How it all started
 

I had been trying to get my wife into swinging for many years. We talked about it and watched porn but she was dead against it becoming reality. One day we were invited to a birthday party that started in the afternoon. We were having a good time and a few drinks but I had to leave early because the babysitter had to go home. I left around 8pm leaving my wife with friends so she could stay at the party. I went to bed later that evening it was just a normal evening and as expected my wife turns up at home around 1:30am a bit drunk and her stumbling into the bedroom wakes me up. She climbs into bed saying she had a good time and Luke walked her home and said she walked a longer way home. I thought nothing of it she wanted sex so we had sex and went to sleep. The next morning I wake up and see her clothes on the floor so I put them in the washing basket but notice her jeans are muddy on the knees and arse so I look closer. I could see grass strains my heart races and I continue to look I check her knickers that seem to have a cum stain in the crotch area and on the front. I put them in the wash basket and go down stairs not knowing what to make of it all. It was a strange day and mostly a blur we didn’t say much to each other and that evening as we watched tv she sat on the other chair on her laptop. I thought she was talking to her friends but she was very guarded if I moved she would turn to hide the screen. Anyway that evening we went to bed to watch a film she was very quiet and at the end of the film said I need to tell you something. My heart sank, she told me she slept with Luke I didn’t know what to do, she told me I thought you wanted me to do it. So I went along with what she was saying half horny half mad. I tried to get as much detail as I could but she kept saying she was drunk and couldn’t remember much but from what I could make out is she went to a bush to go to the toilet and he kept watch. But as she stood up they ended up kissing. He fingered her while they stood there in the darkness and continued kissing, she said she could feel how hard he was so undone his jeans to suck his cock. He then bent her over on the grass and fucked her from behind hard. She says she didn’t cum but I know she likes it from behind. They then got up and walked to another part about 50 meters away he sat down and she got on top to fuck him. They done that for a while then missionary on some steps. She says he didn’t cum but I seen the stains. It was so horny listening to this but I had to try to ask more questions because I thought she wasn’t telling me everything. We finished having sex and she went to sleep, I was awake and my mind went nuts it went from something horny and something I did want to happen to she cheated on me. I didn’t take it well the next day we argued all day. I could see how sorry she was my head was a mess, I told her for years this was what I wanted us to do and here I was making her feel bad. She wasn’t thinking about swinging when it happened but it was opportunistic. Because she felt bad I think she just gave in and we tried swinging. The first time we invited someone to watch us have sex, but it went a bit further and she sucked him which was amazing to watch. I was shocked the next day she said it wasn’t that bad. Later the next day she said shall we do it again my jaw hit the floor. We invited the same person back and this time she dressed up. When he arrived we had a chat and a few drinks. My wife was sat between us and put her hand on his cock. She then grabbed mine too she leaned in to suck him as I went behind her. This was going further again I fucked her from behind while she sucked him then she suggested changing places. I was about to see my wife have sex with another man and it was good. We then done a few other meets for a while then It fizzled out and now she isn’t into it anymore but still hope it will happen again in the future

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How did everyone else start off ?

Second time
 

Was this lucky guest Luke ??

No when she cheated with someone called Luke we then got into swinging a few months after the lucky guest was off a swinger site

Great story, thanks for sharing, got me horny.:)

My wife was resolutely against anything to do with swinging or anything remotely like that but one day at a party we got separated in different rooms. I'd got chatting to some mates and basically forgot about her. A couple of hours later a friend of hers came over to me and told me she was dancing with a stranger who was starting to get fresh with her. She said I ought to go and rescue her but I replied 'don't worry, I' sure she can look after herself.'

Of course I was secretly thrilled to hear she was with someone else, and carried on talking to my mates.

About half an hour later a couple of her friends came over again and said they'd seen them kissing and they'd now gone outside, surely I ought to go and sort him out before something happens? No, I said, I guess she's having fun and it doesn't bother me.'

