My lady is into light exhibitionism, which we indulge on trips away. Commando is one way, like you said. Others include her stripping off at night while 'forgetting' to close the hotel room's curtains and getting topless/naked in a public place when there's no-one around.

A decade-and-a-half together and we still have a lot of fun! ;)

Yes, we do this also!

Sexual variety
 

I don’t think anything keeps things exciting more than exhibitionism. Swinging definitely is a turn on. But more subtle open play works even more. Having my SO expose herself in certain situations is killer. Even more is having her pull my cock out in a semi-public situation to show it to other women and offer them to feel it.

For us
 

been together for 15 years so we need to change things up.

Going to a nude beach and having other men come chat her up and do some soft touching is a start. setting up a webcam and having others watch while she performs is all good.

want to explore further by adding another guy or couple but she's not sure if she's ready for that so I'm sure the fire that was burning very strong at the beginning is not starting to smolder.

taking pics and sharing them on here helps. always love to hear how others see wife and how they find her attractive and desirable.

Good stuff so far...thanks for the replies.

Would love to hear more.

18 years together. Light exhibition, sexy situations, clothing optional hot springs and swimming pools. I've taken a lot of photos and videos.

Not actually swinging, but we have gone to our local swing club a few times to see and be seen.

We're also continually exploring a bit as we get more and more comfortable and excited by ideas.

Mrs. HedoRocks
 

Pretty similar to the above. We've been together 20 years. Our sex life is as good as ever, because we are constantly spicing things up. She was very uptight when we first met, but she has loosened up considerably. The past couple of years she has become quite the exhibitionist. She loves being seen topless or naked, especially in places you normally wouldn't be. We'll go clothes shopping for her, and she'll come out of the dressing room in something provocative or see thru with others around, to "show me" how it looks. Sometimes taking the top of and handing it to me to find her a different size before heading back into the dressing room.

This weekend we were at the beach and she did this in just about every store on the strip. She also sun bathed topless with her bottoms pulled way down, and this is on a beach where NO ONE else is ever topless. She gets a thrill watching guys crane their necks trying to get a peak, and it turns me on to no end as well.

She has also gotten into posting on NSFW Reddits lately, and loves the feedback there as well. Not bad for 47 :D

Have tried to get my wife to do similar things for the most part with limited success, even when well out of town. One successful effort was during an end of summer sidewalk sale in the beach town we were visiting. She had a spaghetti strap cami top and shorts on and got her to try on a short clingy dress with straps I did not think she would look at twice. Whenever I am shopping with her always encourage her to try on revealing things I do not think she would ever buy / wear to push the envelope as much as possible. She came out of the changing room and looked fabulous, the 3 saleswomen all complimented her on how she looked [of course they want to make a sale but that seems to really help...] The dress straps were stretchy and fairly long so the top of the dress hung fairly low showing the tops of her breasts, her nipples were rock hard making obvious points in the soft material, and the best part was on the sides her side boob was well exposed. If she leaned forward her breasts would be completely visible from both the front down and the side in. She wore the dress out of the small shop to look at the sale racks out on the sidewalk for 5-10 minutes while many people walked by, most of the guys taking in the view, but she did not find anything else. Much to my surprise she wanted to buy the dress, which I heartily encouraged. Have not seen her wear the dress yet, but she did take it on a company boondoggle 3 day trip to a resort city. Do not know if she wore it or not. Hope to get her to wear the dress this summer, but know she will want to have a good tan first, and so far that has proven difficult to find the time to attain... Fingers crossed! :D

Keeping it interesting by swinging
 

Last night we attended a swingers’ party at a neighborhood home. It was a pretty large group of about 40 people. No one was allowed to enter unless they had a date. My wife wore a new dress that I had just bought her. It is light yellow with a very low cut cowl neck and slits up to her waist on each side of the skirt area. It is also a mini skirt length. There is no way that anyone can wear any underwear with that dress. Her dark tits cling to the polyester material and offer a nice set of pokies to any lookers. If she leans slightly forward, her boobs/tits are exposed. If she bends down to pick up something, her ass and rear pussy shot are readily visible. She looked very, very hot. Upon our arrival, we were shown around the place. They had a hot tub, a pool (too cold to use), a pool table, ping pong table, and a nicely stocked bar with bar stools. There were overstuffed sofas and chairs, and beds spread out through the game room area, as well as beds set up in the walk-out basement area and on the patio where gas heaters were also stationed to warm the outdoor area.