A short time later my wife rejoined me but she was in a bit of a state. 'Where the f--- have you been? why didn't you come looking for me?'

'Sorry' says I, I heard you were enjoying yourself.' At this she started to get annoyed, saying she'd had difficulty shaking a man off who was very persistent with her. Why had I left her alone for so long?

'I'm so sorry, are you all right now?'

'Yes I'm okay now but no thanks to you!'

'So what exactly did he try to do?' I asked. She said she'd got dancing with this man and things started out all right, he seemed really nice but then he tried to force himself on her and she was fearful of what he was trying to do.

So I said 'okay let's leave now and we can talk about it later.'

On the way home she continued to upbraid me accusing me of not caring about her but my response was, 'On the contrary, I wanted you to enjoy yourself. I'd heard you were dancing with another man and wanted you to have the freedom to have some fun.'

Well, you are lucky I did not let it go too far then, because he was trying his best to get into my knickers.'

'Oh shame, said I, so why didn't you let him?'

'Because I was terrified you'd be angry with me!' she retorted angrily.

'What? I'd have been only too thrilled!'

'You what? You really want to risk our marriage like that?'

'Not at all, I have total faith in you and am certain you'd never leave me for another man. But that does not mean you cannot have a bit of fun!'

'Oh I see, so what you're really saying is you want the freedom to sleep around too!'

'No, but I would not mind if we were both more open to having a bit of fun. So tell me, what exactly did he do?

'Well' she said, 'he asked me too dance and at first it was okay. It was a slow number so we danced close together. He was gentle with me and it was nice. Then we started kissing and when the dance finished he suggested we go outside for a bit of air. At this point I was beginning to feel a little uneasy but he was very charming and very insistent so I went along with him anyway.'

'We went outside and were leaning up against a wall. It was dark and he put his arms around me and we started kissing again. I was feeling a bit uncomfortable but at the same time enjoying it. Then he started working his hands inside my top and started to fondle my breasts. At the same time I could feel his manhood grinding up against me. He then lifted my skirt and put a hand between my legs so I tried to push him away. By now I was terrified you'd come and find us and get mad at me so I asked him to let me go. I told him I was married and my husband might come at any moment. But he just continued pushing his hands inside my skirt. I was starting to feel panicky so I just had to push him away from me. I then made a dash for it and came to find you.

To be continued.

Nice start, me and my wife had a serious talk last night about sex. She knows I want her to have fun again but she is dead against it happening again. She said it turned her on knowing how horny it made me but she just doesn’t want another man touching her again

Sorry to hear that, it must be very frustrating for you. But it's great that you have such fantastic memories to feed off.

But back to the shenanigans of the party. As you can imagine, by the time we got home that night I was in a state of intense arousal. I was ready to give her the fuck of a lifetime but equally I was also desperate to find out how far she would have allowed him to go had she not been so worried about being caught 'in flagrante' in the arms of another man.

As it turned out she remained adamant that she could never do anything like that, it was only because he was so persistent and she did not want to create a scene or hurt his feelings that she went along with it. But, she insisted, swinging was still absolutely out of the question.

However I was just not prepared to let it rest there. In bed that night as I pounded her like never before I constantly teased her about the episode, insisting she had enjoyed it and that secretly she could not wait to meet him again. She continued to deny it but guess what, I had never seen her so aroused.

So as we approached orgasm I begged her to tell me who she was fantasising about right now? Was it him, and if so what did she think his cock would be like? Did it turn her on when he was pushing up against her? 'Well it was quite nice' was all I could get out of her but she was quick to follow that with 'but I only ever want you, no one else.'

'Come on' I said, I know you won't admit it but you must have enjoyed it really.'

I told her to imagine it was him who was really pounding into her, not me. Sure enough this seemed to do the trick. Her breathing quickened, she dug her nails into my back like she had never done before and begged me not to stop. 'YES,' she said, YES, it's true, I' can't help thinking about him.'

That was it, I could hold back no longer. I pounded her even more furiously and let go the most intense orgasm as my seed flooded deep inside her.

To say I was ecstatic at this momentous breakthrough would be a huge understatement. The impact of what she had revealed in that intensely-charged moment of abandon was to change our sex lives forever.

Immediately afterwards though, once she had recovered from her reverie, she went right back into denial, claiming it was only a fantasy and that she could never do anything like that for real. She had only said 'yes' as we made love because I had begged her to. She knew that was what I most wanted to hear at that moment but she swore she did not mean it.

Needless to say I just wasn't having any of that. 'It's too late now' I taunted with the biggest grin ever, 'you've let the cat out of the bag and from now on things can never be the same again.'

TBC.

Nice

Now that I knew my wife could be open to a bit of fun with others, the burning question was, how do I find a way to engineer something similar to happen again in the future? The problem being she was still in denial about the whole episode. She was deeply embarrassed about what had happened and no matter how much I reassured her seemed convinced I was concealing my inner disapproval. She could not understand why I was not angry with her, in fact she even demanded to know WHY I was not.

But there was no escaping the fact things had changed. Not only had she danced close with another man behind my back (no less!), she had also let him kiss her and allowed his hands to explore under her top and skirt. Furthermore, although admittedly under some duress, she had actually been prepared to go outside with him away from prying eyes. Indeed she might even have allowed him to go a lot further had she not felt so threatened by his over-powering lust.

Then there was the way she had agreed that same night whilst we were making love that she could not help thinking about him. That was an incredible admission for me to hear and one that sent me quite dizzy with excitement at the possibilities of what it might one day lead to.

It was like a tiny crack in an armoured door had opened and now my challenge was to find a way to push right through and explore what was on the other side.

Unfortunately though it quickly became clear that there was no point in trying to get her back with the stranger she'd danced with at the party. Because in trying to force himself on her he had completely freaked her out. The very idea of trying to set up some way of arranging a meeting with him was therefore a complete no-no. Not only that, she said she felt so embarrassed and ashamed of herself for letting him go so far she could never even do anything like that again.

But it was not all doom and gloom. I now knew that at least she was open to sharing fantasy talk about sex with others. I resolved that my best chance of turning fantasy into reality would be to work on her at bedtime. One of the ways I did this was by reading to her some of the lurid letters sent in by readers to (British) top-shelf magazines such as Fiesta and Escort about their swinging and wife-sharing experiences.

Fortunately she found these enough of a turn-on to get her juices flowing, so when we started to make love I would ask her to tell me which letter turned her on the most. Then I would get her to fantasise that she was actually making love right now to the man in the scene she was describing to me.

It worked every time and from that moment we started having the best sex ever. Instead of two or three times a week,all of a sudden it became two or three times a night!

The next thing was I started buying 'contact magazines.' This was before the internet and featured couples sending in nude photos of themselves together with ads for others to meetup with them for a bit of swinging fun. Although still somewhat disapproving of it we would look through these together in bed and I'd get her to tell me which couples she liked the look of most.

All of this was done on the pretext that it was pure fantasy, nothing more, but I could tell by some of my wife's responses that her resistance to the idea of swinging was very gradually breaking down. She would still insist she could never do anything but started saying things like, 'H'mm that couple looks nice' or 'Ooh I do like the sound of that ad, they sound just like us.'

Then it became 'Well I suppose if we ever WERE ever to meet up with another couple, they'd have to agree to this and not that,' etc etc.

This kind of thing went on for not just weeks but months and months. It was a very gradual evolution from her being resolutely opposed to responding to swingers' ads to being still against but at least mildly curious.

Until one day I could no longer hold out. I told her I'd actually gone ahead and written to one of the couples that we had agreed sounded interesting to see where it led to. At first she was quite shocked and annoyed with me, but to my surprise and relief her initial resistance soon gave way to both curiosity and even excitement. In fact I was quite surprised how rapidly she flipped from being resolutely opposed to the whole idea to actually being quite keen on it once she knew the ball had been set in motion.