My wife and I settled in at the bar and talked with several couples. Then we cruised around to survey the scene. It looked like the game room beds were used mainly for necking and foreplay activities, while the beds in the other areas were where the real sexual activities occurred. Several guys had made overtures to my wife, but she didn’t seem interested in them. She did spot a guy that she thought was pretty hot and started flirting with him. I looked over the girl he was with and thought that she was attractive enough that I could get off on her. Eventually, the guy got interested enough that he made his way over to talk with us while his girl held back a little. My wife and I had a little small talk with him, and then my wife told him that we like to operate as a team and have sex with others while we watch the action. We prefer to have it M-F, but if it works into a M-F-M-F that is O.K.. He seemed alright with the arrangement, but wanted to clear it with his wife. Once that was accomplished, we headed for an area in the walk out basement where there were two beds adjacent to one another. We joined each other’s spouse on separate beds and started making out. The woman I was with seemed to like rough sex, and that is what I attempted to give her. My wife, on the other hand, likes slow, sensual sex and had to slow her guy down a little. Although I think my wife watching his wife and I getting down and dirty got her hornier and hornier, so soon, my wife was naked and climbing all over him and breathing rapidly while, groaning and moaning quite audibly. He began by giving her a blow job. Then he turned her over and pulled her legs off the bed and bent her over the bed and started pounding her doggy style. I could tell she was already climaxing. My partner, in the meantime, was squirming all over the bed as I executed a head job on her. Then the guy turned my wife around and shoved her back into the bed, wrapped her legs over his shoulders and started licking her from her pussy up to her chest and then sucked her tits rigorously just before he entered that hot, wet pussy and writhing body. She seemed to be getting totally off on his pumping rigidly hard dick that was reaching red line rpm’s. I was keeping pace with his wife as well. She was climaxing quite readily while I had her in the missionary position. My wife was also climaxing for the second and maybe the third time with her partner’s pounding. I was able to maintain control and not shoot my load in that hot pussy I was working on. So after she regained her breath, she worked her way down my body and gave me a great head job. I unloaded my wad in her mouth. That was great, because my wife doesn’t like to taste sperm and always makes me pull out on a BJ. This was much more satisfying as I got to watch her look into my eyes as I unloaded in her mouth. She sucked it dry and seemed to enjoy it as she gulped it down basically in one swallow. My wife said that she was too exhausted to participate any further in BJ’s and/or fucking. So we packed it in with the other couple. We dressed and joined them for a drink. All of us agreed to look out for each other the next time we came back to that same party location.

My wife seemed to regain some of her sex drive on the way home. She stripped off her dress and started rubbing all over me and kissing me in every reachable location as she unzipped my pants. When we got home, she walked into the house totally nude while holding onto her shoes and dress. Of course, this lead to a pretty hot sexual union in our own bed to complete our night.

I've found that putting in the effort to do nice things and say nice things to the wife builds her up to want to try things she hasn't done before. It's really important to understand the markers that get your SO going.

I reckon if you can do something even just a little differently every couple of months or so, it really helps to keep things spiced up. You certainly don't want to go too fast for fear of running out of steam on the first corner, but you also don't want to dawdle and lose momentum.

Anyway, light to medium exhibitionism (as others mention) is the best way that we spice things up. That and her being tied up in different circumstances. Later this year I want to to take her out for dinner with her wearing rope bondage underneath her clothes. I have to buy the shibari rope and learn how to do it! But my prediction is that she'll be so turned on by the time we head home that she'll be ready to get her kit off in the car. And that's a winning situation for everybody!

I've started sexting by best friend (female) and reminding her of the things we got up to in our 20s and encouraging her to send me some pics. She's shared all sorts of secrets and has seen my dick a few times through messaging.

Additionally, I've started working away so have started sending inappropriately timed dick pics to my wife. Timing it perfectly with the school run, or times where she is having coffee with her friends etc in the hope that her reaction to the pics will cause a stir or even better she shares a pic with her coffee gals