Tbc

Hope to hear more

GRITS
 

We actually met at a private swing party... I've told this story before on the -OPEN-Sharing your wife- Thread..


We met at a private Swingers party... Its a group we belong to presently based in the Northern Alabama area w/ members in 4 states.,,, closed to members only, 12 couples, very strict rules or your out!!
Ends up, she was a member, and I was a guest at a party w/ friends who were members... I think they invited me to meet her, as she was the only single member .... As a guest I was restricted to oral & touchy feely only-- No penetration... big time rules on STD prevention stuff...
So there we were, 11 couples and 2 singles at a hotel swingers party..... She was into it as she'd been a member for 2 yrs, and though we did interact sexually somewhat in this orgy,,,, I saw her w/ everyone that night having fun and getting her brains fucked out by several guys at a time all night long... it was low key for me as a guest.... in fact though we were all introduced, I wasn't sure if she was a couple or single?? in the blur of the excitement.....
About a week later my friends who invited me asked if I wanted to call her to connect??... OK I said.... a call 2 weeks after that,, 2 weeks later a date, a few dates more, and we didn't have sex for almost 3 months dating... She is actually old fashion, and didn't want me seeing her because of the SWING party only or just sex.... she wasn't that easy outside the Swing Group.... Ends up 1-1/2 year later we're happily married, and now we are couple #12 in the private swing group..
Swing life & home life are 2 different lives for her.. and now me too.


That's how it all started.......... Mr. & Mrs. GRITS

Okay, I've attached below the photo I enclosed with the letter I sent to the couple I responded to. Hope you'll agree she is one sexy lady!

I cannot tell you how excited I was that at long last my wife had agreed to meet others for sex fun. I was in a complete state of euphoria at what it might lead to. The next few days were an eternity waiting for the reply but through the letterbox it duly arrived and to say I was thrilled that they wanted to go ahead and meet up would be an understatement.

I cannot pretend my wife felt quite the same. Whilst admitting to curiosity about meeting up she also suspected my true motives. To be fair there was some validity in this, though not because I was looking for an escape from our marriage or anything remotely like that.

We were both virgins when we married and if I'm honest we were also somewhat naive and uninitiated when it came to sex. So after fifteen years of monogamy I was more then ready to get out there and explore what I felt I might be missing out on. But the very last thing I wanted to do was risk our marriage. We were as close as any couple could possibly be and the reason I was keen to go ahead was because I was rock sure of our relationship. The swinging scene seemed the ideal way to have your cake and (forgive the pun) eat it!

I'll never forget the moment they came through our door because it was one of both relief and delight. Any nerves immediately disappeared when we found ourselves confronted by a very natural friendly couple. I could not help but take to the young lady because of her radiant smile. Petite, pretty and sweet summed her up nicely.

I could also tell from the way my wife greeted her partner that she was quite taken with him too. He looked younger than us although like my wife a little on the nervy side.

in fact the air was charged with a nervous tension as this was all-new territory for us. I realised I needed to take the initiative in asking them in and making them feel at ease. How we navigated the hour or so I no longer remember, it has all gone into a blur, but what I do recall is that somehow we got to the point where we agreed to split into separate couples.

My wife was to go upstairs with (let's call him) Mike whilst Avril and I were to share the settee in the lounge. At last the moment had come and I could hardly believe my luck. Avril was so easy to talk to and her sweet, coy smile so inviting, it made it easy for me to take the initiative. I could tell she was eager to get going so we soon started kissing and stroking.

I could not wait to explore inside her blouse and the frisson of being able to cup my hands around another pair of boobs was quite intoxicating. It was not long before we were both naked but it was then that I got a bit of a shock. She had only recently given birth and her stretch marks were still quite pronounced. This caused me to hesitate for a moment because it hit me that here I was, about to make love to another man's wife.

However, overpowering lust quickly dissolved any scruples I may have been feeling and I was soon pumping away inside her sopping pussy. i remember to this day the way she kept urging me on with oohs and aahs as well as the occasional expletive. My wife is usually relatively quiet during sex so the noises I was hearing fuelled so my excitement to the point I could no longer hold back and exploded my seed inside her.

Phew! What a session it had been. Soon afterwards we were back fully dressed and wondering what was going on upstairs. Whatever it was it seemed to be taking much longer than us, so this gave an opportunity to chat about our pasts and how we got to where we were now.

The one thing I do remember about that conversation was her telling me how insatiable she was, she was quite frank about it, she could never get enough sex. She conspiratorially confessed that she needed more that her husband could deliver and therefore regularly cheated on him.

One of the reasons she agreed to try the swinging scene was because her husband had lost interest during her pregnancy and after the birth. Another more telling revelation was she was no longer able to get out and about meet other potential lovers! Of course she could not tell him that and swore me to secrecy, but I felt quite privileged that she had been prepared to open up to me.

tbc

Update- my wife has a male friend visiting this weekend, my plan is to tell them to go out together I will stay at home. Fingers crossed she lets her guard down and he wants to kiss her. It’s not sexual between them but hope with a few drinks down them they get together

Whoa, that would be hot. Does your wife's male friend have any clue about her naughty past do you know? Maybe she has already confided in him about it. If so that might just be all the 'permission' he needs.

Best of luck either way - and be sure to let us know how it goes.;)

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To get back to my story, when Mike and my wife eventually rejoined us in the lounge I realised I could hardly ask how things had gone, so I broke the ice by offering to refill our glasses and thereafter we made small-talk until it was time for them to leave.

The instant they were out the door I asked my wife how things had turned out between Mike and her. But sad to say she reported it had been something of a let down for them both. She told me they'd quickly undressed down to their underwear and got into our married bed together. Hearing that alone sent a thrill through my brain.

She then explained that once in bed they kissed and cuddled whilst stroking each other for a bit. But just as she was getting into it, quite suddenly and without warning MIke had a premature ejaculation inside his y-fronts! Needless to say this left my wife feeling both frustrated and disappointed.

She explained that Mike apologised profusely to her exclaiming it had taken him as much by surprise as it did her. Fortunately my wife is not the sort to make anyone feel uncomfortable about such things and went out of her way to reassure him saying she was actually quite flattered she'd had that effect on him!

My wife said that they realised they needed to avoid rejoining myself and Avril too soon so they decided to continue cuddling and chatting in bed until they felt it safe to come back downstairs. She said that once she'd gotten over the shock she actually enjoyed the experience of sharing her bed with another man. She also said she really liked him, he was very easy to talk to and it was good to be able to chat about sex with him.

Reflecting afterwards on what had happened I recalled that just a few weeks earlier the very idea of my wife being disappointed because she had NOT been able to make out with another man was crazy. Now here she was expressing her frustration at the fact another man had let her down because he was unable to get it up.

Brilliant ... sort of!

So now in a few short weeks I had gone from being married to someone who was resolutely anti-swinging to one who could not wait to meet up with another couple, if only for the chance to exorcise her rotten luck as soon as possible.

We soon made contact with another couple and this time we all of us got it together successfully. We were up and running at last! And it wasn't too much later that something quite mindblowing was to happen that was to convert me from being a swinger into a regular wife-sharer and then ultimately the most deliriously happy wife-watcher ever.:D

But of course this thread is all about how we got started. So that story will have to be for another thread.

He doesn’t know about the past I’m just going to let things run

Well tonight is the night I will keep the post updated when I can and fingers crossed it happens

Unfortunately nothing happened, it wasn’t the right situation but not gave up hope yet as he doesn’t leave until a week Sunday

So still plenty of time. Will they be alone much? How about overnight?

He is staying over on the sofa, normally if someone is staying over she will not have sex at all because they are directly below us. Tonight I will try my luck see if she is up your it

Still no more news bad timing with Mother Nature and no opportunity have played a part but still trying